The days when I pretended to be a cat in the Forbidden City[Comprehensive]

Everyone in the arena just thought that the two young boys looked at each other happily, but he almost killed the young boy.

If he hadn't got up in time and just bowed down solidly, even if this young boy was just innocently worshiped by him, the King of Zhongshan, he would most likely become his black spot in the future.

In this era, it is your fault to accept a gift that you are not entitled to.Otherwise, in history, Cheng Bushi wouldn't avoid Dou Ying's seat because he was talking to others, and Guan Fu pointed his nose and scolded him, and he would have to make up for it.

Liu Sheng's identity is the lord of a country, and the only ones who can receive his worship here are the emperor, the chief, and the world.

Of course it was not without surprises.

For example, his uncle Liu Wu, when he was used as cannon fodder to attract firepower, he knelt down to the generals in his country and begged them to fight to the death to protect the people in the city, and defended the city together with the generals.

When the king kneels, it can be said that the generals in his country have the feeling that "the soldiers will die for their confidants", and just now they broke out the huge combat power to block the attack of two powerful countries with the strength of one country.

It is understandable for these generals to accept the gift, and the world praises it but not derogates it, which is completely different from today's situation.

Even though this young man is extremely innocent, he bowed down first, how could he have imagined that the prince of the vassal did not bow his head, or salute, but salute?

But there is no way, this is the world bound by ethics.The phrase "disrespectful" is an absolute brand nowadays.

Due to the fact that this was a false alarm caused by his personal distraction, Xia Anran paid close attention to this little man, and immediately warmly entertained him.

His concern was regarded by several adults as the loneliness of the young Zhongshan King lacking the companionship of his peers, and they didn't take it seriously at all.

And this young gentleman named Dou Wan can only be entangled by Xia Anran while the unscrupulous adults concentrate on watching singing and dancing, and enjoy eating good food and wine.

The enthusiastic little king inquired carefully about the little man's personal preferences, and was pleasantly surprised to find, hey, there are a lot of overlaps in our studies?

Hearing what Xia Anran said, the little boy relaxed his serious face a little, his dark eyes flashed a little bit of starlight.He has a good-looking face, but there is a heroic look in his brows. The serious look on his face is not to mention how cute it is: "Your Highness also practiced martial arts?"

Xia Anran nodded with the intention of teasing a child: "This king learned swordsmanship from General Cheng Bushi, and minored in swordsmanship. He has not yet learned the art of war, but General Cheng's Xiaolang is very powerful."

"Is he strong?"

The little king nodded without hesitation, and then he talked about the record between him and Cheng Wu to the little friend he just met, and then he talked about Cheng Wu's young boy's current arm strength, which made Dou Wan His eyes became brighter and brighter.

The two young boys looked at Cheng Bushi together.

Although the latter was watching the singing and dancing, martial arts practitioners had sharp eyes and ears, and he had been paying attention to the first two, so of course he heard their conversation.

Seeing the two little boys looking at him now, Cheng Bushi immediately promised to bring his son here tomorrow.

After the two teenagers got the answer, they brought the topic back to the books they were reading.Xia Anran got a lot of books from Empress Bo, and has read a lot these days. He has a good memory, extraordinary comprehension ability, and has a good teacher to teach him, so he naturally understands a lot.

The more the two talked, the more they felt that the concept was very compatible.Xia Anran was amazed by the knowledge of a nine-year-old Xiao Lang, and Dou Wan was also amazed by the mature insights of this little prince who grew up in the court. .

Dou Ying, who had made more achievements in vain, didn't realize it, and drank alone, and the two children talked about the frontier army again.

Zhongshan Country is located in the hinterland, and its north passes through Changshan Pass and directly borders Daijun, an important frontier defense town.

The location of Dai County is extremely sensitive, it is sandwiched between the Xiongnu and Wuhuan, that is to say, in addition to defending against the Xiongnu, it also needs to defend against Wuhuan's sneak attack. The current county guard is the famous Li Guang.

When Li Guang was mentioned, several people in the venue were silent for a while.

Last year, Li Guang followed Zhou Yafu to defeat the rebels of Wu and Chu, but he did not receive a reward. The reason is hard to say, but he knew it in his heart-he violated His Majesty's big taboo, that is, he accepted the military seal of King Liang.

