The lover's lover is employed as an undertaker, and Boss Yang is numb.

Chen Ze smiled helplessly, he didn't expect that he would become a mentor.

In fact, not only Mr. He and Yang Chaoyue wanted to hear it, but the other three female guests also wanted to hear Chen Ze's answer.

Every time he answered a question, even if the answer was different from theirs.

But the words that come out are very comfortable, and they always give people something new.

Chen Ze thought about it, sorted out his thoughts, and then said slowly: "There is no need to deliberately blend, and there is no need to deliberately avoid it." "

"Nowadays, when many people fall in love, they don't talk about two people's affairs, but two families, the circle of friends behind two people, and the work circle behind two people. "

"Surely some people will think about the question, what if I fall in love with him, my family, my friends don't accept it. "

"Now skip the family and just talk about the friends. "

"Let me start with the question, do you think friendship is important?"

Chen Ze looked at the other guests.

Without exception, everyone nodded.

"Since I think friendship is important, it is impossible to avoid the other party's circle of friends 100% when falling in love. "

"I like that person, so I want my friend to accept my significant other and I want him to accept my friend. "

This idea is very common and is a question that almost every couple thinks. "

"But this is not without difficulty, on the contrary, it is very difficult. "

"And between lovers, the bigger the gap between the two parties' family, work career, cognition, and education, the more difficult it is to integrate. "

On the contrary, if the two parties have a common circle of friends, or if the relationship is made by friends introducing each other, it is easy to integrate. "

"If you don't have a common circle of friends, you have to rebuild new social relationships. "

"Do you think it's hard to make a new friend, or a close friend?"

As soon as this question came out, it was almost unanimously passed, and everyone nodded.

Teacher He smiled slightly.

Chen Ze is really interesting, and every time he looks at a problem, he looks at it from a novel perspective.

It was indeed an angle direction that he hadn't even thought of himself.

Sure enough, there was no problem in letting him finale.

Chen Ze slowed down and continued: "In modern society, the cost of socializing is actually very high, some people can't even get along with colleagues in the unit, and the friends of their own objects have less contact time, so it is even more difficult to become friends. "

Those present here are well aware of this.

Yang Mi is even more so.

She used to have many sisters in the circle, such as Tang Yan.

The two used to be so good that they often interacted with each other and shared joys, sorrows, and sorrows.

In the end, because some things gradually faded away, and in the end, even if I met it, I wouldn't say hello.

Many fans sighed for them.

But this is the entertainment industry, and it is also the epitome of the most acute social problems.

"So my opinion is, if it's a couple, try to fit into each other's circle of friends, but don't force it either. "

"What the girls' circle likes to talk about and play, the boys may not be able to accept, and the boys' circle likes it, the girls may not be able to accept it. "

Speaking of this, Chen Ze smiled: "Another point, it is said that there is no pure friendship between men and women in the world. "

"If your partner has a good friend of the opposite sex, and it just so happens that you don't like that person very much, don't you find something to do for yourself?"

"It is also possible that this has affected my relationship. "

The crowd was amused.

That's true.

Yang Mi glanced at Zhang Dada.

Boy, you're very unpleasant.

Zhang Dada smiled helplessly.

Sister, I'm innocent, it's all the audience's misunderstanding!

"Let's be realistic, the higher the level, that is, the higher the social wealth and status, the easier it is for them to integrate into each other than ordinary people. "

"Because the richer and higher the social status, generally speaking, the more tactful they are in dealing with others, in other words, they will be more vain, even if they don't like it, they will pinch their noses and accept it for some strange reasons. "

"I don't believe that rich people like to taste wine and watch art exhibitions, but are there fewer rich people who participate in these projects every day? That's how they socialize. "

"They fit in, but not necessarily for friendship, not necessarily to cement their love, maybe to expand something else. "

This is Chen Ze's experience, but it is not him, but his parents or relatives.

He has the impression that his father is not a person who likes art, but when he is rich, he will still go to art exhibitions and the like for the social interaction of some noble friends.

A person who works hard in society without graduating from high school and sells funeral supplies, can you understand it? Do you really like it?

Chen Ze likes his mother's personality very much, he doesn't deal with anyone, and he will be himself when he has money.

The

concept is outdated, I think it is practical to buy a house, and I buy all kinds of things when I have money.

Because others say that LV is used by nouveau riche, not only give away all the things of LV, but also only buy Hermes in the future.

You can carry hundreds of thousands of bags to play two pieces of mahjong, or you can wear a famous brand to eat roadside stalls.

This kind of character, Chen Ze simply loves it.

Live your life!

But what is the big premise, the family has earned money.

Therefore, the question asked by Mr. He is very simple for Chen Ze.

I have ready-made answers at home.

Even if my dad is rich, he has to pinch his nose to do some social interactions that he doesn't like, while my mom doesn't deliberately try to curry favor with the powerful.