The mother and daughter looked at each other, quite helpless.
Anyway, this post is sent in the name of the old lady.Even if they really, really don't want to go, they have to.Although the husband said, if the mother and daughter don't want to go, they won't go.After all, so what if the daughter of a small fifth-rank official is a concubine?
Of course, Lin Ruhai dared to say that because he had guessed the Holy Majesty's intention.
Although, he didn't understand why the Holy Majesty named Jia as his concubine.But he thinks that the Jia family is definitely not the favorite concubine!Since she is not a favorite concubine, nor is she a young woman in her twenties and eight years; and there are so many beauties in the palace, how could it be possible for the Holy Majesty to suddenly fall in love with her?The twists and turns in there are definitely not what the Holy One likes!Even if it is not so easy to understand, you can still guess what is not easy.
Think about it, a living concubine who has just been released from the oven has been given a double title of unknown meaning.
As long as you have a little understanding of the Holy Majesty's mind, you should know.Such a title is not an expression of favor, but a different kind of death talisman.
If someone else's family heard such a title, I'm afraid they would have to think too much.
But the mother-in-law's family, I don't know if it's out of their minds or something, not only didn't think much about it when they heard the news, but they thought: This is the daughter of their family who is doted on by the Holy One, so he gave it a special title.
Lin Ruhai still remembered that at that time, the servant who delivered the post to their family had a look of embarrassment, how far could such a family go?
Jia Min has always thought that she is still a smarter type of person, but why do the second sister-in-law and the old lady think that she is easy to deceive?Could it be that the mother and daughter look really stupid and easy to fool?
Lin Ruhai, on the other hand, after listening to the servants of Jia's family, and seeing his wife and daughter's conflicted faces, he said that naturally.
At least, Lin Ruhai didn't think that his wife and daughter would be condemned for not going to the banquet.
But my wife said:
"Why are you arguing with them? Even if the higher-ups don't commit crimes, it's not appropriate to be accused of being unfilial by them. No matter what you say, you've been splashed with sewage. Why don't you go and see what they want to do!"
Lin Ruhai really didn't know what they were thinking.He can't figure out a woman's mind.Then he opened his mouth and said:
"I'm afraid that you will be wronged if you go!"
After Jia Min finished speaking, she glanced at Lin Ruhai, "Although we are only a little girl, we can bend and stretch."
Lin Ruhai looked at his wife and daughter who had already decided, thought for a while, and then said:
"However, before you go, I'll ask the Holy Father to borrow two nuns to take you there. It's safer."
Jia Min, who was still holding his breath just now, heaved a sigh of relief after hearing what her husband said:
"It's better like this. Otherwise, we mother and daughter won't know how to get away by then!"
Lin Ruhai patted his wife's hand and said:
"Don't worry, with those two nuns around, your niece won't do anything to you."
With a husband (daddy), they would have gone to Jia's family visitation villa in order to avoid gossip, even if they found out that they would be embarrassed if they went.The words of the husband (father) are their words of reassurance.It is of course better to not be embarrassed by others than to be embarrassed.
Now that the matter is resolved, the mother and daughter look at each other.While breathing a sigh of relief, I was still a little depressed.Seeing that it was still early, the mother and daughter discussed it, and they felt that they wanted to find someone to talk about their aggrieved hearts.
After much deliberation, the mother and daughter felt that going to Jiayun's house to complain to her would not be leaked out.Maybe she can still stay in Su's house, and her mood will be changed!
So after tidying up, the mother and daughter ran to Su's house and appeared in front of Jiayun.
Jiayun was suddenly speechless after hearing Jia Min's mother and daughter's narration.
But she also knows that in ancient times, in this era of filial piety, sometimes you were always slandered by people using such an excuse when you obviously did nothing unfilial.
A sentence of "unfilial piety" is as lethal as if you have done a heinous thing!
Not to mention anything else, wouldn't Jia Amnesty be persecuted by his old mother with the excuse of filial piety?Once Jia Amnesty has something that makes the old lady Jia unhappy, the old lady Jia will be full of unfilial sons and other things.
