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The next day.

Deng Shirong's family and relatives took the family bus to Guangzhou.

When Deng Yunzhu gets married this time, she doesn’t plan to have her husband come to Nanning or her hometown to pick her up. This time she gets married and she is her own. There is no need for others to bother her and affect her work. Anyway, she also has her own business in Guangzhou, that hot pot restaurant. I bought it and can use it as a temporary home. It will be much easier to get married here.

When Deng Shirong and others were setting off for Guangzhou by car, Deng Yunheng's family of three and his nanny Deng Damei, who were far away in Fujian, also boarded the plane to Guangzhou.

The moment she got on the plane, Sister Deng felt like she was in a dream.

Ever since she came to Fujian to help take care of Uncle Changmao, she has lived a life that she had never dared to imagine before.

Because she often carried Uncle Chang Mao out for walks, all the aunts and sisters-in-law in the family home knew her. These high-status aunts and sisters-in-law were so enthusiastic about her that they often tried different ways to bring her food. of.

Although Sister Deng didn't read much, she knew why these aunts and sisters-in-law were so enthusiastic about her.

Simply because she is the grand niece of Duke Yunheng, those aunts and sisters-in-law are not trying to please her, but Duke Yunheng.

The first time she encountered this kind of thing, Sister Deng immediately told Mr. Yun Heng, and then Mr. Yun Heng told her that she couldn't accept valuable things given by others, but if she just shared some fruit snacks, it didn't matter.

After that, Sister Deng never stopped having fruit snacks. As long as she took Uncle Chang Mao out for a walk, there would be endless fruits and snacks.

Of course, these are not the most important. With Deng Damei's current income, it is very simple to achieve freedom of fruits and snacks.

What she cares about is that she enjoys a different kind of respect here. Those aunts and sisters-in-law are vying to please her. This is something she has never experienced since she was a child.

When Deng was a child, her family was poor, and her mother gave birth to five daughters in a row. Not only was her mother not welcomed by her grandparents at home, but she and her younger sister, the so-called "losers," were also not treated well. See.

Think about it, even my own family doesn't want to see the five sisters, how many people in the village can treat them?

The only exception was Jiuzu's family. If Jiuzu hadn't scolded her grandmother back then, her mother's life would have been so difficult!

Just when Sister Deng was thinking wildly, the plane began to taxi and take off.

Since this was Sister Deng's first time on a plane, Gu Caiwei was afraid that she would get airsick, so she did not let her hold the child. As the plane continued to rise high into the sky, many people could not bear the feeling of weightlessness. I can't help but want to vomit.

When the plane stopped lifting and started flying smoothly, Gu Caiwei asked: "Sister, how do you feel? Are you okay?"

Sister Deng smiled and replied: "It's okay, I'm fine. Second wife, you have a good rest and let me hold Uncle Changmao!"

Gu Caiwei shook her head and said: "It's okay, I can just hold him. You have a good rest. You will have to take care of him when we get to Guangzhou."

Sister Deng nodded and said, "Okay, second wife, if you need anything, just call me."

…

Beijing.

Deng Yunsong also boarded the plane to Guangzhou. After all, he was also a cadre at the department level. It was difficult to ask for leave when nothing happened. But when something happened, it was okay to ask the leader to approve three or two days of leave.

This time the second sister got married, and everyone in the family went to attend her wedding. Naturally, Deng Yunsong would not be absent.

…

In the afternoon, Deng Shirong and his family gathered here for Guangzhou Hot Girl Hotpot, plus a large group of relatives, and the scene was a lively one.

Zhou Haidong, as the groom-to-be, is naturally here.

Because he knew the identities of his second brother-in-law, third brother-in-law, and brother-in-law from his partner, Zhou Haidong was careful when talking to them, for fear of accidentally offending these three beings who he could not afford to offend.

Although his third brother-in-law's current rank is only on the same level as him, he graduated from Tsinghua University and entered a popular ministry like the Ministry of Finance, so his subsequent promotion speed is probably not comparable to his.

As for the brother-in-law and the second uncle, needless to say, a quasi-director and a deputy director, although they can't control him, as a relative Zhou Haidong would never dare to ignore their existence.

Zhou Haidong did not stay here all the time. After dinner here, he explained the time for putting on makeup and picking up the bride tomorrow morning. Then he greeted everyone one by one and went back to the village to make final preparations for tomorrow's wedding.

Watching Zhou Haidong leave, Deng Yunheng said: "Dad has a good taste. People from Zhou Haidong are quite smart and look kind-hearted. I guess they won't bully Azhu."

Deng Yunzhu said with a smile: "Second brother, you underestimate me, how dare he bully me? Before I agreed to date him, I made an agreement with him. I will have the final say in this family from now on, and he will Just be obedient."

