[ABO] AO's correct way to fall in love

Zhao Xiaoming's emotions have already collapsed.Mei Baizi must remain calm.Although Zhao Xiaoming's crying next to him made it difficult for him to calm down.But one of the two must be sober, right?

Thanks to that damned psychologist, he read some psychology books, combined with the psychology books he read to analyze Zhao Xiaoming's above few sentences, it can be seen that the other party has very wrong self-suggestions to himself.

Zhao Xiaoming needs cognitive behavior modification.

But this requires the cooperation of Zhao Xiaoming, so that he can admit that his thinking is wrong.And Mei Bozi only read a few books, unable to guide the other party.And if misguided, the consequences could be even more serious.

"Things have come to this point, we are all at fault! I admit my mistakes, I have made many mistakes, the main thing is that I didn't consider your feelings! But what about you?"

Zhao Xiaoming had already calmed down, and when he heard this, he looked up at him blankly and asked, "What's wrong with me?"

"It's your fault that you didn't consider my feelings!" Mei Baizi said, tears welling up in her eyes, "You don't know how sad you make me! Sadness doesn't only belong to Omega! Anyone can ! Anyone! Me too!"

He said: "Everyone tells me that you have your own thoughts and judgments, and I should respect you, and I shouldn't be too arrogant-but I find that when I respect your judgments, understand you, and let myself not No matter how strong you are, try to sit with you calmly—”

"Things just got worse!"

"I don't know why?"

After saying these words, he leaned against the wall and covered his face with his palms.

Zhao Xiaoming didn't know why, and what did he do wrong.

"What did I do wrong again—"

Mei Baizi finally left alone.

He went to the psychologist who made him feel annoying, and then told what happened between him and Zhao Xiaoming recently.

The psychologist said: "Xiaoming has been trying to find himself. He has been trying hard to observe himself, change himself, and make himself brave and strong. Now he is just experiencing the trough before success. You can also understand it as a Little boy's fight back against a stern dad when he finally grows up."

She said: "He has to face himself. You have always been his imaginary enemy. It can be said that he has always wanted to 'beat' you. The root of it is the last few words he said to you."

Mei Bozi didn't come to listen to her rambling, so she asked, "How to solve it."

The psychologist said: "If you have given up this relationship, you can suggest him to come to me, and I will help him with cognitive correction. If you don't want to give up this relationship, you can help him yourself, I I'll tell you how."

She said: "You have to know that Omega is different from Alpha. You don't need a reason to love him, but he needs to love you. At least most Omega will list the advantages of the other person when they fall in love. This includes gratitude and moved."

Mei Baizi did not give his answer immediately, but went back and talked with his daughter.

But what does a two-year-old child know?He didn't know why he did what he did, but he thought he should talk to his daughter about it.

"Dad is very tired now, what do you think Dad should do, Chenchen?"

It was already night, and the little girl was also sleepy, so she pulled her father and said, "Sleep, go to sleep."

"Okay." Mei Bozi picked up her daughter and went back to her room to sleep.When Chenchen was born, the babysitter said that it is better to sleep on the stomach because the baby's spine has not yet developed well. Since then, he has let Chenchen sleep on his stomach.Later, he would cry if he didn't lie on his body to sleep, and even cried until he was hospitalized.

Now, he couldn't help but start thinking, how long does this kid want to lie on top of him...

Early the next morning, he felt that his mind was much clearer than last night.So I started to ask Chenchen: "Chenchen, do you think I should take your father home? But I don't think we will be happy together. Because he doesn't love me."

Chenchen looked at her father with the bottle in her hand, obviously didn't understand what the other party was saying, repeated a few words meaninglessly and then continued to drink milk.

Mei Baizi sighed, and began to eat breakfast.

Chenchen looked at her father with her pacifier in her mouth, and asked vaguely, "Dad is sad?"

Originally, Mei Baizi just sighed a little tiredly, but when his daughter said that, he really felt very sad.Suddenly, I thought of the picture of Zhao Xiaoming lying on the ground and pulling his trouser leg yesterday, telling him: "I don't like you, but please don't leave me".

He looked at his daughter and asked, "Someone upset you, what would you do?"

"Uh, uh——" Chenchen went "um" for a long time, as if trying to find a suitable word to answer this question, and said, "Uh, uh, no, don't want him. No, just, uh, don't want him here beside."

The child still couldn't speak fluently, Mei Bozi asked: "What should I do if Dad makes you unhappy? For example, not letting you watch cartoons."

After he said this, Chenchen cried, crying, "Chenchen hasn't watched it today! I haven't watched it for an hour!" These two sentences are very clear.

The child's crying gave Mei Baizi some enlightenment, why should he be sad in advance for something that hasn't happened yet?Because thinking about the misfortune that will happen is already very sad.But this is all expected.This is also an avoidance behavior.In order to avoid injury, "pain" first.

He went to a psychologist again.After the two talked, Mei Baizi wanted to take Chenchen to see Zhao Xiaoming, but the psychologist said: "It would be better for him to see the child after his mood stabilizes. Because the child will affect his thinking and judgment. You I don’t think so, but the other party may feel that the child is with you, so you have one more bargaining chip than him.”

After that, Mei Bozi did not go to see Zhao Xiaoming immediately, but went to prepare some things.

The time went back to last night after Mei Baizi left.

Zhao Xiaoming looked at the door of his guest room and suddenly smiled.He didn't get dressed and left like Mei Bozi, but had dinner with Sa Shilin and Mi Cheng.And intend to live.