Therefore, when others offered rewards, he was transferred to be the prefect of Shanggu County, and he was just transferred to Dai County as the prefect this year.

This man's military management style is very different from Cheng Bushi's, but both of them are the leaders of the new generation, so before Li Guang took office, he actually went to Zhongshan country, and only talked with Cheng Bushi roughly. He left after a while without meeting Xia Anran.

Presumably this one also suffered from the vassal king, so he is too lazy to deal with another vassal king.Naturally, Xia Anran did not have the chance to meet this one.

But he doesn't regret it either. They are all on this land, and there is always a chance to see them.Seeing Dou Wan's young man looking a bit regretful, he tilted his head and said, "You want to visit Governor Li? If that's the case, it's not difficult. It's about ten days from here to Dai Junzhi. If you want to go, I can send People walk with you."

Dou Wan pondered for a moment, but still refused.The reason for the refusal is also very simple, he has no reputation and strength now, even if Li Guang sees him for the sake of his uncle or the little prince, he will definitely look down on him.

So if you want to meet your idol, you have to go upright.

These are all made up by Xia Anran's imagination, in fact, the little boy Dou Wan just said "It's not the right time" in a mighty and domineering manner.

For this banquet, Xia Anran, as the host, invited the theater troupe from Zhongshan, which is on tour in China, to perform.

The Jiaodi Opera was famous since the Qin Dynasty. It is said that Emperor Qin Er had seen this opera in Ganquan Palace.However, unlike Beijing Opera and Kunxi Opera, which were clearly divided in later generations, Jiaodili Opera at this time is more similar to the big concept of "drama". Song and dance dramas also include "martial arts" such as shooting dramas, sword dances, and knife dances, as well as acrobatic performances.

As the owner of this room, Xia Anran ordered the shooting scene without hesitation.

The operas have been passed down all the way, all of them are martial arts, even Dou Ying ordered "Chong Nian".

Huh?what is this?

Xia Anran blinked suspiciously.Out of curiosity, he let this show be performed first, also to show respect for Dou Ying, and then Xia Anran saw several artists bring a small circle surrounded by grass, and then they brought A dog, the dog is sticking out its tongue in winter, its eyes are wide open, and it is full of energy.

Xia Anran was shocked!

Everyone in the arena looked outside, not aware of his surprised performance, but Cheng Bushi muttered regretfully: It was actually a beast rush.

Seeing the little prince was surprised, the considerate servant explained to him in a low voice.Chongzao can be divided into two types: human Chong and beast Chong. Chongzao is also the modern fire drilling circle. Of course, it is said that there are also drilling knife circles. The kind will tie a blade to the edge of the circle, hang it under a tree or be held by a person. Drilled by the entertainer after sprinting.

Of course, because this kind of skill has extremely high requirements for artists, a small horn group like Zhongshan who was not supported by kings and high officials naturally couldn't have such a performance, but it is also very good to be able to guard beasts.

Xia Anran watched silently as they lit the straw ring, the grass seemed to have been processed, the smoke was big and the fire was small, but it looked extremely scary.

The black dog was taken out of the circle of fire, the rope around its neck was removed, and no one was allowed to lead it. After a trot, it jumped up, its two front paws stretched out, and its back paws stretched straight through the air, passing through the fire steadily. Landed after the circle.

As soon as it landed, the dog's eyes sparkled, and it looked excitedly at the person holding the leash. The latter also had a happy face, and patted the dog's head encouragingly.

At this time, the first fire circle had been burned out, and several artists took out three grass circles, which were not more than one meter apart, obviously to prevent the beasts from having enough time to prepare for the run-up, and to increase the excitement.The dog-leader took the black dog back to the starting point, passed through three circles smoothly after lighting the fire, and landed on the ground.

The black dog circled around its master with an excited face, but the master's face was slightly worried.

He patted the puppy's head, and his eyes drifted over the nobles who were watching their performance in the house, and found that there was no cry from the villagers watching their performance in the past.That's bad news—it means the audience isn't happy with their performance.

The head of the theatrical troupe also had a serious expression on his face.

