Clean up and leave the house, reward a small facade

Chen Fan didn't want his children to fight over his family property after a hundred years.

Because there is no emotion, what kind of things cannot be done!

"Son, where did you hear what you said today?"

"It's all wrong?"

"You are already in a senior class now, and you have to learn to think about things by yourself. You can't listen to what others say, so you just believe what others say. Many of what others say are wrong."

"Son, let's put it this way, why do you like playing at school and not at home?"

"There are children in school, some people play, and there are adults at home, no one plays with me."

"That's right, it's because your little mother has considered this problem that she wants to give you a younger brother, younger sister, to play with you?"

"Otherwise, when you grow up, you will be alone without any relatives, and you will have to carry everything by yourself. Isn't it very hard?"

"If you have younger siblings, wouldn't it be better to have someone to discuss with?"

"Dad, I'm worried that my mom won't love me if she has her own child."

At this moment, Chen Fan finally found Xiaobei's heart knot.

Yes!

He really didn't have a good answer to this question.

There is a very common thing happening in this society now.

That is, after a family has a second child, no one cares about the eldest child.

Not only was there no one to care about, but he also had to take care of his younger brother and younger sister.

There is another even more strange thing, that is, Wangwang, the second child, is smarter than the first child.

To put it more clearly, the second child is often much smarter than the eldest.

In the eyes of parents, I like smart children more.

The one who is not smart will definitely become the target of everyone's venting.

At home, no matter what it is, everyone likes to compare.

If the boss studies well, it’s okay, but if the boss doesn’t study well, no matter how much he likes to eat and doesn’t like to move, it’s over, no matter he is a boy or a girl, he has become a model of not a good student.

In fact, no matter how good the boss is, as long as he doesn't study well, it seems that one grade can negate everything about him.

Parents teach their children and treat him as a negative example.

"Second brother, when you grow up, if you are like your brother, if you don't study hard, you only know how to eat and play, then his current fate will be your role model in the future."

As he said, it was a burst of output to the boss.

The second child is already smart, but he also knows that if he doesn't study hard, he will have no good fruit at home.

Therefore, in his heart, he has formed a thought since he was a child, that is, he must study hard.

If you don't study hard, you have no food and you have to be beaten.

Being smart and knowing how to study, it is impossible for the second child's grades to be bad.

Therefore, he was even more proud of his parents.

Whether it's eating, shopping, or playing, the boss seems to be a dispensable existence.

This also led to discord between their siblings.

It can only be said that this kind of education is not desirable.

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In fact, many parents are also aware of this problem.

However, when I think about it, I think about it, but it is not so easy to change it.

It's like you are annoying someone.

Whether that person is talking to you or not, you're going to bother him.

Seeing him, seeing everything about him, makes you very upset.

Therefore, it is really difficult to talk to him calmly.

The same goes for children.

Because you already have extremes in your heart, no matter what the boss does, it is difficult to get a word of encouragement from you.

Many things, in your eyes, will make you feel that this is not what it should be!

So, you can't see his efforts.

Or someone disagrees with this view.

It feels like they are all my own children, the palms and backs of the hands are full of flesh, how could it not hurt!

People with this kind of thinking, either you have only one child, or you are not married yet.

Do you know why the five fingers are not evenly aligned?

This makes sense.

They are also grandchildren, why do they love this and not that.

Could it be that this is your own grandson, and that one is not your own grandson?

Why is it different?

Here, I feel, this is caused by the uneven distribution of love.

Everyone loves so much, it is difficult for you to share all your love equally with your loved ones.

Because there is no absolute fairness in this world.

Since it cannot be divided equally, there must be more and less.

It is too difficult to be absolutely fair.

This is true for mother and child, not to mention stepmother!

Of course, Chen Fan believed that Wang Nuo would not be a vicious stepmother, but definitely a qualified stepmother.

What Xiaobei cared about was that the new little brother and little sister would take away his share of love.

As long as I care a little more, let Wang Nuo worry more, and let Xiaobei feel that the arrival of his little brother and little sister not only did not take away his love, but also gave him more love.