Now, if Jia Amnesty hadn't used some tricks to split them up.Jia She had to pay tens of thousands of taels of silver for the family-friendly villa.And Jia Lian was forced to ask for leave and continue to run errands for the family.If they don't do it, will the old lady let their father and son go?
And Wang Xifeng, probably has to put her son aside to help them figure out a way to squeeze out her dowry to do things for Mrs. Wang.However, this work will definitely get a kickback.Although he took the money, the money he got may not be as much as he was dug out!
Now, both Jia Min's mother and daughter have received posts in the name of Mrs. Jia. If their mother and daughter really don't go, I'm afraid that the next day after the family visit, Jia's family will let people go around saying that Jia Min's mother Women's gossip.Although you can ignore it, but in the end it will be a little annoying.
Since her righteous brother Lin Ruhai had said that he would lend them two nuns from the palace, she was still taboo by Jia Yuanchun.With such two nuns, if you don't go, how can you meet Jia Yuanchun and Jia's family?It is conceivable that these two nuns are either by the queen's side, or by the empress dowager's side.If it was just an ordinary nanny, how could Jia Yuanchun be taboo?
Thinking of this, Jiayun smiled and said to Jia Min's mother and daughter:
"Since elder brother has borrowed power from you, if you don't try to scare them, how can you be worthy of elder brother's hard work?"
Naturally, Jia Min and Daiyu were not stupid, and they understood Jiayun's words just like that.
Thinking that they would be embarrassed if they only cared about themselves before, but now because of their husband (father), they can go to the trouble of others.Sure enough, it was the right thing to come to Su Mansion to find Jiayun (aunt)!
There was still some aggrieved emotions before, but they were let go at once, and the mood of the mother and daughter suddenly improved.Straight:
"It turns out that when things are understood in a different direction, people's moods will be different."
Jia Yun said of course:
"This is for sure. In many cases, the effects of empathy are quite unusual."
Daiyu clapped her hands together, bared her teeth suddenly and said:
"That's right. It must be very interesting to think about the time when we bring two powerful nuns with us and see their astonished expressions."
Jiayun looked at Daiyu's actions, which seemed to be bold and unrestrained, so she said:
"Take it easy, don't think that you can be at ease just because you have a nanny. In the eyes of those people, maybe it's not because they are stunned, but because you purposely embarrass them, then...there will be endless troubles!"
Jia Min, who knew Jia's family very well, felt a lot after listening to Jia Yun's words.If others don't know, how can she not know the temperament of her natal family?The heart that was just happy just thought of this, his eyes sank, and he said:
"My sister said, Daiyu, you must not be careless. Those people think differently from ordinary people."
Daiyu frowned slightly. She didn't have much contact with the people of her grandfather's family, so she really didn't understand their thoughts.Think about Tanchun's behavior when he asked her for money. I don't know if he was stimulated by something, so he said those words?If so, then it is really troublesome!
However, most people think so, and they should be able to guess what most people think.But those in the Jia family must be ordinary people.Daiyu raised her eyebrows and asked her mother:
"Mother, do members of my grandfather's family think differently from ordinary people?"
"This, mother can't say for sure, when the time comes, let's adapt accordingly!"
"It seems that we can only do this."
Jiayun didn't understand Jia Min and Daiyu, she just felt happy, why did they fall into melancholy again with just one sentence?It seems that the mother and daughter are not so open-minded people, and this is why they have the sentimental, sensitive and delicate thoughts in the original book.
But people always think so much, they lock their brows every day, and get wrinkles even if they are not tired!Opened his mouth and said:
"I said, are you mother and daughter thinking too much? Nothing has happened yet? Isn't it like this to plan for a rainy day? You are always frowning. Don't you think you are too young to engrave on your forehead?" Some wrinkles?"
Jia Min gave a rare "hehe" dry laugh before saying:
"It's nothing, we just get used to it."
"This is not a good habit. As the saying goes, if a person sighs often, he will sigh away his happiness; if a person often frowns, it will be difficult to be happy in the future; if a person is often worried, he will forget happiness .”
Daiyu was very curious about what Jiayun said, so she asked:
"Is there really such a saying?"