Deng Yunheng laughed when he heard this and said: "Azhu, don't go too far. He is also a cadre at the department level after all. He should still be given face in front of outsiders."

Deng Yunzhen also advised: "Azhu, your second brother is right. Women should not be too strong. Husband and wife should respect each other when getting along and should not bully others."

"Sister, second brother, don't worry, I have my own sense of discretion."

At this point, Deng Yunzhu put her hand on her second brother's shoulder and said slyly: "Second brother, then again, if he dares to bully me, you have to stand up for me!"

Deng Yunheng was speechless and said: "Looking at you like this, it's good if you don't bully others. How can they bully you?"

Deng Yunzhu chuckled and said, "I don't fight unprepared battles. What if his wings get stiff one day and he dares to bully me?"

Deng Yunheng said helplessly: "Okay, as long as he dares to bully you, the second brother will definitely stand up for you."

After receiving her second brother's promise, Deng Yunzhu immediately beamed. Now her father naturally ranks first in terms of influence in the family, and second is her second brother. With his second brother's support, she will feel confident.

The others couldn't help laughing when they saw this.

Originally, the night before the girl got married, the atmosphere at home was somewhat sad, especially when the three aunts and six wives were gathered together. When everyone talked about the emotional point, it was common for them to hug each other and cry.

After all, after getting married, you become someone else's family. This is something that cannot be changed unless you recruit a son-in-law.

But looking at Deng Yunzhu's performance, everyone just felt happy and couldn't feel sad at all. This girl hadn't even gotten married yet, so she was anxious to find someone to support her at home. She made it clear that she would be the master of the family after she got married, so she was only allowed to bully her. Others, others cannot bully her.

…

Zhou Haidong returned to the village and saw his father, uncle and several elders in the village drinking, and greeted them one by one.

Zhou's father asked: "Haidong, are everyone at the in-laws' side here?"

Zhou Haidong nodded and said: "We are all here. Azhu's second brother's family also came from Fujian, and his third brother also came from the capital."

Uncle Zhou sighed with emotion: "Haidong, you are so good for marrying such a rich and powerful wife. Your father and I are not young anymore. From now on, you have to take up the responsibility of our old Zhou family." Flag."

Zhou Haidong shook his head repeatedly and said modestly: "Uncle, you are always strong. How can it be my turn to carry the banner? Besides, my cousin has made a lot of money in business over the years. He is the eldest brother of our generation, and he is the most suitable person to carry the banner. We are the people under the banner of the old Zhou family.”

Uncle Zhou waved his hand and said, "Don't be so modest. I've heard what your dad said. Your cousin's assets are nothing compared to your wife's hot pot chain store. Plus, you are the son of our old Zhou family." The only key college student in Dingzhong, a full-time cadre, and now he is married to such a rich and powerful wife. If you don’t carry the banner of your generation, who else is qualified to do so? "

"Yes, Haidong, when you marry a wife, you only want money, money, power and power. Who else in your generation can compare with you?"

"Old Zhou, I really envy you. That little bastard in my family only knows how to go to dance clubs all day long and has nothing to do all day long. It really pisses me off. If he could have half the skills of Haidong, I would laugh out loud in my dreams. ”

"Lao Zhou, you really raised a good son!"

"..."

Several elders in the village also praised Zhou Haidong one after another. They all knew the background of Zhou Haidong's partner's family, and they really envied Zhou's father from the bottom of their hearts.

Zhou's father's face lit up when he heard this. In fact, a person has only one face in his life. He was originally the most promising person in the village. His whole family ate the royal food. He was envied by many people in the village.

Now, his most promising son has married a wife with a much more powerful background than their Zhou family, which has brought their family's reputation to a higher level, and he naturally has more face.

…

Early the next morning.

The stylist hired by the Zhou family came to Hot Girl Hotpot to give Deng Yunzhu makeup.

This Hot Girl hotpot has more than 300 square meters. In addition to the kitchen, Deng Yunzhu also separated two small rooms so that she and her old classmate Li Shuqin could rest here.

Because the hot pot restaurant is not far from Zhou's home, it's not too late to start putting on makeup at 6 or 7 in the morning. You don't have to be like some brides in later generations who either put their makeup on in advance or get up at 3 or 4 in the morning to get a good look. , it’s really hard.

Of course, there is another reason, that is, the makeup of this era is not as particular as that of later generations, and there are not so many tricks. Makeup is faster, unlike later generations, which often takes several hours.

By the time Deng Yunzhu finished putting on her makeup, it was only nine o'clock in the morning, which was plenty of time.

According to the marriage customs in Shuangwang Realm, when a daughter gets married, her parents have to prepare a chicken drumstick for her daughter to eat. The meaning has been mentioned before, because it is often children who eat drumsticks. When a daughter eats chicken drumsticks before she gets married, it means It’s the last time I’m a child in my parents’ home.

