The Reborn Scholar Wants To Counterattack

Gu Weimian held the phone and raised her eyebrows high.

She really didn't expect that Gu Yuzhu would have the courage to threaten her.

Sometimes, a fool's words are worse and several times more destructive than a smart one's words.

Simply put, he is stupid and bad.

This kind of person is born without brains, and his eyes only know the benefits of staring at others.

Once something happens to her, she will blame the whole world, blame her for not having a good father or mother, blame her for not having a domineering president who likes her.

Gu Yuzhu obviously got to where he is now because he was stupid.

She didn't think carefully about how to stabilize her position and how to better learn from Gu Weimian's words and deeds.

You can even make some snacks to please Huo Yan, your future husband.

Gu Yuzhu thought about how to deal with her every day.

There is a very strange phenomenon in this world.

It's called a self-fulfilling prophecy.

This thing sounds a bit mysterious, but it actually implies a lot of psychological and neurological principles.

Simply explain this phenomenon, and a person's self-perception will often become reality.

If someone always says that he is frail and sick, he will often become really ill over time.

If someone always says that he may fail a class, he is really likely to fail, and even if he does not fail, his grades will decline.

In interpersonal communication, this phenomenon is also very strange.

When a person feels that the other person really cares about him, the other person really treats him as a friend.

Even if the other party did not have such an idea at the beginning, as the relationship between the two develops to a later stage, the other party's attitude towards him will often move in this direction.

Anyway, if you harbor suspicion and malice from the beginning, and wonder whether the other party wants to harm you every day, it will really end up like this in the end.

In other words, if you have a certain psychological expectation for the other party, this psychological expectation will unconsciously guide the other party's behavior, causing the other party to move towards this psychological expectation, and finally make this prediction come true.

When someone is testing whether the other person does not love her, it is actually a negative self-fulfilling prophecy.

She keeps looking for evidence to prove "you don't love me", which is actually pushing things in a negative direction.

The application in interpersonal communication is divided and called acceptance prophecy.

People who understand this can even use this principle to control others to like or dislike them to a certain extent.

Even fortune-telling, many people who have had their fortunes told, often have a feeling that they have really been fortune-telling.

In fact, this principle is at work.

In the fake scar experiment, the experimenter was made to believe that there was a scar on his forehead, but in fact there was not.

So he will think that others will be more nervous when they see him, so he will appear very nervous.

But what he didn't know was that it was his nervousness that made others nervous, not the scar on his forehead.

In this way, a self-fulfilling prophecy is created.

Therefore, there is an ancient Chinese saying that the more you calculate your fate, the thinner it becomes.

As long as you listen to the fortune teller's prediction of your own destiny, even if you don't believe it, this part of the prediction has already had a huge impact on your life.

If he means good luck, then it really means good luck.

If he is talking about a rough fate, then it really may be a rough fate.