The struggle of the Nanny of the Red Chamber
Chapter 28
Jia Min has been married for some years, and she still has nothing to do.She also knew that she was not entirely to blame for not having a child.The Lin family has been single-passed for several generations.
But even if others knew about it, they would place the responsibility on Jia Min.Who made jealousy the original sin of man?After the new year, after Jia Min received the letter of good news from her mother's family, Ren Yazi brought some people over to choose.
Jia Min is not to blame for not having children.But without a concubine, and without children, in the eyes of the world, this matter is going to be pinned on Jia Min.
The children of Lin's family and the girl married by Jia's family are not within the scope of Jia Min's choice.If Jia Hu went, Mrs. Zhang would be ill.Maybe Jia Min could have listened to her mother's words and chose the girl from Jia's family as a dowry when she paid for her uncle.
But Jia Hu survived without any risk, and Mrs. Zhang is still the housekeeper of the Jia family.When Jia Min got married, he quietly told Jia Min about some hidden disadvantages of taking concubines.
Although the girl who followed from her natal family is good, she knows her roots and is not afraid of being a monster in the future, but the master knows the girl's roots, and the girl will also know some of the master's secrets and temper.This is a certain hidden danger.
If this girl is a nanny or a relative or a girl accompanying Fang's family, then these people will be a force that is difficult to suppress if they are united.It is inevitable to deceive the superior and the inferior.If the heart is bigger, it is like that Yao family.
About Yao Shi, Zhang Shi mentioned it to Jia Min.What happened to Jia Hu, no one in the house would not know about it.Mrs. Zhang suffers from lack of evidence, so that Mrs. Yao continues to be under her nose.Otherwise, he would be killed early.
But if Zhang Shi kept telling Shi Shi about this kind of thing, Shi Shi would definitely think that she was suppressing the concubine's room.It is inevitable that she will not think that she is too narrow-minded.What's more, the Yao family was bestowed by the old lady, who has passed away at this time.It is inevitable that Shi Shi would not think of rabbit dead dog cooking.
Therefore, Mrs. Zhang quietly leaked the matter to Jia Min.No matter what Jia Min does, Shi will never target her again.
After talking about marrying a girl as a dowry, Mrs. Zhang also used Mrs. Yao as an example and completely rejected the matter of her husband's family having a son as a concubine.
And let Jia Min buy a concubine from Ren Yazi, a well-known local man. First, through Ren Yazi's mouth, he can tell people outside that Jia Min is not jealous and that he values his children.
Mrs. Zhang also told Jia Min that buying a concubine is twice as good as bringing a concubine back from the mansion.It is also safer than hiring a good family as a concubine.The concubine bought back has a contract of sale, okay or not, let's sell it out.But good family sons can't do it, they need a letter of appointment, and life and death are not up to the mistress.
And when the family gives birth to a child, it really moves the whole body by pulling a thread.
Mrs. Zhang really loves Jia Min as her own sister.One is the long time spent together.The second is Jia Min's kindness toward Zhang since she married into the mansion.
Zhang's philosophy is different from Shi's.The Zhang family is a scholarly heirloom.Generations down, all have their own independent thinking.But the Shi family and the Shi family are different.
Historians also used this to teach Shi Shi at the beginning.Therefore, the concubines that Shi Shi gave to the old Duke were all her dowry girls, and the dowry girls are closer than Jia's family's children.Secondly, the parents who dowry the girl are all in the hands of her mother's family, so she can rest assured that she can use it.
It is indeed a good way to use the dowry girl to fight in the arena with Tongfang who stayed with the old man before he got married.But this method is not necessarily suitable for Jia Min to use.
As soon as the girl is married, she will be far away from her mother's family.No matter how family affection is, it will gradually fade away.When the old lady is gone one day, there will be no people who restrain these dowry girls.
Not to mention any other brothers, sisters-in-law, younger brothers and sisters.As time goes by, the feelings fade away.And even if the relationship is still there, the girl who married the girl for many years and the old lady who married the girl died, so is there any reason for my own old lady to be alive?Will the elder brother and sister-in-law's natal family help the younger sister to continue to restrain the family who married the girl?
Maybe Mrs. Zhang will help Jia Min do this, but will Mrs. Wang?
The answer is obvious.
Therefore, instead of putting the hole cards in the hands of others, it is better to hold Lao Lao in his own hands.
