The days when I pretended to be a cat in the Forbidden City[Comprehensive]

Mrs. Lu exchanged pleasantries with this young man named Wei Liao, and she was pleasantly surprised to find that the gentleman had something to say, and his etiquette and conversation were all good. After inquiring again, it turned out that Wei Liao studied under the current master Xun Kuang.She didn't move, but she had an idea in her heart.

After Lu Buwei returned at night, she told her husband what happened today, and planned to ask his opinion.

Lu Buwei has been fighting all over the world today, relying on his eloquence to force Pingyanghou's staff into silence, he is in a good mood when he has achieved half of his goal, and when he heard what his wife wanted, he immediately agreed.

"Buwei's gains today are not as good as Madam's." Lu Buwei smiled and cupped Madam Lu's hands, teasingly, "It would be a great kindness for us An'er to have such a good teacher."

"It's not me." Mrs. Lu pulled out a hand and pointed at her son who was taking a nap in the hall, "Your son found it by himself."

Lu Buwei's expression didn't move at all, "That's also Madam's credit, our An'er is so smart, it can be seen that Madam lives well and teaches well."

Mrs. Lu, who was blown by the rainbow fart, raised her eyebrows when she heard this. She looked her husband up and down for a while, and said with a half smile, "Husband today...but what do you want to say to my concubine?"

Lu Buwei's expression froze slightly.

My wife knows that Mrs. Lu was born in a scholarly family, gentleness is true, but her temper is not small, and her means are not weak.

Lu An didn't speak up for a few years after he was born, and the Lu family didn't have any reaction or blame. Of course, there was a reason why Mrs. Lu suffered with them after she married, and another reason was because of Mrs. Lu's superb methods.

The old man and the old woman felt sorry for the girl, and her husband transferred to business status after she got married. They thought it was a fraudulent marriage, and they were extremely lenient to her, but the uncles and aunts of the Lu family didn't think so.

Lu Buwei has been away for a long time, no matter how good the atmosphere of the Lu family is, there will be some dirty things, but Lu An is well protected by his mother. Mrs. Lu will not tell Lu Buwei about all this, but Lu Buwei knows it in his heart.

Similarly, Mrs. Lu also knew that Lu Buwei was silently expressing her support for not having a child in the past few years. Once Lu Buwei had a second child, even if it was with her, Lu An's status would be challenged.

Some words do not need to be explained between husband and wife, this is their respect and trust for each other.

Although there are fewer gatherings and more separations, there is always a tacit understanding and clarity in the communication between smart people. For example, Mrs. Lu can now see the lack of confidence in men from Lu Buwei's subtle attitude.

She slowly raised an eyebrow on one side, as if listening attentively.Seeing this, Lu Buwei coughed dryly, and then told his wife everything in detail.

In fact, the matter is very simple, Zhao Ji is pregnant.

Of course she was pregnant with a foreigner's child.Lu Buwei hasn't returned for more than a year, and he hasn't had sex with Zhao Ji since his return. Yiren knows this very well. No matter how confused he is and how he tries to please Lu Buwei, he won't do anything to confuse Ying's bloodline.Therefore, although Zhao Ji was begged to go back, the house was consummated after Zhao Ji's Kuishui was over.

Therefore, he made a request to Lu Buwei-ask Mrs. Lu to take care of Zhao Ji.

In a foreign country, the foreigner has no children, and he has no brother from the same mother. He is not clear about the affairs of women. At this time, it is difficult to feel at ease in hiring a person of this way.This place is behind the enemy, how do you know if the Zhao people will mix with them and try to kill them?The most important point in the transfer of imperial power is stability. If he can safely give birth to a healthy and intelligent next generation, he will also be a bargaining chip when he returns to Qin.

So he hopes that his first child can be born safely, and this child must also be able to be born, regardless of gender.

If there is someone who can be trusted by other people, then only Lu Buwei, he and Lu Buwei are an absolute community of interests.And from Lu Buwei's point of view, he would definitely be happy to have his first child born in the womb of Zhao Ji who is more fettered.

