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The newlyweds return home on the third day of their marriage. This is a traditional wedding custom in most parts of our country.

However, according to the wedding customs in Shuangwang Realm, whether it is in this era or in later generations, newlyweds will return home on the second day of the Lunar New Year of the following year.

The third day after marriage has a special name in the Shuangwang realm. In Hakka dialect, it is called "La (second tone) Chao (zhāo)". This "La Chao" is from the woman's natal family. The groom's family visits his married daughter.

At this time, the meal served by the groom’s family to the bride’s family must be exactly the same as the meal served on the wedding day.

The reason for this rule is that when a daughter is married in the Shuangwang realm, parents generally do not attend their daughter's wedding. Therefore, when they come to the "La Chao", in order to show their importance, the groom will serve them with wedding banquet meals. The woman’s natal family.

Then, there is another rule: the woman’s mother-in-law’s family comes to have a “chao”. If the woman goes back to her mother-in-law’s house with her mother-in-law’s family that day, she must return to her husband’s house three days later. In the words here, it is “three dynasties to three dynasties.”

If the woman does not go back to her parents' home with her parents' family that day, but returns in a few days, then she can live in her parents' home as long as she wants.

This kind of wedding custom is relatively rare.

In his previous life, Deng Shirong had always followed this custom. When his two daughters got married, he, as a father, did not attend his daughter's wedding. However, after his rebirth, he no longer resorted to rigid rules in this regard, but learned how to be flexible.

For example, he attended both his daughters' weddings.

Since everyone attended the wedding, Deng Shirong no longer abides by this "La Chao" custom.

Therefore, when his youngest daughter gets married this time, Deng Shirong plans to follow the customs of the groom's side and not go to the "La Chao", lest the groom's family has to invite a chef to cook the same dishes to entertain them.

Based on the customs of the man's side, when the younger daughter returns home on the third day after her wedding, Deng Shirong must be prepared to receive the younger daughter and younger son-in-law.

…

Guangzhou.

Zhou Haidong and Deng Yunzhu took the bus to Nanning with large and small packages of gifts.

After Deng Yunzhu put the gifts away, she said: "It's really inconvenient to take a bus. You can take time to learn to drive later. My dad bought cars for all four of us brothers and sisters. My Santana has been parked in Nanning. You Once you learn it, you can drive the car back, and then it will be more convenient to go out and drive by yourself.”

Zhou Haidong now knows about his wife's strong financial resources. He heard that she also owns a Santana worth 200,000 yuan. There is nothing surprising. He nodded and said: "Okay, I will take the time to learn when I get back. Dad will buy you a car." , then you should be able to drive it, right?"

Deng Yunzhu said: "Of course I can drive it, but my dad doesn't allow me to drive it."

Zhou Haidong said in surprise: "This is a bit strange. Since your father bought you a car and you learned to drive, why are you not allowed to drive?"

Deng Yunzhu explained: "My dad cares about me. The world is very chaotic now. In my dad's words, there are car robbers and road robbers everywhere. Even in the city, there is no shortage of bold robbers. If I Tian drove a car worth 200,000 yuan out, and sooner or later he would be targeted by those brutal robbers.

If you are just asking for money, that's okay, but you are afraid of encountering that kind of vicious robbery and murderer. Not only will your money be robbed, but your life safety will not be guaranteed. There are countless lives on the hands of such a person. After aiming at the target, It's very possible to just shoot, which is scary to think about. "

Zhou Haidong nodded and said: "What dad said does make sense, but isn't it a waste to spend so much money to buy a car and not drive it?"

Deng Yunzhu smiled and said: "Who can't tell me, my dad hired a platoon of veterans to protect our safety. We are basically followed by security personnel when we go in and out. They are not only our bodyguards, but also our drivers. Just tell them where you want to go and they will arrange it.”

Zhou Haidong was filled with emotion after hearing this. The conditions of their Zhou family were pretty good, but compared with his father-in-law's family, the difference was really huge.

After getting married, his wife told him that the Wuyue Plaza in Nanning that they had visited was built on land bought by his father-in-law.

The super supermarket on the first floor of Wuyue Plaza is my uncle's property, the hot pot restaurant on the second floor is his wife's property, the home appliance store on the third floor is my fourth brother-in-law's property, the fourth floor is currently idle, and the fifth floor is The place where my father-in-law's family lives.

When he first heard the news, Zhou Haidong was naturally shocked for a long time.

At the same time, he also understood why his wife’s hot pot restaurant is so profitable. A hot pot restaurant with such a large area uses its own store, saving a lot of rent. Naturally, the profit is not comparable to that of a business that rents a store. of.

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Five p.m.

Nanning Wuyue Square.

