After I gave up the small attack all the time

Xie Min suffered serious abrasions on his hands and legs, and had several large bumps on his head. After examination, he was found to have a slight concussion.

But the most annoying thing is that Xie Min was unwilling to sue her husband, and even took the initiative to go to the police station to redeem him, saying that it was all a misunderstanding that he fell down.

When the "nerd" called Xing Tan about this matter, he was also extremely speechless, but he was also used to seeing women who were subjected to domestic violence swallow their anger and look forward to it, so he didn't say anything else.

"Squad leader, you'd better ask your daughter-in-law to persuade your sister-in-law. I think the injuries on her body have been caused over many years. It's not a year or two since she was beaten, but the other party still knows the severity and didn't kill her. This is also the most difficult thing to do." The "nerd" said on the phone.

Xing Tan thanked him and said that he would go back and treat him to dinner when he was free. After hanging up the phone, he called Xie Anhe and Cong into the office and explained the situation to him.

Xie An didn't get along in a friendly manner, ran out angrily to call Xie Min, and scolded the girl, "I think you are crazy, divorce, sue him, this scum must go to jail! "

"Brother, I was really careless. My husband treats me very well. Who knew that girl Xiaoliu was talking nonsense to you..." Before she could finish speaking, a crying female voice said, "I didn't Nonsense, divorce him, sister, he will beat you to death!"

"...Don't talk nonsense, you take Xiaobao out to play, hurry up!" Xie Min chased the two children out with his hands on his phone before continuing to say to Xie Anhe, "Brother, I'm really fine, you take care of yourself in Qingshi Take care of yourself. Oh, by the way, that friend of yours is a policeman. I originally wanted to buy something to thank him, but I was afraid that the impact would be bad. Do you think I treat him to dinner..."

"Don't tell me this, I'll just say, divorce and sue him." Xie Anhe's attitude was very firm, just like many people who heard about domestic violence for the first time, he advised the victim to divorce.

It's all so easy to say.

"I won't get a divorce." Xie Min, like many women who have been raped, told others that she won't get a divorce.

"Why?" Xie Anhe frowned puzzled, "I don't understand why you don't want to divorce, Xiao Liu knows the truth, don't you understand? He will kill you, he will kill you sooner or later!"

"He won't! He's just... I'm his wife. He just got drunk and made a few moves. It doesn't matter how serious a man is. He didn't mean it." Xie Min said.

Xie An kindly nodded, Xing Yan came over and stood beside him, looked at him and closed his eyes, "Don't tell me that you still love him, it's not like this to love someone, you think he will love you because of you Forgive your love and turn over a new leaf? He won’t, cheating, domestic violence, drinking, beating, he can beat you today and beat the child tomorrow, you let Xiaobao grow up in such a family environment, she In the future, he will definitely be a person with mental defects.”

Xie Min raised her hand to wipe away her tears, sobbed and said, "Brother, our family is from the countryside, so it would be nice if the whole family can eat together. I am not as strong as you people in big cities, I am just an ordinary woman , my children are not blessed to enjoy life, it would be nice to be able to raise children here, we don’t have any money and we still care about some psychological defects, we are not so hypocritical.”

Xie Anhe's fire directly rushed to Tianling Gai. He was about to say something when Xing Tan pressed his head into his arms, then took over his mobile phone, "I'll do it."

"My elder brother and I have heard what you said. We respect your decision, but you are welcome to change your decision at any time. If you have anything to do in Zhoucheng, please contact us in time. If you can't find us, you can go to the police officer." , he is a friend of your elder brother and me, and will do his best to help you." Xing Tan said.

Xie Min wiped away tears, hugged the phone, "Okay... thank you, I heard my Xiaoliu mention you before, I didn't know you belonged to my elder brother..."

Xing Tan lowered his head and glanced at the person in his arms, "I'm your elder brother's friend, we are like relatives, you don't need to be too grateful to me. As for that police officer, serving the people is his duty, you don't have to mind."

