Things before and after marriage

Chapter 37 Ziming's First Love

Zhao Ziming once had a girlfriend when he was in college, and it was his first love.The two hit it off in the library at the time, and they fell in love with each other naturally.After that, you and I were out of control, because young people certainly don't know how to hold back, and quickly broke through the last line of defense.

He was determined to marry her at that time, and he took her back to meet his elders in his senior year.Who knows that the other party's family is poor and from other provinces, with different living habits and ideas, and strongly opposes the two of them dating, let alone getting married.

He was sad and angry at the time. He knew that his hometown had always been xenophobic, but he didn't expect his parents to be the same.He insisted on going on with the other party and stated that he would get married after graduation. Of course, the final result was to fall out with his parents.His father stated on the spot that if he insisted, he would not have the right to inherit the family business and cut off his financial support.

At that time, he was young and frivolous, and only knew how to be crazy about love.

Without hesitation, he chose to advance and retreat with his first love girlfriend, and took his girlfriend back to school regardless of his mother's sad crying.As a young man, he believes that with time, his parents will finally understand and accept his first love girlfriend.

However, not all pure love can stand the test of time and withstand the challenges of life.

After graduation, my girlfriend said that she likes the warm weather in the south and wants to work in the south all the time.Of course Ziming agreed happily, after all he never thought of leaving his hometown too far.

The two went to G City to work together and started living together.At the beginning, it was very sentimental and sweet.But with the passage of time, various problems followed, slowly accumulated and then broke out.

My girlfriend likes spicy food, especially spicy food, and he will accommodate her.However, southerners have never had a stomach trained in chili peppers since they were young, so they can't stand such a big stimulus.After eating back and forth, his eyes were full of gold stars, and his stomach hurt unbearably.Finally, one time he couldn't help complaining, he could reduce the chili peppers appropriately or take a few Cantonese dishes at intervals, but his girlfriend was furious, saying that he didn't love her and didn't want to accommodate her.He was complaining at the time, why do you love me?You have never accommodated me to eat lightly, not even once.He recalled the little things between the two of them since they fell in love, as if he had been accommodating her all the time, and felt inexplicably sad.But even so, he comforted himself that it was a trivial matter.

His girlfriend likes to buy brand-name bags. When he first fell in love, he had family support. Ziming didn't think there was anything wrong with it.Later, I fell out with my family, so naturally I couldn't do whatever I wanted.At the beginning, he tried his best to satisfy his girlfriend's wish even if he was mean to himself.But after all, the two have just graduated and their salary is limited. After many times, Ziming tried to hint that his girlfriend should reduce it appropriately. When the salary increases in the future, it may not be necessary to compensate.

But I don't want my girlfriend to take the opportunity to have a big fight, saying that he is not capable enough to make her suffer all kinds of grievances, and she is unwilling to satisfy her only preference.Fu also accused Ziming's parents of being cruel, and asked whether his parents secretly accepted him, whether he was reluctant to spend money for her and did not take it out.My girlfriend looked angry, and her words were very hurtful. Ziming felt inferior, sad and angry. You said I could, but why did you accuse my parents.That time Zi Ming did not coax her for the first time, and for the first time there was a estrangement between the two.

After that, there were several quarrels one after another, each time over shopping issues such as buying bags and jewelry. Ziming began to feel that there were serious differences in the three views of the two.Even so, he comforted himself that as long as the two truly love each other and overcome each other, these are not big problems.

But this is just his wishful thinking.After Ziming failed to meet his girlfriend's request again and bought back a certain brand-name bag on time, his girlfriend persuaded Ziming to apologize to his parents and admit his mistakes in order to obtain their forgiveness and financial assistance.Ziming was stunned at the time, his girlfriend let him admit his mistake at the beginning, he was comforting himself, he secretly rejoiced that she was still considerate of him, and hoped that he would reconcile with his parents.But later, when she asked him to reach out to his parents, he was immediately disheartened. It turned out that she was still buying bags.

He thought of the two years since their relationship, every time his girlfriend saw the famous products displayed in the window, the greedy and obsessive look in her eyes, could it be that he was no better than a bag?
He didn't object, but asked tentatively, "The condition for my dad to forgive me is that he must break up with you. Are you willing to do that?"

After saying that, Ziming regretted it. He shouldn't have said that.Crying in my heart, saying that you don't want to, you must be unwilling.

But his girlfriend said, "We can pretend to break up, but we can just be together secretly." All his hopes were shattered.

Still unwilling to give up, he asked fiercely, "But you won't be able to marry me like this. Are you willing to be a mistress?"

The girlfriend finally realized that Ziming was angry, and she timidly stopped the topic.

That night, Ziming did not hug her to sleep as usual.

I don't know why, in my dream, the girlfriend's obsessive look in front of the window always appears repeatedly. Why isn't that look for him?He asked repeatedly in his dream, but there was no answer.

(End of this chapter)