Carrying large and small bags of gifts, Zhou Haidong followed his wife to the mansion on the fifth floor. After entering, even though he was mentally prepared, he was still stunned by the antique decoration in front of him.

It wasn't until his wife started greeting the family that Zhou Haidong came back to his senses and greeted them one by one.

Deng Shirong smiled and said: "Azhu, you put your luggage away first. Haidong, you and the others have a cup of tea. I'll cook a few more dishes before dinner is ready."

"Okay, Dad."

Zhou Haidong and Deng Yunzhu responded together.

Immediately, Deng Yunzhu took their luggage back to the bedroom where she had always lived, while Zhou Haidong was sitting in the huge living room, drinking tea with his uncle and the others.

Here, I have to mention some taboos about returning home. In many places, newlyweds are not allowed to have the same room if they return home.

According to some local legends, if newlyweds have sex in their natal family, it will cause the decline of their natal family.

Because of the concept in our country since ancient times, in all matters between men and women, it is believed that the woman suffers.

For this reason, the bride and groom live together in their natal family, and the bride's family always feels a little depressed psychologically. Also, if your natal family and your husband’s family are not of the same bloodline, how can you provide a place for your husband’s family to carry on the family line in your natal family’s home?

If she really got pregnant in her mother's family, wouldn't she have brought the "people power" and "financial power" of her mother's family to her husband's family?

Therefore, due to various considerations, in many places there is a taboo that young couples cannot have sex in their natal family. It was not until later generations that this taboo gradually faded away. However, many places still hold this concept and do not allow newlyweds to have sex in their natal family.

Naturally, there are no such rules in the Shuangwang Realm. After all, newlyweds here only have "La Chao" and no return. The return will be on the second day of the Lunar New Year next year. By then, they will have been married for such a long time, and the child will probably have been pregnant for a long time. Once you get married, there will naturally be no taboos in this regard.

And now Deng Yunzhu is back home on the third day of her wedding. Deng Shirong has experienced a lot in his two lives, so he naturally doesn't care about this taboo.

…

Zhou Haidong, his uncle and others drank tea and chatted for a while, and then his father-in-law announced that dinner was ready.

After eating the food cooked by his father-in-law, Zhou Haidong realized that what his wife said was not exaggerated at all. His father-in-law's cooking skills were really no worse than those of those chefs, especially the cooking of various seafood. .

Zhou Haidong praised while eating: "Dad, your cooking skills are really amazing, especially this steamed mudworm, it is the most delicious dish I have ever eaten in my life."

Deng Yunzhu glanced at her husband and said with a smile: "You know your stuff. This steamed mudworm is one of my dad's specialties. Everyone who has eaten it will praise it."

Deng Shirong smiled and said: "If it tastes good, eat more."

Zhou Haidong was naturally not polite. He cooked three large bowls of rice for this meal, focusing on a health bar.

As for wine, he is not the kind of man who doesn't drink. He is not suitable for officialdom. He knows that drinking will have a certain impact on the health of his children in the future. Now that he is married, he will have his own children at any time. Naturally, you have to exercise some restraint in this regard.

When my wife gets pregnant in the future, there will be no problem if she drinks it again.

This meal without alcohol is naturally quick to eat.

After the meal, Deng Shirong said: "Azhu, please show Haidong around!"

Zhou Haidong had long been full of curiosity about his father-in-law's house. When he heard what his father-in-law said, he followed suit and said, "Dad, let me take a look first. The decoration of this house is really beautiful."

Deng Yunzhu took him around to visit.

The level of luxury of this mansion of just over 3,000 square meters is really beyond the imagination of ordinary people. Living in a big city like Guangzhou, Zhou Haidong has seen the world, but he was still shocked by this house in his father-in-law's house. .

In fact, it is understandable that in the big cities of later generations, most people live in houses with an area of ​​more than 90 square meters to about 120 square meters, and those large flats with an area of ​​about 300 square meters are a status symbol of the rich. .

The area of ​​Deng Shirong's mansion is ten times that of many large single-story mansions in later generations. What is this concept? Who can remain indifferent after seeing a mansion of this level for the first time?

What's more, the decoration of this super mansion is really awesome. The antique artistic conception makes people inside it feel like they have returned to ancient times. Perhaps in the eyes of some rural people with little culture, such decoration is not as good as modern decoration. It comes as a shock, but for people with a little cultural background, this kind of decoration is simply amazing.

After all, Zhou Haidong is a top student who graduated from a key university. He can fully understand the essence of this decoration, which makes him really full of praise.

After the visit, Zhou Haidong really admired his father-in-law. Not only was he rich, he also had taste that few others could match.

