Lawyer in the world of film and television

Chapter 371 271. Poor?hateful?

"It's really... You just finished a happy event, and this kind of thing happened in the end. It's really a bit unlucky."

In the evening, Zou Yu heard Zhang Wei talking about the divorce case he received in the afternoon outside, and couldn't help but shook his head and said.

Yesterday, I just blessed a romantic couple who are about to get married, and met a couple who were about to get divorced the next day.

It's really unlucky enough.

The two things collided at the same time, and I don't know if it's a good thing and a bad thing offset?
Hearing this, Zhang Wei shook his head, and said with some surprise: "There's no way, marriage and divorce are too normal now, or it's not a big deal at all.

In the past, people said that getting married means leaving for a lifetime. Nowadays, young people, who still value this kind of thing?Talking about walking for a lifetime is basically a scene.

Divorce if you feel that it is not suitable, and then divorce again if it is not suitable. I think that I can always find a suitable one.

How high is the divorce rate now?Especially in a big city like the imperial capital, some people say that the divorce rate has reached half, as if the more developed the material civilization, the higher the divorce rate.

I don't know if it is a kind of sickness brought about by development. "

Anyway, to put it simply, we have to start with an old man surnamed Yuan. One day the old man discovered in a field...

He is not aware of the origin of how much time...

The material life is relatively rich, and after people "eat too much", the divorce rate is getting higher and higher, and I don't know why.

If you're full and have nothing to do, you can beat the brat. What's the point of getting a divorce?
Zou Yu said with some emotion: "As the saying goes, a hateful person must have something to be pitiful about.

To be honest, I heard what you said just now, I feel that my husband is a bit pitiful, and his wife is indeed a big problem.

Let's talk about his wife. She stays at home every day and doesn't care if she doesn't do anything. She also hires a nanny to take care of her and the children.

In Shanghai, babysitting is not a small expense.

Even if it is like this, as a wife, she still spends money lavishly every day, living the life of a lady as she pleases.

According to what you said, her husband is in the middle of the company, not even in the top management, and he is not the kind of person with a small goal of [-] million.

How could the family's finances be so unstoppable for her to spend so much? If I were her husband, I wouldn't be able to hold on. I can only go out but not in. How is that possible?
It's just like Crayon Shin-chan's mother, no, although Crayon Shin-chan's mother has a three-layer tire belly and sleeps in every day, she still does housework anyway.

What's more, when people reach middle age, they will always encounter some mid-life crisis or something.

If your boss who is in conflict with you wants to climb up and get rid of your subordinates, the company's affairs are enough to annoy you to death.

With another oil bottle like this in the house, no matter how beautiful the love is, if it continues like this, it will turn into a nightmare.

I feel a little pity for her husband, maybe even a little sympathetic. "

Zou Yu couldn't help shaking her head at the end, as a woman, this is completely wrong, a marriage completely dependent on a man, how did this woman persist?
Do you really feel that the other party owes her?Just act like a moth so confidently?The other party owed her 800 million in his previous life?
Even your biological parents have no reason to support you like this.

Zhang Wei shook his head in disapproval when he heard this: "What you said makes sense, but the question is, anyway?
Cheating is cheating, and nothing can be used as an excuse for cheating. There is no reason for this kind of thing that can be forgiven.

It is normal for families to have conflicts and disagreements. There is no family without conflicts and disagreements.

To be honest, a family that is not noisy is too hypocritical. A family is just a noisy life. Although it is not ideal, this is life.

If there is any problem, if there is something to talk about, everyone has explained the problem clearly, in fact, there is nothing that is difficult to get through.

If her husband feels that his wife has been staying at home and he is under great financial pressure, he can say so. His wife is also a graduate of a prestigious school, so it is not too difficult to find a job.

However, for the sake of his manly self-esteem, he just wanted to wait for his wife to find out about it and tell him about it.

Then I pretended to be concerned and declined a few words, and then let my wife go out to work.

The results of it?His wife is also a fool, she didn't find out what happened, and just lived happily every day, becoming more and more a drag on the family.

