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10. Don't confess casually

Don't confess casually, confessing too early will only make the other person think you are frivolous, or that your love comes too easily, which may cause her not to cherish it too much.

That way, even if the two of you end up in a relationship, it will be less secure.

So, it's best to wait until the time is right to confess your love naturally.

In addition, don't always praise the other party for no reason, and don't always cater to the other party's needs.

You feel that you are releasing love to the other person, and what the other person feels is your purpose.

You will make the other party feel that they are under pressure, and at the same time they will start to wonder whether they want to accept you.

11. What to do if the date is cold

The reason for the cold scene generally includes choosing the wrong scene or not finding a topic.

The few scenes selected today are relatively interactive, so there is no need to worry about the silence caused by the scenes.

Then to avoid cold silence, we only need to solve the problem of finding topics.

It is very important to find a topic, remember not to actively discuss some unhappy things on a date.

Of course, if a girl asks you to complain, then you should listen patiently and don’t try to give her a solution. Comfort and companionship are the most important. Of course, there are some girls who just like you to listen. Try to say something interesting, Being funny is a skill.

So how to find the topic?

The chat topic during dating can be found by following the dating scene, and it is best to match what you have done or plan to do today.

For example, you can discuss the taste after eating, and then extend to the recipes of these dishes or the characteristics of other shops.

For example, after watching a movie, you can talk about the plot and how you feel after watching the movie, and then extend it to the same series or other movie-related content.

For example, after going to Youle Valley to experience various play items, you can talk about the experience of different play items.

12. Physical Touch and Holding Hands

Speaking of which, with this date schedule, you have many opportunities to have physical contact and hold hands with her.

For example, after she finishes eating, you can pass her a tissue, and when you pass the tissue, you can "accidentally" touch her hand, and then see how she reacts.

As for holding hands, I asked you to say "I want to hold your hand on the weekend" to her during the chat, you should have done it, right?

This is a kind of hinting method in advance, which can give her a mental preparation.Until the date, she may have imagined the picture of you holding hands in her heart, and she will also think about the situation where you will hold hands, and what should you do if you are held hands?

Next, you can pretend that you "accidentally" or "accidentally" took her hand.

This date, there are many such opportunities.

For example, when you walk side by side with her, you can deliberately touch her with your hand first, and if she doesn't avoid it, you can hold her hand along the way.

Be careful not to stare at her all the time during this process, or she may reject you because of shyness.

You can look straight ahead and pretend you're not paying attention.

You can also hold her hand and cross the road with her naturally when you are rushing to cross the road. This will give her a full sense of security and instantly warm up her affection for you.

Of course, you can also design a small game that requires holding hands.After the game is over, you pretend you forgot to let go.

If you feel the two are close enough, you can be generous, reach out like a gentleman, and invite her to hold hands together.

Gu</span> If you dare not do the above things or do not find a suitable opportunity to do them.You can message me and I will call you.

Then you pretended to be talking to me on the phone seriously, and then "accidentally" took her hand.

Finally, aren't you going to a haunted house today?

This is a good opportunity. When she is afraid, you can hold her hand, even hug her, and provide her with a full sense of security.

The premise is that you yourself don't have to be afraid.

After reading this point, Xiao Zijian has already started to imagine the scene when he held Lin Xiuxiu by his hand.

He felt that there were so many ways, so holding hands this time would definitely be successful, but he began to struggle with which method was more suitable.

Just when Xiao Zijian was fascinated and started to fantasize, a pleasant voice interrupted his reverie.

"Zijian, what are you looking at?"

Xiao Zijian came back to his senses, and found that a girl appeared in front of him at some point, it was his blind date acquaintance, Lin Xiuxiu.

Her dress today is very simple and natural. She is wearing a white T-shirt on her upper body and shorts on her lower body. She looks very cute and exudes a girlish atmosphere.

Xiao Zijian was not surprised that she could find this seat, because he had told her the exact location before.

To his surprise, the other party arrived 5 minutes earlier.

Seeing the other person walking towards the seat opposite, Xiao Zijian immediately thought of the contents of the dating tips here.

At least he got up, walked in front of Lin Xiuxiu, and blocked her way.

Then, under her puzzled eyes, she pulled the chair back a bit, and then raised her hand in greeting.

Then he said: "Xiuxiu, you are here, please sit down."

Seeing his actions and hearing his words, the puzzlement in Lin Xiuxiu's eyes disappeared, and a smile emerged from it instead.

She nodded in greeting, with the corners of her mouth slightly curved, walked to the seat and sat down, and then said, "Sorry for keeping you waiting."

"No, no, it's my wife, ah no, I mean, I just arrived." Xiao Zijian replied immediately.

Perhaps it was because he hadn't recovered from the "shock" just now, and he almost used the wrong lines that he had just prepared.

Seeing that Xiao Zijian seemed to have forgotten to go back and sit down, Lin Xiuxiu urged: "Haha, don't stand still, go back and sit down."

Xiao Zijian returned to his seat and sat down, recalling the contents of dating tips in his mind.

So he said according to the script: "Xiuxiu, the clothes you are wearing today are very suitable for you, and they look very cute."

After listening to him, Lin Xiuxiu's smile grew stronger, and she asked, "Zijian, how did you become so talkative today?"

When Xiao Zijian heard what she said, he paused for a moment before saying, "Uh, do you have one? I don't have one. This dress is really pretty."

Lin Xiuxiu did not continue this topic, but reminded: "Oh, the weather is a bit hot today, and I feel a little thirsty."

Hearing her words, Xiao Zijian finally realized that the two of them were here for afternoon tea.

He immediately said, "Xiuxiu, wait a minute, I'll call the waiter over here. How about ordering the cold-brewed sweet-scented osmanthus and oolong roll cake we mentioned last time?"

PS: Thank you Baoba Smile for the monthly pass.