Contest of Ode to Joy

When everyone talked about love during the meal, Qu Xiaoxiao asked that Andy and Wei Wei had no real progress.Qu Xiaoxiao said, "Anyway, I drank too much, so I'll tell you a few truths. In such a difficult situation, why you can see him at a glance? The reason why a man can become a boyfriend is only if One, when you see him with a quick glance, your heart will thump, and you are qualified to be a boyfriend. After you become a boyfriend, how can you say that you have a good heart and a good match? Is this person good? Do you have money? What, you can become a husband only after you have these conditions, so, Andy, I have long disliked you and Brother Wei, I have known you for so long, and I have never seen you before, kiss and hug each other Hug, this shows that Brother Wei is not sexually attractive in front of you, you said I have a lot, right?"

Lin Yun watched Qu Xiaoxiao turn to her, and took a sip of milk slowly, "I don't know what the so-called sexual charm is. I only talked about Tan Zongming. Before I came to Shanghai, I regarded him as a friend. I am also an attractive person in my eyes, but I didn't think about it, but when I realized that I like Lao Tan, I couldn't help but want to get close to him. At first I would be shy, but he always Temptation, surrender."

Glancing at Andy, Lin Yun also agrees with Qu Xiaoxiao's words. Love is not equal to sex, but after having love, there is no sex. Plato's love at that time was not ordinary people's. But Andy is no ordinary person.

"Andy, Xiao Qu's situation is different. I know you have a psychological barrier and cannot touch others, but there are two kinds of situations. When it happens, you still feel conflicted, or you don't feel it at all?" Qu Xiao Xiao continued to ask.

Seeing Andy's embarrassment, Qiu Yingying quickly answered, "Character is the most important thing."

"Nonsense, character is of course the most important thing. It doesn't matter whether you call it a boyfriend or just an ordinary friend, you all value character. Only when you have character will you have the next thing." Qu Xiaoxiao's natural excuse road.

After listening for so long, Andy made up his mind and said, "Okay, let me sum up what you just said, a man and a woman, first of all, they need to have the needs of physical communication, and then they need to sublimate to the needs of spiritual and ideological communication. You can only get married after the past, does that mean?"

"That's what it means," Qiu Yingying said.

"You think so too?" Seeing that everyone agreed, Andy asked Guan Juer suspiciously. In her opinion, Guan Juer was the most obedient one, but she also agreed.

"My idea is that your order is reversed. It should be the spiritual communication first, and then the physical needs. After both parties agree that it is possible to go further, then enter the marriage." Lin Yun thinks that this is the norm in China.

Seeing Guan Juer's embarrassed look, Qu Xiaoxiao said, "Xiaoguan, why are you blushing." Guan Juer touched his face, not knowing how to speak, Qu Xiaoxiao immediately reacted, "Hey, tell me the truth Are you looking for someone, ummm."

Guan Juer immediately shook her head, a little afraid of revealing her thoughts, and Andy immediately smoothed things over, she was really afraid that Guan Juer would accidentally reveal that she liked Dr. Zhao, and Qu Xiaoxiao would turn upside down. "Xiaoguan is an honest person, so don't tease her like this."

Qu Xiaoxiao doesn't like this, "Why am I flirting with her? I'm teaching her, okay? I'm afraid she'll pretend to be serious for a long time, and won't even talk to her when she's in love."

Lin Yun agreed in her heart, she was like this herself, she was at a loss when she first got together with Tan Zongming, if it wasn't for Tan Zongming's step by step, she might have fled back to Beijing, and then just hid until the matter passed up.Sometimes she is also fortunate that that person is Tan Zongming, the Tan Zongming who will never give up once he makes up his mind to achieve his goal. If it were someone else, she would look gentle and polite on the surface, but in fact she would reject others thousands of miles away. Attitude, totally impossible.

Qu Xiaoxiao no matter how she is in other aspects, she can be said to be very insightful in terms of love.

"Andy, tell me the truth, what is going on between you and Brother Wei? Do you have passion, do you have desire?" Qu Xiaoxiao asked Andy seriously, and she found that Andy and Wei Wei really had a problem .

"It's my problem. I don't like being in close contact with people. I, I have physical rejection." Andy said seriously, brother Wei cannot be blamed for this matter.

"It's normal for you to have a physical repulsion towards Brother Wei. If your own conditions are worse, you might look at Big Brother Wei again, and you may be more stalwart. To put it bluntly, money and status can add sexiness." Qu Xiaoxiao said It's very straightforward.

But Andy doesn't think so, "He is very attractive in my eyes. His knowledge makes him shine. I don't think sexy is not necessarily muscle and beauty. I think sexy should be exuded from within. Brother Wei has such a charming charm." Andy also argued seriously.