After hearing this request, Lu Buwei did not refuse as he thought. He even gave Yiren's worry a thumbs up, and then began to plan carefully.

Lu Buwei's plan was to bring people from his hometown, and he was really worried about using Zhao people, but this happened suddenly. Although Lu Buwei had already sent people to defend the country, they would not arrive for a while.

Zhao Ji was just sitting in her arms, at the time when she was prone to making mistakes, she needed someone to take care of her most.Helpless, Lu Buwei could only come back and discuss with his wife if he could help to take a look.

But no matter how stupid he is, he still understands the embarrassing relationship between Zhao Ji and his wife.

Now that Zhao Ji's status changed suddenly overnight, he felt that Zhao Ji would be wronged by his wife, so this hesitation was brought out by his actions, and was sensitively captured by Mrs. Lu.

Mrs. Lu agreed almost without thinking. Facing the pity on her husband's face, she just shook her head and chuckled to show that it was okay, and this move was regarded by Lu Buwei as his wife's compromise.At that moment, Lu Buwei stretched out his hand to embrace his wife's shoulder, patted his wife's shoulder, and was about to make some more intimate gestures, but suddenly met a pair of black eyes.

The movements of Lu Buwei's hands froze: "..."

Lu An: "...Excuse me."

Lu Buwei let go of his arms around his wife's shoulders in embarrassment. The old father, who had been intimate with his wife for a rare time but was looked at by his son, was very angry now.

The old father, whose anger continued to rise, stretched his legs, and lifted his short-legged son, who realized something was wrong and wanted to escape.Lu An showed his father cleverly: "Father, An'er learned a truth today."

"Oh? Tell me."

"People are born with desires, and if you can control your desires, you will not become a villain... Aww!!" Although he knew that his son's desires should not mean what he thought, but Lu Buwei still couldn't hold back his hands Desire, he knocked on his son's head, seeing the child immediately wrinkled his face before putting him down, "An'er, you are already a mature gentleman, it's time to learn not to sleep with your parents."

Lu An glanced at him with disdain in his small eyes, then he looked at his mother and immediately put on a soft and cute expression: "Mum~~~" The soft voice, matched with a little milk dog The wet and shiny eyes always made Mrs. Lu's heart soften into a puddle of water in the past.

But today, Mrs. Lu smiled and watched the father and son quarreling, and then stood by her husband in the father-son dispute without hesitation, "An'er, you are already a six-year-old child, and you really should sleep alone."

Has the tried-and-true trump card failed in the past? !Lu An was shocked!

Lu An couldn't believe that he fell out of favor overnight.What happened?He is only a six-year-old baby, why can't he sleep with his parents!It's not fair!

Forgetting that not long ago, he told his mother that he was an older child and could go out to play by himself, Lu An turned his head and jumped back on the bed, expressing his desire to carry out his squeamish career to the end with practical actions.

Lu Buwei looked at his wife who actually supported him in surprise, and then he thought about it and knew what Madam Lu was thinking.If the son wants to go out to study, it is necessary to learn to sleep alone. Obviously, the wife wants to train her child a little bit from now on.

Since he wanted to be a villain, he had to be a villain to the end, Lu Buwei asked someone to make another bed in the room, and then hugged his son who was hiding in the quilt with his hands and feet wide open, and then rolled up the quilt to make him thump and thump. Lu Xiaoan rolled into a ball.

The son is still young, and it is still difficult to divide the room at once, but we can start with the bed.

Lu An didn't have any objection to sleeping in separate beds. He struggled out of the quilt, lying on his bed resentfully, looking at his parents who were still chatting from afar.Lu Buwei and Mrs. Lu consciously lowered their voices. Amidst the whispers, the child looked at them resentfully, and then fell asleep again.

Lu Buwei was really sad to see his son lying on his stomach, so he went over to adjust his son's posture.In the end, seeing his son's heartless appearance, he couldn't help pinching his plump double chin, and then scratched the soles of his son's feet. Lu Xiaoan, who was harassed in his sleep, kicked his paws twice, trying to kick him. he.

