Self-guided daily life after rebirth

Skirt: 9④⑤9③1705

Chapter 173 Marriage

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Marriage is just a contract for many people.

Everyone says that the best process is getting to know each other and love each other. After falling in love, you get the consent of both families. With the blessing of your parents, you will join hands in marriage, get married and have children, and live a happy life.

But this is a luxurious dream.

The emotional experience of most normal people should be...

Falling in love, falling in love, repeating this process - how many times to repeat depends on how high a person's desire to fall in love is, after all, people's physiques cannot be generalized.

Some people can cut their brains open with a sliding shovel in the case of extreme anger, while others can only continue to be extremely angry for a whole day in the case of extreme anger.

We can call the former General Five Tigers, while the latter is nothing but impotent and furious.

But no matter what, the love life of most ordinary people is nothing more than falling in love and falling out of love, and then stepping into the society to work after graduating from university, losing most of the possibility of socializing with the opposite sex of the same age. Then confirm whether each other is suitable for living together, and then get married and have children.

Correct.

Not in love.

It's just to confirm whether the other party is suitable for a life as a partner.

Su Tong is well aware of all this.

Because if he hadn't met the eldest lady, his life would have unfolded like this—it might have been even worse, after all, he wasn't interested in dating at first, so it was more likely that he would end up alone and single for the rest of his life.

But for Cao Bin...

"I don't want to settle down so I'm single." Cao Bin said at the right time, "There's nothing wrong with that, after all, I'm not taking revenge on the society and not wasting national resources. Anyway, I'm going to get married in the end... Besides, I actually think so It's pretty good too, isn't it?"

He smiled:

"Look, I never thought of falling in love casually before I meet the right person, so that other girls will not be delayed. Isn't that just reducing competition for our male compatriots? From this perspective, it should be said that To promote the construction of a harmonious society, I wonder what kind of award my country will not give me for my contribution?"

When Cao Bin said this, his expression was quite serious.

Su Tong knew that the sand sculpture was talking serious nonsense just to ease the atmosphere, so he rolled his eyes angrily in a cooperative manner:

"One thing to say and one truth to say, I suggest that the moving China program production team choose you as one of the top ten people who moved China in 2015. Men watch Silence and women cry when they watch it. I cry first as a respect."

Cao Bin scratched his head with an embarrassed expression on his face:

"Oh, it's not that exaggerated, it's not that exaggerated, just give a certificate of merit, if it's really not possible, you can also send a pennant, I don't mind it."

"Indeed, it is suggested that the pennant should write 'Single life sacrifices the small self, and the lonely realizes the big self', and it is better to add a horizontal comment thanking the single dog."

"Hey, hey, what are you talking about? I suspect that Su and you are targeting me!"

"Be confident and suggest removing 'I doubt'."

He was indeed targeting Cao Bin.

But Cao Bin suffered one after another, and finally shut up honestly.

It's just that Ya has an aggrieved expression on her face, very much like a little daughter-in-law who has been brutalized for no reason.

Just seeing Su Tong has a toothache.

Birds of a feather flock together and people are divided into groups. Strange flowers will naturally attract strange flowers to gather, and sand sculptures will also attract sand sculpture friends.

This sentence couldn't be more suitable for Su Tong and Cao Bin.

In the past, Su Tong, who was bitter and bitter, wanted revenge on the society at any time, but he couldn't see it at that time, after all, at that time, three sticks couldn't beat a fart.

But with the progress of Su Tong's development, this embarrassing thing gradually walked out of the abyss of autism and gradually became...becoming flamboyant.

Those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black, those who are close to Su Tong will naturally gradually become rational and black-bellied, while those who are close to Cao Bin will become more and more shameless, skinless and unscrupulous - we usually call such people three no one.

Su Tong used to have a headache for a while, how did something go wrong in her cultivation, she was obviously planning to cultivate the embarrassing thing in the direction of a perfect male god, but in the end she turned into the current male nerve that occasionally convulses for no reason.

She also complained that once Su Tong and Cao Bin are together, they will be like different people. One second they are still like virgins, the next second they are moving like rabbits, and even their daily conversations are like cross talk.

In short, Su Tong squinted at the past with disgust on his face, and continued to complain:

"It wasn't wrong for you to say that before, but I heard that the eldest lady said that the second child is about to be opened. If you are single and don't fall in love, aren't you causing trouble to the society?"

"Ah this..."

Cao Bin gasped, and after thinking about it, he finally figured out how to refute:

"I just said that I don't plan to fall in love but I didn't say I don't plan to get married. You have to make it clear, comrade--love, love, and marriage are three concepts. I have nothing to do with the first two, but you still have to get married when you get married." .”

"Oh?"

Su Tong made a big mouthful of rice, and said slowly:

"Even if I, Cao Bin, have been single for the rest of my life and have always been a hard-working single dog, I will never marry a woman I don't like?"

"fnndp!" Cao Bin scolded, "Where did I say that I will never get married, but anyone with a little brain knows that it is impossible for people not to get married?"

He said, and sighed with a complicated expression:

"There are family reasons..."

