Lawyer in the world of film and television

Chapter 370
"I want to ask, if he wants a divorce and I don't agree, will he not be able to leave?
Doesn't it mean that divorce must be agreed by two people?As long as I disagree, can this marriage continue? "

Luo Zijun asked Zhang Wei with some hope. From her heart, she is absolutely unwilling to end this marriage, whether it is emotionally or financially.

She has always thought that she is the happiest family in her family. She has an excellent husband and an obedient son.

What I have to do is to fight against the loose skin, and sometimes to deal with the young girls around my husband.

Who knew that it was an ordinary-looking divorced woman with a child who destroyed her family in the end.

Luo Zijun really doesn't understand, how did she seduce her husband?

Is there anything inferior to this woman that would make my husband not hesitate to divorce him and stay with this woman?
Luo Zijun really didn't know what was going on.

Hearing this, Zhang Wei touched his chin: "How should I say it? If you insist on not agreeing, the other party will file a lawsuit if they want to divorce.

When the court hears a case where one party disagrees with the divorce, it will first conduct mediation to see if there is any possibility for the two of you to recover.

Because a lot of people get divorced because of impulsive, quarreling about buying clothes, there is a possibility of divorce.

But if mediation is invalid, and there is bigamy in the marriage, or cohabitation with others, or domestic violence.

There are also bad behaviors such as gambling or smoking X that have been taught repeatedly, or because of emotional discord and separation for two years, or you have done something that caused the relationship between husband and wife to break down.

In the end, the mediation fails, and the court will make a judgment granting divorce.

As long as there is no obvious fault in the marriage, generally speaking, even if the other party files a lawsuit, it will fail.

After all, even if it is the freedom of marriage, it is also the freedom of two people. It is not that one person can get married if he wants to, or get divorced if he wants to. "

Hearing this, Luo Zijun seemed a little surprised and said, "In this case, as long as I don't agree, you don't have to get a divorce?"

Zhang Wei looked at the optimistic Luo Zijun and shook his head: "No, if the other party is determined to divorce.

After six months of the denial of the divorce judgment, the other party can still file a new lawsuit.

When it comes to the second lawsuit, the court will probably grant the divorce.

Because obviously, six months have passed, and the other party still insists on divorce, which proves that you and your wife can no longer go on, and no matter how hard you try, it will be in vain. "

When Tang Jing heard this, she also said to Luo Zijun: "Zijun, what you have to do now is to face the reality instead of having unrealistic fantasies.

Chen Junsheng, it is obvious to him that you have completely given up on this marriage. What we need to do now is to end this failed marriage cleanly.

We have our own independent personality, we can live a good life by ourselves, no one in the world can't live without it!
You just take the other person too seriously, he is not the only one in your life, you still have yourself, your family, and Ping'er.

It's not that you can't live without him, you just don't want to face it. "

"But I just can't live without him!"

Luo Zijun almost cried when he heard this, if he didn't really love him, how could he be like this.

For the sake of love, I gave up everything about my dignity, but in the end nothing was restored.

Tang Jing sighed helplessly when she heard this: "I told you that at the beginning, but you never listened, why do you insist on telling me that I am so tired from work?
Never underestimate the cruelty of a man when he breaks up. The most stupid thing for a woman is to give up her job for the so-called family.

If you want to be independent in thought, you must first be financially independent, at least you can support yourself when the song is over, and you can continue to live with dignity!
But what about you now?Do you still have dignity?Even if this relationship is really about to end, you have to end it with dignity, otherwise it will only make Chen Junsheng hate you even more.

do you know? "

Hearing this, Zhang Wei scratched his nose beside him, not knowing what to say.

Why do people like to use such big general words as men and women when they say things, the attack range is very large...

It's like meeting a man, a woman looks like this, and men and women all over the world look the same.

"But……"

Tang Jing continued: "There is nothing but, you are not sober now, and in the end you get divorced, you will have nothing.

Think about it, are you going to lose a child?Even if Chen Junsheng is divorced, doesn't he want children?

Even if he doesn't want it, don't his parents want it? "

"Well... Actually, you can try to mediate first, and if it doesn't work, you can consider agreeing to a divorce.

This is actually not a conflict. Even our work is mainly based on mediation, and it is rare to confront Bo in court at the beginning. "

Zhang Wei scratched the hair next to his ears and said in embarrassment.

Why does it seem that if I either make up my mind to divorce, or I don't want to divorce?
Prepare with both hands. If possible, a marriage can be saved. It is better to save as much as possible. If two people don't like each other, who will get married?
It takes ten or eight years to run a family, but destroying a family can take as short as three or five days, and as long as one or two months.

So if it can be redeemed, it is better to try to redeem it, if it is not possible, then we can only see it in court.

"Okay, that's it. If mediation is possible, I still hope to mediate first."

Luo Zijun nodded immediately when she heard this. As long as there is still a little hope, she still wants to save this marriage.

Tang Jing suddenly asked at this moment: "Well, Lawyer Zhang Wei, I still have some questions to ask."

"You ask."

Tang Jing nodded, and asked her most concerned question: "My friend's husband, he cheated in marriage, if there is really a divorce in the end, he will be at fault.

Whether it's child custody or the division of property after marriage, they should take care of Zijun and her a little bit. "

"I haven't really got a divorce yet, so there's no need to think so much in advance."

When Luo Zijun heard this, she said weakly that she had never considered the issue of divorce property division at all.

In other words, I never thought about what to do after divorce.

