Clean up and leave the house, reward a small facade

"Hee hee, if you say that, you're out of sight, right? Whoever said I'm not from your company? Anyway, I've already told the employees in the store. After I go back, I'll all go to the company's annual meeting. Haha, you can figure it out. !"

"You...really a rascal!"

"Haha, then I won't chat with you, I'll go back tomorrow, and I'll find you to have a drink when I go back."

"Well! Okay! Waiting for you!"

"Bye-Bye!"

"Bye-Bye!"

Chen Fan knew that Xiao Lei had a lot to say to him, but he didn't know how to express it.

So, I just want to make an appointment to sit and sit together, and get drunk.

It's just that the matter of Xiaobing made Chen Fan upset.

Ordinarily, his location is good, and when he opened his business, his business was also good, and his turnover exceeded Xiaolei's by a large margin.

As usual, the business should not be bad.

However, through chatting with Xiaobing, I always feel that something is wrong.

Especially Xiao Lei's words, there is something in the words.

This made him feel as uncomfortable as a cat scratching.

Now that Xiaolei is back, Xiaobing should also come back.

Let's talk about it when they come back!

After wandering around the village, when I got home, my mother had already prepared dinner.

Xiaobei, Wang Nuo, Chen Tai, Chen Fan, plus a mother who works hard and doesn't care about pay, a family of five, gathered around a small square table, and started the life of returning to the countryside.

Ugh!

There is a big villa in the city, and even let the nanny live in it, and I don't want to live in it myself.

The family had to live in the countryside.

I really don't know what they think.

My mother said that celebrating the New Year in the city really doesn't have a little taste of the New Year!

There is a lively Chinese New Year in the countryside.

Calculated according to the day, today is the day of offering sacrifices to the stove, the 23rd of the twelfth lunar month.

What is a sacrificial stove?

The custom of sacrificing stoves originated in ancient times. At the beginning, the sacrifices were mostly meat and wine.

Later, this sacrificial custom gradually spread to later generations.

However, in the end it slowly evolved into Xiaoye.

Since it is Chinese New Year, it must be a family reunion.

However, it can no longer be said to be a family of five, because it is at least a family of six, or even more.

"Xiaobei, do you like little brother or little sister?"

Xiaobei, who was eating, saw his grandma and asked himself.

Xiaobei said a little unhappy: "Grandma, can I not answer this question? Because I don't want to tell nonsense?"

Xiaobei's words made the atmosphere of the meal suddenly awkward.

What is not wanting to lie, what is not wanting to answer this question.

"Xiaobei, what's wrong with you? Are you unhappy?"

Xiaobei held back for a long time, but in the end he couldn't hold back.

He even cried out with a wow.

"woo woo woo woo..."

"woo woo woo woo..."

"Dad, is it right that when Mommy gives birth to the baby, no one of you will love Xiao Bei, and you should love the baby?"

"I don't want a baby, I don't want a brother, and I don't want a sister!"

It could be seen that Xiaobei was crying very sadly.

It's only been two days since Wang Nuo came back, and it's only been two days since Xiao Bei found out about this.

I don't know, how could he have such an idea!

Seeing Xiao Bei crying so sad, Wang Nuo felt very uncomfortable.

After all, he cried because of himself.

So, for a while, she didn't know how to coax Xiao Bei.

It can't be said that if he doesn't like it, he won't give birth, that is simply impossible.

Therefore, Xiaobei's crying made Wang Nuo at a loss.

"Xiaobei, who told you that if you have a younger brother, you won't be hurt anymore?"

"No, absolutely not, no one can replace your position in father's heart, you will always be a good son of father, and father will always love you."

"It's not only your father who loves you, but also your grandparents and mother. If you don't believe me, you can ask them."

"Yes, Xiao Bei, you are grandpa's good grandson, whoever you love if you don't love me!"

"Xiao Bei, grandma also assures you that no matter how many younger brothers or sisters you have in the future, grandma will always treat you the same."

"Xiao Bei, mother is the same, please trust us."

Xiaobei cried for a while and wiped away his tears.

"really?"

"But I heard from the children in our class that once there are younger brothers and sisters in the family, someone will compete with you for love, and your parents will not treat you as well as before."

"Many children say the same thing. They say that as long as younger siblings cry, no matter whether it is their own fault or not, adults will blame themselves for the reason for their crying."

When Xiaobei said this, the adults fell silent.