This is what Mrs. Zhang thought when she knew that Mrs. Shi taught Jia Min to be a concubine and companion.
But no matter what she said, Jia Min remembered Zhang's words, and thought of what her mother said, she still felt that Zhang's words made sense.Especially when her nanny was about to take a concubine for her husband-in-law, she intentionally or unintentionally talked about how well-behaved and obedient a niece was in her natal family.
Jia Min was preconceived, and felt a little annoyed by this nanny.This is to use her Jia Min as a stepping stone.
Shi Shi's biological daughter, she was taught by Shi Shi and Xianrong Guogong's mother and son since she was a child, and Jia Min is not a Baozi character.She has been in the Lin family for five years. Although she has not given birth to a son and a half, she has already controlled the backyard.At this time, it is not a simple matter to send one or two dowries.
Within two days, Jia Min asked the famous Ren Yazi in the city to bring someone over to pick them out, and at the same time married the nanny's niece to a local commoner's house in a low-key way.
Even the nanny who had served Jia Min since childhood, Jia Min asked her to pack the package and sent her home to be raised.In order to look good, Jia Min also sent a lot of good fabrics.
After all, the fabric is heavy and takes up space, and it looks more eye-catching than gold and silver when viewed.
Master's grace, but also for everyone to see.
This kind of method looks good on the surface but is actually useless. Jia Min never thought that one day it would be used on her nanny.
Seeing Jia Min's actions, the accompanying room was in awe.Some small thoughts were obediently put in my heart.Jia Min's deliberate indulgence to the companion when he first entered Lin's residence and the somewhat wandering thoughts that he had raised all these years, all fell down because of the nanny's affairs.
This brought Jia Min and the Lin family a lot of benefits in the future.The companions didn't dare to believe that they came from their mother's house, so they acted like a tyrant in the mansion.And the sons of the Lin family also knew that this lady, who seemed to only love poetry and books, even dismissed the dowry, not to mention them, the sons of the Lin family.
So they all tidied up their little thoughts and honestly did their duties well.For a while, the internal affairs of the Lin Mansion were peaceful and quiet.At this time, Jia Min bought two concubines for Lin Ruhai.
One must know that the reason why he bought two at a time was also because Jia Min wanted to imitate his parents-in-law's way of pulling one and hitting the other, or using the method of one against one.
Give the aunt who likes to dress fancy a piece of fabric in a light color.And give another aunt a brighter color or a higher price.Let two people always be in a higher or lower status.
The concubine room, in Zhang's words, is similar to boiling an eagle.All kinds of tricks and scheming must be used.As long as they don't do anything about the heirs, other things, as long as they are a bit successful, they won't say anything.
Another one, it's also a kind of pastime, isn't it?
Jia Min married late, and when she was married for five years, she was actually a year or two older than when Wang gave birth to Jia Zhu.In Jia's family, no matter whether it is the Zhang family or the Wang family, they only got news after they were married for more than ten years.
So in Jia Min's mind, she doesn't think she can't give birth.She felt that she might have inherited the Jia family's late-born physique.
But although Jia Min took Lin Ruhai as a concubine, he didn't want to let the eldest son of the concubine come out.Therefore, under the premise of not dispensing with those medicines that harm the private life, Jia Min had someone give him a 'food tonic'.
In each concubine's room, there will be some foods that are against each other and are not conducive to pregnancy.And this ingredient is a regular dish for the concubines of the Lin Mansion.
If you want to stop eating or change your taste, Jia Min's kitchen is not so easy to talk to.
Jia Min didn't want to be like this forever, she thought, as long as she gave birth to the eldest son, she would relax the management of these concubines once the son was established.
And this idea, it was not until ten years later that Jia Min had to relax his means.
Married, finished vacation.The Tang Dynasty officially returned to Shi's courtyard.Be a little needleworker in the needle money room.
Go to work early in the day, and continue to work at night under the overly attentive service of Li Goudan.Therefore, in less than two months, Tang Chao was pregnant.
Just less than two months after getting married, Tang Chao was pregnant for one month.Tang Chao's aunt visits relatives on time every month.When March didn't come, Tang Chao was aware of it.For a whole month, Tang Chao was careful and cautious in everything he did.
Although she was careful, Mrs. Tang didn't notice.