Zhang Wei nodded and said: "Generally speaking, when divorced, only the joint property of the married couple is distributed.

Personal property before marriage, including the property that has been decided, is divided into property after marriage, which does not need to be distributed.

Generally speaking, if both parties agree to a divorce, after the two parties have negotiated, they will distribute it themselves, that is, you will negotiate the distribution of property by yourself.

If the opinions of the two parties are not unified, the court will finally make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of the property and the principle of taking care of the rights and interests of the children and the woman.

Of course, as the party at fault, the other party must make compensation. Of course, the premise is that there must be evidence, that is, evidence that proves the other party's fault in marriage.

For example, the record of opening a house, or bigamy and so on. "

Tang Jing continued to ask at this time: "Then if there is no evidence? In other words, the other party is mentally cheating, and the two seem to have no physical relationship yet.

But you have already divorced your wife for the sake of the other party. Is this also considered a marriage fault? . "

Zhang Wei shook his head with a smile when he heard this: "Theoretically speaking, it should also be considered a marriage fault.

But without evidence, it is definitely not enough. No matter what you do, you must talk about evidence, right?
If you want to say that the other party cheated, or the other party admits it, or there must be evidence, or your words are groundless. "

It is impossible for others to believe what you say. The most important thing is that you have evidence.

Tang Jing heard this and said: "He will admit it.

No, but he has now admitted that he wanted a divorce because he fell in love with another woman. "

At present, in her opinion, Chen Junsheng's only advantage is that, at least, he dares to admit what he has done.

Knowing that he admits it now, it is because he likes other women that he asked for a divorce.

Instead of making excuses for myself everywhere, pushing all the faults to others, saying that it is not my fault.

"If this is the case, as the fault party of the marriage, he must make some compensation.

But I still have some questions to ask, is that okay?
After all, I also need to understand the situation so that I can mediate better and even prepare for going to court later. "

Hearing this, Zhang Wei touched his chin and nodded, indicating that he also had some problems.

"Ok."

"Excuse me, what kind of state are you in after you get married?"

Although Zhang Wei knew a general situation, he still wanted to ask.

The first point is because I can't show my "knowledge". After all, it is a family affair, and it is impossible for ordinary people to know.

The second point is because you can't guarantee that there won't be any changes in this mixed world. If you blindly believe in the plot, you will definitely suffer a lot.

Luo Zijun nodded, and began to talk about the past between himself and his husband: "Junsheng and I met when we were in college. We were together when we were in college, and we got married as soon as we graduated from college. .

He said at that time, let me stay at home with peace of mind, and he works to support me.

Later, I was alone at home, and he was working outside, and soon we would have children.

No matter who it is, we are the most beautiful and happiest family. "

"So after getting married, your husband is working outside, and you are doing housework at home?"

When Luo Zijun heard this, he replied honestly: "No, the housework, including the children, is taken care of by a nanny. Basically, I don't need to do housework."

Zhang Wei reluctantly nodded and asked, "That is to say, after you got married, you didn't do anything and just enjoyed life at home?"

"No, he told me that I just need to stay at home with peace of mind."

What you said is too strange, you can accept it with peace of mind when others give you continuous sacrifices, even if you are a couple, you can't be like this!
The relationship in marriage needs to be managed and maintained by two people. They just blindly ask for it without paying. How can such a marriage relationship last?

And it seems that Luo Zijun didn't notice this matter at all, instead he has always been in a state of peace of mind.

"In this way, in fact, if the other party grasps this point, Ms. Luo Zijun is also at fault in the marriage.

Ms. Luo Zijun has never had a job, she just stays at home, which is a big burden for most families. "

"But he told me not to look for a job, just stay at home with peace of mind."

When Luo Zijun heard this, he absolutely refused to admit that he was at fault on this side.

Because in her opinion, this is the arrangement her husband made for her, and she just followed it. Is there anything wrong?
Zhang Wei shook his head: "Do you have evidence that the other party said this?

If the other party does not admit it, economically speaking, you have indeed brought a lot of pressure to the family.

And just like what Ms. Tang Jing said just now, I hope the other party admits that this is actually a very difficult thing, and it is even full of uncertainties.

It may seem to you that the other person may be good in some aspects, but don't forget.

According to what you said, this marriage failed because of the intervention of a third party. Standing in front of you at this time is not only Ms. Luo's husband, but also that third party.

If the other party came here for money, do you think she will make her fat sheep thinner when she divorces?
What she wants to do is to make her fat sheep fatter, instead of being poached with more than half of the meat. "

If I remember correctly, in the original novel, the house was awarded to Luo Zijun after the divorce.

That third party, Ling Ling, still had a way to hint to Chen Junsheng to get the house back and re-mortgage a small house for Luo Zijun.

The most stupid thing is that Luo Zijun actually agreed. If he didn't agree, Luo Zijun's financial situation would not be so embarrassing just for that house.

Even Ling Ling, the third party, wanted to pay off the child support in one lump sum at a cheap price.

He even tried every means to keep the child from appearing in his home, and let his child become the grandson of this family.

"What should I do?"

When Luo Zijun heard this, he said instead: "You have been worrying for too long. Didn't lawyer Zhang Wei just say that? You may not get a divorce yet."

Anyway, if she could not divorce, she would never divorce.

Until now, I have been holding on to a glimmer of hope. Maybe my husband will figure it out and return to the family again.

Everything can return to the original appearance, isn't that all happy?

If she hadn't put the agreement in front of her at the last moment and asked two people to sign it, she probably would never really give up.

(End of this chapter)