This custom was quite good, so Deng Shirong didn't intend to throw it away. After his little daughter finished putting on her makeup, he filled a bowl with half a bowl of rice and a fragrant chicken leg, handed it to his little daughter and said, "Eat it, from now on." From now on, you will be an adult. When you go to your in-laws' house, you have to control your temper. You must respect your parents-in-law and live in harmony with your in-laws' family.

There is a saying that you must remember, that is, "the smell is far away and the smell is near." As long as you grasp this balance, you will be able to live like a fish in water in your husband's family.

Also, people are rarely confused, so don’t worry too much about everything.

In short, getting along between people is a profound knowledge. You should slowly understand it yourself. If you don’t understand anything, just call me and tell me, you know? "

Deng Yunzhu took the bowls and chopsticks and listened to her father's earnest instructions. She, who had been laughing and joking carelessly, suddenly felt a little uncomfortable. Today she is getting married. From now on, her family will refer to the Zhou family, not hers anymore. The Deng family has lived for more than twenty years.

Thinking of this, Deng Yunzhu's eyes became slightly moist, and she responded with complicated emotions: "Dad, I understand. I will get along well with my husband's family. In the future, your daughter will not be with you, so you have to take good care of yourself."

Deng Shirong's two lifetimes combined, his mental age is already a hundred years old, and he has seen through many things. Naturally, he will not secretly wipe away tears like those old fathers who marry for the first time, nor does he mean to make his little daughter sad. He wants to make her little daughter sad. She happily got married and said with a smile: "Don't worry, dad is in good health. Although you are getting married today, your lifestyle is not much different from before. Now most of your hot pot chain stores are in Guangxi. There will be many more days to live in Guangxi in the future!”

Deng Yunzhu thought about it. The headquarters of her hotpot chain store is in Nanning Wuyue Plaza. Didn't her father say "the fragrance is far away and the smell is near"? Then she will stay with her parents' family for most of the time in the future. This will also help her maintain good relations with her husband's family. Build good relationships.

Thinking of this, Deng Yunzhu put away her sad emotions, and then happily ate the chicken drumstick rice she had before getting married.

…

Ten o'clock in the morning.

The Zhou family's wedding convoy arrived at Lameizi Hotpot.

In order to marry back Deng Yunzhu in a glamorous manner, the old Zhou family also tried their best. This time, the wedding fleet included six cars and six buses. It was already very luxurious in this era. Pick up the convoy.

Originally, the old Zhou family started their relationship and could borrow two more cars, but those two cars were a bit old and looked a little old. After thinking about it, I thought it was better to forget it. There are six cars in the row. Faced.

Moreover, after being reminded by Deng Yunzhu, the Zhou family also paid for a team of photographers to take photos throughout the entire process, and the arrangements were very thoughtful.

In this era, there were not as many rules for wedding receptions as in later generations. There were no difficulties, and there were no temporary price increases on bride price. The Deng family did not do such disgusting things. Basically, the groom came with the wedding team and handed out a red envelope to everyone he saw. Then he changed his name to dad and successfully picked up the bride.

…

Shixi Village, where the Zhou family is located, is just an inconspicuous small village in Guangzhou.

However, no matter how inconspicuous it is, in the urban area of ​​a major city like Guangzhou, it is still a hundred times better than those villages in the countryside.

At this time, the main road of Shixi Village was decorated with lights and colorful decorations, making it very festive and beautiful. A welcome arch was also built at the entrance of the village, with words such as "Congratulations to the groom Zhou Haidong and the bride Deng Yunzhu on their happy marriage."

In front of the temporary stove, several chefs invited by the Zhou family were also busy preparing for the noon wedding banquet.

Today's wedding scene is the first of its kind in the village.

Whether it is in a rural area or a city, unless the wedding is just setting up a few tables, if the scale is a little larger, then the villagers in the same village will have to invite people. Like today's wedding of the Zhou family, which is quite large, naturally The whole village was invited.

At this moment, the villagers in Shixi Village gathered together and talked about today's wedding banquet.

"Lao Zhou is indeed the most capable person in our village. I heard that he personally helped find his rich and powerful daughter-in-law."

"They say the bride is rich and powerful. Is there any specific explanation for this?"

"You don't know yet?"

"what do you know?"

"The bride is a big business boss. After meeting Haidong, she spent hundreds of thousands to buy a shop here in Guangzhou, and then opened a hot pot restaurant called Lameizi. And I heard , The bride also has several hot pot restaurants in Guangxi, and her net worth is at least one or two million, which is very impressive. "

"Oh my god, are you so rich?"

