Chapter 354 Family Conflict
The life of the "little son-in-law, a shelf worker" can be described as a life of "boasting".

The work I did when I was young was single to the point of monotony.But it never occurred to him to switch jobs.

Like his "big brother", be a versatile and hard-working man.

Even if the "wage" earned is getting less and less and it is difficult to support the family, we will just make do with it and deal with it.Anyway, his wife is becoming more and more diligent.His income is not enough for the whole family's expenses, so his wife makes money to supplement it.

As long as he can barely get by, the "little son-in-law's shelf worker" still works for 10 days and a half months, and "plays" for more than half a month.

This is the case every month, every year.

Never change.

I don't know if there is a mysterious force in the dark. The "little son-in-law who does not want to make progress" provokes "the punishment from heaven". He and the "Zhou family's youngest daughter" later had two more children, both daughters.

In this way, there will be "five golden flowers" in the house.

Under such circumstances, the burden on the family has become heavier.However, the income of the "little son-in-law who works as a shelf worker" has never seen a significant increase.

Not to mention growth, even maintaining the existing "annual income" seems very difficult and extremely strenuous.

Under such circumstances, the "little daughter of the Zhou family" has to take care of the two newborn dolls while also thinking about earning money to support the family.It is really overwhelming.

In such a situation, she is also a little "desperate", and she is no longer willing to have a sixth child.Raising these 6 daughters now feels unaffordable.In addition, speaking from her true inner thoughts, the "youngest daughter of the Zhou family" does not have such big requirements for raising a son or a daughter, or in other words, she is not so "preferring sons over daughters."

And the "little son-in-law" who has always been the leader who "wants to have a son", because he himself failed to live up to his expectations, his wives gave birth to him one after another, but still could not give birth to a son.Scientifically speaking, this is a "chromosome" problem.Women only provide "X" chromosomes, while men can only provide "X" chromosomes, or they can provide "Y" chromosomes... and the birth of a son must involve the participation of "Y" chromosomes.Therefore, from a scientific point of view, whether to have a child or a daughter ultimately depends on whether the man provides "X" or "Y".

Wouldn’t this biggest responsibility all fall on the man’s head?

Although the "little son-in-law is a shelf worker" is uneducated, he likes to brag and fart with others, chatting with others.Therefore, he also quite understands the above-mentioned truth (mainly because he has listened too much. Everyone says this, and he also accepts such a "scientific conclusion").

In this case, the "young son-in-law's frame worker" cannot blame his wife for not being able to live up to expectations, but he can only blame himself for not being strong enough.

There is absolutely no way to blame the other party.They also worked very hard to give birth to 5 babies for you, and in the process, there was another one that they "voluntarily didn't want".Otherwise, it would be 6 babies.

Ever since I lost that one, I feel that my body is going from bad to worse, and then I get pregnant again, even if it is a daughter again, I can only have it.Otherwise, I am afraid that there will be too much "flow", which will hurt the most.

But after actually raising five "golden flowers", the couple reached their "limit". "The little daughter of the Zhou family" is determined not to want it anymore.

And the "little son-in-law who works hard" thought he wanted a son, but he couldn't bear it.In addition, it is gradually difficult for him to raise even five daughters, and he has to rely on his wife to go out to work as a "front-line general worker" to bear most of the "family expenses".

Under such circumstances, he couldn't get angry.I dare not ask my wife what to do.

Then just "make do" with it.

But family expenses are getting bigger and bigger, while income is showing signs of gradually "shrinking".It is actually difficult to "make do with it".

Under such circumstances, the "little son-in-law who works as a shelf worker" is a bit "put. Rotten".Whether the family has enough money or not, anyway, he has never been like his deceased "big brother" who would do a lot of "part-time" jobs to maintain family expenses.Continuously accumulating income.

The "little son-in-law who works as a shelf worker" always creates that little "income" for the family, and this "income" has even "shrunk" significantly compared to ten or 20 years ago.As for the price level, the higher it goes, the higher it will be, and it is impossible to return to the previous level.

Life is getting harder and harder.

For example, the tuition fees for the kindergartens of the daughters are almost all in arrears "every period".It was not until the end of the semester that I was in arrears from the beginning of the semester that I made it up.

