[Red Mansion] Marrying a wife like jade

Not to mention the native Shen Ren, even Brother Ai had a lot of doubts about the Lin family, a scholarly family with four generations of lords but not a prosperous family, when he was reading the original book.Now the old lady's tone is obviously dissatisfied with Lin Ruhai's support. For his sister Lin, Brother Ai hopes that the old lady can quickly say something.

It is not you who knows you best, but your enemy.Although Mrs. Shen and the old lady are not enemies, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is delicate. In this era, it is more important for a daughter-in-law to understand her mother-in-law's likes and dislikes than her husband's likes and dislikes - they are the people who live in the backyard every day. The person you spend the longest time with.

It didn't take long for Brother Ai to understand the matter, and it was still about differences of opinion and inconsistency and inequality: The Lin family in Gusu was originally a local prominent family, but in troubled times, people's lives are like ants. I can't guarantee that I can resist the disaster of swordsmen.In order to save his life, Lin Ruhai, the eldest brother, wanted to follow the Ming Lord, while the elder brother, the elder brother, wanted to hide and hibernate.

Disagreement of opinion, naturally parted ways.

At that time, Lin Ruhai's ancestor was the head of the family, and he controlled most of the family's property. He used this property as a stepping stone, and successfully became a counselor beside the Tai/ancestor. Otherwise, he would not have become a marquis as a literati after the founding of the country .

Wealth and honor do not return to one's hometown, such as traveling at night in brocade clothes.The tripod has already been set in this dynasty, and the ancestors of Lin Ruhai returned to their hometown to pay respects.But he didn't want to find out after returning to his hometown that in those years, the swordsmen were accompanied by natural disasters, and most of the family's property was taken away by him, and the family's family was also ruined.

Ancestor Lin Ruhai felt ashamed, but he had already become a marquis, so he was unwilling to bow his head to his brothers, and only said that he would lead his clansmen to share the wealth.In the old lady's father's mind, that is her elder brother after all, besides, the clansmen are all dead, and there is no hope of resurrection.But in the end, there are still people alive, and the predecessors scattered soil to deceive the eyes of future generations. As long as Lin Ruhai's ancestors can bow their heads and say a few words to the tribe, and then pay homage to the ancestral graves, there will be his way of sharing wealth and honor. That being said, this matter is not insurmountable.

However, Lin Ruhai's ancestors were self-centered, and felt that the dead clansmen were attached to their own family to live, and even the clan property that they took away back then were mostly bought by their own family.His guilt was more towards his brothers than those of his dead clansmen.Therefore, he was very reluctant to suggest to his brother.

He didn't know that when he was avoiding weapons and natural disasters, the brothers and clansmen supported each other, and their feelings were not much shallower than his elder brother.Seeing that the elder brother has no intention of repenting, the younger brother also became angry: they all said that sharing adversity is easy, and sharing wealth is difficult.Since elder brother can't even share adversity, how can he share wealth?

If the Lin family said it well, they had character, but if they said it badly, they would save face.The two brothers were unwilling to succumb to each other. Even though Jinling and Gusu were not far away in the early days of the country, their communication has faded.After waiting for the capital to be established, it was already Lin Ruhai's great-grandfather who took over the title, and it was a little further away in two strokes.

When Lin Ruhai's great-grandfather passed away and his grandfather was still a child, when he sent his spirit back to Gusu, the old lady's father thought about the family's orphans and widows, and no one outside to support him, so he suggested that one or two people from the clan be arranged to take care of him. They worked as housekeepers and returned to Gusu after Lin Ruhai's grandfather became a man.

From the old lady's father's point of view, he was doing it out of good intentions - clansmen, if they don't help each other at this time, when will they help?But to Lin Ruhai's great-grandmother, she felt that it was an idea from the clan to take advantage of their family property because they saw their children as weak and their mother sick.Although there is no explicit refusal, no matter how tactful the words are, people can hear the spring and autumn style of writing in them.

There is nothing wrong with Lin Ruhai's great-grandmother wanting to keep her family's property. The old lady's father felt that he was being treated like a donkey because of his good intentions.

What Brother Ai wants to tell the old lady most is that communication is very important. People who have read the book speak well, and the most important thing is less tact, less insinuation, less subtle words and less righteousness.He felt that Lin Ruhai's great-grandmother might not be worried for no reason, but since then, she was too careful to prevent the family from having any further contact.

Whether it was the ancestors of the two families who spoke directly, or the old lady's father who spoke thoroughly at that time, it would not be the result of the Lin clan's indifference to the daughter of the clan, Lin Ruhai, after Lin Ruhai's death.What's more, Jia Lian followed Lin's younger sister Fu Ling back to Gusu, so maybe he didn't do something that made the Lin clan even more angry.

In the end, it was Lin Daiyu who got the retribution, which made Brother Ai, who was partial and boundless, couldn't bear it: "Whatever I want, just tell Brother Yong directly." He said to the old lady with certainty.

The old lady who was talking vigorously didn't understand what he meant: "What do you want from your elder brother Yong?"

Brother Yong on the other end understood: "Then you don't go to the office with the second uncle. I want this now."

Brother Ai just gave him a blank stare, and didn't want to pay attention to the brother who suddenly got such a tacit understanding.

Shen Ren seemed to understand a little bit, and smiled at the old lady: "Their brothers have a good relationship."

That's why you didn't see the two of them.Everyone from the old lady to Fang felt that it was safe to change the subject.

However, Shen Ren didn't follow their wishes, he talked and talked about how Lin Ruhai took care of him on weekdays.The old lady knew that her grandson was not a muddleheaded person, and now she kept saying good things about Lin Ruhai, there must be something wrong.

The rules of the Scholar's House are that the male leads the outside and the female leads the inside. If it is really official support, Shen Ren should tell the old lady and Master Shen.Now it is repeatedly mentioned in the back house, I am afraid there is something about the back house.

Fang Shi also thought of this level, and couldn't help but think of something, his face turned pale.If it weren't for the fact that Shen Ren's clothes didn't fit well in the old lady's room, and she didn't look like someone was taking care of them, she wouldn't be able to hold back her smiling face.

Mrs. Shen was less considerate: "I remember that the wife of the prefect Lin is a girl from the Rongguo Mansion, right? A girl from such a family is probably the most virtuous. I heard that the rule of the Rongguo Mansion is that before men get married, Put two people in the room first. But Mrs. Lin..."

Shen Ren jumped up in fright: "She is the wife of the back house, even if I went to see the prefect Lin, I would still be in the study, and I have never met Madam Lin face to face!"

The old lady chuckled: "I also said that you should be more stable than the first when you become an official. Why are you still so fraught? Your wife is just asking, does Mrs. Lin see you as no one to take care of and send you a girl?" Personal servants like that? People from their general family love this tune so much."

Shen Ren couldn't help it, so he had to kneel down to the top again: "There is no such thing as the old lady said. But there is one thing, I made a mistake in a moment of inattention, and I ask the old lady, wife and second grandmother to forgive me."

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