The heroine of Kuai Chuan Zhi's family only farms

Chapter 1011 [1010] Full-time mother counterattack 18 (five thousand)
The university courses are not as intense as in high school. Generally, there are two classes or one class in the morning and one class in the afternoon. After class, it is time for club activities. Around four o'clock, she is free to work at the company for two hours. I will pick up my son at six or seven o'clock. When I get home, besides doing my homework, I have to cook and teach him how to practice the piano.

The piano was bought for 500 yuan. The house is big, and it is placed in the living room. She teaches and guides bit by bit. The piano lessons cost two to three hundred yuan, or even three to four hundred yuan per lesson. A better teacher costs [-] yuan, which is beyond the reach of ordinary families.

She herself is a professional. Although she can't remember the plots of those lives clearly, the skills she learned are well preserved in the depths of her memory, and she can't forget them even if she wants to. This is probably a blessing to her ability.

Now my son has a lot of skills. He has learned to swim, and he has insisted on playing the piano for an hour a day under her leadership. She has guided and trained him in yoga, basketball, English, and reading. She plans to enroll him in hip-hop this semester. She thinks It's pretty cool for a boy to learn hip-hop. As for which of these skills he can stick to, it depends on his own schedule.

The first grade has just started, homework is procrastinated, study habits need to be corrected, boys are very active and can't sit still at all, no matter how good-tempered she is, she still has to get angry.

So once the child enters elementary school, the loving mother will no longer exist. Every day because of this homework problem, the noise of chickens and dogs will become commonplace.

Qi Yang is the same as most children, difficult to discipline, playful and active, boys, how can girls be obedient?

Especially now that the second and third children are completely let go, he pops up from time to time: "Mom, why don't I have a younger sister?"

This question... how should she answer it?Looking for someone to have a baby?She never thought about it, okay?Even adoption is a complicated process.

So every time the child asked this question, she would say it without blushing or panting.

"My sister is an angel. She is watching from the sky. Whose little brother behaves well, doesn't make his mother angry, doesn't bully the children, so she will consider whether to come to this house. You are our little man, but you must You have to behave well and try to get your younger sister to come to you!"

Sure enough, children are easy to deceive, so I didn't ask any more questions, because he hasn't realized that he is a single-parent family.

By the time of the second grade, or even the second semester of the first grade, you may have this awareness. When that time comes, you should say everything you can.

The child's education is a big problem, so she basically gave it to the child after seven o'clock.

For example, calligraphy and embroidery are all done in the space, but the work involving networking must be done outside.

On weekends, after Qi Qi sent him to the hobby class, she went to the company to work overtime. No matter if she had something to do, she would go to the company every day. This is a habit she has developed now.

Because of the increase in the investment ratio, her share in the company is getting heavier and heavier. It used to be only 80.00% of the share quota. Although the current quota has not increased, but the department formed by the company for her alone, her share ratio is 20.00%. [-]%, and the remaining [-]% is used for the company's daily operating expenses. In other words, it is equivalent to the nature of a studio. She is the boss, but she is affiliated with Xingchen.

From the beginning to the present, she has invested almost 2000 million yuan. Of course, the future benefits are immeasurable, because her team has now reached [-] people. Weekends and holidays are her busiest time, because she can only Take advantage of this time to live broadcast and bring goods.

During the working day, it is daily study and part-time work to deal with the main work of Xingchen Company.

Qi Yang doesn't look bad, he looks more and more like his ex-husband, with thick eyebrows and big eyes, double eyelids, high nose bridge, and his height is not too low. Before he was seven years old, he would already be 1.4m1.7. More than [-] meters should not be a big problem.

Other things are fine, but this child is not as white as hers, but a wheat-colored black. She looks healthy and has no major health problems. During kindergarten, she didn't get sick every day, and her physical fitness is good. I like to go swimming with her very much, and I also learn basketball well, but I don't like playing the piano very much.

If you were interested in it at the beginning, then you regret it now, because the process of practicing the piano is too boring, boys can’t sit still, and they will be quarreled if they cooperate with each other. They pout every day and say that their mother has changed. The good mother is gone.

Xiao. is very talkative, as soon as she does her homework, her nature is exposed. Homework that can be finished in an hour or even half an hour a day, if you have to wait until ten o'clock, no matter how good your patience is, it will wear out. Gradually, she also Leave him alone, just say that it will be finished in two hours, if you can't finish it, don't write it, and move on to the next item (bathing, practicing piano and calligraphy).

At the beginning, he felt that without her interference, he was more comfortable. He touched this, picked that, ate, drank and played, and only wrote when he felt that he couldn't justify not doing his homework. He had no sense of time. Because the first grade has not yet learned to recognize the watch, you have to learn the multiplication formula before you can recognize the clock and watch, the kind that blurts out.

On the first day of the implementation of the plan, as expected, he went overtime. He didn't finish his homework, so he put it away directly, and dragged him to play the piano and practice calligraphy. As a result, he also got emotional, and confronted her, not playing or writing, and arguing with her, you What do you ask me to do, the kind that I just don't do.

