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That night when I was idle and bored, I ate half a bottle of white wine with peanuts, and suddenly felt the heat surge in my body, and my writing was like a spring, so I immediately wrote another article for Xiaoya in one fell swoop.

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Xiaoping is an honest person, he works hard and bears no complaints. As long as the leader confesses to such a trivial matter, he will always do a good job and win the leader's love.He is honest and honest, and his colleagues like to get along with him very much, but he has a stubbornness in his bones, just like his short black hair standing upright, and his unruly pointed head.Usually, he is reticent and unknown, and whenever his colleagues chat with each other in full swing, he will at most just go along with a smile, and it is rare to see him expressing his opinions in the public hall, and his colleagues also understand him. He has a good temper, so he doesn't ask him deliberately.

Colleague Xiaojia is different. He has a flexible mind, rich imagination, tactful handling of things, sees the line in all directions, and is slick in all directions. It seems that his arrival has added a little life and vitality to the boring organization. Xiaocha is two years older than Xiaoping, but he is indeed later than Xiaoping. After two years in the department, he became familiar with everyone within a month. From top to bottom, there was no one who couldn't get along with him, but Xiaoping was an exception.He was always complaining in his heart, what a stinky country bumpkin, what's the big deal, isn't it just that he's been wandering outside for a few more years, he doesn't do business, and he knows how to deal with it every day.

Even though he thought so, he admired Xiaojia from the bottom of his heart, the kind of person who said what he said when he saw someone, and picked up what he saw and said. Such a person is more popular and more in line with the taste of the public, in other words In other words, such a person can't do it with a long head. He needs to have a certain talent, he needs early education in the family, and he needs to be tempered in society the day after tomorrow.A well-known education expert once told such a story. A parent’s education method is very special. When the child breaks a glass, he is not in a hurry. Let the child explain first. If the child tells the truth, it will be considered a reason. Insufficient, flesh and blood is inevitable. The child is invited to the parents because he did not complete the homework. After the parents come back, they still call the child to the front and ask the child to explain. If the child does not have sufficient reasons, the same as last time Dealing with it, after a long time, the child has experience and made up all kinds of slick lies to deceive parents and teachers. The parent never touched the child's finger again, but many people are very puzzled by this parent's education method. Fearing that the child would learn bad things, the parent explained that I love my son very much from the bottom of my heart, and I hope he will live a happy life, but I cannot always follow him all my life. I am afraid that if I am not around, my son will not be able to survive in a complicated society. Therefore, I have been consciously cultivating his ability to survive and deal with various complicated things since he was a child. The society is changing, and children's education should also change with the changes in the complex society.

So Xiaoping began to subconsciously observe Xiaojia's words and deeds, and consciously imitated them. He found that Xiaojia always questioned other people's views when talking with others, "No, no, you are bragging ×", no Regardless of whether other people's views are right or not, he also said the same, and then explained a series of "big principles". This method is very practical, and it is more in line with the psychological principle of overwhelming the other party first, and then explaining.Regardless of whether it is right or not, the other party will not refute. In most cases, the other party is silent, so people are psychologically defeated for a while. This method is not easy to discover without careful observation and deliberation. It can be called the method of splashing cold water.Xiaoping also found that every time the office goes out to treat guests, Xiaojia always takes care of others patiently, including pouring tea and wine for others, and distributing napkins to everyone.Compared with Liu Bei, this is also a clever move to win people's hearts.Xiaojia is also good at using the temporal bone method. In a large group, everyone will be in a group of three, and a group of two will become friends, but why some people always stand out from the crowd, as if he has a close relationship with everyone in the group That's right, the temporal bone method is used to observe the representative characters in each group, including their interests, hobbies, etc. After understanding clearly, try to make friends with these representative characters. The members in the group will also be good to you, this is the so-called temporal bone method.Using this method requires a keen mind, the ability to adapt to changing circumstances, and keen observation skills.And all these conditions are met.Thinking of this, Xiaoping couldn't help but take a deep breath. It's really complicated. It's not enough to just master these methods, but they also need to be applied in practice. If they can be done just right, it's really "the road is long and the road is long, and I will go up and down." Seek it." But Xiaoping was still quite persistent.

Xiaojia's efforts were finally not in vain. As early as a few days after he arrived at the office, he handed over the application for joining the party to the party committee.He rose.This made Xiaoping's psychology very unbalanced. Xiaoping did not work hard at ordinary times, and he should belong to the kind of practical work, and his qualifications were older than Xiaojia's. However, these conditions did not seem to be able to impress the hearts of the leaders.Invisibly, he developed a kind of jealousy. The more jealous he was, the more he wanted to learn Xiaojia's tricks, and he vaguely found that since Xiaojia came, everyone seemed to have changed their attitudes towards him. I really like being with Xiaojia, Xiaoping could have joined Xiaojia's team, but the stubbornness in his bones came up again, and the jealousy towards Xiaojia became more intense.

Xiaoping finally fell into Xiaojia's hands.Before the end of an agency dinner, the leader greeted Xiaoping and Xiaojia and asked them to help clean up the dishes after the dinner, and they agreed.

As soon as the dinner was over, the master came to find Xiaoping, and after calling him to the dining room, Xiaoping saw that Section Chief Li was already drunk, so the master ordered Ping Hejia to take Section Chief Li to the dormitory, and told him to stop with a gesture of pause. He signaled not to talk to Section Chief Li any more, he was already drunk, obviously, the master knew the character of the fake, and told them to clean up the restaurant, at this time Section Chief Li insisted that he could do it, and he didn’t need two A young man came to help, and Section Chief Li went to the pool to clean up the dishes. Ping originally wanted to escort Section Chief Li to the dormitory, and then come back to clean up. He never wanted to pretend to be generous and said to Ping, it’s me , You pick up the restaurant, as if Dong Cunrui and the five heroes of Langya Mountain died heroically.Ping was so generous that it was hard to say anything, so he put it away first, put all the tableware on the table into the sink, wiped the table with cleaning fluid, put the wine bottles on the floor into the beer box, and swept the floor clean , and mopped it twice with a mop. After a while, I didn’t expect to have a chat with Section Chief Li. I thought, you haven’t died bravely yet. If you continue to work at this pace, isn’t this job all mine? Ping thought of the scene when the leader instructed them at the dinner table, and thought of the earnest expression on the master's face when he arranged for them. He considered that if he did all the work in the restaurant by himself, what was going on? He would definitely scold him for not giving the Communist Youth League secretary and party activists a chance to show off. He couldn't bear the charge. Thinking of this, he sincerely pushed open the door of Section Chief Li's dormitory and said to the Communist Youth League secretary: "My That half has already been done, and the other half is the plate in the sink for you, party activist." Before Ping could finish speaking, Fake cursed involuntarily: "Go to hell you".

Ping didn't know what mistake he had made again. He thought he hadn't offended the false. Young people wanted to improve. How could he be an ordinary person like himself? I am not an active member of the party, and I should not have reached that level of enlightenment.If it can be achieved, I will definitely actively join the party.But what Shi Ping didn't understand was, could the secretary of the Communist Youth League and the activists who joined the party be able to swear at others at will?Now Ping finally understands that the saying of drinking and having sex is true, what a good person, once he finishes drinking, it's hard to say.Alas, it's all the wine's fault.