"Since so many people have said it, there is a certain reason. Not to mention anything else, Daiyu, do you like to see smiling faces or crying faces?"
"Of course it's a smiling face!"
"If you choose a smiling face, how can others choose a mourning face?"
Jia Min smiled slightly and said:
"It's true, we will try our best to get out of our sorrows in the future. Smile more, and smile back our blessings!"
"Hehe... That kind of thing has always been a kind of heart disease. Only if you want to change from the bottom of your heart, can you really change."
The three women talked nonsense for a while, seeing that it was getting late, the mother and daughter said goodbye to Jiayun and went home.
Regarding Jia Min's mother and daughter, Jiayun really didn't know what to say.
Although Daiyu's character is not as sentimental as in the original book, she usually looks good, but she still can't help thinking more than others when encountering things.As for Jia Min, he already likes people who think too much, otherwise his health would not be so bad before.
Excessive thinking, mental and physical depression, the human body will not be so good!
Otherwise, those people who suffer from depression would not live in such pain.
Speaking of this, Jiayun thought of a colleague in her previous life who was disliked by her mother-in-law because she gave birth to a daughter.Not to mention helping her with the child, but also gossiping at her all day long.The colleague went to work after her child was one month old, and they found that she was much thinner than before she gave birth.They all asked her concerned if she worked too hard, didn't eat well, didn't sleep well?
In the end, the colleague told them that it’s okay to have a hard time raising the children, but what’s uncomfortable is listening to the harsh words from the mother-in-law every day.After listening to it for more than a month, it made her feel very painful. She said:
"At the most painful time, I even thought about jumping from the seventh floor!"
Hearing this, they felt chills in their hearts, and hurriedly comforted her, telling her to look away.
With a sad face, she just smiled after hearing everyone's comfort, and didn't say anything else.
When she went to work after maternity leave, her face became sharper and thinner, and her arms and legs were so thin that she was even smaller than before she was pregnant!A woman who had been cheerful before her pregnancy suddenly became dull.
It can be seen that people's emotions can affect people's health.
When the family sat and chatted together at night, Jiayun talked about depression or something to her family, and the whole family looked at her stupidly.They didn't understand what Jiayun meant by depression!Looking at the questioning family members, the corners of Jiayun's mouth twitched, and she realized: The ancients didn't seem to have the word depression at all!
Xiaoyu, who hadn't been home for a long time, thought for a while after listening, and asked:
"The depression that my mother mentioned, is depression to a certain extent and becomes a disease. Is it caused by it?"
In fact, Jiayun herself didn't know how depression came about, so she heard the word too much, and when she saw something that seemed similar, she imposed it on herself, thinking that it was depression.So, a slightly embarrassing answer:
"Uh, almost, that's what it means."
Xiaobei’s friends immediately asked:
"Mother, how depressed is this person considered to be depressed?"
"What? Depression can be mild or deep, so it depends on the individual."
I still think about the little friend Xiaobei who doesn't understand very well, and said in his mouth:
"Oh~! I see."
Only Xiaonan's little friend was thoughtful, and said for a long time:
"I also know that when a person thinks too much, he is already suffering from depression!"
"Uh, well, that counts!"
The family began discussing the various symptoms of depression.
Suddenly, Xiaonan Xiaopen said to everyone melancholy:
"Mother, I think I'm already suffering from mild depression!"
What Xiaonan Xiaopenyou said shocked everyone, and they asked in unison:
"What did you say?"
Xiaonan Xiaopenyou wrinkled his little face and said sadly:
"Sometimes I suddenly get very irritable and irritable, and I don't feel happy about doing anything..."
"Then what do you want to do to be happy?"
"Want to sleep on ice."
The whole family looked up at the sky at the same time, and finally Xiaoyu said to his third brother with a strange expression:
"You were made hot by the weather. You kid wants to suffer from depression? You really have too much time to spare. Read a few more books and you'll be cured!"
Xiao Nan blinked her big eyes and asked happily:
"Brother, are you telling the truth?"
Xiaoyu said with a serious face:
"Of course it's true."
Jiayun on the side, looking at her two sons, felt that she was so bored that she had nothing to discuss with her family about such things!
