Don't Think About Divorce [Rebirth]

When the matter came to an end, Xu Weiqiang also received the punishment he deserved. According to the law, because he committed a relatively minor crime, he was a student and had the attitude of admitting his mistakes. He only needs to be detained for a few days and fined.But what happened this time frightened him, and made him restrain himself a lot, and he didn't dare to hate Gu Yang and make trouble anymore.

Gu Yang has the support of his classmates and the trust of Lu Yan. This matter did not make him sad for too long. An unimportant person is not worth suffering. To waste time, it is better to do two more math problems.

As always, Gu Yang put his mind on his studies again, without being influenced by others, focused on doing his own thing, and tried not to let himself make mistakes on the same type of difficult questions again.

Because of the fight, the dean also called the teachers to hold a meeting, and asked the teachers in each class to strengthen the management of the students. Now is the most important period for senior three students, and nothing should be allowed to affect their studies.

For students with excellent grades, more attention is paid, especially for students like Gu Yang, who are ranked at the top of the grade. If there is no accident, they will definitely go to the top universities in China and win glory for the school.Of course, the school does not want students to be affected.

The head teacher of Class [-] was also worried about Gu Yang's state, after all, that guardian with extraordinary bearing spoiled the child too much.The homeroom teacher thought to himself, thanks to Gu Yang being an adult, sensible and mature, otherwise he would have been spoiled by him so lawlessly.

However, Gu Yang can beat people like this now, which is very different from before.

The homeroom teacher observed secretly, but unexpectedly found that Gu Yang was still studying so hard, his grades were rising steadily, and he didn't need to worry at all. He was the kind of good student who was the most worry-free and most liked by the teacher.

It seems that he was thinking about it.

Although the guardian pampered and indulged Gu Yang, he was not unreasonable.He helped Gu Yang get rid of the low self-esteem in his heart, but he still retained his good temper, he was quite measured, and he could distinguish between the important and the important.

The homeroom teacher announced the end of get out of class, stood on the podium, and watched Gu Yang sitting there quietly, with a gentle and clean demeanor, it was really hard not to have a good impression of him.

He couldn't help thinking that, too, it varies from person to person and teaches students according to their aptitude.

To deal with children who are too flamboyant and jumpy, it is necessary to strengthen discipline, supervision and restraint, let him learn self-restraint, and calm down to study; and children like Gu Yang who are too sensible and well-behaved, who do not express themselves at all, and who are a little self-deprecating, need a lot of attention. Praise and affirmation, relax requirements, because he himself pushes himself too hard, and needs more pampering instead.

The homeroom teacher suddenly understood Lu Yan's attitude towards Gu Yang. This guardian was really thoughtful, and he could tell by seeing Gu Yang's current changes.

Unknowingly, the homeroom teacher made Lu Yanao into a powerful parent who is good at teaching children.But he didn't know that Lu Yan doted on Yangyang so much, just because he wanted to dote on Yangyang, and there was no reason for it.

Gu Yang was studying, but he didn't know that even his father and mother knew about his fight.They still heard from the neighbors that the other party had a child who was in the same high school as Gu Yang, but they were in different classes.

The adoptive parents were very surprised when they heard this, how could Yang Yang fight, he has always been so sensible.It wouldn't look good if the file was recorded in the fight, but he was going to go to a top university in China.

So, Gu's father found a day to go to school, and when school was about to end, he planned to go out to dinner with Gu Yang, have a good talk, and persuade him not to cause trouble, calm down when things happen, and take care of his own future.

However, before Gu Yang could wait, he met Lu Yan first.

Sitting in the car, Lu Yan saw Father Gu, and couldn't help frowning, feeling a bad premonition.To be honest, he has never had a good impression of Gu Yang's adoptive parents. Gu Yang was wronged in that family because of it. In addition, he also dislikes someone getting in between him and Gu Yang. Now it's just the two of them. very good.He and Gu Yang are each other's family members.

Lu Yan walked over, smiled politely, and asked him gently if he came here to find Yangyang, and what's the matter.

Father Gu was surprised, as if he didn't expect him to be here.

Lu Yan smiled and said, "I will come to pick up Yangyang from school every day."

Gu's father was surprised, and a little bit disapproving, "Do you have to pick up and drop off every day?"

Apparently they thought they were all high school students, and the pick-up and drop-off was too exaggerated and unnecessary.Gu Yang also said this before, thinking that he could go to and from school alone, but was rejected by Lu Yan, saying that he knew that Yang Yang had the ability to be independent, but he liked to pick up and drop off Yang Yang, and the location of the school was a bit remote, so the security was not good.

Father Gu originally wanted to talk to Gu Yang, but after chatting with Lu Yan, he somehow revealed his purpose for coming here.

The smile on Lu Yan's lips faded a little, and he said, "Yangyang will have a training class later, why don't I talk to you first? I came to the school to deal with this matter at the beginning, and I know it very well."

Father Gu was stunned.

Lu Yan added: "Do you mind if I take your car to a nearby coffee shop? Leave my car and let the driver pick up Yang Yang."

Looking at his aura, Gu's father was a little flustered, unable to think of refusing, he subconsciously agreed, even after the other party got into the car, he felt extremely uncomfortable.It was obviously his own car, but because of Lu Yan's strong aura, he seemed to be the driver for him.

The location was chosen by Lu Yan. The coffee shop is not big, but it is well-decorated, quiet and suitable for conversation.

After the two sat down face to face, Lu Yan briefly explained the matter.