"In your eyes, is Brother Wei an idol or just a man who fascinates you?" Lin Yun was curious, "If, if the person with such knowledge is a woman, do you think she also has such knowledge? Charm?"

Andy was speechless for a while, a knowledgeable woman is certainly attractive, but the assumption is difficult to establish, Brother Wei is a man, a man who attracts her, there is no doubt about it. "Now the key problem is me, I am cold."

Qu Xiaoxiao didn't take it seriously, "No one can be really cold, either you have misunderstood it, or you really need to see a psychiatrist." Having said so much, Qu Xiaoxiao felt that it was enough. It's over, change the subject, "Hey, don't let me analyze it for you, you can analyze it for me too, why is Dr. Zhao ignoring me?"

Speaking of this, Andy can go on with peace of mind, "What about the sexy in the eyes of stinky cultural people? It also needs a little bit of cultural embellishment, so that he can appear to be a noble person, a person who is out of vulgar tastes, but you Have you ever thought about why you can't forget Dr. Zhao? It's because of the little bit of cultural embellishment on Dr. Zhao." With a smile, he didn't forget to tease Qu Xiaoxiao.

Guan Juer smiled narrowly, "I think so too."

"Well, I have the right to speak. When I saw Tan Zongming for the first time, he was talking at the ball. The rusty smell completely made me dislike him. But later, because of the chat, I found out that I slowly became friends with him because of his cultural background. Without this embellishment, I might still be a stranger to him today." Lin Yun joked, "Aha, how noble I am, how can I be with this guy? Merchants are here."

This is really true. Lin Yun has been in ancient times for so many years. Although she was not influenced by the ancients and looked down on merchants, she really is not the same as merchants.In ancient times, the status of merchants was low, and Lin Yun came from a wealthy family, and basically had no contact with merchants.In modern times, although I have been exposed to the entertainment industry, the producer Zhang I know and the editor-in-chief she signed with are a bit engaged in culture and art, not exactly businessmen.

When she first met Tan Zongming, she had no desire to make contact at all. If it wasn't for that unexpected night, even if she and Tan Zongming knew each other, they really wouldn't be able to get together.

"Qu Xiaoxiao, you can't do this now. You go to take an MBA or EMBA. Look at Andy. When he first came here, he couldn't even speak a straight sentence. He speaks so neatly now, but he is so It can be seen from one book a day." Qiu Yingying hit Qu Xiaoxiao with malicious intentions.

Speaking of this, Guan Juer remembered and asked Qu Xiaoxiao, "Where are the books I found for you last time? Have you read them?"

Qu Xiaoxiao pretended not to hear, what kind of ghost book, people have no time to earn money, how can they be interested in reading any books, "Drunk, I didn't hear."

Lin Yun laughed, "If you don't listen to the old man's words, you will suffer in front of your eyes. You have to read the book list I made for you at the beginning, so that you won't be exposed so quickly in front of Dr. Zhao."

Hearing this, Qu Xiaoxiao even pretended nothing happened. If she really read the book, with Qu Xiaoxiao's intelligence, she would already be a top student, okay? "Lin Yun, you haven't told us how you and Tan Zongming got together."

"Me? We met at a dance. After the dance, she dropped me off on the way back, but he didn't know the road conditions well, and he drove indiscriminately pretending to be cool. As a result, we entered a dead end and couldn't get out. Then we We've been arguing all night." Lin Yun glanced narrowly at Qu Xiaoxiao, "You know, it's the kind of argument that quotes from the classics. In the end, I didn't win him, and every time he came to Beijing after that, I would recognize him when I saw him. My best friend."

After eating two bites, everyone looked at me, so I had no choice but to continue, "After I came to Shanghai, Tan Zongming tried every means to seduce me. You also know that with Tan Zongming's beauty, I won't be seduced. It's not normal, it turns out that I'm normal, so I jumped on it." This is a full joke, Lin Yun is not willing to break up the relationship process with others, this kind of private matter, for an ancient person like her It's still hard to say.

After Lin Yun finished speaking, everyone laughed, and Qu Xiaoxiao suddenly said, "Andy, let me help you find a muscular man."

"Ah..." Qu Xiaoxiao kept on talking nonstop, and Andy was taken aback.Qu Xiaoxiao pretended to be serious about her suggestion, but of course she also knew it was just a joke, "Really, you are too sensible, you need to get in touch with fresh meat more." Andy was so frightened that he refused repeatedly.

"I want to eat fresh meat, cattle and sheep are fine." Qiu Yingying blurted out, everyone laughed heartily for a while, Qu Xiaoxiao gave Qiu Yingying a look of disdain.