After a few words of politeness, Xing Tan hung up the phone, and Xie Anhe asked him in a muffled voice, "How do you know what Xie Min said to me?"

"Guess." Xing Yan patted him on the shoulder and let go of him, "'Bookworm' told me that Xie Min called him to thank him, and you also said that your sister is a very sensible person, I Guess she'll want to thank the 'nerd'."

Xie Anhe's face drooped, looking very unattractive. Xing Quan coaxed him, "The authorities are obsessed with onlookers, and out of ten domestic violence victims, nine are not divorced, let alone rural women."

Xie Anhe looked up at him, and asked puzzledly, "Why? People beat you, and you still live with him. It's like sticking upside down. Whoever dies can't live, and the earth keeps spinning."

"I can't do without you." Xing Tan joked.

Xie Anhe ignored him, Xing Yan smiled, and stretched out his hand to put on the roof railing, "First, for the sake of the children, most women who have been subjected to domestic violence do not divorce for the sake of their children. Your niece is only eight years old, she can't say When she said something like "Let's leave, leave early and good morning", she would just grab the corner of her mother's clothes and say, "Mom and Dad, don't get a divorce, I don't want you to get a divorce." Even if she knew that her mother was beaten, she would have to be a little older. Will know that Dad is bad, but not now. And Dad didn't hit her, she can't empathize."

Xing Tan stretched out his hand and rubbed his hair, "Honey, we don't have a child yet, you will know this feeling when we have a child in the future. Once the child cries, you will be soft-hearted. No matter how hard or tired you are, you have to put this stay home."

Xie Anhe didn't have time to have sex with him right now, so he didn't care about Xing Tan's words of "we have a baby".

"For the sake of the child, do you have to wrong yourself?" Xie Anhe snorted, "Why haven't I met such good parents?"

Xing Tan was stunned for a moment, and then said, "Perhaps it is because of your parents that Xie Min wants to give her daughter a better family environment, and show her that she is willing to do anything for her."

Xie Anhe was startled.

"Second point, Xie Min is from the countryside. The countryside is different from the city. Women in the countryside don't have jobs, but it's better in the city. Xie Min has no source of income, and she depends entirely on her husband. Even if she divorces, the court will judge the children To the one who has financial means."

"Third, your township has only one acre of land. Whoever gets divorced due to domestic violence will be known from the beginning to the end of the village within a long time. Old women who have nothing to do will move a chair and sit under the window to chat, and they will say thank you. Min is a woman who was divorced due to domestic violence, women in the countryside are relatively feudal, you will be told how Xie Min will live in the village, wherever she goes."

Xie Anhe remained silent, and Xing Yan endured it and chose to continue, "The last point, Xie Min is afraid of being retaliated by her husband. He still thinks that it is his wife who hits Xie Min lightly, but in case of divorce, Xie Min will kill the child again." Take it away, and her husband returns with revenge, what will she do as a woman?"

"She doesn't need to live in the village, she can take Xiaobao with her."

"If she was like you, if she wanted to leave, she would have left. She would have left that place to find another way out. She hasn't left for so many years. You think she left her life alone with only one child for nearly 30 years after divorce. The place starts afresh...”

"Stop talking." Xie Anhe interrupted him.

He paused, "I see."

Xie Anhe turned around and raised his head to relax his sore eyes, Xing Tan walked over and hugged him from behind, comforting him gently, "I am not encouraging anyone to do this, nor is it to excuse women who have been domestically abused and dare not divorce. We gave her a chance and told her that she can change her mind at any time, if she really needs our help one day, no one will refuse, on the contrary, if she is still stubborn, no one can save her."

After Xie Anhe was silent for a long time, he turned around and hugged Xing Tan's neck, buried his face in the crescent of his neck, and gave an aggrieved and helpless "hmm".

No one can wake a person who is pretending to be asleep, yes, no one.

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