Their team was called here temporarily. They had just finished a performance during the day, and they had to rest for half a day, but they were approached by the king's people and said that the king would have a banquet tonight.The other party gave a lot of money, the class owner and the artists discussed it, everyone liked the reward, and also wanted to show their face in front of the little king, so they agreed.

Originally thinking about common sense, I would order a song and dance show first, and then watch a variety show when the wine is hot.In this way, the entertainers of the miscellaneous operas should also take a rest first, and they never thought that the nobles did not take the usual way this time, and ordered the rush that consumed a lot of energy as soon as they came up.

The black dog had only rested for more than two hours since the last performance.Originally, they also had a replacement dog, but that dog stepped on a stone and injured its foot when it landed a few days ago, and it is still being raised, and Ah Hei has been on it for the past few days.

Originally, there were drills for five laps, but the dog was already tired. Humans can hold on to this kind of thing, but dogs are unwilling to do it when they are tired.If Ah Hei doesn't overdo it and runs away, I'm afraid it will be messed up at the beginning, and it will be even worse if he gets hurt again.

only……

The class leader gritted his teeth and prepared five laps.Seeing him like this, the dog-training artist immediately came over: "Master, Ah Hei is already tired today, and I'm afraid he won't be able to jump five laps!"

"That can't be helped. Didn't you see that the nobles inside didn't respond at all?" The class leader was sweating profusely, "If you can't satisfy the nobles and lose face to His Highness, how can we hang around here in the future?"

The entertainer bit his lip, he knelt down and pinched the dog's ears, and softly comforted Ah Hei who was sticking out his tongue with his native dialect.Before placing the grass circle, several artists impromptuly performed with the circle. The [-]th class of martial arts is only half a stick of incense.

The grass circle was set up, and the black dog followed the owner quietly. It looked up at the owner with a smile on its face, but it could feel the deep worry on the owner.

It has been trained not to bark anymore, so it can only gently lick the owner's hanging palm and let out a soft whimper to comfort it.

And when the artist walked in front of people, there was still an extremely pleasing and confident smile on his face.Just as the craftsmen were about to light the fire, they suddenly heard a young man inside yelling to stop.

After a while, a young man came out from the hall, with a jade hair crown and a green skirt and deep clothes. Seeing him stepping out, a servant immediately put a big cloak on him.Mr. Xiao Lang climbed down the steps on the snow and walked up to the artist. He saw him slightly lowered his head and looked at the black dog and said, "I have heard that dogs have an excellent sense of smell, and they can find people even miles away. I wonder if this is the case?"

The little artist was stunned, he obviously didn't believe that Xia Anran was talking to him directly, but after the troupe master pushed him from behind, the kid hurriedly bowed down.

"Back, back to Your Highness..." He tried his best to imitate the adult's tone, "Ah, Ah Hei smells really bad, last time I ate meat and changed clothes, he found out and got angry with me ..."

The little artist's voice became softer and softer, and finally his entire face turned red.Xia Anran didn't care, he felt that several people behind him followed him, he turned around and said with a smile: "Since that's the case, I also want to try how powerful this dog is."

"How does Your Highness want to try?" Cheng Bushi, who came out with him, was very interested, and said, "Should we take that child far away, and let the dog find him?"

Xia Anran thought about it for a while, and felt that such a thing may not be possible for an untrained puppy, and it is winter, if something happens to Xiao Lang if he is not careful, it is not good.So he looked at Dou Wan with a smile: "Wan'er is the youngest, why don't you listen to his thoughts."

That's right, adding 'er after the name is the common name for children nowadays, for example, Liu Xiaozhu is called Zhu'er, Xia Anran's body is called Sheng'er, and Dou Wan is younger than Xia Anran, so naturally they are called Wan'er!

As for whether this name sounds a bit feminine... Cough, it's good that the person concerned doesn't care, does the person really care?He didn't say anything anyway.

The young boy named Wan'er raised his expressionless face and looked at Xia Anran slowly, then thought about it in the eyes of everyone, and said: "I once heard that Qilu has a dog, and I can find it a few feet above the snow. Why don’t you give it a try?”

All eyes were on the snow.

