I loaded the love system

Seeing Xiao Zijian's news, Ye Mengqiu praised him, and then asked, "That's right, your sister Lin hasn't arrived yet, has she?"

Xiao Zijian replied: "Of course, I arrived 15 minutes earlier."

Ye Mengqiu reminded: "Well, you can take this time to read the dating tips again, and remember to contact me if you have any questions."

"OK." Xiao Zijian expressed no objection.

He has no questions to ask Ye Mengqiu for the time being. The reason why he is sending a message to Ye Mengqiu now is to let the other party know about his current situation and make the other party prepare for remote assistance in advance.

Xiao Zijian didn't continue to chat with Ye Mengqiu, nor did he go to play in the arena.

After talking to Ye Mengqiu, he cut the game to the background, and then opened the sticky note.

After opening the sticky note, he can see that at the top is his recently edited "Dating Tips".

Dating Tips includes information on what to do before a date, dos and don'ts during a date, and things to do at the end of a date.

The preparations before the date include invitation excuses and speech skills, date attire, date location and program arrangement, date schedule and so on.

Finally, it is also recommended that boys’ shoes should arrive at the appointment location 15 minutes in advance, so as not to cause the other party to arrive early, causing the false impression that you are late, but reducing the evaluation in the other party’s mind.

He had already read all these contents and was prepared, so he didn't read any more.

Matters needing attention in dating include the following more important points:

1. Pay attention to small details

After the girl arrives, she can pull the chair for the lady.

If the girl says "sorry, I've been waiting for a long time" because you arrived early, you have to say "no, I just waited for a while" or "it's okay, it's only xx minutes", this kind of answer will lower the evaluation of.

The standard answer is "No, I just arrived too." If the relationship between the two is relatively good, you can give a more tentative answer. You can say "No, I want to see you so much, so I came earlier", or you can respond according to the actual situation. The situation is free to play.

Although it was not the first time to watch it, but seeing this, Xiao Zijian still couldn't help but wonder, when did Xiao Yezi learn to lie and be glib?

2. After meeting, you must give a positive comment on the girl's dress

Try not to say things like "you are so beautiful today", lest the other person think too much and think that you don't think she is usually beautiful. It would be better to say "this dress you are wearing today is very suitable for you and looks very xx" a little.

Of course, you can also start with some small details, such as small accessories, hairstyles, backpacks, etc. In short, praise is right.

3. Pay attention to your own eyes and the eyes of the other person

Learn to control the sight of your "eyes". It is enough to look at the other person's neck and above, so as not to cause the other person to feel insecure and think that you are just greedy for her body.

At the same time, you should also pay attention to the other party's gaze. If the other party does not look away 2-3 seconds after you finish speaking, it means that the other party is interested in the topic you are talking about.

If the person looks away or breathes a sigh of relief as soon as you've finished speaking, it means she's not interested in the topic, or in you.

4. Establish a sense of tacit understanding and improve interaction

If you want a girl to appreciate you, developing a sense of humor is a good choice.

But when you encounter a topic that is heavy, or you can't respond frivolously, you need to be a listener, let the other party explain the specific topic in more depth, and make the content more specific before answering.

In this way, you can find more directions and labels of the other party's questions, then you can grasp more information, and the answer can be more detailed, and the other party will feel that you are more attentive.

Gu</span> If there is no topic yet, it is necessary to actively create a topic. You can share and interact through the surrounding environment, temperature feeling, the other party's clothing and your own clothing, etc., to establish some tasteful communication topics.

When speaking on a date, the tone should be relaxed, and the tone should not appear very formal, as if you are in a business negotiation.

It sounds reasonable, but I still feel very difficult.

After reading this article, Xiao Zijian couldn't help complaining. In the end, he didn't have to find the topic by himself.

5. About payment

As long as you don't become a boyfriend or girlfriend regardless of you and me, no matter how good the relationship is, most girls don't like boys paying for treats all the time, which will make them find out that you have other plans for her.Although there is indeed an attempt, it cannot be too explicit.

For example, when inviting the other party to watch a movie, it would be better to use the method of "I invite you to watch a movie, you invite me to dinner or you buy Coke popcorn".

Doing so can reduce the girl's psychological burden and eliminate her sense of resistance (some girls really feel that it is a particularly awkward thing to be treated by someone they don't know well.

6. About small gifts

If you are confident in your vision, you can buy some small gifts for girls, such as some small accessories, and give them with the saying "I think it suits you/I think you look good in it, and I will give it to you as a xxx gift".

Be sure to buy first and then give away, so that she has a higher chance of accepting it, after all, there is no refund.

After receiving the gift, she will remember that there is a chance that she will get a gift in return.

Gift?I hate giving gifts the most. If I buy the wrong one, it will be bad.

Xiao Zijian didn't think he had a good eye for choosing gifts, so he decided to wait until he knew that the other party liked it before considering giving gifts.

7. Pay attention to the art of speaking

When choosing a dining place, if you want to choose a restaurant with a lower per capita consumption.

Remember not to say directly, "The things in this store are cheap." If you say this, it may make the other party think that you care too much about the price.

You can recommend this restaurant in terms of taste, specialties and signature dishes.

If you don't know that store, you can also put it another way, such as "the food in this store is delicious and affordable", which is more euphemistic.

8. Table manners

Be sure to pay attention to your table manners when eating. Although it will not be slow, it should not be too casual.

And after eating, the table should be kept as tidy as possible, so that it looks elegant and makes the service staff comfortable, and the evaluation will improve.

In addition, be careful not to eat dishes with strong odors, such as garlic and leeks.

9. Make a good impression and act confident

During the dating process, always maintain a good image of yourself, don't litter, and don't do other things that will reduce your image points.

Be more confident, and firmly believe that you can bring a pleasant date to the other party and make a good impression on yourself.

However, remember to avoid over-expressing yourself, and don't keep talking about your work or other trivial matters unless the other party shows great interest.