As a result, one person pretended nothing had happened, while the other really didn't know that something was going on, and the contradictions piled up and grew bigger and bigger.

In the end, the more I looked at my wife, the more annoying I became, and I felt that every grass outside was fragrant.

Others only need to pretend to be gentle, and then move their fingers to hook it, and it will be successful immediately. He has no idea whether there is a Bana flower behind the vanilla. "

"Yes, cheating is wrong, that's for sure."

Zou Yu nodded when he heard this, no matter what, since you have a family, you have some kind of improper relationship outside.

Even if there are [-] million excuses, you are all wrong, this kind of thing does not distinguish between men and women.

After divorce, if you are looking for a girlfriend, no one else has the right to say anything, but absolutely not before divorce.

Because at this time you have responsibilities, you are not alone, you represent the family.

But after a divorce you are single and you only have to represent yourself.

Including after divorce in ancient times, no matter whether a man or a woman is married after divorce, no one will object to it. Don't misunderstand this point.

Cheng Yi said that starving to death is a small thing, but being dishonest is a big thing, and he was talking about widows remarrying.

Zhu Xi also agrees with this point very much, although this guy jumped up and down again and again, saying that it is understandable to remarry in some cases.

However, it is useless...

The result is that Cheng Yi's nephew and daughter-in-law who said this remarried...

But at that time, the wives of many famous celebrities remarried, and the most famous one should be Lu You's wife and cousin. Everyone should have heard of this.

There was also a law in the Ming Dynasty that forced widows to remarry. It seems that there is a law where the husband flees for three years and the government issues a divorce certificate to you.

When it came to the Qing Dynasty, which had its own national conditions, it began to encourage widows to stay widowed.

However, there are still many cases of remarriage among the people, and generally speaking, they will not be condemned.

But before the divorce...

Heh, adultery in ancient times was to be immersed in a pig cage, which was an illegal and criminal act, but I don't believe it is just a moral act.

However, Zou Yu didn't say anything more on this issue.

From her point of view, perhaps Zhang Wei hated cheating because of his wife being robbed at the previous wedding.

That's right, after all, after experiencing such a thing, I definitely hate it more than ordinary people!That is the so-called empathy.

Zhang Wei stirred his drink with a straw: "However, our client still wants to focus on mediation. It seems that he doesn't want a divorce, and it's a bit troublesome."

When Zou Yu heard this, he said without thinking: "I definitely don't want to divorce! Think about it, she relies on her husband for all her financial resources.

To put it bluntly, she may not even have the ability to support herself.

If you get divorced, your source of income will be gone, and you may not be able to live a life.

I really don't understand why there are such living women in the 21st century? "

Hearing this, Zhang Wei couldn't help complaining: "Don't tell me, this Luo Zijun's previous state was the dream of many women in the new era of the 21st century.

I don’t know how many people dream of living this kind of life, so don’t underestimate it. "

Luo Zijun's original life is simply a perfect restoration of Mary Su's novel.

My husband works part-time to earn money, and he is as beautiful as a flower, so he doesn't have to do anything at home, he just goes shopping and has a servant to serve him.

Of course, the only shortcoming is that the big face is not the face of a domineering president. If it is replaced by a big bowl of noodles, it will perfectly fit Marysu.

Zou Yu said with some disdain: "Cut, how many women think like this now? At most, they are ignorant girls who haven't entered the society."

I believe that Cinderella married into a wealthy family and fell in love at first sight. It can be said that she has no brains at all.

The milk tea younger sister married into a wealthy family, not only because of the age difference and beauty, but also because the family itself is a small wealthy family, and she is also a top student at Wudaokou Vocational College.

If you want to join a rich family, you are not good enough yourself, don't even think about it, even if it is love, you are good enough to attract each other.

It's really not because of the TV series, because a girl is stupid, the overbearing president has never seen such a stupid woman, that's why the overbearing president fell in love with her...

I have to say, it makes sense, I almost believed it.

