The Pioneer of the Rebirth Era

After the New Year, the day was basically bright, and then I went home to hold the paper and ran the ancestral sacrifice on the first day of the New Year. The woman who used to go to the grave was not allowed to enter the ground, not even the children.

Only when relatives go back to their parents’ homes, the graves of the deceased elders are the family together, let the deceased ancestors see their descendants are full of grandchildren.

But in the past two years, these atmospheres have been a little loose, and some of the more charming girls will embrace their father and go to the grave together. The father of the younger generation must have been loosened, but was glared back by the older grandfather.

But this kind of perseverance is estimated to not last for a few years. When these older generations die in a few years, or if they are in poor health, they cannot walk around the village and go to the grave. The father of the younger generation has become the pillar of the family. The atmosphere will become more and more loose, but it is not certain now.

People who walked around in a circle and made a dumpling in the middle of the night were not very hungry, so they seldom ate breakfast. Instead, he felt that his spirit was good in the middle of the night, and went to the granary to continue fighting.

The whole New Year’s Day is for indulgence. On this day, you are not allowed to turn over the box or cook with the knife. You can only eat the dumplings prepared in advance. You are not allowed to brush the bowl or the pot. In short, hard work and hard work It is only on this day that the peasant of the year tastes how the lazy man feels.

Yang Dongxu certainly won't go to the card game again. He stayed up until two o'clock in the night and hadn't slept for a few hours. He was pulled out of the bed to worship the ancestors. At this time, when he was slightly relaxed, his eyes were heavy, so he prepared Go back to make up.

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When I came on the second day of the New Year, I would go with relatives. There are several relatives in several days. For example, I would eat here in the morning, and I went to another one at noon. It is a rule not to allow relatives at night.

There are many relatives of the Yang family. Except for the seven aunts and eight aunts, because the Yangs have been mixing well all these years, and they are getting better and better.

So some unimportant relatives also walked up, such as uncle's brother's family or something. In general, relatives and fathers in rural areas are still close relatives. For example, Yang Dongxu called his uncle, that is Yang’s uncle, and his mother’s aunt.

Now the main force of the relatives is still Yang Da Yang Yang with the children, so these relatives still have to leave. But grandma and grandpa basically stopped leaving relatives.

Therefore, relatives of their generation, such as grandma's cousins ​​and Yang Dad, felt not so close. When they were young, grandma would go back to her mother's house with her father who was still a child.

Now that my grandmother is older, the number of return to her natal family is less, and some people have passed away. Although the feelings with these siblings are still there, they feel a bit far away. So under normal circumstances, this relationship will become increasingly weak.

Rural people often say that only those with a relationship of five clothes (five generations) can get married, but in fact the relationship between three generations is almost a little weak.

For example, Yang Dongxu will feel close to his mother’s natal family, whether it is the second grandfather, the young grandfather, or the aunt and second aunt. But for the grandmother who is farther away, or there is an uncle who is separated by a layer, there is not much affection, a generation of emotion.

However, because of the current situation of the Yang family, most of these relatives are still walking. After all, people carry bags to the door every year. If you don’t go back and walk around for a while, you can’t explain it. It’s easy to be put on by the rich and forget the poor relatives. The hat is rich and unkind.

It doesn't matter whether you eat or not, the bag must be one. For example, when I go to my uncle's house, I have to carry a lot of small bags every year. First of all, I will carry them to my uncle's house, and then Dad Yang takes the three of them, one by one. Meal must be eaten by uncle, but the bag must be delivered to others, which is also a kind of etiquette.

Because the grandfather and grandma are still alive, the family of the three mothers of the New Year's Day is sent together this year. This year is the uncle Shengli's home for dinner, so there is nothing left in the family.

However, under normal circumstances, it was lunch at the grandfather’s house at noon. Dad Yang came back early. After all, his relatives were not at the time of the meal. After dinner, he must also accompany him. Also go to the grave together.

The third year can be said to be the busiest time for grandma and grandpa's family. The four daughters-in-law, plus a dozen grandchildren, and the grandchildren of heavy grandchildren Hula La are dozens of people.

In fact, on the third day of the Chinese New Year, my cousin should have brought his wife back to his wife’s natal family, but I don’t know if it was because Yang Dongxu would come to my grandma’s house because of the thunder.

Therefore, relatives who can come this day will come, and even the cousin will bring the family over, so that it will happen to entertain all at once, so as not to distract the grandma and grandma.

For a while, either the little fart boy cried or the child was beaten. Especially Ran Hao, the child of Grandpa’s family, when he was just ten years old this year was when he was mischievous. Taking advantage of this as his style of being a big brother at home, he took a group of little fart kids crazy. After being caught by the grandmother and beaten hard, he hid aside and wiped his tears.