Moments later, both the entertainer and the dog were taken away.After asking the dog trainer what the dog's favorite food was, Xia Anran found a corner in the big courtyard, had someone turn over the snow two feet, and then buried a deer bone with meat.Around this small house, Xia Anran asked everyone to find a place to bury their bones, and he took out a bounty.

Every time you find a place, you can give the meat to the dog, and you can get a reward of money. If you find all of them, you will be rewarded with a gold.

Hearing this, the troupe leader's eyes would light up. If he didn't have this ability, he might want to find it himself.

Soon, the black dog was brought in.In order to perform smoothly, it had been hungry for a while, and it was not given the food that could be fed after the break.

The trainer specifically asked to bring the dog's rice bowl.

"Why is that?" Seeing this action, Xia Anran was a little curious, and the young man replied respectfully, "Your Highness, Dahei has never done such a thing before, and to prevent this dog from messing around in a nobleman's house before, Urine, I trained it to hold it outside."

Seeing the little prince's friendly attitude, he let go a little: "Ah Hei is very smart, and later he understood that the place I circled can be used for peeing, and the place where I put the rice bowl can be used for eating."

"Because it is looking for meat, so, so the boy dares..."

Seeing the head teacher staring at him all the time, the child's voice became lower and lower, and finally he muttered: "Ah Hei doesn't eat anything other than mine..."

Xia Anran waved her hand, signaling to the class leader that there is no need to accuse her, and she said with great interest, "It's okay, I will do as you say."

The little prince agreed, and the others naturally had no objections.Because when they got outside the hall, Cheng Bushi and others put on their swords, and they were guarding Xia Anran's side at this time, afraid that the vicious dog would suddenly hurt someone, and he relaxed a little when he saw the young man tied the dog's neck with a rubber band some.

Ah Hei, who was led and walked in again, had a puzzled expression on his face. He looked up and tried to find the circle, but he couldn't see it. Then he saw the owner put down his rice bowl.

Ah Hei immediately leaned over, and his big tail began to wag happily, until he realized that the owner hadn't been given any food.

The black dog's black eyes were full of doubts, and its owner pulled him forward, getting farther and farther away from the rice bowl.Xia Anran saw that little tail flicking and flicking from a distance, and then stopped, she couldn't believe it, and she still looked back with nostalgia while walking.

Xia Anran watched the young man dragging his dog along the snow from afar.

An untrained black dog doesn't know what the owner wants it to do, and just walks around at will.Cheng Bushi frowned when he saw the young man leading the dog past his burial place without moving.He glanced at King Zhongshan lightly, but saw that the young boy was unmoved at all, he didn't even move his eyelashes, so he looked at the field again, and after a while, most of the courtyard was shaken, and the black dog was still there from the beginning to the end. I didn't move for a moment, and it seemed that I regarded this activity as a pre-meal exercise.

After wandering around the whole house, the black dog trotted all the way back with the hurried master who didn't dare to keep the nobleman waiting for a long time, and the appearance of sitting on the snow with his little tongue sticking out and his head tilted looked extraordinarily silly.

Seeing that the black dog has not found a piece of meat so far, everyone quietly looked at Xia Anran from the corners of their eyes, even the owner of the dog was sweating profusely.He looked at the black dog, then at the nobles, and was so anxious that he wanted to cry.

Suddenly he heard the young boy say to him: "Turn your back, and the dog will be with you."

Then, Xia Anran asked someone to dig out the shallow snow layer behind the young man, and threw another bone into it.

Next, he directed the boy to dig up the snow layer with the dog, and dug out the bones there and put them on the black dog's dinner plate.The black dog looked at the dinner plate, and then at the little master whose face was flushed from the cold. It suddenly realized something, and instead of eating the bone, it opened its mouth and grabbed the boy's sleeve to signal him to follow him.

Xia Anran nodded to indicate that he could do whatever he wanted, so the little boy was pulled to a place by the black dog, and the black dog sniffed left and right to find a spot so that he could use his four claws to plan the ground.

It looked extremely skilled in its movements, but unfortunately the snow was so thick that it would not be able to dig it for a while, so the little boy helped dig the ground together after getting permission.Soon, the black dog plunged into the snowdrift. Several people walked in curiously, and saw it climbed up from below after a while, and a stick with fleshy bones was held in its mouth.

