The Reborn Wife is Farming

Mu Yangling doesn't like Fan Siwen very much, and he doesn't like Xia's family either, but it's because he is an elder who has raised Hao and respects her.

In her opinion, Fan Siwen is just a scumbag living in his own world. Such a person can't recognize the reality and thinks that what he thinks is the most correct.

He believed in his heart that the concubine was weak and would be suppressed by his son and mother, so he focused on favoritism for more than twenty years.

Now that you know that the concubine must be weak, and that there is an irreconcilable conflict between the concubine and the concubine, why don't you care about your lower body and insist on taking a concubine?

But his reason is very good, because the Fan family has been passed down for several generations, and the Xia family has been infertile for a long time after entering the family. Thinking of Xia's being married to Xi as a mother after only two years of entering the family, she almost vomited out of nausea.

Others gave a three-year deadline, and he only got married for one year, as if he could be sure that Xia's life would be infertile, and he used this as a reason to take a concubine.

I am lustful and lustful, but I still use my wife as an excuse.

Mu Yangling hated this kind of hypocrite the most, that's why she spoke so sharply and didn't give him face when she went to snatch Xiao Xia out of the house.

In fact, she already wanted to do that.

As for the Xia family, Mu Yangling used to sympathize with her very much.

In this era where women are always demanding, Xia is born in a disadvantaged position. When she was in Beidi, she often heard Haoran mention this aunt, and knew that she was very good to both Qi Haoran and Fan Zijin, so she was angry that she was bullied by scumbags.

It was only when she arrived in the capital that she gradually felt the smell.

Fan Siwen was indeed a scumbag, but the Xia family also had an unshirkable responsibility for Fan Zijin's situation and character.

She is a woman who loves first, at least in her heart, Fan Siwen who keeps failing her and hurting her is more important than Fan Zijin, her own son.

Even though women in this era are disadvantaged, they also have the capital and means to protect their own interests.

Xia Shi has a good hand of cards.

The marriage between her and Fan Siwen was arranged by their grandfathers, so unless she made a big mistake, Fan Siwen couldn't do anything to her.

She has all the chattels and most of the real estate of the Xia family in her hands. Seriously, her dowry is not much different from the property of the entire Fan family, so she is rich.

She has two cousins ​​who love her and hold military power.

The fundamental reason why Fan Siwen was able to take his mother's servants all the way to the south with the court and retain most of the family property was his marriage with the Xia family.

Such a good hand of cards was broken by her, the fundamental reason was that she cared too much about Fan Siwen, the first to fall in love would be the first to lose, not to mention that she loved so humblely.

When Fan Siwen took a concubine, the brothers from the Zhu family beat him up. If she hadn't softened her heart and gave in, with the power of the two brothers from the Zhu family at that time, it would have been easy to force Fan Siwen to let go of the concubine, and even suppress Fan Siwen for the rest of her life. head.

The principle is the same as the Xia family chose Fan Zijin as their son-in-law. Until now, the two brothers of the Zhu family have firmly placed on Fan Siwen's head.

But holding this good card, the Xia family not only made himself miserable, but also made his son bullied by servants in Fan's mansion, and despised by his concubine brothers, and then developed Fan Zijin's ruthless and merciless character.

How could Mu Yangling fall in love with her?

Although she didn't like Fan Zijin's character very much, after all, she grew up together, seeing her little friend being bullied like this, Mu Yangling couldn't help being unfair to him.

In her opinion, Fan Zijin has to pay 20% of the responsibility for developing this character, Fan Siwen has to pay 50%, and Xia Shi has to pay 30%.

Mu Yangling solemnly said to Qi Haoran: "So we must not repeat the mistakes of our uncles and aunts. In the future, we must not be too partial to our children, we must not be too fond of them, and we must not interfere too much when they grow up. Life is theirs. They have come by themselves."

Seeing Qi Haoran frowning, she said softly: "So in order not to let the children grow up crooked, we must educate them well from an early age and set a good example for them."

Mu Yang said in a spiritual way: "So from now on, no matter how much you don't like it, you should eat more vegetables and less meat, no matter how lazy you are, you have to take a bath and change clothes every day, no matter how angry you are, you are not allowed to swear, no matter how impatient you are, you are not allowed to smash books..."

Qi Haoran was dumbfounded, and didn't understand how this matter came to him in the end. Seeing that her demands were getting more and more excessive, he couldn't help shouting: "Little bear is still young, he can't even speak, why do we need to be taught like this?"

Mu Yangling said solemnly: "Don't you understand by precepts and deeds? I used to feed him vegetables and he would eat them all, but ever since he saw you pick meat and eat them, he always picked vegetables in your bowl and refused to eat them; I used to eat them every day. He kicked his feet and clapped his hands excitedly when I gave him a bath, now when I carry him to the bathroom, he cries loudly and runs out whenever he has time, I didn’t learn from you; before..."

"Okay," Qi Haoran lay on the bed and lifted the quilt to cover his body, and said in a muffled voice, "I'll just change it later."

Mu Yangling pushed him with a smile, and said softly, "Then, let's start now. I'll ask someone to prepare hot water for you. You can take a bath quickly."

"It's late today, let's start tomorrow..." Qi Haoran whispered with some guilt.

Mu Yangling put his hands on his shoulders and said with a smile, "If you go to take a bath, I'll give you a reward to wipe your back."

Qi Haoran immediately rolled his eyes and said, "Then you wipe my back every night."

Mu Yangling's softly swimming hand immediately paused, the strength in his hand increased slightly, and he asked with a smile, "Are you sure?"

Qi Haoran felt a weight on his shoulders, and immediately changed his words: "It doesn't need to be every day, just wipe your back when you are in a good mood."

Mu Yangling was satisfied.

Perhaps Mu Yangling's persuasion was effective. Qi Haoran began to pay attention to his own words and deeds in front of the children. Although he always felt lazy for a few days a month and didn't want to take a bath, he always chose when the children were not around. Although he still hated Eat vegetables, but no matter how many vegetables Mu Yangling puts for him in front of the child, even if his eyes are full of tears, he will eat them happily, and turn around and tell his son, "It's delicious!"

In short, Qi Haoran began to learn to be a good father and a good teacher.

This good habit gradually changes his mentality. When the number of children grows and they grow older, although their ideas always conflict with his and he disagrees with many of the things they do, they will not force him. Let them do what he wants, but let go after making suggestions and find that they don't work. Even though he is nervous and still worried, he will not force them to change their minds.

And Qi Haoran's methods and attitudes in educating children will inevitably affect his good brother Fan Zijin.

This allowed Fan Zijin to also teach two excellent sons, and the father and son had a deep relationship, allowing the son to enjoy the father's love that he could never enjoy in his life.

Even Fan Zijin was moved by his generosity and tolerance. Of course, he would only think about such complacency and pride in his heart, boasting a few words with Qi Haoran in his spare time, and did not dare to spread it outside.