"Don't talk about passing on the family line, although feudal superstitions have indeed been broken now, but we are the Chinese nation after all. I don't know how long ago the idea of ​​being unfilial and having no descendants was deeply ingrained in the minds of the older generation. Of course Now many parents are actually quite enlightened and don’t care too much about these things, but the marriage itself is actually not the most important thing.”

"It's companionship."

"When I was young, I was watched by my parents at home. When I grew up, I was at school. I was a commuter in front of high school and college, and then I became a dormitory. not a problem."

"But after leaving school and entering the society to work?"

"Whether you want to rent or buy a house, anyway, no matter the former or the latter, you live alone. It's really cool, but sometimes you feel lonely lying in bed. What if you have a headache, brain fever, gastroenteritis, appendicitis or something like that? No one can take care of you...Of course there are people who care, as long as you talk to your family on the phone or WeChat, they will be comforted, and your parents can't wait to come here by plane and high-speed train, but will you tell your parents?"

Cao Bin spread his hands:

"Of course not?"

"I used to not know how precious money is in school. If there is money in the bank card, I want to ask for a red envelope from my parents during the holidays. But after I joined the work, I grew up and became sensible. Obviously, the money in the account is barely enough. To eat, but I tighten my belt and I don’t want to ask my aging parents for money anymore, so even if I have a disease, I don’t want them to know as long as I can bear it alone.”

"So alone."

[To be continued]

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Skirt: 9④⑤9③1705

Chapter 174

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What Cao Bin said about Su Tong is completely understandable.

He has gradually understood everything.

The important thing is not whether you want to force yourself not to tell your parents about your headaches, or whether you can't bear to make your elderly parents travel long distances... It's really unbearable.

The key is a person.

Humans are social animals after all.

Breaking away from the big framework of human society, the existence of individuals is negligible. Stepping into society to participate in work, living alone will always be lonely.

No one can share happiness, and no one can share sadness. No matter whether it is joy, anger, sorrow or joy, there is no one to communicate with. Happiness and sadness are all your own and only your own.

To be honest, Su Tong has never experienced such a life.

It's just that sometimes you will find such traces when you look at the young lady's expression.

It's really like an old middle-aged and elderly person.

My favorite thing is to miss the past. When I have nothing to do, I sit on the sofa with a cup of tea, squint my eyes with my legs crossed, and exude soft texture like a lazy cat.

Then began to talk about the vicissitudes of life and the past.

Although the news that was revealed was not painful or itchy, but at that time the eldest lady would always hang her shoulders, lean on the back of the sofa, raise her head slightly, and her eyes were full of mottled traces of time and bewildered loneliness.

Perhaps this is the so-called old age?

Su Tong often wondered why the eldest lady had such a vicissitudes of life in her middle-aged eyes even though she was one year younger than him, but no matter how she thought about it, she still couldn't figure it out.

But in any case, what is certain is that the eldest lady seems to have experienced an extremely lonely time.

Why?

The young lady who was born with a golden spoon in her mouth... She obviously has a good relationship with her father, but why did she show such a lonely expression when talking about the past?

Thinking about it, Su Tong took out his mobile phone from his pocket, opened the memo, and carefully wrote down this key information.

Well, regardless of whether it is useful or not, it is right to keep it in a small notebook. Nowadays, all kinds of wonderful and wonderful information have gradually built up the outline of the so-called answer.

Su Tong put away his phone.

But it was still noticed by Cao Bin.

"What are you doing?"

With a curious look on his face, he leaned his big face over and asked.

And Su Tong has already calmly put the phone in his pocket:

"It's nothing, it's just that the eldest lady made a bet with me... Now I'm collecting clues."

"clue?"

"Ah."

Cao Bin instantly became excited:

"Oh, I won't be sleepy if you talk to me about this - come on, tell me what's going on, what bet did you make with Sister Tong?"

Su Tong began to regret taking out his mobile phone to record clues so aboveboard.

But after thinking about it, it seems that there is really nothing inconvenient to disclose, so I nodded:

"Just bet on getting married."

"Get married... get married?!"

Cao Bin said that your speech shocked my mother.

Su Tong thought to himself that anyway, you came together to be loved by yourself, so it's no wonder the old man... After all, although the old man is cruel, he is not a devil.

So he nodded and answered happily:

"That's right, Missy just made a bet with me, saying that she gave me a question and asked me to guess the answer, and if I guess the answer, she will marry me."

"???"

Cao Bin was shocked again.

But this time, he reacted quite quickly, and said calmly:

"That's it?"

Not shocked at all.

Su Tong was curious about how this thing has changed so much in such a short period of time, but Cao Bin said Shi Shiran before asking:

"Ham, judging from the situation between you and Sister Tong, it's all expected, no, it's better to say that the two of you haven't reached the process of discussing marriage, which surprises me...You two are in high school. At that time, the relationship was so good, why did they fall in love when they were both in college?"

He said, as if thinking of something, he raised his eyebrows and said:

"University marriages add credits, you and sister Tong don't think about picking a good day and auspicious day to get married on the spot, come on, wait, I'll move the Civil Affairs Bureau here for you two!"

Su Tong couldn't laugh or cry:

"Come on, it's useless for me to say whether to get married or not. I still have to listen to the eldest lady--haven't we already made a bet now, as long as we solve the problems she raised, we will get married."