Yes!

Isn't that true for the elderly with children?

The older ones look at the younger ones, no matter why the younger ones cry, or why the younger ones fight with the older ones.

Adults always look at things from one angle, that is, when you are older, you should give way to your younger siblings.

Whether you have reason or not, the responsibility is on you!

PS: Xiaofan is now purely generating electricity for love, because there are still people like you watching, so Xiaofan has not ended, otherwise, it will be over when it exceeds one million.I hope everyone can send Xiaofan some power generation for love for Xiaofan's sake, thank you!Thank you everyone, thank you Mathematicians for generating electricity for love every day.

Chapter 348 Resolving Small Emotions

In fact, this is a very common phenomenon.

When adults quarrel with children, it cannot be said that adults do not love children.

Because, in the world of adults, as an older brother or older sister, you should have the responsibility to take care of your younger brother and younger sister.

You are a brother or a sister, so you have to give way to your younger siblings.

If there is something delicious and fun, the younger siblings must eat and play first.

Otherwise, it's your fault.

Even if your younger siblings beat you, you can't pay it back, there is no reason, it's just because you are older than them, that's the only reason.

A reason that is not very tenable.

Maybe Chen Fan didn't notice this matter before, and the Chen family is also a single family, so there is no such convenient trouble.

Now Chen Fan is definitely no longer a single pass, and he has to face such a problem.

Suddenly he didn't know how to answer Xiaobei's confusion.

Therefore, Xiaobei can only use guarantees to convince Xiaobei that he will not be like other parents.

However, such words appear very pale and powerless.

With a second child, ignoring the feelings of the eldest is a very normal thing in many families.

But what Chen Fan can do is to treat him as fairly as possible.

Of course, even a little bias is possible.

After all, Wang Nuo is not his own mother, but a stepmother.

No matter how good the stepmother was to him, there was probably a layer of estrangement in his heart.

This may be a blood relationship.

Just like the current mother-in-law relationship.

Many people feel that the mother-in-law is not treating her daughter well.

Perhaps in her heart, the mother-in-law must love her daughter more.

Remember, it is only in the heart.

However, in fact, the mother-in-law is also cautious about her daughter-in-law, for fear that she will bear a grudge for a lifetime if she says something wrong.

A lot of words are said after deliberation and picking a suitable tone.

Even so, the daughter-in-law still felt that her mother-in-law was talking too much, and she was indifferent to her.

In fact, for the same thing, the attitude of the mother-in-law towards the daughter is definitely either beating or scolding.

If you treat your daughter-in-law the same way you treat your daughter-in-law, scolding as soon as you open your mouth, it is estimated that the daughter-in-law will be scolded and run away.

So, it's not that the mother-in-law doesn't treat you as her own daughter, but there is no way to treat you as her own daughter.

I really treat you like my own daughter, maybe you can still say that your mother-in-law abused you!

Things are always changing.

The same goes for the relationship between stepmother and child.

For Wang Nuoneng to marry Chen Fan, it can be said that Xiaobei has made great contributions.

Since Xiaobei agreed, why are you worried now?

In fact, his worry was entirely due to his insecurity.

Besides, even if it is the biological mother, not the stepmother.

When the family wants a second child, aren't there some radical children?

In order to force the mother to have an abortion, they don't want any younger brothers and sisters. They even use jumping off a building as a bargaining chip to threaten their parents.

This is not alarmist talk, it really happened.

Therefore, now that Xiaobei has such a problem, he naturally needs to take care of it and untie the knot in his heart.

This kind of thing can't be solved by force, but needs to be enlightened.

Of course, it is normal for Xiaobei to have this reaction.

This doesn't mean that he doesn't like Wang Nuo or accept Wang Nuo anymore.

For this problem, the best solution, of course, is to enlighten patiently.

After dinner, Chen Fan took Xiaobei out for a stroll to relieve his hunger, and thought about how to enlighten him.

If it wasn't because of Xiaobei, Chen Fan's plan today was to go to the Four Corners Lake to find a way to subdue the big Jiao.

However, Xiaobei's matter now seems to be more important than that of Dajiao.

If he keeps having this idea, he really doesn't know what serious consequences will happen in the future.

I just had a knot in my heart, but it's better to knot it a little bit.

After a long time, coupled with Xiaobei's independent personality, it is estimated that it will be difficult to repair the knot in his heart.