In fact, since the dog dug here, everyone has known that it found the right place, and now they are a little surprised to see that the pothole goes down almost all the way to the small hole where the bone stick is: "This dog can find it well." allow."

Zhi Du praised: "It's amazing."

Xia Anran gently raised her hand, motioning for the young boy to take the dog bowl and put down the big bone, and the fact that two bones were placed in the rice bowl immediately aroused the black dog.

It immediately pulled the little boy to the next place.

Now everyone understood what the black dog was thinking, and they were immediately annoyed and funny.

It turned out that the dog had smelled the bone just now, but either thought it must not be eaten, or thought it was hidden and waited for a chance to dig it out later, so it kept calm and pretended not to find it.

After knowing that the bone was dug out, it belonged to him, the dog immediately became full of energy.

After digging out two more bones, the black dog stopped moving. It is not bad that three out of six bones were dug out.

Everyone watched the excitement and thought it was quite interesting, seeing that the black dog was not moving, they immediately advised Xia Anran to go inside to avoid the snow.The theatrical troupe leader was overjoyed. He found the three-shift bone and it was three pennies. Although it was too far away from one gold, he also felt that this was already the limit of the black dog!

On the contrary, this object-hunting activity is not bad, you can train it and amuse the nobles later.

I just don't know if it's only Dahei who is like this or all dogs have this ability...

Everyone thought that the black dog stopped because it couldn't find it, but Xia Anran looked at the places where the dog had dug holes, and then looked at the big black dog that was gnawing on the bone, feeling a little thoughtful.

Although it is a meaty bone, there is not much meat on it. Although the black dog found three bones and one demonstration bone, it must not be enough.

It would be a big mistake to think that dogs really like to chew bones.The impression that dogs love to eat bones is nothing more than the fact that people used to be poor, and the bones were not chewed clean by themselves, so they threw them to dogs. Seeing that dogs eat with relish and can bite open the bone, they think it likes to eat this. In fact, this is nothing more than the helplessness of dogs. It's just the next move.

But if you look at its ancestor, the wolf, you will find that no wolf gives priority to gnawing bones after catching prey.

The black dog usually looks like it can't eat meat, and when it chews a few bones, it is still licking its mouth.

The dog guards the food, Xia Anran obviously noticed that it was eating while looking in the direction of the house casually, and would flap its tail a few times whenever it saw the servants walking around.

He couldn't help squinting his eyes, and in exchange the servant said a few words to him, and then he led the way back to the room, and when he sat down for a while with the snow-covered cloak back, he saw the servant rushing in to report, with a serious look on his face. True or false admiration: "Return to Your Highness, the black dog is exactly as His Highness said, after being led by the young man near their ox cart, it immediately ran towards the house."

This answer is really surprising.After Xia Anran allowed, several people ran out to watch the excitement, and when they came in after a while, they all had smiles on their faces.

Xia Anran was drinking tea, when she saw them coming in, she smiled: "How many did it find in the end?"

"Return to Your Highness, it found all of them." Cheng Bushi stroked his beautiful beard, and said with some incomprehension, "Since it smelled all the bones, why didn't it find them all at once?"

"Yeah... Isn't this the nature of animals?"

The little king glanced up at them and said nothing.Seeing him like this, Dou Ying continued the conversation very smoothly: "I think the dog wanted to hide it to eat next time, but unexpectedly found that he was going to be taken away. He ran back just in case he couldn't eat the meat. He was afraid that someone would eat it. Grab the food."

"What Wei Qihou said is reasonable. I'm afraid that's exactly the case,"

"How did Your Highness think that this dog would behave like this? I really admire it."

Xia Anran, who was surrounded by business exchanges, waved his hand: "This king is just guessing, it's just a coincidence."

"I just don't know if this dog is extraordinarily heroic, or if all dogs are like this." Cheng Buzhi pondered for a moment, and looked up with particularly deep eyes, "Your Highness, I have a merciless request."

"Please speak, Lieutenant."

"I want to try to find some dogs to train."

This seemed to be Cheng Buzhi's whim, not thought through carefully, but just a flash of inspiration.He frowned, stood up and bowed and said: "It's the minister's disrespect, please Your Highness allow the minister to go back and think again."