Can Qi Qi say that she is not angry in this situation?So he ignored him and let him say goodbye outside. When it was ten o'clock, it was time to go to bed. He had been in a daze for an hour. It was obvious from his expression that he wanted to come over to talk to her several times. She ignored him and went straight to wash Going to sleep, when the child was the only one left in the huge living room, he cried with a wow.

Qi Qi didn't go out to comfort him and shouted loudly.

"You are not young anymore, you are already a primary school student, and you should be responsible for your actions to the end. When it is time to do homework, you do not write, and when it is time to practice the piano, you do not practice. You are just wasting time in vain, and you will be injured. Let me spend time here with you. In this way, you did not complete your task, and I did not complete mine. You finished it quickly, maybe you can watch cartoons for half an hour, but you see, you are wasting time Dropped, nothing done, now I'll tell you, you can do whatever you want, I'm going to bed, because it's time to go to bed, do whatever, I told you already , isn't it?"

"As for you, if you want to continue to do your homework, you can continue to do your homework. You can't play the piano, because it's too late to impress your neighbors. You can practice calligraphy. If you fail to complete the task I assigned today, you will be punished twice as much tomorrow. You don't have the piano. There is a chance to recover the loss, for the rest, please do what you want, remember, I didn’t punish you today, if you don’t complete the double punishment tomorrow, then don’t blame your mother, you’re good at it!”

For such a threat, children have long been tired of hearing it. They know that it is useless. As long as they don’t study, they will perform well in other aspects and are sensible, but when they encounter learning, they will lose the chain for you. The child is a good child. It's normal to be unwilling to study, but if the parents don't stare, rely on other teachers?

How can you keep an eye on dozens of people in a class?The gap between grades [-], [-], and [-] is not big, but the gap between grades [-], [-], and [-] widened immediately, especially in grade [-]. Usually, the score is above [-], and it may suddenly become [-] or [-].

Learning does not rely on making up for it, nor does it rely on urging. She doesn't want to push him too hard in the first and second grades. She should develop good study habits first. Yes, by himself.

If you keep staring at it all the time, you will be tired and so will he, and it may not be effective. You have to let him suffer a few more times.

Just like this rough kid who doesn't want to wash his face, brush his teeth, or take a bath, every time he is asked to wash, it's like forcing him.

She is a mother, so she can't wash it for him for a long time, and can only rely on him. You can't see if it is not clean, but it breaks my heart.

So when she sits in the office and goes to work, she will feel extremely relaxed, because she doesn't have to worry about the child for the time being, and she doesn't have to be rushed, nagging, and doesn't need to be nervous. How good is it?

This also understands why fathers would rather work overtime in the company than go back to the home where the chickens are flying.

A widowed marriage is not only reflected in the lack of concern for his wife and parents, but also in the education of his children. He can't count on it at all. When you scold your children, you will pop up a few words from time to time, Whenever you say 'you can do what you want', you will always shut up at critical moments.

So you can't count on anyone for the role of mother, you can only count on yourself.

Boys especially need patient guidance. When they warn themselves thousands of times not to get angry, and when they see him procrastinating in doing things, their blood pressure will suddenly soar to the highest level. This is the disadvantage of contemporary education, but no one can change it. Let them all be ordinary people, not geniuses?

It is true that Qi Yang is not a genius child, nor is he a hard-working child, but a child who develops naturally.

As long as you don't talk about study, you are very good. You can even cook simple dishes such as steamed rice, scrambled eggs, fried eggs, and instant noodles. Sometimes when she is tired, he will take a bath for herself and squeeze her shoulders. Washing clothes, what a warm child you see, why do you get stuck when you come to study?
It's only the first grade, if your mother takes things too far, then there will be times when you will be tired in the future, simply, when it's time to let go, you have to learn to let go.

So after Qi Qi wanted to understand these things, she began to focus on her study habits. She had to write her homework when she got home, so that she could have her own entertainment time after finishing it.

It doesn't matter if he doesn't have a concept of time. After suffering a few times on the issue of time, he began to learn to read the watch and time by himself.

I can't finish my homework at night, but I wake up in the morning and finish it with high efficiency. What do you think he is trying to do?

After doing this for a week, in the second week, I obediently do my homework after school. Sometimes at school, I also use the break time, or at the small dining table, to write the homework assigned by the teacher. After returning home, she After a short check, he will be given some extra homework according to the time.

With efficiency, you will have your own entertainment time, play and play, homework is still completed, and there is no noise, and the children themselves are excited.

Boring playing the piano and calligraphy?Can't keep practicing?It doesn't matter, the incentive system is adopted, as long as the check-in is completed, one unlimited shopping will be rewarded at the end of the month. Of course, there will be a time limit. At first, I was unwilling to cooperate, thinking that the time was too long, and one month was too long.

Qi Qi will also be flexible, starting from a week, as long as the week is up to the standard, she can freely purchase for half a minute on weekends.

