I beat animals and picked up debris in the courtyard of the heavens

Chapter 268 Fang Duoduo

This drama is about parent-child education, and things about Dong Wenjie are secondary!
Let’s talk about the three children first, Fang Duoduo is the first one. Fang Duoduo’s family is equivalent to a middle-class family in Beijing. His father, Fang Yuan, was an ophthalmologist in a hospital at the beginning. Later, due to an accidental medical accident, Unwilling to accept being sent to surrounding hospitals by the leadership, he chose to resign.

Mother Tong Wenjie is a strong woman who works as a sales manager in a cosmetics company.When Dodo was preparing to go abroad, they talked about the approximate family income. The family’s annual salary was about 50 yuan, and they had to pay for housing, which was barely enough to send their daughter to the United States.

Fang Duoduo has a strong mother, Tong Wenjie, because her parents left her prematurely, Wenjie has always felt that Duoduo is the only person in the world who is related to her by blood, and puts all her hopes on Duoduo .

She had always wanted to keep Dodo by her side for high school and college.But Dodo can't stand her attaching too much importance to scores, Dodo thinks that she is just a score machine in the eyes of her mother.If you get a high score, your mother is happy; if you get a low score, your mother will blame her.

Dodo even suffers from pre-exam anxiety.Dad Fangyuan feels that if this continues, Duoduo will be ruined alive.So I tried to let Dodo take the TOEFL and SSAT, and tried to go to the United States to study in high school.

In order to go to a high school in the United States, Dodo studies very hard, and finally gets admitted to the American girls' school she longs for with excellent grades.Without the pressure of further studies, I took the senior high school entrance examination with a relaxed mind, and unexpectedly received the admission letter from Beijing No. [-] Middle School.

Tong Wenjie wanted to give up Dodo's plan to study abroad, but Dodo insisted that she must study abroad. She said that if she studied in China in high school, she would really collapse if her grades were repeated like the high school entrance examination.

The second one is Zhang Xiaoyu. Zhang Xiaoyu is a rich second generation. His father, Zhang Liangzhong, runs a company in Beijing where every inch of land is expensive, and they live in big suites.However, Xiaoyu's mother died early, and his father married a second-time wife who was only a little older than Xiaoyu.The biggest feature of this company is that it is not short of money. The only downside is that Xiaoyu's grades are too poor. It is too difficult to go to high school in the United States based on grades alone.

Xiaoyu's father originally thought that as long as he donated money, he could get his son into a famous American school, but he found out that he was cheated by the intermediary.Later, I heard that the TOEFL score in Australia was low, so I sent Xiaoyu to Australia.In Australia, Xiaoyu went to do illegal work in order to prove himself, but was condemned and sent back to China.

Xiaoyu, who returned to school, couldn't bear the sneering words of his classmates, and even got into a fight with them in the classroom.Later, with the encouragement of Dodo and her stepmother, she re-entered a high school in the United States.

The third Jin Qinqin, her study is the best among the three families, but her family background is also the most ordinary.Mother Wu Jiani is a progressive community hospital doctor. She used to be just a nurse, and her doctor's certificate was obtained through continuous efforts.

Dad Jin Zhiming is a taxi driver who is content with the status quo.Being able to live in the same community as the Zhang family of the Fang family, the house was also demolished and replaced.The annual income of the Jin family is about [-]. Just like many ordinary families, in a first-tier city like Beijing, it is enough to eat and live, and enough for their children to study in a local school. There is no way to afford that cost if they want to go abroad. .

The American aunt who fell from the sky is willing to adopt Qinqin so that she can become an American citizen and be admitted to the best school in the United States.Unable to accept it, Lao Jin started arguing with Wu Jiani and moved out of the house.

With the help of Xiaoyu and Douduo, the sensible Qinqin impresses her mother and aunt with affection, and stays in Beijing to study in a key high school.

Tong Wenjie once said: "If you can't get into a good high school, you can't get into a good university. If you can't get into a good university, how can you have a good life?"

Wu Jiani: "Actually, those white-collar workers in Beijing's CBD are really suffering. They don't earn much and spend a lot. They even have to bring their own lunch."

Zhang Liangzhong: "Xiaoyu, I have a company. There are many Peking University and Tsinghua University employees in my company. I can give you my company, but will they convince you?"

From this you can see that having knowledge is very important, and it definitely plays the most important role in supporting your life.

There has always been a popular saying in the student days, "Examination, exam, the teacher's magic weapon; score points, students' lifeblood."

The grades are good, the teacher praises the whole class, the parents smile, and all the wishes of the children can be satisfied.

But once the test fails, the child will be labeled as a "poor student", which also means that the future is worrying.Although quality education was implemented later, it did not completely change the impact of years of "cramming education" on children.

During the high school entrance examination, Dodo suffered from "exam anxiety" because she could not bear the sudden huge pressure, so Dodo's parents had to decide to send her abroad to study in high school in order to find a relaxed way of growth.

Let’s not talk about whether it is good to study abroad, but the desire of some domestic schools for scores and admission rates may very well deprive children of their right to grow up healthily and happily, leaving a shadow on their childhood, and even causing problems for the rest of their lives. The irreparable impact, until then, the child's life will really be ruined.

Faced with the pressure of their children, many families will fall into thinking about how to balance the relationship between the pressure of further education and free development. Therefore, many children and parents are struggling between the pressure of the education system and the constant emotional demands.

We were all born in ordinary families. We neither have property worth more than [-] million yuan, and we are not so poor that we eat every meal for nothing, but we have always suffered from anxiety in such ordinary families.

Dodo's academic performance is average, and she might be able to get into a key high school if she works hard, but if she fails to perform well, she can only go to general high school or vocational high school; Qinqin has excellent academic performance, but there are too many good candidates in key high schools. Going to a key high school may not be able to beat those children who have returned from studying abroad; and Xiaoyu's family is well-off, and it is a matter of minutes to go abroad, but whether he is willing to go abroad is also a question.

Nowadays, competition is fierce beyond our imagination, and middle-class families can relate to it the most.

Sometimes we are not afraid of lack of money. If we are short of money, we can work hard to make money, but we are afraid that in this society, those who have money can override the rules at will.Those who have no money cannot compete with those who are rich, and those who are rich cannot compete with those who are extremely wealthy. The worst ones are those middle-class families who are between having no money and being rich.

After all, those who are short of money can accept their fate, and those who have money can make a difference, but those families wandering in the middle are indeed a bit embarrassed.

He Yuzhu doesn't need to worry about these things now, after all, he doesn't even have children yet, but in the future, his women will have children one after another, and education may also be a problem in the future!

(End of this chapter)