As a result, the tears were not dry. Some six or seven-year-old children holding a long stick as a gold hoop and their cousins ​​and cousins ​​went crazy. They first killed a small shop in the village and got a bunch of snacks, and then went to Throw a cannon in the trench of the old house in the village to see if you can explode a few monsters.

"Follow them and watch people don't drop the ditch. Now there is still a lot of water in the ditch?" Yang Ma came out of the kitchen and yelled at Yang Dongxu.

The daughter cooks, the man drinks tea and chats, and watching the children is naturally the task of the third generation of them doing nothing, so they can only smoke with a few table cousins ​​and take a look at these wild children. .

During dinner, Dad Yang had a table with a few grandfathers and uncles and grandpas, a table for younger generations, a table for a few cousins, and another table for younger children. The quarrel was very lively.

The children of the youngest generation who had finished the meal received the lucky money, and the children who were originally mischievous, knelt in front of the two old men, too grandma, and the grandma shouted to receive the red envelope. a.

Yang Dongxu and Zhou Ya have a big red envelope this year because they just got married. After they have children, the red envelope is the child's.

In addition to the New Year's money given by parents, in fact, when you are relatives when you are 16 or 7 years old, the elders will not give New Year's money. One is that the child is already old and no longer needs to give it. The other is naturally an adult. I am embarrassed to ask.

The hustle and bustle ended after going to the grave. The better time these cousins ​​and cousins ​​went to the Yang's house together on the sixth day, and then the adults grabbed the children who Sahuan Er didn't want to go home.

Yang Dongxu, who came down from a circle of relatives and drank, drank a big head. Every day, he felt that the world was turning around, and Zhou Ya would not drink and would drive. Otherwise it would be embarrassing to drink it and get it back.

This kind of day lasted until the end of the tenth day of the New Year, and then Yang Dongxu and Zhou Ya began to pack up their bags and prepare to return to Yanjing to start their second wedding reception.

Mom Yang thought that since it was a wedding banquet, it would be too shabby to be rude if there were no elders present. However, when Yang Dongxu said that he would invite friends to dinner, he wouldn’t care so much. Only a simple party is relieved.

Zhou Yiren was left by Yang Dongxu to stay with Yang Jiacun and the old man Xuan. This old man who has been busy can't stop. After hearing that his daughter is pregnant, he can see his little grandson or granddaughter later this year.

Finally, I felt that my body and bone seemed to have some minor problems. At that time, I might not be able to bear the troubles of the children, so I agreed to stay in Yangjia Village to adjust my body.

As for the handover of work, in fact, it has been handed over almost a year ago, and the rest of the trivia is the same. In order to prevent his father-in-law from returning to Yanjing and not being able to get away, it is really necessary to hand over the things that need to be handed over.

"Is it really that long?" After more than half a month of decadence, Zhou Ya, who was on the plane, seemed to instantly find the working state of the strong woman of the previous year, watching Yang Dongxu **** all the documents in his hand On one side, Zhou Ya pressed her lips and wanted to relax, but she couldn't relax.

"For so long, Sun Lao has said that the two months before pregnancy are the easiest to cause accidents. So these two months must not be too tiring. I will deal with the matter. You are with me. You can point out the good things so that you don’t have to work too hard, and you can rest assured of many things next to you, so as not to affect your mood."

What was it like being a dad for the first time?

First of all, the surprise is a bit incredible~www.readwn.com~ What next? Not as helpless as you might think, or you can’t be happy. Perhaps this is because the child was not born, and it was estimated that Zhou Ya's stomach was only a fertilized egg that had just started to develop, and there was no clear blood line feeling, so Yang Dongxu's mentality was fairly stable.

"But so many things abroad..." Zhou Ya still couldn't let go.

But before she finished speaking, Yang Dongxu interrupted: "Aren't you already hiring a lot of professional managers? Since they have given such a high salary, they will have to show their abilities."

The current situation in the country is fairly stable, and the economic environment is not too volatile. In such an environment, they still can't handle the company's affairs, so they can get out early. If this batch doesn't work, you'll be dismissed and replaced. Anyway, as long as the general direction is good, occasionally there will be a little fluctuation in operation. "

Although the mentality is still calm because the child has not yet been born, in the face of Zhou Ya, her first pregnancy, she should be extremely careful and careful. If it was not Zhou Ya who disagreed, Yang Dongxu wished that Aunt Hua or Cui Ma would watch him for 24 hours and protect it in a way higher than the protection level of the national treasure panda.

Even if this is not the case in my heart, I understand that pregnant women are not as delicate as imagined. But I always couldn't help but want to do this. When I saw a stone on the road, I kicked it directly and I was afraid of tripping. When I saw the steps, I would associate Zhou Ya with it.

It also thought that he knew it was because the nerves were too nervous. At this time, not only did Zhou Ya, who was pregnant, had to maintain a stable state of mind, he also needed to maintain a stable state of mind, but he couldn't control what he would think about?