"I don't think I'm suitable to live alone now. Can I stay for a few days? My play has finished, and there's nothing to do now. I've turned down all the promotional activities I arranged."

Sa Shilin and Mi Cheng at the dining table looked at each other in blank dismay.They wanted to say that there was no one at home during the day, but An Ning served dinner untimely.

Sa Shilin and Mi Cheng looked at An Ning at the same time.

"What, what?" An Ning asked nervously: "Don't you like this meal? Then I'll make a new one now. Do you have any requirements? Sorry, I just passed the training, there are many things I can't do well, I'm sorry. Excuse me, did I do something wrong?"

Mi Cheng looked at his white clothes and asked, "Aren't you a doctor? When did you cook dinner? When were you at my house?" He never noticed that there was another person in the house.

An Ning looked at her clothes and said awkwardly: "This is just a white windbreaker. Oh, let me introduce myself. I am the all-round housekeeper hired by Mr. Mi Weifeng for you, An Ning. Thanks to Mr. Mi Weifeng, Thank you for giving me the opportunity to work for the first time. Mr. Mi Weifeng originally chose the most senior butler and a whole set of staff. But after seeing me, Mr. Mi Weifeng thought I was easy to get along with, so he brought me here .It’s just me. But don’t worry, although I don’t have an entourage, such as a cook, a storage person, etc., I can do everything.”

This is a full-time nanny with a nice name.Zhao Xiaoming muttered in his heart.

"Okay." Mi Cheng stretched out his hand with a smile, and said, "I'm Mi Cheng."

Sa Shilin also stretched out his hand, "Sa Shilin, you are welcome."

An Ning behaved quite decently, and after shaking hands with them one after another, she smiled and brought over the rest of the dinner, and then stood in a place that did not block the sight of several diners.

The fact that they were eating dinner, but someone in the room was watching them eating dinner made Zhao Xiaoming feel very uncomfortable.

"Won't you let him come to dinner?"

Mi Cheng said: "This is the difference between a housekeeper and a nanny. He can't be on the table, professional regulations."

"Go down." He said to An Ning: "The first room on the right on the second floor will be your room afterward. Tomorrow, go buy a set of small kitchen utensils and put them in your room."

"Okay, Cheng." An Ning bowed slightly and went up to the second floor.

Zhao Xiaoming lowered his eyes, looked at the food on his plate, and said, "Isn't everyone equal now... how come there are still servants..."

"Heh." Mi Cheng couldn't laugh or cry, and explained: "This is just his job. It's just a job. There is no problem of oppressing his personality. We are equal in personality. I am just an employer, and he is just a slave. It's just hiring. If he is dissatisfied with me, he can leave at any time. And I have to pay him a salary. Their salaries are very high."

"Speaking of which," Sa Shilin asked while having dinner, "I haven't seen Mo Minghao in your company for the past few days. Where did he go? Couldn't stand your bullying and ran away?"

"No. He has gone abroad." Mi Cheng told Sa Shilin about arranging Mo Minghao to go abroad.

"Are you sure?" Sa Shilin looked at Mi Cheng suspiciously, and said, "No matter how low-key he is, he is still the leader of Xiao Maju. If you let him out like this, won't people be watching?"

"Do you think he is the same as us? He is as active as a star every day." Mi Cheng said: "His company does publicity, or accepts interviews, as long as there are media present, he is not present. Anyone who knows him They are not ordinary people. So it would be surprising if he could be recognized by others when he went abroad. He attended the publicity such as public welfare. But Mo Minghao is really doing public welfare. It is not a joke. Ordinary people will not pay attention the practical public good.”

"Do you understand?" He poked Sa Shilin's cheek with the handle of the spoon.

"What are you doing! Teach me..." Sa Shilin covered his face and said aggrievedly, "I just said it casually, and it's not that I don't understand—what if you made me cry?"

"Come, come." Mi Cheng pointed to the ground and said, "Let me roll on the ground again. Are you going to cry? Now some people say on the Internet that my family is powerful and bullying you. This time I will record you and let Let's see who's making trouble with whom. Now I really feel that distance creates beauty, why don't you go on a business trip?"

Sa Shilin turned his eyes away and began to look for something in the house.

"Where is my cat? I want to find some comfort from it. I am hurt by you every day, and my heart is hurt every day. And it is super wronged. And it is the kind of wronged that can't be expressed. Eating donuts can't change my mood." The good kind."

Mi Cheng ignored him and started to eat dinner.

Sa Shilin also poked Mi Cheng's face with his finger, and said, "You said that you want me to go on a business trip and don't want to see me, which makes me a little sad. Please comfort me."

Mi Cheng didn't speak, but just unbuttoned his collar.Feeling the other person put his chin on his shoulder, he asked, "Are you feeling better?"

Sa Shilin sniffed at the side of Mi Cheng's neck and said, "It's better."

"Okay, let's eat." Mi Cheng said.

Zhao Xiaoming looked at them strangely.

Looking at them so strangely, they also felt very strange.

"What's the matter—is it..."

Zhao Xiaoming asked hesitantly, "What were you doing just now?"

Mi Cheng and Sa Shilin looked at each other and said, "Use pheromones to calm each other's emotions. It's very easy to use. It's more direct than words."

Sa Shilin hugged him and said, "Treat the symptoms but not the root cause. I feel a little sad again. Because you are perfunctory to me."

The author has something to say: let me be sad for Mei Mao in the next chapter. The relationship between him and Xiaoming has to be torn down