"Azhu, how much did such a beautiful decoration cost?" Zhou Haidong couldn't help but ask.

Deng Yunzhu said: "I heard from my dad that the entire building was renovated at the same time. From buying the land to building the building and then decorating it, it probably cost tens of millions in total!"

Zhou Haidong took a breath of air-conditioning when he heard this. The more he knew about his wife's natal family, the more unfathomable it became. After a while, he sighed with emotion: "Honey, it seems those people in our village are right. I can marry You are really the smoke coming out of our Zhou family’s ancestral grave.”

Deng Yunzhu said with an arrogant look: "That's right, you can just have fun!"

…

Zhou Haidong and Deng Yunzhu only stayed in Nanning for one night and took a bus back to Guangzhou the next day.

It's not that they don't want to stay a few more days, the main reason is that Zhou Haidong is a public employee and cannot always ask for leave. This will leave a bad impression on the superiors.

On the way back in the car, Deng Yunzhu couldn't help but said: "You really don't have much freedom in your job. Let's see in two years. If you can't be promoted, you might as well resign and start a business with me. "

Zhou Haidong nodded and said: "Okay, this job is really boring. If I can't get promoted, I will resign and go into business with you."

Although his job is the dream of countless people in this era, Zhou Haidong has always been the pride of their Zhou family. After all, he is a full-time cadre at such a young age and has graduated from a key university. He has great hopes for his career in the future. surpassing his father.

He had never considered resigning before.

But as the saying goes, one thing is another, and after he married Deng Yunzhu, Zhou Haidong's mind was completely changed. His coveted job was really not worth mentioning in the face of a big business with an annual income of one million.

…

Nanning Architectural Design Institute.

Deng Shirong is looking at the design renderings of the hospital. The purpose of each building is marked on it, and it is divided into two parts. One part is for current construction, and the other part will be built when it is upgraded to a tertiary hospital.

It can be said to be clear at a glance.

Deng Shirong said with satisfaction: "Dean Huang, you have worked hard. I am very satisfied with this design."

Dean Huang smiled and said: "Boss Deng, just be satisfied. You are the biggest customer of our architectural design institute. Naturally, we will go all out to do our best for your entrustment."

Deng Shirong put the renderings on the table and said, "Dean Huang, in addition to looking at the renderings this time, I also want to trouble your hospital to add another design."

Dean Huang asked: "What design should be added?"

"Adding expert villa design."

Deng Shirong said: "We can provide housing subsidies for other medical staff and let them rent their own houses. In this way, after our Naye Deng's villa complex is built and moved in, those old houses can be rented out to these medical staff. It won't be wasted there.

And in this way, everyone can rent a house according to their own situation. If you want to live comfortably, you can spend more money to rent a better house. If you want to save money, you can also rent some old houses together with other colleagues. In short, it is like Just like going to a restaurant to eat, it's up to you to be generous and frugal.

But those more famous experts may not be willing to work in rural areas like ours, so we must not only give them the highest wages, but also provide them with the most comfortable living conditions, so as to attract those experts to work in our hospitals . "

Dean Huang praised: "Boss Deng, you are very thoughtful. It is indeed necessary to build villas for experts. I wonder how many villas will be built?"

Deng Shirong said: "Build twenty or thirty villas first. It should be enough for the time being. If it is not enough, it will not be too late to add more."

Dean Huang nodded and said: "No problem. Boss Deng, what do you want to build this expert villa into? Is it an independent villa?"

Deng Shirong said: "Well, let's build an independent villa!"

…

In the following time, Deng Shirong, who had nothing to do, wandered around looking for a partner for his niece.

If Deng Shirong was the kind of matchmaker in later generations who only wanted to make money as a matchmaker, then he would have asked his niece to kiss him countless times. But he is not the kind of professional matchmaker who only wants to make money, and now he is doing it for his own niece. When looking for a partner, you must find a truly suitable partner before arranging a meeting between the two parties.

However, it is really not easy to find someone who fully meets the requirements.

Not to mention the distance, let’s talk about the second son’s Peking University alumnus, Song Yu, who is already 30 years old this year, but still can’t find a suitable partner for her. Her parents don’t know how anxious they are, but this kind of thing can’t happen again. There was no point in being anxious. It was impossible for Deng Shirong to arrange a blind date for her before finding someone who was truly suitable for her.

While Deng Shirong was running around, time came to late December unknowingly.

Then the eyes of the whole world were focused on Big Brother.

On December 21, the signing of a certain declaration caused the bipolar pattern that had existed for more than forty years after the war to collapse.

On December 25, Big Brother, which had dominated the world for decades and was the only one that could compete with the United States, collapsed.

At this moment, the world shook.

