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Work is different from career. The former is to support the family, while the latter is the pursuit of life.

Which is more important, work or women?

Hard to say.

Which is more important, career or women?

Of course it's a career.

Before that, Zhou Buqi also had the realization that the success of his career was the embodiment of the meaning of life, but now...he really realized it.

After staying up all night, I should be tired and sleepy, but this is only for the body, but it is much more relaxed mentally, and it is a kind of satisfaction deep in the soul.

Because she was going to have a baby with Wen Zhixia during this period, she read a lot of books on parenting and talked about a theory.

When the child is young, don't be too restrictive, don't touch this one, don't move that one, for fear of bumping into each other.

Just let them mess around.

Only by eating a ditch can we gain a wisdom.

If you suffer a little more and suffer a little pain, you will become less delicate, and you will gradually understand the principle of seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages.

Zhou Buqi feels particularly empathetic now.

He also knew before that one must not be obsessed with women's sex, but to cheer up and strengthen oneself, but his interest in women has never diminished. The absurd experience during this period allowed him to truly understand the words of warning from the heart of his ancestors.

For women, that’s all. The happiness brought about by career achievements is of a higher dimension, and it’s really not comparable to the comfort and enjoyment that can be obtained from women.

Of course, there is great joy in great joy, and there is beauty in small joy in small joy, and everything is indispensable.

The role of self-control is not to let small pleasures replace big ones,

In the afternoon, both Zhou Buqi and Liu Qing woke up and ate something.

"Let's talk about it."

"In such a hurry?"

Liu Qing gave him a white look, she had just finished eating.

Zhou Buqi's face darkened, "It's a real heart-to-heart talk, let me talk about some of my experiences during this period of time, don't think too much about it."

Liu Qing said "Oh" and suppressed a smile, "I just want to test you, um, tell me, what are you talking about?"

Zhou Buqi no longer concealed it, and told about the absurd experience, self-reflection, and spiritual sublimation process during this period.

Liu Qing suddenly realized: "No wonder, I was in such a bad state when I saw you."

"The main reason is that it is impossible to achieve the unity of knowledge and action."

"You've done a good job."

Liu Qing, who knew the inside story, not only did not despise his ridiculous experience, but her eyes sparkled, thinking that this man was great. Gambling and pornography are deadly things. Once many people get involved, it will be a lifelong affair. Boss Zhou can introspect himself three times a day and crawl out of the mud, which is amazing enough.

How many heroes lost their careers, careers, and even their lives because of their beauty?

Zhou Buqi said honestly: "I have three girlfriends now, and I like each of them very much. When I am with them, I feel very comfortable, but these two female stars...enjoy it, but there is always a A sense of emptiness and self-blame."

It was the first time Liu Qing knew that he had three girlfriends. She was a little surprised, but couldn't help laughing, "It's best not to tell anyone about you, it's not a shame."

"Isn't this treating you as a friend, you give me advice."

"Your girlfriend is very educated, right?"

"It's okay, they're all alumni."

"Isn't that enough? Being educated means that you have a spiritual attribute, and you have enough common language, and you are both alumni, so you can share many interesting things. But female stars are different, you have such a big class gap With a cultural gap, how can there be a common language? Together, only the most primitive animal instincts are left. Some people are animals and will prefer this kind of communication. You are human, of course you will be more repulsive.”

"Huh?"

Zhou Buqi's eyes lit up, and he felt that Liu Qing's words really spoke to his heart.

There is a sense of transparency that sees the sun through the clouds.

Liu Qing asked him: "When you were with me, did you also feel that way?"

Zhou Buqi thought for a while, then shook his head, "It's really different."

Liu Qing pursed her lips and said with a smile: "Isn't that right? Because when we are together, we talk more about work, career and ideals, and the primitive instinct is just to adjust the taste. I, a woman, can accept this kind of concept , you must be fine. But you must not put the cart before the horse, if animal nature wins over human nature, it will be wrong, and we both have to reflect on ourselves."

Zhou Buqi gave a thumbs up, "Sure enough, he is a top student! Admire! Admire!"

Liu Qing said: "I am a woman, but I also know the virtues of you men. Such a stunning beauty sits naked in your arms, and you are impulsive. This is not a mistake, it is human nature. But wrong Yes, you gave them the chance to sit in your arms."

Zhou Buqi waved his hand, and said angrily, "What do you know? Those female celebrities... are all like vixens, and sometimes a single look can make you paralyzed."

Liu Qing shook her head slightly, "I asked my dad about this kind of question, but what I asked was about the rich and powerful, so it's similar. My dad told me to be close, but stay away."

"oh?"

"The former is public and the latter is private."

Zhou Buqi shook his head, "It's different. There is no obvious distinction between public and private in the entertainment industry, and there is no bottom line at all. Many formal occasions are posted."