The "kindergarten" also aimed at his daughter as an "old student", and paid the "food fee" on a monthly basis, so the children were not prevented from entering the kindergarten.But at the end of each semester, there is always a constant "urging" of tuition fees.It was hard to get the tuition up.

As for the daughters who have gone to primary and junior high schools, it is even more commonplace to owe books and miscellaneous fees.

It is said that it is "nine-year compulsory education", which actually exempts "tuition fees", but some so-called "book and miscellaneous fees" must be paid.In addition, after reaching the "senior grade of elementary school" and "junior high school", the school also charges a so-called "after-school tutoring and reading fee".Its nature is somewhat similar to a "cram school".But now, the higher authorities have repeatedly ordered that schools are not allowed to open cram schools, and schools do not have the courage to continue to do so.

It has opened a famous hall, and the fees are much cheaper.The courses are not as heavy as "crash classes", so they can still be offered.

The above miscellaneous fees must be paid to the school.

Although each part may not seem like much, when added up, it adds up to a lot.

According to the "little son-in-law's" family's income level and income situation, the "youngest daughter of the Zhou family" can often only ensure the tuition fees for two of her daughters to attend "kindergarten".There is also a daughter who is in kindergarten, and the tuition and board expenses can only be repaid slowly by the method of "delinquent".

As for the eldest two daughters, who have already gone to the upper grades of primary school and junior high school respectively, and cannot pay the miscellaneous fees for books, they can only be "in arrears" first.It is often delayed until the end of the semester, and then try to make up for the "make-up payment".

If you meet a talkative school and homeroom teacher, then let her go.

But there are also "teachers in charge" who are not easy to talk about.Feeling that it is difficult for you students to collect money, which affects her to collect the money received and turn it in, she adopted a "collection trick" that is said to have a long history.

That is, write down the list of students who have not "paid miscellaneous and book fees" in time on the upper right corner of the "blackboard".No one is allowed to wipe.To keep "hanging up" until a primary school student has paid the fee, the name of that student will be erased.

There are more than 20 students who are "hanged" in the upper right corner of the "blackboard" every semester.

Don't be surprised.

The primary schools in this township do not strictly "control" the total number of students in each class like the primary schools in the city.Most of the time, more than 80 students can be "squeezed" into a class.

It is precisely because each class is seriously "overcrowded" that there are more than 20 students who may owe miscellaneous fees and textbook fees.

The head teacher used such tricks, and the effect was quite obvious.

After all, students in the upper grades of elementary school have to be sensible and sensible.At least know "losing face".Feeling that my name has been "hanging" on the "blackboard", no matter how you look at it, it feels harsh.It's a very disgraceful thing.

Of course, elementary school students will go home and try their best to urge their parents (if their parents go to work in other places, they urge their grandparents) to pay them all the miscellaneous expenses and book fees.

After paying in full, the names on the "blackboard" list will gradually decrease.

But no matter what, the daughter of the "little son-in-law who works as a framer" appears in the upper right corner of the "blackboard" almost every semester.And the time when her name was erased was often ranked first or second from the "last".

It was embarrassing to "hang" my name on the "blackboard" until the final stage. This situation greatly frustrated the "daughter"'s mood of studying.

I really don't want to go to school, so why would I want to "study hard", get into a better university in the future, and change my destiny? !

Anyway, that's how it got mixed up.I don't want to read anymore.

But what can be done?According to the deteriorating family income of the "little son-in-law who works as a shelf worker", it is considered very good to be able to "make up" the tuition and miscellaneous fees at the "last moment".

The expenses for the education of the daughters are not enough, and the expenses of the family are not enough. The "little daughter of the Zhou family" also complains about her husband.

But the "little son-in-law who puts on the shelf" is completely "letting and rotten" with the attitude of "a dead pig is not afraid of boiling water", so what if you are "full of complaints"?In short, he was not at home all year round, and she complained a lot, but he couldn't hear most of them.

"The little daughter of the Zhou family" has now become calm and tired.From then on, I gave up the idea of ​​continuing to strive for a "son".

I can't even take care of five children. If I continue to have children, wouldn't it be "asking for trouble"?

Even if you are exhausted, you don't have a husband to pity you.