Anyway, this post is sent in the name of the old lady.Even if they really, really don't want to go, they have to.Although the husband said, if the mother and daughter don't want to go, they won't go.After all, so what if the daughter of a small fifth-rank official is a concubine?
Of course, Lin Ruhai dared to say that because he had guessed the Holy Majesty's intention.
Although, he didn't understand why the Holy Majesty named Jia as his concubine.But he thinks that the Jia family is definitely not the favorite concubine!Since she is not a favorite concubine, nor is she a young woman in her twenties and eight years; and there are so many beauties in the palace, how could it be possible for the Holy Majesty to suddenly fall in love with her?The twists and turns in there are definitely not what the Holy One likes!Even if it is not so easy to understand, you can still guess what is not easy.
Think about it, a living concubine who has just been released from the oven has been given a double title of unknown meaning.
As long as you have a little understanding of the Holy Majesty's mind, you should know.Such a title is not an expression of favor, but a different kind of death talisman.
If someone else's family heard such a title, I'm afraid they would have to think too much.
But the mother-in-law's family, I don't know if it's out of their minds or something, not only didn't think much about it when they heard the news, but they thought: This is the daughter of their family who is doted on by the Holy One, so he gave it a special title.
Lin Ruhai still remembered that at that time, the servant who delivered the post to their family had a look of embarrassment, how far could such a family go?
Jia Min has always thought that she is still a smarter type of person, but why do the second sister-in-law and the old lady think that she is easy to deceive?Could it be that the mother and daughter look really stupid and easy to fool?
Lin Ruhai, on the other hand, after listening to the servants of Jia's family, and seeing his wife and daughter's conflicted faces, he said that naturally.
At least, Lin Ruhai didn't think that his wife and daughter would be condemned for not going to the banquet.
But my wife said:
"Why are you arguing with them? Even if the higher-ups don't commit crimes, it's not appropriate to be accused of being unfilial by them. No matter what you say, you've been splashed with sewage. Why don't you go and see what they want to do!"
Lin Ruhai really didn't know what they were thinking.He can't figure out a woman's mind.Then he opened his mouth and said:
"I'm afraid that you will be wronged if you go!"
After Jia Min finished speaking, she glanced at Lin Ruhai, "Although we are only a little girl, we can bend and stretch."
Lin Ruhai looked at his wife and daughter who had already decided, thought for a while, and then said:
"However, before you go, I'll ask the Holy Father to borrow two nuns to take you there. It's safer."
Jia Min, who was still holding his breath just now, heaved a sigh of relief after hearing what her husband said:
"It's better like this. Otherwise, we mother and daughter won't know how to get away by then!"
Lin Ruhai patted his wife's hand and said:
"Don't worry, with those two nuns around, your niece won't do anything to you."
With a husband (daddy), they would have gone to Jia's family visitation villa in order to avoid gossip, even if they found out that they would be embarrassed if they went.The words of the husband (father) are their words of reassurance.It is of course better to not be embarrassed by others than to be embarrassed.
Now that the matter is resolved, the mother and daughter look at each other.While breathing a sigh of relief, I was still a little depressed.Seeing that it was still early, the mother and daughter discussed it, and they felt that they wanted to find someone to talk about their aggrieved hearts.
After much deliberation, the mother and daughter felt that going to Jiayun's house to complain to her would not be leaked out.Maybe she can still stay in Su's house, and her mood will be changed!
So after tidying up, the mother and daughter ran to Su's house and appeared in front of Jiayun.
Jiayun was suddenly speechless after hearing Jia Min's mother and daughter's narration.
But she also knows that in ancient times, in this era of filial piety, sometimes you were always slandered by people using such an excuse when you obviously did nothing unfilial.
A sentence of "unfilial piety" is as lethal as if you have done a heinous thing!
Not to mention anything else, wouldn't Jia Amnesty be persecuted by his old mother with the excuse of filial piety?Once Jia Amnesty has something that makes the old lady Jia unhappy, the old lady Jia will be full of unfilial sons and other things.