Xia Anran agreed, he could probably guess what Cheng Bushi was thinking.

Cheng Bushi, like Li Guang, is a defender. In this era, there are few people who are both offensive and defensive. The older generation mainly defends the city. This is a limitation determined by the times.

This is naturally not that the generals are unwilling to fight, on the contrary, they want to fight very much, but there is a problem that deeply chokes their throats, and it is also the most common reason for the peace faction - they can't find it.

The vast grasslands, the scenery is single, and it is simply impossible to distinguish the direction in the place where there are no mountains or lakes to guide the way.

Of course they can rely on the stars in the sky to tell the difference between east, west and north, but it doesn't work.

When the army travels, huge military expenses are burned every day. If there is no military merit, even if they come back alive, they will lose money. Whether they are punished depends on the mood of the emperor and Shangfeng.

In fact, taking advantage of the honorable opportunity of sending the princess to marry him, the big man sent many people to follow him.However, the Huns are cunning, and they are not allowed to follow them wherever they go. It is not that the big man has never thought of sending people to lurk in the Huns' king's account and wait for an opportunity to escape. As far as Liu Sheng knows, there are more than a dozen people, but so far there is no one. One can go home.

Considering that there is Zhong Xingyue in the court of the Huns who knows the style of the big man very well, most of these people are more than good.

Cheng Bushi is naturally also a general who wants to pass the mark. Today, he was inspired by the ability of dogs to find objects by accident. He wants to try to follow the path of relying on domesticated animals and using the nose of animals to guide the army.

Xia Anran can't say whether he is optimistic about this method, but only knows that no one has ever done this in history.Moreover, if you want to use dogs to guide the way, there are too many restrictions. The source of the taste of finding people is the problem. If you can find the Huns cavalry in the vast grassland, it means that the opponent is not far away, but in fact, more often than not, you will find nothing. Not everyone is equipped with the Xiongnu radar, and they can meet people when they run around.

He believes that in this situation, it is better to try to raise an eagle, at least the other party can fly high and see far.As long as these birds can escape the attack of the Huns' eagle shooters, they can guide the army, and the grassland is their home field, and the old man who keeps the eagle can hunt by himself.

However, as an excellent leader, His Royal Highness felt that he could not dampen the enthusiasm of his confidant and beloved minister. Isn't it just to raise some dogs? It doesn't hurt to try.

And there are many places where working dogs can play a role. He has seen a documentary about police dogs before, and it can play a role.

Of course, there's a little trouble here.

Working dogs have a lot of training and need a lot of high-quality food to increase their energy. In this era when ordinary people are trying to eat enough, if you want to feed your dog to eat meat or something... um.

Xia Anran touched the paws of her hands, feeling that she was in danger of being slapped.

The author has something to say:

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Xia Miao: If you really set up a dog training ground, it will be called: Wang Wang Secret Service Team

When beating the black dog, I thought the dog's name should not be Ah Hei, but A Mo.

Yesterday, the comment area was surprised to see a variety of small attacks, hahahaha! ! !

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When it comes to etiquette, China has been known as the land of etiquette since ancient times, and etiquette and ritual are two different things. In modern society, there are actually more rituals and fewer rituals.

For example, the reason why "swimming with arms", "lying on the same couch", and "sharing a car" can be recorded is actually because these are the monarchs or people of high status who "follow each other"!These words are actually a compliment to the person with a high status.

The author also knows a general idea in this regard, let me give you a few chestnut ducks.

This piece mentions a historical process that I don't know and didn't avoid.

What is avoidance?Sitting in the Han Dynasty is to sit on the top of the mat, this is the "seat" and when someone comes to toast, in order to show respect, you have to step aside from the top of the mat and sit outside the mat.

Another lower level is half-avoidance, that is, kneeling with one leg (of course, this was sitting in ancient times) on the mat and the other knee outside.

In the end, don’t avoid it at all, which means [it’s normal for you to toast me]

This principle is the same as when someone comes to toast, you stand up and bow down to clink glasses, stand up and straighten your body, and the principle is the same as sitting.

Then the background at that time was that Dou Ying stepped down from the position of minister and Tian Fu took the position.