Father Gu frowned, and felt that the student named Xu Weiqiang was going too far, but it didn't mean that he approved of Gu Yang's use of violence to solve the matter.

"Mr. Lu, I can see that you treat Xiaoyang very well, but you are still young and have no children. You may not be very good at handling some things. Xiaoyang is in school for studying, so there is no need to wear famous brands. It will attract comments and comparisons from classmates, and even if the other party is wrong, Xiao Yang shouldn't hit someone, and you can't support him to solve the problem in this way, which will affect the child's future. Xiao Yang would not be like this before. "

The last sentence was obviously blaming Lu Yan for taking care of Gu Yang for a year, but instead taught him astray.

Lu Yan's eyes turned cold, his expression was alienated and polite, and he said directly: "You think I'm wrong?"

Among adults, speech is always euphemistic and tortuous, and Gu's father never thought that this gentle and elegant Mr. Lu would suddenly say such a sentence.

Father Gu was stunned for a moment, and said, "That's not what I meant, I just..."

But actually, that's what he meant.

Lu Yan smiled, but there was no smile in his eyes, "I am taking care of Yangyang now, I hope you don't put your educational philosophy on Yangyang again. Mr. Gu, you think you are really for Yangyang okay?"

Father Gu's expression was not good, "What do you mean by that?"

Lu Yan twitched the corner of his mouth lightly, "Yangyang is very obedient and sensible, but you think obedient is good? All you want is a perfect child who can make you face. He is very obedient and very comforting. Heart, but have you ever thought that a child will not be coquettish and dependent on his parents, without any requirements, is this normal? He works so hard to please you, and dare not exceed the rules a little bit, because he has no sense of security and is afraid of Abandoned by you."

"You said it's wrong to fight, yes, it's wrong, but you let him be bullied, and you have to bear it in every possible way, swallowing everything, wronging yourself? Something happened, and the other party provoked it unreasonably first, but you think Yang Yang is not You should wear AJs, because this caused conflicts? Shouldn’t parents protect their children at this time and not let him be wronged? You think I made a mistake in handling it, but I’m curious, how can you be so confident and feel that you There is nothing wrong with my educational philosophy.”

Father Gu's expression changed a few times, his lips moved slightly, as if he wanted to say something, but he didn't know what to say, his expression was very complicated.

It was the first time that someone pointed out his education failure so bluntly.

Lu Yan glanced at him indifferently, then looked at the coffee in front of him calmly, restrained his anger, picked up the cup and took a sip.

It is true that Gu's father and mother love Gu Yang, but their love is conditional.Gu Yang must be sensible and well-behaved, very obedient, and will not cause trouble for them.Gu Yang has a sensitive mind, and he could feel it before, so he studied so hard, helped with housework, respected his uncle, let his cousin down, and be a good boy.

Gu's father and mother would tell Gu Yang not to just focus on studying, but to go out to play more, but they would say this because they knew that Gu Yang would not really go out to play.If Gu Yang really went to play with his classmates on weekends, they would instead blame Gu Yang for being distracted from his studies, and his grades dropped because he loved playing too much.

When Gu Yang beat Gu Xinghui back then, Gu's father and mother were not only disappointed in Gu Xinghui, but also had opinions on Gu Yang.

They regretted it in their hearts. If they hadn't adopted Gu Yang at the beginning, they wouldn't have gotten into such a mess with their uncle Gu Xinghui. There were so many conflicts that made people tired and irritable.

Later, Gu Yang found his biological parents and moved to Lu Yan's side. Their life became much easier because of this, and they could concentrate on managing the operation of the factory and develop better.In this way, I met Gu Yang twice a month, and had holiday contacts, but got along better and more freely.

Some young people who are not married and have children have expressed emotion that they really do not have the confidence to take good care of their children and dare not have children.Seeing other people's children are cute, it's okay to play with them, but if you really want to educate and train them yourself, it's extremely difficult just thinking about it.Can I afford the life of one or even several children?

After Gu Yang moved out of the house, Gu's father didn't think too much about it, but at this moment, after being accused so bluntly by Lu Yan, he suddenly thought of this.

Is there really something wrong with my education method?

Said it was for Xiaoyang's good, but at the same time, did it also hurt him?

Did I really teach Xiaoyang well?

……

For a while, there was some silence on the table.Father Gu fell into deep thought, and Lu Yan didn't speak.

The conversation ended silently.

Lu Yan didn't know what kind of result Father Gu had in mind.

Lu Yan didn't care either.All he cared about was not letting Gu's father and mother hurt Gu Yang, so before Gu's father and Gu Yang talked, he stopped Gu's father and said this.

If in the future, they no longer use the previous education method to demand Yangyang, wronged Yangyang.That's business as usual.

But if, as parents, they still blame Gu Yang for being ignorant and disobedient, causing trouble, then it is necessary to reduce Yang Yang's contact with them.

Fortunately, the result is good.

Parents and mothers are sensible people. It may be difficult for them to admit that they are wrong, but they are willing to make changes after they know what went wrong with them.

Gu Yang didn't know anything about this matter, but he could vaguely feel that the adoptive parents' attitude was more gentle than before, which made him feel very warm and happy to get along with, without the pressure from before.

His high school review life went smoothly, and the small twists and turns did not affect him.

Time passed quickly, and they ushered in the winter vacation.

It's almost a new year again.

The author has something to say: Next, it’s the sweet winter vacation, Yang Yang and Mr. Lu are going out to play~

Thank you for Mr. Yi.landmines, flying mines and grenades~