Of course, he is not usually given pocket money, and he has no concept of spending money. Usually, she buys everything at home, and he has no chance to spend money at all.

She didn't even buy him a phone or watch.

She doesn't watch TV, the TV has never been turned on, and this child doesn't look very good, she just likes to squeeze plasticine, play with puzzles, or play ball in the yard. Compared with other children, she is really too good Too much, because she doesn't play games or TV, so naturally he doesn't have that habit.

When he was doing his homework, she sat next to him with a book and read it with him. She pretended not to see it when he dawdled around, and yelled: "Next item!"

After a long time, there are some lingering problems, which are gradually killed in the bud.

After going to primary school, the smelly socks, smelly shoes, and underwear are all washed by hand. If he can't wash them clean, she will wash them again afterward, but he has to go through this process.

Moreover, in a single-parent family, she would often shout tired and show weakness. To cultivate a man, she must have an upright belief, help her cook, take out the garbage, clean up the housework, wash clothes, take express delivery, and go outside, heavy things, Asking him to help carry it, acting coquettishly to show weakness, really, the effect is really good, and sometimes I despise her like an adult.

"Without me, how will you live in the future?"

"So you should exercise well and eat healthy food, so that you can protect your mother well!"

Qi Qi relied on this method to establish Qi Yang's sense of responsibility. During the half-semester transition from kindergarten to first grade, she felt that the child grew up all at once, and the changes were so fast that sometimes she was surprised.

Of course, there are also unpleasant times, and there will be fights between mother and son, but most of the time, he tends to be stable because of his high emotional intelligence.

Now he has also figured out her character clearly, if he can not make her angry, he will definitely not.

Qi Qi enjoys this kind of interest in life very much, it is equivalent to being promoted as a princess by her son.

She will not tell her son how tired she is, but she will take him to participate in her overtime work and let him know that every penny she earns now is not easy.

The family house has never been told that it was bought, but that it was rented. When going to college, working, and sometimes working until the early morning, the children are watching it. When he thinks about it when he is angry, can he still give birth?
She can understand how hard it is for him to study, and he has to understand how hard it is for her to support him alone.

If it wasn't for the space, she might not be able to hold on long ago.

"I want to live a good life, but I don't want to suffer. Is it possible? Is it possible?"

Qi Qi took him out to play during the holidays. She would stay in the worst kind of hotel for one day, and then in the mid-range hotel the next day. She also took him to live in the most upscale hotel.

Including food, clothing, and use, she bought them for him at different prices.

Then tell him how much money needs to be earned at each stage to achieve it.

Educational qualifications determine the future working environment. Learning, like work, requires hard work, including the university she is studying at.

If you tell the child once, he may not understand, if you talk too much, or take him around the universities in the capital, let him compare the good and bad among them, and he will definitely tell you. .

Qi Qi thinks she is not a good parent, can't take care of children, can't raise children, but she can learn and try to be friends with him.

Everyone knows that it is easier said than done, but it depends on when you do it and how you do it. Any responsibility on paper that is not put into action will not have good results.

Qi Qi thinks that what she does is not bad. This can be seen from his final exam, English 100, Chinese 98, and Mathematics 100. It is still somewhat effective.

The English in the first semester of the first grade is all oral English, the written test is listening, the oral test is conducted in the APP, and the score will be given after the synthesis.

This is still very easy for the little guy who started enlightenment early in the morning.

The language is pinyin and some simple characters, but the pinyin is wrong.

Mathematics is not difficult. Addition and subtraction can be done correctly as long as you are serious.

She is very satisfied with her child's grades. Last semester, she got three certificates of honor for her as a three-good student, a small civilized person, and an excellent class leader.

During the parent-teacher meeting, the teacher also specifically praised the boy for his love of labor (the labor committee member) and his willingness to help others. The students all liked him.

But he is too beautiful.

Although it's not three bars, two bars, one bar, etc., he is still an excellent labor class cadre, which is something to be proud of.

The reward Qi Qi gave him was to take him to Chimelong, Guangdong for a round of fun during the winter vacation.

The mother and son went there as soon as they were on vacation. They visited all the major scenic spots in Guangdong in a week. When they returned home, there were still three or four days before the Chinese New Year.

The company is not without problems, but her computer can be controlled remotely, basically with a computer in hand, there is no delay in work.

The live broadcast was suspended, and I took a lot of filming. After I came back, I made the first, middle and second episodes of Guangdong travel strategy.

Now Qi Qi's fans have exceeded 1000 million, and her ability to bring goods is very strong. Many manufacturers are vying to cooperate with her, but she only chooses the ones that she has tried and thinks are good. And some artwork, jewelry and so on.

The money in the first half of the year was transferred to my own studio, and the income in the second half of the year came back. In addition to the goods she brought in, and other peripheral derivative income, it exceeded 2000 million for the first time. There won't be such a high rate of return, and she's just so awesome in her senior year, and she should worry about which career she should choose in the future!

(End of this chapter)