Who made her daughter seldom stay at home since she entered the wife's main courtyard.When I came back again, it was just a few days before getting married.
In those few days, Mrs. Tang would not be willing to let her daughter do anything.Plus she didn't like the work her girl did.
As expected, she was the deputy lady who was used to being waited on above.
When they get married, Li Goudan will be involved in the heavy and tiring work at home.Xiao Lingxiao went to run errands and Li Erxiao.Mrs. Tang just got up early to cook a meal.At night, she doesn't even need her to cook.
Tang Chao works in the main courtyard of his wife, and Mrs. Tang works in the Lixiang courtyard of the second room.Both places provide three meals a day.Tang Chao and her mother would quietly have a kiss at home every day.When they arrived at the yard of the masters, they were eating with other girls and women.
Without padding, my stomach is empty.It was cold and uncomfortable.Pad it, and don't need to eat too much.When the body is warm, it won't make people unable to eat, and make people feel that they don't have a master in their eyes.
For breakfast at home, Li Goudan is mainly used the most.Their stable does not provide breakfast and dinner.Then there is Li Erxiao.
The author has something to say: I want sister Lin to have a brother, and I want Jia Baoyu to become a good kid who loves to study and read under the influence of his brother.
I watched A Dream of Red Mansions at the beginning of the year, watch it again, and watch it again.No matter how you look at it.They all felt that it was a pity that Bao Dai could not be together.
But in the past two years, Hei Baoyu has written too many articles.Even XX felt that Baoyu was spoiled and should suffer some crimes.
Baoyu is just a spoiled child.He actually understood many things in his heart, but he was just unwilling to face them.If he is given an environment that he has to face and make progress, Baoyu can actually become a five-good young man.
Therefore, I want to arrange a family with a strong reading atmosphere for Baoyu, so that he will love reading and learning.Can know how to make progress.
Then arrange for Baoyu to be a nanny who was born in a petty citizen, has a smaller mind, loves petty gains, and has some friendship with Jia Min.
When Baoyu dared to call out to become a monk, someone would feed Baoyu three vegetarian meals a day.
It's not bad to think about it.
By the way, do you still remember the other unspoken cheat I arranged for the heroine?
The function is not big, but it is just practical.
Guess what?
If you guessed right, you will be given a red envelope.
But even if others knew about it, they would place the responsibility on Jia Min.Who made jealousy the original sin of man?After the new year, after Jia Min received the letter of good news from her mother's family, Ren Yazi brought some people over to choose.
Jia Min is not to blame for not having children.But without a concubine, and without children, in the eyes of the world, this matter is going to be pinned on Jia Min.
The children of Lin's family and the girl married by Jia's family are not within the scope of Jia Min's choice.If Jia Hu went, Mrs. Zhang would be ill.Maybe Jia Min could have listened to her mother's words and chose the girl from Jia's family as a dowry when she paid for her uncle.
But Jia Hu survived without any risk, and Mrs. Zhang is still the housekeeper of the Jia family.When Jia Min got married, he quietly told Jia Min about some hidden disadvantages of taking concubines.
Although the girl who followed from her natal family is good, she knows her roots and is not afraid of being a monster in the future, but the master knows the girl's roots, and the girl will also know some of the master's secrets and temper.This is a certain hidden danger.
If this girl is a nanny or a relative or a girl accompanying Fang's family, then these people will be a force that is difficult to suppress if they are united.It is inevitable to deceive the superior and the inferior.If the heart is bigger, it is like that Yao family.
About Yao Shi, Zhang Shi mentioned it to Jia Min.What happened to Jia Hu, no one in the house would not know about it.Mrs. Zhang suffers from lack of evidence, so that Mrs. Yao continues to be under her nose.Otherwise, he would be killed early.
But if Zhang Shi kept telling Shi Shi about this kind of thing, Shi Shi would definitely think that she was suppressing the concubine's room.It is inevitable that she will not think that she is too narrow-minded.What's more, the Yao family was bestowed by the old lady, who has passed away at this time.It is inevitable that Shi Shi would not think of rabbit dead dog cooking.
Therefore, Mrs. Zhang quietly leaked the matter to Jia Min.No matter what Jia Min does, Shi will never target her again.
After talking about marrying a girl as a dowry, Mrs. Zhang also used Mrs. Yao as an example and completely rejected the matter of her husband's family having a son as a concubine.