Liu Qing said helplessly: "If that's the case, I suggest you stay away from the entertainment circle. You... are very clear-headed and good at self-reflection. It's just that your self-control is a bit weak, and you will be paralyzed with just one look. ? Your conductive properties are too strong, right?"

In this regard, she can be said to be well-informed.

I really don't think Zhou Buqi's matter is anything, isn't it just dating two female celebrities, just pay more attention in the future, what is it worth? Not gambling, not taking drugs, even quitting smoking, it is already considered the best.

Looking at those traditional industries, many people just gamble and have everything.

Those who can do the same non-stick are really rare.

Not to mention anything else, just talk about Goldman Sachs where she works.

This is a financial giant, and the salesmen have to use a software called "Bloomberg" developed by Bloomberg. This software is extremely powerful, so powerful that it also links to many websites with bad information, including gambling and pornography. Salespersons can directly make an appointment online during work, and go to consume after get off work.

Fortunately, these years, the management is stricter.

Wall Street in the early years was even more exaggerated, and they directly called door-to-door service to the company for entertainment. Keep working when you're done and keep making money.

Liu Qing had seen some, heard some, and remained indifferent.

Zhou Buqi frowned, and said embarrassingly: "It's impossible to be insulated from the entertainment industry, and I have a complete industrial layout for the entertainment industry."

"Entertainment business?" Liu Qing opened her eyes wide in disbelief, "Aren't you in the Internet business?"

Zhou Buqi snorted: "The Internet can lose the entertainment attribute? If you want to become bigger and stronger, of course, you must open up the entire industrial chain upstream and downstream to form an industrial monopoly."

Liu Qing said: "Then try to avoid it as much as possible. If it's really...as long as it doesn't get seen by others and there are no scandals, it's not a big deal."

"What's this called?"

"It was."

"Um?"

"You are my boss, I don't care how you are outside? As long as you can learn, introspect, improve, and grow every day, and don't delay work or affect the company, other things are not important."

Zhou Buqi choked on these words, and said angrily: "It's because I treat you as a friend."

Liu Qing laughed and said, "Okay, stop pretending, I've seen through you a long time ago, you must be enjoying it too, right? You just want me to help you find a few reasons to convince yourself."

Zhou Buqi was a little embarrassed, "It's nothing, don't talk nonsense."

Liu Qing thought for a while, then said: "'Why don't I give you an idea, write the word'正'."

"oh?"

"One 'positive' is Wubi. You set a hard target for yourself, up to ten 'positive' or eight 'positive' in a month. When the quota is full, you must not go out again. You can only stay at home honestly Accompany your wife and children."

Zhou Buqi hurriedly said: "What are you kidding? Who do you think I am? A 'positive' is enough!"

Liu Qing said: "It's like managing a company. It's not enough to have a strategy. You have to design a specific implementation plan to stick to it. Without a plan, the strategy will be ineffective. The self-control you mentioned is self-management. Strategy, writing the word "正", is a set of plans and procedures for self-discipline. Follow the procedures, the effect of self-discipline will be stronger, and self-control will be reflected. At the same time, because you follow the procedures, you will not exceed the rules or Out of the box, everything is planned, and your guilt and psychological pressure will be gone. You can relax and put more energy into your work.”

Zhou Buqi clapped his hands and applauded, "Great! She really is a strong woman! This self-restraint system is very good! Sister Liu, you have saved me! Without you, I would have depression!"

Liu Qing burst out laughing, flamboyantly, "Such a sweet mouth? Do you still call me sister? What are you doing? The quota for this month is not full yet?"

Zhou Buqi's face turned green, and he quickly changed the subject, "By the way, it's time to get off work, right? Has Xu Liangjie replied?"

"No."

Liu Qing shook her head.

Zhou Buqi asked: "What do you think? Can we succeed?"

Liu Qing said softly: "Almost, we talked so well last night, and all the topics were very harmonious. The stocks are in place, the strategy is explained clearly, and the position is high enough. If this doesn't work...then There's only one way."

"How about it?"

"Ask him now, and call him to the hotel tonight! Stay with him for another night!"

"Yes! Just do it like that!" Zhou Buqi clenched his fists with a vicious look, "Hmph, we are on vacation, and he has to go to work during the day. Let's boil him at night and sleep during the day... playing a set of eagle-boiling tactics, and getting Can't let him go?"

Just then, the phone rang.

A new message has arrived.

Open it and see an unfamiliar number.

The content of the text message is very simple, just 4 English words: I_quit_my_job.

Zhou Buqi was a little uncertain, so he showed it to Liu Qing.

Liu Qing's eyes were fixed, then she found Xu Liangjie's business card from her bag, compared the phone number...it was exactly the same!

"call!"

Liu Qing let out a long sigh of relief, and smiled knowingly, "That's right, it's him, he resigned."