Lu Buwei hid in time and Lu An missed the kick, but the little fat man didn't care, he moved his fat foot and continued to sleep without caring.

Lu Buwei endured it, but couldn't help but scratched his son's chubby feet again.

Mrs. Lu looked at the interaction between her husband and son, her brows were soft. She allowed her husband to bully her heartless son, but she stopped her childish husband in time before the son was about to wake up from being harassed by her husband.

If An'er was really woken up from her sleep, she would definitely not try to put her son to sleep.

Lu Buwei is very self-aware about coaxing his son to sleep.He returned to the bed awkwardly, saying that he would listen to his wife about his son.

The next day, Lu Buwei turned down many things, and he and his daughter-in-law came to the door with gifts to apprentice for their son.Xun Qing, who returned to his hometown for a rest during the study tour, was a little surprised when he heard the intention of the couple's visit, but shook his head when he heard that the other party's child was only six years old, even if Lu Buwei said that he would send someone to take care of the child, he did not agree.

"Qing's talent and learning are not enough, it's far from being able to open the door to accept disciples." Xun Qing said to the couple, "The situation is still in the lower reaches of the study, and I don't know when I will leave. Your son is too young, so it is really inconvenient. "

Scholars in this era seldom open doors to accept disciples when they are young, and Xun Qing is the same. When scholars are young, most of them go to the road of governing the country. Find a place to stop and concentrate on studying knowledge, and try to find someone who can pass on his thoughts.

Xun Qing is still traveling around the world trying to promote his own ideas of governing the country, so naturally it is not time to stop.The most is to open a class to teach students wherever you go, and take a bunch of training. Besides the virtue of enlightenment, you can also experience the local people's conditions and find out if there are any fellows who can learn from each other.

This can only be called teaching, without a special apprenticeship ceremony, come and go at will, there is a friendship between each other, but the fate is shallow.

Xun Qing himself did not accept apprentices, but he took in a few students.

Students Students are those who learn the law of survival, and their status is different from that of apprentices.

Among these people, some want to learn from Xun Qing because they have the ability to "make a living", and some want to worship him as a teacher.

There is no need to say much about the former, everyone walks together, but they are not like-minded in the end, and they may part ways at any time.The latter is not the case. Teachers and students are like father and son. If the ceremony of worshiping teachers and accepting apprentices is done in a serious manner, the future and past of both parties will be tied together, and we will share weal and woe ever since.

Therefore, before accepting an apprentice, Mr. must make all-round considerations, and once he accepts an apprentice, he will teach with all his money.

Obviously, the couple was targeting the second one, and Xun Qing felt that he didn't even know how to take the next step, so how could he easily accept this six-year-old child as a student?The child is weak, can he continue to study with him?

Although the country of Zhao is his ancestral home, he is not sure how long he will stay.It doesn't matter if it's an ordinary student, they will learn from each other and ponder their ideas, and get together and get together if they are destined.But Xiaolang of the Lu family is too young, what he needs is a more stable mentor, he is not suitable, if the child is left behind halfway through the teaching, it is easy to teach the child astray.

However, the child's father replied almost without hesitation: "Sir, don't worry, my son is smart and can take care of himself in daily life, and if Mr. leaves Zhao Guo one day, Lu will also do his part for my son." Disciple respects." To put it simply, people must be sent to follow when the time comes, so that Xun Qing can be served comfortably.

Of course, this can be done with the wealth of the Lu family, but there are only a few people who say it so bluntly, and Xun Qing is almost dumbfounded.But in the end, he still couldn't hold back Lu Buwei, who was crazy about selling, and finally agreed to meet Lu An.

The author has something to say:

Mrs. Lu: I am very satisfied with this young man!

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Come, come, the author will explain to you the difference between a student and an apprentice.

Give you a material to write a small composition. (The above content is not guaranteed to be correct, please read carefully)

Students, as the name suggests, are learning survival skills.This is at the bottom of learning, (of course there are also modest self-proclaimed)

If it corresponds to modern times, it is nine-year compulsory education, learning the most basic survival skills, such as literacy, some general knowledge of physics, chemistry, biopolitical history, and an impression of most things.