When Zou Yu heard this, he took a sip of his drink and said: "This is a woolen dream, relying on the mountain to fall, relying on everyone to go, or relying on oneself, hard work will win.

Taizu said that women can hold up half the sky, why do you have to rely on men to support them? "

Zhang Wei nodded: "That's right, it's like what the best friend who accompanied the client said.

If you want to be independent in thought, you must first be economically independent. Talking about thought without material things is nonsense. "

Zou Yu seemed to have thought of something at this time, and said, "But this is also a reminder to us, in the future, if we have something to say, just talk about it, don't hold back the conversation.

In the end, it broke down, and the relationship between the two of them collapsed and it was over. I don't want to repeat the same mistakes again. "

"It is indeed like this, but everyone understands the truth, but few people can do it.

Sometimes, just out of face, everyone keeps everything in their hearts and just doesn't say it. "

Zhang Wei said sadly that all the truths were written in the book, but in the end he said that only a saint can do it.

"Do you think there is still a possibility for those two people to mediate?" Zou Yu asked tentatively after hearing this.

Zhang Wei bit his lips in confusion: "This is really hard to say.

how to say?There are no absolutes in everything, especially when it comes to emotionally irrational things like marriage mediation, the fluctuation of possibility is getting bigger and bigger.

Under the current state, the client's husband must feel that the mistress outside is good at everything, gentle, understanding, diligent and thrifty in housekeeping, which is something that he can't ask for in eight lifetimes.

But what about his wife?Willful, princess sick, prodigal bitch, is simply like a broom star and a door god.

It's rare for him to be able to feel guilty about his cheating.

But some people suddenly wake up at the last moment and realize what kind of person their mistress is.

Of course, there is also the kind of sober scumbag who wants to be caught outside the family, and loses everything in the end.

If it's just a simple divorce, it's no problem for her to fight for a greater benefit in this situation.

Especially according to what they said, the other party still has a certain amount of guilt, but who can say well about emotional issues? "

"Is that so?" Zou Yu couldn't help sighing when he heard this, as if he was regretting something.

Seeing Zou Yu like this, Zhang Wei felt a little strange: "Didn't you say that this woman is doing it for herself?

Why do you feel a little regretful now?If the foreword doesn't match the afterword, do you have a split personality? "

"Split the yarn. Bah, don't make me swear, okay? I'm a beautiful young woman with great qualities."

Zou Yu said to Zhang Wei with some displeasure, saying that she is a quiet and lovely girl with yellow flowers, so don't make people swear all the time.

After hearing this, Zhang Wei smiled and complained: "Be sober, you are 27 years old. You will be called aunt soon."

But at this time, Zou Yu seemed to have thought of something sad, and said sadly: "Didn't you say that? The two of them also have a child. In the final analysis, the child is the most pitiful.

Parents get divorced, no matter what happens in the end, it is the children who suffer the most.

A single-parent family is different from a family with healthy parents, both in their childhood environment and in all aspects.

Although the situation is different, I have a deep understanding of this point.

So when I think that this child may face many similar experiences as I did when I was a child, I feel a little sad, but unfortunately there is nothing I can do.

And, seriously, it takes a decade or 20 or more to start a family and grind a family together.

But when others want to destroy a family, a short period of time is enough, and it does make people feel a little scared, and even sympathize with you as the client. "

Zhang Wei didn't say anything when he heard this, but silently complained in his heart, if you can predict the future.

Knowing that she is being ruined by others in the future of her marriage, and thinking about poaching her best friend's boyfriend, she probably won't think so.

Of course, the last two people can't be together.

However, this pair of scumbags and scumbags seemed like no one deserved to be pitied.

Chen Junsheng is a scumbag emotionally, there is nothing to wash away, it's just that his actor is very good and he played him cutely.

Never bring the characters in the TV series into the real people, and never bring the real people into the characters in the TV.

　Thanks to Jiao Ci for the 100-point reward. I learned to drive today and finally took the first step on the road of an old driver.
　　
　
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