I beat animals and picked up debris in the courtyard of the heavens

Chapter 269

In life, the most we hear is, "Son, your parents will be like this in this life, our greatest hope in this life is on you, you can't let us down."

Qinqin's mother in the play really took a lot of effort to send Qinqin abroad.First, he was planning to sell the house to raise money, and then he was thinking about letting Qinqin accompany Xiaoyu when he was sent abroad. Finally, he planned to adopt Qinqin to his biological sister in order to obtain American citizenship and go to an American public school.

It is said that it is not easy for parents, but in fact, the lives of children nowadays are also very difficult.While they have their own dreams in their hearts, they also have the mission of fulfilling the dreams of their parents. They seem to be alone, but they have the dreams of two or even three generations on their heads. This is really too much pressure for them. Growing up, when people are paying too much attention to their children's bright future, they ignore their true thoughts.

Parents expect their children to have a wonderful life, so it is inevitable to use their own rigid conditions to demand the next generation.There are many definitions of excellence, and it doesn't have to be rich. To be famous is to be considered as not wasting your life in vain.

Who said that ordinary happiness is not great.In the play, Grandpa Dodo read a poem, and it hit me in minutes: When a person grafts his dreams onto others, the meaning of this person's existence in this world is only to help others to achieve their goals. Continue your own value, even if this value is really realized in the end, it has nothing to do with yourself.What a sad thing.

Fang Duoduo in the play is a girl who likes to write. Her novel "Youth Is the Craziest" is very popular on the Internet and has [-] fans.But Dodo's mother asked her to temporarily give up updating the novel for the high school entrance examination, which made Dodo very frustrated.

When we were studying, we had many dreams every day, such as "The world is so big, I want to see it"; such as becoming a writer, or becoming a star that attracts much attention.Regarding our future, we have all secretly made various plans, but in the end we have to step out of our own blueprint and return to the mountain of books and the sea of ​​questions under the pressure of teachers and parents.

I have been very interested in writing since junior high school, and every time I write, I always feel that I have endless things to say.But because the schoolwork was too intense at that time, I could only use my spare time to secretly write a little on white paper every day, and then copied it to my blog when I was allowed to play with the computer.It was like, even though I can’t be fully myself in life, I can when I’m writing.So I cherish every opportunity to express my heart.I always feel that in the limited time of life, having the right to express freely and share your opinions with those who are willing to listen to you is the luckiest thing in the world.

Thinking about it carefully, when we have many disagreements and conflicts with our parents, we will shout that our parents do not understand us, we will cry about our grievances, and we will feel that the whole world does not understand our difficulties.

But we often overlook that behind the quarrel, the more helpless person may be the parents.The shouts that broke out at that moment were all real venting, but looking back, those unscrupulous words without thinking are the most unacceptable pain for parents.

But most of the time, parents can only comfort each other and support each other, saying that the child is still young and will be fine when he grows up.

In high school, I went through a rebellious period. I didn't study well in class and used my mobile phone to send text messages to my classmates. When my parents handed me a long list of phone bills, I was dumbfounded.Later, my parents severely criticized me, then told me, "Think about it yourself" and closed the door. 15 minutes later, my father asked me to eat because my voice was hoarse from anger.

All of a sudden, I regretted so much, I was angry at myself for not studying hard and complained about my indiscriminate words just now. The reasons I made for myself in my panic at the beginning became excuses in an instant.Just like this scene in the play, even if there is a fierce quarrel between the parents and the child, the most sad thing is not the child, but the helpless and crying parents, and all this can only be realized after all the children grow up.

One issue of "Qi Pa Shuo" is a debate on death.The words Gao Xiaosong said hit the screen in Moments: You are the star, I am the star next to you, and my entire trajectory is affected by you.Even if one day this star goes out, it turns into dark matter, it becomes something invisible, it is still affecting my trajectory. Your appearance will forever change my star trajectory, no matter where you are.In our education, we rarely talk about separation. Even when we talk about death, we have to stamp our feet three times and touch the wood again to feel that the bad luck has been removed.

So we are never ready for parting, or we are afraid of parting, and we are afraid that the friends and family members who used to get along with us day and night will leave us.

In this drama, Dodo's mother and Qinqin's father could not accept the child's going abroad at first. What they hoped was that the child would stay with them forever, and they could not leave Beijing even if they went to university or even found a job in the future.

In fact, I am also the same. For a person who hopes to achieve perfection in everything, I always hope that there will be encounters in my life from time to time, and those parting dramas will be as few as possible.

For example, I am extremely excited every time I go home from vacation, but when school starts, I am always depressed.Because I still can't accept living alone outside, I'm used to being sheltered, and I'm used to just saying what I want to eat, and my parents will immediately go to the kitchen to get busy, so I'm not used to facing the world's intrigues alone.

But think about it, life always seems to be parting.We cannot hear the words "your parents will not stay with you forever", but it seems to be a fact that will happen sooner or later.

Therefore, "Little Farewell" allows Chinese parents and children to experience parting in advance. It is precisely because this drama truly restores the reluctance and entanglement at the time of parting that it reminds us to cherish the time together so that we will not regret it in the future.I really hope that this drama can become a window of expression and display, so that more and more parents and children can respect and understand each other, and more people can understand the importance of cherishing when they have it.

Well, He Yuzhu also thought of some things that happened when he was a child, so he was so emotional. In fact, when he grew up, he felt that everything was so natural.Although there are many shortcomings, this is life, isn't it? !
When He Yuzhu was feeling emotional, Dong Wenjie and the others were also watching the inventory, watching their future experiences scene by scene, and they were also secretly emotional!

Especially when Fang Duoduo and the others found out that their little secret suddenly appeared in the inventory, they really felt like they were dying...

(End of this chapter)