So many children will wonder why such a cute little creature becomes a big devil in an instant after entering high school!

Because the knowledge in high school is no longer a simple idea for you to survive.

When you enter high school, you need to have a general understanding of your future. At the very least, you need to understand which aspect you are interested in and which aspect you are not good at at all.

For example, the division of arts and sciences, art students, etc. began to appear.

And after you get to university, you will be more specialized in one aspect, but you still have to learn a lot of miscellaneous and seemingly useless majors, but these are the foundations for you when you study for a master's or doctoral degree.

Once you enter the master's and doctoral stage, what you see is more specialized.

The whole learning process is from face to point.

It was the same in ancient times.

Take the example of Confucianism.

Do you think Confucianism is just that?Wrong!

Confucianism is divided into many subjects.

The Poems, Books, Liyi, Spring and Autumn and Five Classics that you know are actually five disciplines. Everyone has to study them once when they are getting started. Recognize characters and understand the principles. At this time, they are students.What does it mean to learn how to survive from Confucianism?

In the early stage, it is to recognize characters, to ensure that you have a skill that can survive in the future, even if you write a letter to someone, thank you couplet, at least you will not starve to death!

Later, it is the scientific examination to become an official.

There is no knowledge in ancient China that regards being an official as your ultimate goal. Being an official is just a way of survival.

Then, when you look at the imperial examination papers, you will definitely see that there are sub-subjects, such as the "Spring and Autumn" subject, and the "Book of Changes" subject. This is the beginning of the separation of our arts and sciences.

Some babies may ask if Confucian scholars have learned it all?

That is probably the difference between junior high school chemistry and high school chemistry.

How simple is the molecular formula in junior high school. You can make it up even if you can’t recite it. The author Jun never memorizes molecular formulas in junior high school. The big devil in mathematics is here, so I went to study liberal arts (hello???)

For example, when you started reading "Spring and Autumn", you saw that it was a history book. That's right, you have memorized it like this since you were a child. Isn't "Historical Records" the inheritance of "Spring and Autumn"?

But friends, do you know that the Han Dynasty regarded the "Spring and Autumn Classics" as a legal encyclopedia for a long time?Even the Qin Dynasty, which had a highly legal system, referred to the "Spring and Autumn Classics" for many legal provisions. When encountering difficult problems in the Song Dynasty, where legal knowledge was quite comprehensive, it would turn out the "Spring and Autumn" to find knowledge points.

Yes, there is a book that appears to be a history book, but can actually be viewed as an encyclopedia of the law.

Because "Spring and Autumn" is so against the sky, several annotated books have been published. The most famous ones are "Zuo Zhuan", "Gongyang Chunqiu" and "Gu Liang Zhuan". Let’s go (although I think the term Lu’s Spring and Autumn Annals is a bit of a hot topic)

Maybe some babies who have studied literature will ask again, no, isn’t "Left Turn" the legendary book of the emperor?

Yes, in addition to the history books and law books, the "Spring and Autumn Classics" is the last book in Confucius' life. It doesn't matter whether he edited it or sorted it out, but it actually conveys Confucius' deepest wish-to use This book comes to rule the country.

When it comes time to learn a single subject with the master, at this time it is already at the apprentice or disciple level, what is the difference?Apprentice (disciple), disciple, the two words "er" and "zi" appear in these two nouns, which represent heirs.

At this level, it is basically similar to the father-son relationship.

But this is not the ultimate, because there is still a personal disciple.

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Although a general master of Confucianism has various books, he actually has only one subject he specializes in, and it is precisely this subject that he will examine every student the most and most rigorously, and choose one of them to compare himself the most. Important life skills are imparted to this person.

If disciples and apprentices are "father and son" in terms of physical and interpersonal relationships, what the direct disciples accept is the continuation of the teacher's future and thoughts, with a sense of mission to pass on the responsibility of the teacher.

So in general, a scholar can have many, many students, few disciples, and even fewer direct disciples.

…………… Although it seems useless to say so much… It’s okay, as long as you have enough burdens, you can always find opportunities to shake your wits!