And let Jia Min buy a concubine from Ren Yazi, a well-known local man. First, through Ren Yazi's mouth, he can tell people outside that Jia Min is not jealous and that he values his children.
Mrs. Zhang also told Jia Min that buying a concubine is twice as good as bringing a concubine back from the mansion.It is also safer than hiring a good family as a concubine.The concubine bought back has a contract of sale, okay or not, let's sell it out.But good family sons can't do it, they need a letter of appointment, and life and death are not up to the mistress.
And when the family gives birth to a child, it really moves the whole body by pulling a thread.
Mrs. Zhang really loves Jia Min as her own sister.One is the long time spent together.The second is Jia Min's kindness toward Zhang since she married into the mansion.
Zhang's philosophy is different from Shi's.The Zhang family is a scholarly heirloom.Generations down, all have their own independent thinking.But the Shi family and the Shi family are different.
Historians also used this to teach Shi Shi at the beginning.Therefore, the concubines that Shi Shi gave to the old Duke were all her dowry girls, and the dowry girls are closer than Jia's family's children.Secondly, the parents who dowry the girl are all in the hands of her mother's family, so she can rest assured that she can use it.
It is indeed a good way to use the dowry girl to fight in the arena with Tongfang who stayed with the old man before he got married.But this method is not necessarily suitable for Jia Min to use.
As soon as the girl is married, she will be far away from her mother's family.No matter how family affection is, it will gradually fade away.When the old lady is gone one day, there will be no people who restrain these dowry girls.
Not to mention any other brothers, sisters-in-law, younger brothers and sisters.As time goes by, the feelings fade away.And even if the relationship is still there, the girl who married the girl for many years and the old lady who married the girl died, so is there any reason for my own old lady to be alive?Will the elder brother and sister-in-law's natal family help the younger sister to continue to restrain the family who married the girl?
Maybe Mrs. Zhang will help Jia Min do this, but will Mrs. Wang?
The answer is obvious.
Therefore, instead of putting the hole cards in the hands of others, it is better to hold Lao Lao in his own hands.
This is what Mrs. Zhang thought when she knew that Mrs. Shi taught Jia Min to be a concubine and companion.
But no matter what she said, Jia Min remembered Zhang's words, and thought of what her mother said, she still felt that Zhang's words made sense.Especially when her nanny was about to take a concubine for her husband-in-law, she intentionally or unintentionally talked about how well-behaved and obedient a niece was in her natal family.
Jia Min was preconceived, and felt a little annoyed by this nanny.This is to use her Jia Min as a stepping stone.
Shi Shi's biological daughter, she was taught by Shi Shi and Xianrong Guogong's mother and son since she was a child, and Jia Min is not a Baozi character.She has been in the Lin family for five years. Although she has not given birth to a son and a half, she has already controlled the backyard.At this time, it is not a simple matter to send one or two dowries.
Within two days, Jia Min asked the famous Ren Yazi in the city to bring someone over to pick them out, and at the same time married the nanny's niece to a local commoner's house in a low-key way.
Even the nanny who had served Jia Min since childhood, Jia Min asked her to pack the package and sent her home to be raised.In order to look good, Jia Min also sent a lot of good fabrics.
After all, the fabric is heavy and takes up space, and it looks more eye-catching than gold and silver when viewed.
Master's grace, but also for everyone to see.
This kind of method looks good on the surface but is actually useless. Jia Min never thought that one day it would be used on her nanny.
Seeing Jia Min's actions, the accompanying room was in awe.Some small thoughts were obediently put in my heart.Jia Min's deliberate indulgence to the companion when he first entered Lin's residence and the somewhat wandering thoughts that he had raised all these years, all fell down because of the nanny's affairs.
This brought Jia Min and the Lin family a lot of benefits in the future.The companions didn't dare to believe that they came from their mother's house, so they acted like a tyrant in the mansion.And the sons of the Lin family also knew that this lady, who seemed to only love poetry and books, even dismissed the dowry, not to mention them, the sons of the Lin family.
So they all tidied up their little thoughts and honestly did their duties well.For a while, the internal affairs of the Lin Mansion were peaceful and quiet.At this time, Jia Min bought two concubines for Lin Ruhai.