People who flattered Dou Ying were not as respectful to Dou Ying as before. At that time, Cheng Bushi was the one who whispered to Guan Xian when Dou Ying toasted Guan Xian, so neither of them avoided the table (of course Cheng If you don't know yourself, you don't have to avoid the table, because you are not toasting him, but this is called winking.) So Guan Fu (Guan Xian's elder) pointed at him and scolded him.

Cheng Bushi himself didn't say anything at the time, because he was indeed wronged, and Hou Tianfu couldn't stand it anymore, so he got into a fight with Guanfu, and this incident became a big problem after that, which directly led to the deaths of Guanfu and Dou Ying.

This is a cutlery caused by avoiding a table or not (it's not)

In addition, I would like to remind the babies here, I don’t know if you have noticed, but it is inevitable to socialize and toast each other during meals during New Year’s and holidays.

Generally speaking, the people in your family who are a little better, that is, people with a certain status in the society, always put their wine glasses lower when they hold them. This is because when clinking glasses, the one with the higher rim wins.

Many people don't know this point. Clinking glasses is a foolish way to bump into each other. Only when you are in the workplace do you know the secret.

Of course, if you have the kind of person whose social status is really high and the cup is held very high when clinking glasses, stay away from him.

Most of these people are a little buoyant.And the higher the position, the less able to float.

During the author's annual meeting, the big bosses of the group company will come to toast. To be honest, basically the big bosses I met are really peaceful. It’s not so low that you can’t lower it anymore) Then the author will observe carefully, how many people have noticed this, and then he can find out the details of the other party in an instant.

It's so stupid to put it up high - that's it, newcomer.

To be honest, according to my observation, there are quite a lot of new interns who don’t understand this rule. Babies should pay attention to it in the future. If you think this action is okay, people will probably notice it.

One more point.

At the dinner table, if you are a newcomer, remember not to sit on the left and right hands of the leader, the farther away from him the better, the lower the position near the door in the hotel box.

Of course, this status does not mean that the status is really low, but it is not surprising that many people are polite. If you are a newcomer, try to sit by the door as much as possible-never sit in the innermost seat stupidly!

I have come across this matter.

The relationship between the author’s working group is relatively good. It’s the kind where the whole TEAM will go out to look for food. Basically, they keep eating wild food once a week. The author has been extremely unaccustomed since he first came in, and now—ah, whatever it is. a lot.

Then, this incident probably happened last year. Our TEAM has a newcomer, an old man in the workplace, not a newcomer, but a more honest-looking type.

Once we went to eat hot pot, the supervisor arrived a little late, and our girls arrived first, and basically sat on the side near the door (small box), but the honest man came later, and said straightly: How do you They all sit at the door, it's not cold, and then they sit in the innermost place.

The author was playing with his mobile phone at the time, and his whole body froze for a moment, but I couldn't say: Dear, don't sit there!Because it's embarrassing.I obviously felt that the other girl was also caught in the tangle.

Because I am a foreign company, in fact, the concept of hierarchy is not so important, and everyone is very casual, but it is not very good after all-probably this feeling.

Just when I was about to send a WeChat message quietly, the leader came in.

Because of my heart, I paid attention to it at the time, and the leader was obviously taken aback. Of course, he didn't say anything, and just sat there normally.Later, of course, I didn’t wear small shoes or anything (really, a department would not do this kind of thing, everyone is still unanimous, don’t be fooled by those films!) But I was deeply impressed by this incident.

Therefore, it is not surprising that there are many people who are polite, and there is nothing wrong with knowing more.

It is a good thing for a leader to be approachable, but being close is obscene. He is your leader after all, and you still have to have the proper etiquette after all.

This is not slavishness or flattery or anything. Don't feel ashamed for doing this. This is basic etiquette.

PS: Before entering the leader’s office, you have to knock on the door even if the door is open. Remember to pause for a few seconds after knocking on the door to give the leader time to prepare (for example, minimize the Taobao page or something =w=)

A good impression can save a lot of trouble.

For example, when the author was raising his salary one year, he heard our supervisor come back with a smile and tell me that the regional leader actually remembered me, because every time I went to sign a contract, I would knock on the door and smile.