Now, if Jia Amnesty hadn't used some tricks to split them up.Jia She had to pay tens of thousands of taels of silver for the family-friendly villa.And Jia Lian was forced to ask for leave and continue to run errands for the family.If they don't do it, will the old lady let their father and son go?
And Wang Xifeng, probably has to put her son aside to help them figure out a way to squeeze out her dowry to do things for Mrs. Wang.However, this work will definitely get a kickback.Although he took the money, the money he got may not be as much as he was dug out!
Now, both Jia Min's mother and daughter have received posts in the name of Mrs. Jia. If their mother and daughter really don't go, I'm afraid that the next day after the family visit, Jia's family will let people go around saying that Jia Min's mother Women's gossip.Although you can ignore it, but in the end it will be a little annoying.
Since her righteous brother Lin Ruhai had said that he would lend them two nuns from the palace, she was still taboo by Jia Yuanchun.With such two nuns, if you don't go, how can you meet Jia Yuanchun and Jia's family?It is conceivable that these two nuns are either by the queen's side, or by the empress dowager's side.If it was just an ordinary nanny, how could Jia Yuanchun be taboo?
Thinking of this, Jiayun smiled and said to Jia Min's mother and daughter:
"Since elder brother has borrowed power from you, if you don't try to scare them, how can you be worthy of elder brother's hard work?"
Naturally, Jia Min and Daiyu were not stupid, and they understood Jiayun's words just like that.
Thinking that they would be embarrassed if they only cared about themselves before, but now because of their husband (father), they can go to the trouble of others.Sure enough, it was the right thing to come to Su Mansion to find Jiayun (aunt)!
There was still some aggrieved emotions before, but they were let go at once, and the mood of the mother and daughter suddenly improved.Straight:
"It turns out that when things are understood in a different direction, people's moods will be different."
Jia Yun said of course:
"This is for sure. In many cases, the effects of empathy are quite unusual."
Daiyu clapped her hands together, bared her teeth suddenly and said:
"That's right. It must be very interesting to think about the time when we bring two powerful nuns with us and see their astonished expressions."
Jiayun looked at Daiyu's actions, which seemed to be bold and unrestrained, so she said:
"Take it easy, don't think that you can be at ease just because you have a nanny. In the eyes of those people, maybe it's not because they are stunned, but because you purposely embarrass them, then...there will be endless troubles!"
Jia Min, who knew Jia's family very well, felt a lot after listening to Jia Yun's words.If others don't know, how can she not know the temperament of her natal family?The heart that was just happy just thought of this, his eyes sank, and he said:
"My sister said, Daiyu, you must not be careless. Those people think differently from ordinary people."
Daiyu frowned slightly. She didn't have much contact with the people of her grandfather's family, so she really didn't understand their thoughts.Think about Tanchun's behavior when he asked her for money. I don't know if he was stimulated by something, so he said those words?If so, then it is really troublesome!
However, most people think so, and they should be able to guess what most people think.But those in the Jia family must be ordinary people.Daiyu raised her eyebrows and asked her mother:
"Mother, do members of my grandfather's family think differently from ordinary people?"
"This, mother can't say for sure, when the time comes, let's adapt accordingly!"
"It seems that we can only do this."
Jiayun didn't understand Jia Min and Daiyu, she just felt happy, why did they fall into melancholy again with just one sentence?It seems that the mother and daughter are not so open-minded people, and this is why they have the sentimental, sensitive and delicate thoughts in the original book.
But people always think so much, they lock their brows every day, and get wrinkles even if they are not tired!Opened his mouth and said:
"I said, are you mother and daughter thinking too much? Nothing has happened yet? Isn't it like this to plan for a rainy day? You are always frowning. Don't you think you are too young to engrave on your forehead?" Some wrinkles?"
Jia Min gave a rare "hehe" dry laugh before saying:
"It's nothing, we just get used to it."
"This is not a good habit. As the saying goes, if a person sighs often, he will sigh away his happiness; if a person often frowns, it will be difficult to be happy in the future; if a person is often worried, he will forget happiness .”
Daiyu was very curious about what Jiayun said, so she asked:
"Is there really such a saying?"
