Go back to 1980 and enjoy it

In the circle of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in later generations, there is a shocking saying called "the hatred of confinement is irreconcilable."

Even if you search the Internet, you will find countless examples. Basically, it is because the daughter-in-law encountered some bad things during the confinement period, which made them hate their mother-in-law with gnashing of teeth.

What happened in just over a month will become a hurdle that they will never get over for the rest of their lives.

As the saying goes, there is no smoke without fire. Even if the saying "confinement between confinement is irreconcilable" is a bit exaggerated, it can become one of the hottest topics in the circle of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. This means that when the daughter-in-law is in confinement, as a Parents-in-law really need to pay attention.

In his previous life, Deng Shirong, in his later years, besides reading novels, he also watched short videos or news.

Although there is a lot of poisonous content on the Internet, and many contents are of mixed quality and difficult to distinguish between true and false, there are indeed some words worth pondering. At that time, Deng Shirong drank a lot of this kind of chicken soup. Combined with his own experience, it also made him realize some things. Overall, he gained a lot.

For example, how to treat his daughter-in-law is one of Deng Shirong's gains.

Facts have proved that Deng Shirong's method is very correct. From the time his eldest daughter-in-law married into the Deng family, the family has always been harmonious and beautiful. Every little daughter-in-law in the village counts. Who doesn't envy her eldest daughter-in-law?

Many so-called confinement grudges in later generations were not that serious originally. Some things will be over after confinement and will not really be remembered for a lifetime.

But I am afraid of comparison in everything. I had already forgotten the unpleasant things that happened during the confinement period, but then I turned around and talked about this topic with other sisters, classmates, colleagues, and mothers of my children’s classmates who also had the confinement period.

After comparison, I found that the treatment that others enjoy during confinement is something that I can't even match. Especially when the person you compare with is inferior to you in all aspects, your psychology will naturally become unbalanced, and you will never forget things that you should have forgotten. Every time I mentioned confinement confinement to others, I would always sneer at my parents-in-law.

In his previous life, Deng Shirong often heard gossip about this in the village. For example, during the confinement period, whose mother-in-law killed so many chickens to cook ginger wine for her daughter-in-law to eat, and whose daughter-in-law gave birth to a daughter who didn’t even eat a chicken. , whose daughter-in-law has to cook and wash her own clothes the day after giving birth, whose daughter-in-law doesn’t even need to wash her own underwear, etc.

Since this kind of comparison is unavoidable, Deng Shirong must make his daughter-in-law stand out. No matter which family he compares with, he will never lose.

Therefore, the confinement treatment that Zhang Xiuping enjoys now really makes the whole village stunned.

First of all, in terms of food, one chicken is boiled with ginger wine every day, and other dishes are also eaten in different ways. This alone has wiped out the entire Naye Village's daughter-in-law, and there is no daughter-in-law in any family. You can enjoy such treatment during confinement.

If when it comes to eating, it depends on economic conditions, then what follows is purely about emotions.

For example, during Zhang Xiuping's confinement period, she never touched a drop of cold water or washed a single piece of clothing. Even the water for bathing was boiled by her sister-in-law with maple leaves and brought to her in the bathroom. She didn't have to hold her baby in her arms in the middle of the night. There coax.

No matter it was day or night, as long as the child cried for more than one minute, my sister-in-law would immediately appear and take the child away.

In short, Zhang Xiuping is sitting so comfortably during this confinement. With good nutrition and a good mood, her health is getting better day by day. For other little wives, the confinement is like a year, but she has already reached the full moon without feeling anything. .

"Sister Ping, when I am in confinement, if I can receive half the treatment you do, I will thank my ancestors properly!" Ou Guohua said with emotion on her face.

Zhang Xiuping smiled and said: "Don't worry, I will ask Brother Tai to discuss this issue with your Ayuan later. Let's not talk about anything else. When I am in confinement, I will definitely not be without you in terms of food." , not to mention eating a chicken a day, but at least there is ginger wine for you with every meal.

As for the rest, it depends on whether your mother-in-law is willing to do so. It is not appropriate to talk about this kind of thing, lest your mother-in-law be unhappy. "

Ou Guohuadao: "I'm not too worried about food. Even if my brother-in-law doesn't mention it to my Ayuan, I believe that my mother-in-law won't treat me badly in this regard. After all, the family hasn't been separated yet, and my Ayuan is a family member." The mainstay of my life, no one with any brains would skip my food during confinement period.”

Ou Guofang nodded and said: "Indeed, the other people's combined income is not as much as your A Yuan's. If you are not willing to give you good food during confinement, then it is better to separate the families and live separately. ”

Ou Guohua sighed: "As daughters-in-law, some of us don't want to separate the family and live our own lives. The key point is that it's not us who have the final say whether to separate the family, but the parents-in-law. If the parents-in-law don't If you agree to divide the family, then the family will not be divided.”

Zhang Xiuping quickly advised: "Ah Hua, it's better not to think about the separation of the family in the next two or three years. If the villagers know about it, they will gossip behind your back. Of course, if your mother-in-law is really not good to you, there is no need to be too harsh. If your father-in-law and mother-in-law don't agree to the separation of the family, then ask my father-in-law for help. "

Ou Guofang said: "Yes, Ah Hua, don't worry. If we get to that point, Jiu Gong will come forward, and whether we separate or not is just a matter of words."

Ou Guohua thought of Jiugong's prestige in the village and couldn't help but smile: "That's true. I'll talk to my Ayuan first tonight and let him find a chance to find out what my parents-in-law say and see if they agree with me. Go to the county town to give birth, and then see how they treat me when I am in confinement.

As long as they don't go too far, I won't argue with them for the sake of my family, A Yuan. "

Zhang Xiuping smiled and said: "It's good if you can think like this."

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As mentioned before, in the full-moon wine custom in Shuangwang Realm, it is important to have the boy first and the woman behind. If a boy is born, he can have a full-moon wine in advance, but if the baby is a girl, there is no way to do it in advance and can only be postponed.

Although Xiaodong'er was one full moon on November 11th, Deng Shirong still postponed his eldest granddaughter's full moon wine to the 17th day.

On the afternoon of the 16th, guests began to arrive one after another, including members of the county theater troupe.

The people who came to help also started to butcher the pigs and prepare the more time-consuming hard dishes in advance.

Deng Shirong's family has held several large and small banquets for more than a year. The eldest daughter is already very experienced and can arrange all kinds of things in an orderly manner without Deng Shirong's intervention.