One must know that the reason why he bought two at a time was also because Jia Min wanted to imitate his parents-in-law's way of pulling one and hitting the other, or using the method of one against one.
Give the aunt who likes to dress fancy a piece of fabric in a light color.And give another aunt a brighter color or a higher price.Let two people always be in a higher or lower status.
The concubine room, in Zhang's words, is similar to boiling an eagle.All kinds of tricks and scheming must be used.As long as they don't do anything about the heirs, other things, as long as they are a bit successful, they won't say anything.
Another one, it's also a kind of pastime, isn't it?
Jia Min married late, and when she was married for five years, she was actually a year or two older than when Wang gave birth to Jia Zhu.In Jia's family, no matter whether it is the Zhang family or the Wang family, they only got news after they were married for more than ten years.
So in Jia Min's mind, she doesn't think she can't give birth.She felt that she might have inherited the Jia family's late-born physique.
But although Jia Min took Lin Ruhai as a concubine, he didn't want to let the eldest son of the concubine come out.Therefore, under the premise of not dispensing with those medicines that harm the private life, Jia Min had someone give him a 'food tonic'.
In each concubine's room, there will be some foods that are against each other and are not conducive to pregnancy.And this ingredient is a regular dish for the concubines of the Lin Mansion.
If you want to stop eating or change your taste, Jia Min's kitchen is not so easy to talk to.
Jia Min didn't want to be like this forever, she thought, as long as she gave birth to the eldest son, she would relax the management of these concubines once the son was established.
And this idea, it was not until ten years later that Jia Min had to relax his means.
Married, finished vacation.The Tang Dynasty officially returned to Shi's courtyard.Be a little needleworker in the needle money room.
Go to work early in the day, and continue to work at night under the overly attentive service of Li Goudan.Therefore, in less than two months, Tang Chao was pregnant.
Just less than two months after getting married, Tang Chao was pregnant for one month.Tang Chao's aunt visits relatives on time every month.When March didn't come, Tang Chao was aware of it.For a whole month, Tang Chao was careful and cautious in everything he did.
Although she was careful, Mrs. Tang didn't notice.
Who made her daughter seldom stay at home since she entered the wife's main courtyard.When I came back again, it was just a few days before getting married.
In those few days, Mrs. Tang would not be willing to let her daughter do anything.Plus she didn't like the work her girl did.
As expected, she was the deputy lady who was used to being waited on above.
When they get married, Li Goudan will be involved in the heavy and tiring work at home.Xiao Lingxiao went to run errands and Li Erxiao.Mrs. Tang just got up early to cook a meal.At night, she doesn't even need her to cook.
Tang Chao works in the main courtyard of his wife, and Mrs. Tang works in the Lixiang courtyard of the second room.Both places provide three meals a day.Tang Chao and her mother would quietly have a kiss at home every day.When they arrived at the yard of the masters, they were eating with other girls and women.
Without padding, my stomach is empty.It was cold and uncomfortable.Pad it, and don't need to eat too much.When the body is warm, it won't make people unable to eat, and make people feel that they don't have a master in their eyes.
For breakfast at home, Li Goudan is mainly used the most.Their stable does not provide breakfast and dinner.Then there is Li Erxiao.
The author has something to say: I want sister Lin to have a brother, and I want Jia Baoyu to become a good kid who loves to study and read under the influence of his brother.
I watched A Dream of Red Mansions at the beginning of the year, watch it again, and watch it again.No matter how you look at it.They all felt that it was a pity that Bao Dai could not be together.
But in the past two years, Hei Baoyu has written too many articles.Even XX felt that Baoyu was spoiled and should suffer some crimes.
Baoyu is just a spoiled child.He actually understood many things in his heart, but he was just unwilling to face them.If he is given an environment that he has to face and make progress, Baoyu can actually become a five-good young man.
Therefore, I want to arrange a family with a strong reading atmosphere for Baoyu, so that he will love reading and learning.Can know how to make progress.
Then arrange for Baoyu to be a nanny who was born in a petty citizen, has a smaller mind, loves petty gains, and has some friendship with Jia Min.
When Baoyu dared to call out to become a monk, someone would feed Baoyu three vegetarian meals a day.
It's not bad to think about it.
By the way, do you still remember the other unspoken cheat I arranged for the heroine?
The function is not big, but it is just practical.
Guess what?
If you guessed right, you will be given a red envelope.
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