Not only the love of parents, the love of grandparents, but also the love of younger brothers and younger sisters.

Of course, this is not what he can feel in a short while.

Xiaobei is a smart person, compared to him, even if he doesn't have his own explanation, he can figure it out gradually.

Explaining it will help him figure it out faster.

"Xiaobei, run around, how do you feel?"

"It's okay! I'm just too tired."

"Well, this road used to be the road my father had to walk every day to go to school. Now I don't have to be afraid to walk because there are street lights. If there were no street lights 20 years ago."

"Do you know what it means to be blind?"

Xiaobei shook his head, because in his world, it seemed that he had never seen a dark night.

Because in the current city, even in the middle of the night, it is not the light of street lights, but the lights of hotels and shops are shining.

It seems that at this time, wanting to see the dark night, the night where you can't see your fingers, seems to be a luxury.

However, 20 years ago, the dark night and the moonless night can be said to be the nightmare of children in that era.

As long as it is a child, there is no one who is not afraid of the dark.

Fear of the dark is a child's self-protection mechanism.

Therefore, it has nothing to do with the size of your guts.

20 years ago, once the lights at home were turned off, the whole village fell into darkness and silence.

In the middle of the night, few people were walking around.

Chen Fan remembered that when he was still in the fifth grade of elementary school, an old man in the village died.

The household where the old man died was the only way for Chen Fan to go to school.

It was fine during the day, and I dared to pass by the door of that house, but my eyes didn't dare to look inside.

However, at night, he didn't even dare to pass by. When he was going to school or after school, it would be fine if someone was with him. If no one was with him, he would rather go around and walk a few hundred meters longer, and he would not pass by the door of the dead person. .

This is the shadow he casts in the dark.

It's just that, if you tell Xiao Bei about these things, Xiao Bei won't understand.

Because, now when going to and from school, parents pick them up.

Whether you are in kindergarten or primary school, even if you are in junior high school, there are still parents who will pick you up at the door in person!

He also couldn't understand why the lights were not turned on when it was dark, and why he went to school alone without anyone picking him up.

Walking around outside, it can be regarded as doing some ideological work for Xiaobei.

A little bit, Chen Fan felt that he had done something wrong.

It's just that when you have a baby, you should tell Xiao Bei about it.

At least let him have a mental preparation.

After all, Xiaobei helped find his wife, so Xiaobei probably wouldn't stop him from having a child!

However, having a child all of a sudden made Xiaobei a little unacceptable.

Plus he heard some bad noises.

Xiaobei, when you have a little brother and a little sister in your family, you will be a child that no one loves.

Therefore, Xiaobei thought that the younger brother and younger sister came here to compete with him for love.

That's why he was so repulsive.

As a teacher, Wang Nuo knows more about this than Chen Fan.

There is no need for Chen Fan to say, what she did was very good.

When Xiaobei took a bath and was about to go to bed, Wang Nuo sat in front of Xiaobei and told him stories.

She didn't leave until Xiaobei fell asleep.

Go back and persuade Chen Fan!

Let her care more about Xiaobei recently, and give Xiaobei a little love!

Love is not just words, but actions.

Spend more time with your child, play more games with him, interact more, etc.

As long as Xiaobei can feel that with younger brothers and sisters, his love will be more, then his heart knot will be slowly unraveled.

"Honey, you've worked hard!"

"Have you worked hard? For you, what is this worth?"

"Thank you!"

"Hehe, what do you want to thank? Just talk about it?"

Wang Nuo lay on the bed, pulled the collar of his pajamas, and looked at Chen Fan with an expression of you being a knife and me being a fish.

"That, wife, is it okay?"

"Didn't the doctor tell you not to have intercourse, or try not to have intercourse?"

"Well, but, I'm afraid you can't bear it?"

"It's said in the book that the time when a man is most likely to cheat is when a woman is pregnant.

Because they can't have intercourse, and men want to but can't, at this time, as long as there is a woman who can attract a man, the chances of a man's cheating are much higher. "

"So, while you can still do it now, I will try my best to satisfy you. Otherwise, in the next few months, until the confinement period, you just think about it, and it won't work!"