In short, at this point, the "little son-in-law, a frame worker" has no shame in asking his wife to do anything.
But he doesn't want a son, "It's easy to change the country, but it's hard to change the nature." He likes to have dinner with others, bragging and farting personality, which is hard to change when he grows old.

For a person like him, the greatest pleasure in life is eating and drinking.If a fair-weather friend "summons" you by phone, he will arrive immediately.I would never say that I would be shy and refuse to go even if I had something to eat.

Eating food and wine invited by friends, talking nonsense, I feel that this kind of life is complete.

When the "little son-in-law, the scaffolder" was young, he only drank beer.When he gets older, he can drink any kind of white beer, as long as he is "dipped" in it.

And the "wine quality" is not high at all.Every time I drink, I always drink a few bowls, drinking it like water.Originally, the alcohol content of that wine was not too high, only ten or twenty degrees, but he could even get drunk with this "degree" alcohol, so it can be seen that the amount he drank was also very scary.

Moreover, there is also a set of "hidden rules" in the way that wine and meat friends "maintain the banquet relationship".For example, today XX invites several other "friends".Then, one or two days later, one of the other "friends" will invite the rest of the friends back... In this way, you invite me and I invite you, just like "taking turns to be a dealer".If anyone among them just wants to eat other people's food, don't "return".Gradually be seen through by friends, when they have food and drink, they will not invite you again.

It is so "clear distinction between grudges and grudges".

The "little son-in-law frame worker" must also abide by the above-mentioned "rules".

In this way, the hard-charging "big-headed shrimp" who "eating and drinking" with the "friends" has also become part of the additional expenses of the "little son-in-law who works as a shelf worker".

Already living a "tight" life, he has to spend part of the money to maintain his "decent" among "friends".

Such behavior is really "chilling" to my wife and children.

What's more, sometimes the "little son-in-law, the frame worker" really can't afford the money to show off his pride, so he simply steals two bags of the "rice" that his wife and "mother-in-law" have worked so hard to grow together, and sells it. , in exchange for three or four hundred yuan, and take it to invite "wine and meat friends".

The "little daughter of the Zhou family" was so angry that she couldn't speak.

It is precisely because of the lack of family expenses that she works so hard with her "mother-in-law" to plant rice twice a year in the field she owns.

In a year, there are only two times of "throwing disaster" and "harvesting", which are relatively busy.Planting two rice crops a year means four busy periods.It's just busy for a few days at a time.But the "rice" that can be received in a year is enough to eat and have more than enough.

There are so many people in the family every year, and the money to buy rice can be saved, and there are thousands of dollars.After all, today's "rice" price is not low.Very common early rice is sold for more than 2.5 yuan.

The "youngest daughter of the Zhou family" worked so hard to "manage the family well", but her husband did not live up to her expectations at all. He secretly took the rice that she and her "mother-in-law" had grown so hard and sold it for two to three hundred kilograms. In exchange for money, he invited his pig and dog friends.

What kind of husband is this!
"The little daughter of the Zhou family" was absolutely furious.

The "little son-in-law who works like a jerk" has done such "outrage" things, and his "precarious" position in the family has become more and more "declining".

Not only his wife and mother look down on him a little. After the "youngest daughter of the Zhou family" got to a certain age, she also became fond of nagging others.There was no other suitable "person to talk to" about this kind of thing, so she kept telling her daughters about the many shortcomings of her "little son-in-law"!

Years and months of persistent and persistent criticism, the final result is that all five daughters have been "brainwashed" by her.

This kind of special "brainwashing" directly caused the "five golden flowers" in the family to "disdain" their father.

Once established concepts are formed, they are not easy to change. The "little son-in-law who works as a shelf worker" has been trying to "create" a positive image of himself among relatives and friends all his life.The results of it?But because of stealing and selling a few bags of "rice" at home, her image in the eyes of her daughters has dropped directly below the "passing line".

It is impossible for this kind of father to be recognized by the children, let alone "worship".

In the eyes of the daughters, the whole family is supported by the mother alone, raising them up and earning hard money for their education... In short, in the eyes of the daughters, their mother is the greatest.

How would the "little son-in-law, the shelf worker" feel if he knew that his daughters had such a low opinion of him? !
When you are young, you may feel guilty.When he gets older, he probably has a thick skin, so he doesn't care at all!
(End of this chapter)

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