Especially for those with the surname She, it was really a big earthquake, it could be called the darkest moment. Even in our country, many people couldn’t believe it was true. They all thought Big Brother was playing some conspiracy to be so powerful. How could it be possible that the big brother of China would collapse immediately?

Ordinary people can't believe this is true, but the higher-ups know it's absolutely true.

Fortunately, it has been more than ten years since our country's reform and opening up, and it has embarked on a completely different path from Big Brother. Although the collapse of Big Brother has brought a great shock to everyone at the psychological level, it has not shaken us. Our foundation.

However, the collapse of Big Brother is so incredible that it still shakes the faith of some people.

At this critical moment, the chief designer stepped forward.

As a result, a speech that is a milestone in the history of my country's reform and opening up and has an extremely profound and long-term impact on our country's current and future development came into being.

The great historical significance of this speech is immeasurable, and it cannot be praised enough. It was after this speech that my country's reform and opening up truly changed from "focusing on reform" to "focusing on opening up." ”, bringing our country’s development into a new stage.

It is no exaggeration to say that this Southern Tour speech is the guiding light for our country’s development.

Deng Shirong experienced this scene in his previous life, but he could not understand the significance of these words to the development of our country at the time. It was not until he started reading online novels in later generations that he realized how important the chief designer's words were to our country at that time.

He understood in this life. Seeing the octogenarian in the news, Deng Shirong admired him from the bottom of his heart. If it weren't for this old man, even if he was lucky enough to be reborn, he wouldn't be able to live such a wealthy life so quickly.

If he remembered correctly, after Deng's speech, it also had a huge impact in the system. Countless elites responded to the call, directly handled the resignation procedures, and then resolutely plunged into the business world.

Most of the elites handled the procedures for unpaid leave. With this guarantee, they chose to go into business with full confidence.

As long as they succeeded, they would make a fortune. If they failed, it didn't matter. At most, they would continue to come back to work. Anyway, the country would keep the job for them!

…

Nanning.

Wuyue Square luxury house.

Deng Shirong was looking at the report cards of Xiaodong'er and Dongzi. Xiaodong'er, the academic bully, performed as steadily as ever and won the first place in the grade again. Dongzi had good luck this semester and barely ranked 20th in the class.

After reading the report card, Deng Shirong looked at his eldest granddaughter and praised her with a smile: "Little Dong'er is really good. You got the first place in the grade again. Where do you want to go this holiday?"

Little Dong'er obviously had already thought of a place, and blurted out: "Grandpa, I want to go to my second uncle's place to play."

Deng Shirong was a little surprised to hear this, but still nodded and smiled: "Okay, then grandpa will take you to your second uncle's place to play."

Dongzi jumped out and said: "Grandpa, I also got the 20th place in the class. Why don't you ask me where I want to go to play?"

Deng Shirong laughed and said: "Okay, then grandpa asks you, where do you want to go to play?"

Dongzi said: "Grandpa, I also want to go to my second uncle's place to play."

Deng Shirong said with a smile: "Then let's go to your uncle's place. I'll prepare some local specialties for him first. We'll set off in three days."

Dongzi said excitedly: "I wonder if Ergou can speak now?"

Xiao Dong'er said: "Yes, Ergou called me sister when my aunt called me a few days ago!"

Dongzi asked: "Will he call me brother?"

Xiao Dong'er said: "Wait for you to teach him, and he will."

Dongzi nodded and said: "Then I'll teach him well when I go there."

...

Deng Shirong had to prepare well to go to Fujian. There were still a lot of canned beef brisket and spicy crab that he had made before, but there were no more canned beef brisket and spicy crab because the number of canned beef brisket and spicy crab was not large enough.

So, in the next three days, Deng Shirong made another batch of canned beef brisket and spicy crab, and of course, ash water dumplings were indispensable.

As for specialties such as glutinous rice wine, longan, broken black tea, and Azhu women's cigarettes, Deng Shirong did not prepare them separately, because he still had a lot of them in his system space!

After getting all these things ready, Deng Shirong took his grandchildren on a plane to Fujian.

It was already past five in the afternoon when they arrived in Fuzhou.

Deng Shirong did not plan to rush to Fuqing overnight, but found a place to have dinner with his grandchildren, and then found a high-end hotel to stay.

The next morning.

Deng Shirong took his grandchildren to eat a very distinctive local delicacy. The name of this delicacy is Guobianhu, also known as Dingbianhu and Dingbianchui. It is a kind of snack that most people in Fuzhou love to eat.

And the taste is really good. The three grandfathers and grandchildren all ate with relish. No wonder they are so popular.

After a delicious breakfast, the three grandfathers and grandchildren took their large and small bags of luggage and got on the bus to Fuqing.

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