"Since so many people have said it, there is a certain reason. Not to mention anything else, Daiyu, do you like to see smiling faces or crying faces?"
"Of course it's a smiling face!"
"If you choose a smiling face, how can others choose a mourning face?"
Jia Min smiled slightly and said:
"It's true, we will try our best to get out of our sorrows in the future. Smile more, and smile back our blessings!"
"Hehe... That kind of thing has always been a kind of heart disease. Only if you want to change from the bottom of your heart, can you really change."
The three women talked nonsense for a while, seeing that it was getting late, the mother and daughter said goodbye to Jiayun and went home.
Regarding Jia Min's mother and daughter, Jiayun really didn't know what to say.
Although Daiyu's character is not as sentimental as in the original book, she usually looks good, but she still can't help thinking more than others when encountering things.As for Jia Min, he already likes people who think too much, otherwise his health would not be so bad before.
Excessive thinking, mental and physical depression, the human body will not be so good!
Otherwise, those people who suffer from depression would not live in such pain.
Speaking of this, Jiayun thought of a colleague in her previous life who was disliked by her mother-in-law because she gave birth to a daughter.Not to mention helping her with the child, but also gossiping at her all day long.The colleague went to work after her child was one month old, and they found that she was much thinner than before she gave birth.They all asked her concerned if she worked too hard, didn't eat well, didn't sleep well?
In the end, the colleague told them that it’s okay to have a hard time raising the children, but what’s uncomfortable is listening to the harsh words from the mother-in-law every day.After listening to it for more than a month, it made her feel very painful. She said:
"At the most painful time, I even thought about jumping from the seventh floor!"
Hearing this, they felt chills in their hearts, and hurriedly comforted her, telling her to look away.
With a sad face, she just smiled after hearing everyone's comfort, and didn't say anything else.
When she went to work after maternity leave, her face became sharper and thinner, and her arms and legs were so thin that she was even smaller than before she was pregnant!A woman who had been cheerful before her pregnancy suddenly became dull.
It can be seen that people's emotions can affect people's health.
When the family sat and chatted together at night, Jiayun talked about depression or something to her family, and the whole family looked at her stupidly.They didn't understand what Jiayun meant by depression!Looking at the questioning family members, the corners of Jiayun's mouth twitched, and she realized: The ancients didn't seem to have the word depression at all!
Xiaoyu, who hadn't been home for a long time, thought for a while after listening, and asked:
"The depression that my mother mentioned, is depression to a certain extent and becomes a disease. Is it caused by it?"
In fact, Jiayun herself didn't know how depression came about, so she heard the word too much, and when she saw something that seemed similar, she imposed it on herself, thinking that it was depression.So, a slightly embarrassing answer:
"Uh, almost, that's what it means."
Xiaobei’s friends immediately asked:
"Mother, how depressed is this person considered to be depressed?"
"What? Depression can be mild or deep, so it depends on the individual."
I still think about the little friend Xiaobei who doesn't understand very well, and said in his mouth:
"Oh~! I see."
Only Xiaonan's little friend was thoughtful, and said for a long time:
"I also know that when a person thinks too much, he is already suffering from depression!"
"Uh, well, that counts!"
The family began discussing the various symptoms of depression.
Suddenly, Xiaonan Xiaopen said to everyone melancholy:
"Mother, I think I'm already suffering from mild depression!"
What Xiaonan Xiaopenyou said shocked everyone, and they asked in unison:
"What did you say?"
Xiaonan Xiaopenyou wrinkled his little face and said sadly:
"Sometimes I suddenly get very irritable and irritable, and I don't feel happy about doing anything..."
"Then what do you want to do to be happy?"
"Want to sleep on ice."
The whole family looked up at the sky at the same time, and finally Xiaoyu said to his third brother with a strange expression:
"You were made hot by the weather. You kid wants to suffer from depression? You really have too much time to spare. Read a few more books and you'll be cured!"
Xiao Nan blinked her big eyes and asked happily:
"Brother, are you telling the truth?"
Xiaoyu said with a serious face:
"Of course it's true."
Jiayun on the side, looking at her two sons, felt that she was so bored that she had nothing to discuss with her family about such things!
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