"What do you think? The most enviable thing is that all this money belongs to the bride. She married into the old Zhou family, and these properties can be regarded as her dowry. As soon as Haidong gets married today, he will immediately become rich and become the owner of our village. The richest man."

"Isn't it? One or two million yuan as dowry, are you sure you're not joking?"

"I can't believe it either, but that's the truth. You have to believe it if you don't believe it."

"Damn it, how rich is this bride's family before they are willing to let their daughter get married with one or two million in property?"

"I don't know about this. Anyway, the bride's family must be very rich, otherwise this kind of thing would not happen."

"It is said that the bride's brother is a higher official than Lao Zhou. Is this true?"

"This is what Lao Zhou said himself, so it shouldn't be wrong."

"It's really awesome. Before Lao Zhou retired, he was already the biggest official in our village. How old is the bride's brother now? He is already a bigger official than Lao Zhou. This is simply too scary. ”

"If you don't say that this bride is amazing, the old Zhou family is really smoking from their ancestral graves if they can marry such a daughter-in-law!"

"The more I talk about it, the more envious I become. Haidong's life is so good!"

"..."

The villagers gathered together in small groups, and the conversation focused on today's bride.

The more important relatives and friends of the Zhou family are all ready to welcome the wedding guests. Today they will try their best to satisfy the wedding guests.

At close to eleven o'clock in the morning, the wedding car that went to pick up the bride finally came back.

As the father of the bride, Deng Shirong was naturally the most distinguished guest today. Naturally, he was riding in a car. When he arrived at his destination, he saw the festive decorations in the whole village, which made him smile with satisfaction.

The Zhou family was very considerate about this wedding.

After getting off the car, Old Man Zhou came to greet Deng Shirong immediately. From now on, the two of them are in-laws.

The Zhou family also arranged enough people to greet other guests who came to see the bride.

After inviting Deng Shirong and others to the house for tea, Old Man Zhou made a few polite remarks and then took his son and daughter-in-law to worship their ancestors.

After returning, Zhou's father and mother went on stage to give a speech. Both of them had worked in public institutions for decades. Before Zhou's father retired, he had reached the level of a director. It was natural that they could not defeat them in giving a speech at their son's wedding.

After they finished speaking, Deng Shirong, as the parent of the bride, was naturally invited to the stage to give a speech.

"Dear guests, relatives, and fellow villagers of Shixi Village: Hello everyone!"

Deng Shirong did not prepare a speech in advance, and he improvised as soon as he came on stage: "Thank you all for coming to the wedding banquet of my daughter Deng Yunzhu and son-in-law Zhou Haidong, thank you for coming to witness the couple entering the marriage hall, and thank you for sending good wishes to the happy couple. On behalf of my family, I wish everyone present a happy family, a harmonious life, good health, and a thriving career.

At this festive moment, as a father, my mood at the moment is full of joy and anxiety.

The joy is that my beloved daughter Deng Yunzhu has completed the previous stage of her life, and the next stage of her life will be walked by you. In the future, you and your beloved will spend it together.

As a father, I am always happy for you in my heart.

Anxious Yes, your father can no longer accompany you on the road ahead.

The future needs to be created by you and your partner. You are a wife today, and you will be a mother in the future. These stages of life are all wonderful in their own ways, and they all depend on you to manage and improve them.

Fortunately, you already have your own careers and are fully capable of grasping your own happiness.

As a father, the only thing I hope for you is that you must cherish yourself on the road to your future life and family. Health and peace are the greatest wealth given to you in the future. I think this is not only my hope, but also the hope of your relatives and family members and all the guests who come to bless you today.

There are still many things I want to say, but I can only turn them into blessings at this moment, and silently bless you. At the same time, I also wish all the guests good health and all the best. Thank you! "

As soon as the voice fell, thunderous applause broke out in the audience.

The Zhou family was amazed when they heard it. It was really amazing that this impromptu speech could be delivered at such a level.

Only Old Man Zhou was not surprised. He had chatted with Uncle Jiu a lot and knew that he was a very talkative person. It was natural for him to speak like this without difficulty.

Next, the bride and groom also went up to give a speech, and then announced the start of the feast.

As the delicious dishes were served, the guests' attention was firmly attracted.

The Zhou family also spent a lot of money on today's meal. Not only were the dishes rich, but they also invited several chefs to cook. The taste was also outstanding. All the guests praised it, especially the villagers of Shixi Village. They have participated in wedding banquets many times in recent years, but the food of today's wedding banquet is undoubtedly ranked first.

This wedding banquet lasted until about two o'clock in the afternoon, and it was basically over.

Deng Shirong and others naturally would not stay at the man's house for long. After the meal, they stayed to drink tea for more than ten minutes. As the guests who saw off the bride, they should go home.