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"I don't like to fight, and I won't fight with you." Chen Yanxi shook his head and said, "Because such a fight is meaningless."

"So, what you mean is that Wang Ge is not included in the things you care about, right?"

Gu Panyan looked at her playfully, and then looked at the little tabby cat named Xiaoge who was eating seriously. The meaning was self-evident.

Even your cat was named after him. If you say you don't care, no one will believe it.

"First of all, Wang Ge is a living, thinking person, not something or an object that can be fought for."

Chen Yanxi said to her seriously: "His behavior is completely controlled by his free will, not by the fight between you and me."

Gu Panyan frowned slightly.

Chen Yanxi looked at her and continued, "Secondly, this is the first time I've liked someone since I was a child, so of course I care about him."

"But I care about him as a person, not the relationship between him and me."

"Relationships are not a necessity for me, and they can be abandoned at any time. If he wants to live with you and cut off contact with me, this is completely acceptable to me."

"I don't want to establish a close relationship with others. Being alone for a lifetime is also a very ideal life state."

Gu Panyan still frowned: "Don't you want to be with him?"

"Of course I do, after all, I like him."

Chen Yanxi looked at her and said softly, "But, compared to this, I would rather hope that he can freely choose to live the life he wants."

"Hmm?" Gu Panyan was a little confused.

"It may seem hypocritical to say this, but I still want to tell you."

"Everyone cares about others in different ways." She said seriously, "For my own reasons, my care for Wang Ge does not mean that I must possess him, but that I will respect and support every choice he makes under the control of free will - even if this choice is to stay away from me."

Just like he respected and supported the choices I made before. Chen Yanxi added in his heart.

Gu Panyan stared at her and frowned slightly.

Because of her special experience in the past, she has the ability to easily see through other people's inner thoughts.

Therefore, she can deeply feel that every word of the girl in front of her is from the heart, and none of them are lies.

She finally understood why Wang Ge was so fascinated by this girl.

Such a strong personal charm, like a tide, drowns people. If she were a man, she would also be fascinated.

However, although she understood it, she was fascinated by it, but Gu Panyan did not agree with her approach.

There are many sufferings in the world, but happiness and beauty are too rare.

Suffering requires courage to overcome, and the rare happiness and beauty require courage to fight for and boldly hold them tightly in your hands.

Once you miss it, you may never have it again.

Why do happiness and beauty also require courage? Because in Gu Panyan's understanding, the unhappiness experienced by most people is often due to lack of courage, the courage to obtain happiness.

A simple example is that you like a good-looking and excellent person of the opposite sex, but you dare not pursue or confess. You think you are not good-looking, have a bad figure, have no money, or have a bad family, so you are a little inferior in your heart, and think that the other party may not look down on you, so you dare not confess.

But fundamentally, what you are afraid of is not that the other party looks down on you, but that you are afraid of being rejected, being laughed at by others, being regarded as a dog and having nothing, being afraid that your efforts will be exchanged for nothing, and being reduced to a clown in the mouths of others.

This kind of fear is a manifestation of lack of courage.

Without courage, how can you know whether you can succeed in the end if you don't even dare to try?

So in Gu Panyan's view, Chen Yanxi's idea is a manifestation of lack of courage and fear of trying.

Lack of courage to "get happiness even if it goes against free will".

Of course, Gu Panyan will not argue with Chen Yanxi about this. Argumentation is not her character, and it has no effect.

She thinks Chen Yanxi has no courage. Chen Yanxi may think that she does not respect personal free will. Both of them have a set of mature views and ideas. Gu Panyan's views tend to be realistic, and Chen Yanxi's ideas are more idealistic. Neither of them can convince the other.

And Chen Yanxi is unlikely to argue with her.

So Gu Panyan just gently applauded Chen Yanxi: "It's wonderful. Should I sing praises to your noble sentiments and praise your great character?"

"Everyone has different opinions on this kind of thing. There is no distinction between high and low, noble and vulgar."

Chen Yanxi lowered his head to eat, "I just explained my ideas to you, which is also part of 'etiquette'."

Gu Panyan raised his eyebrows: "Then, what about the 'soldier' ​​part?"

"That's a matter of the future, I can't say for sure." Chen Yanxi shook his head, "Maybe there will be, maybe not."

She wants to reshape herself. Once reshaped, the inherent concepts will be broken. If she thinks about the problem from a different angle, she may make a completely different choice.

Gu Panyan stared at her and suddenly laughed: "I suddenly remembered something very interesting."

"Let's talk while eating." Chen Yanxi said, "The food is getting cold."

"Okay."

Gu Panyan picked up the chopsticks and said while eating, "You said you respect and support his choice and want him to live the life he wants, right?"

"Um."

"Then what if the life that scumbag wants is to have two boats?"

Gu Panyan looked at her with playful eyes, "What if he wants us to be his girlfriends together? Will you still support him?"

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Chen Yanxi replied without any hesitation, "I respect his choice and support him in working hard for the goal he wants to achieve."

"But that doesn't mean I have to agree to him. Relationships are between two people. While I support his choice, I must also respect my own will."

She said calmly: "Whatever choice you make, you must bear what responsibility. If his goal conflicts with my will, then it is his responsibility to resolve the conflict and he has to make the decision." s hard work."

"Tsk, a genius is a genius, what he says is different."

The corner of Gu Panyan's mouth curled up in a mocking arc, "So, Miss Genius, tell me, if that scumbag really wants to ride on two boats, can you accept it?"

This time, Chen Yanxi hesitated for a few seconds before shaking his head: "I don't know."

"Don't know?" Gu Panyan was a little surprised.

Is there anything that such a sane and sober girl can't decide?

"For me now, I really can't accept it." Chen Yanxi said softly, "But for me in the future, that is completely uncertain."

"To speculate on future choices with the current mentality is disrespectful to the future and irresponsible to the present."

Suddenly I found that the chapter number seemed to be wrong, missing one Chapter 96

It’s just that the chapter number is wrong, but the content is not missing, so it shouldn’t be a big problem. It’s quite troublesome to change the chapters on the shelf, so I’m too lazy to change them. Everyone can just read them normally.