Daily life [Zhongyingmei]

Although I can't figure it out, the dream continues.

Benny mechanically and slowly followed Tony Stark back to the living room, watching the man with the moustache walk through the dining room with a big cub on his head happily all the way to the kitchen.The golden-red battle armor who was standing in front of the two pots that were cooking something turned around and saluted him slightly. Ying Lun reported in a gentle tone: "Sir, the lobster noodles will be done after cooking for another 2 minutes."

He backed away slowly.Tony Stark looked out guiltily like a thief, and found that Pepper was not there, so he waved his hand to let the armor leave.

When the father and son were finally left, Tony regained his composure, lifted the lid of the pot on the left with a dignified appearance, and took a spoonful of shrimp soup to taste.

——The shrimp itself is full of umami, and it has been cooked for a long time with seasoning, and the shrimp soup has been cooked.As soon as the lid is opened, the aroma is overflowing.

As soon as he smelled the smell, the curly-haired little boy riding on his neck quit immediately, shaking his calf anxiously, grabbed Tony's ear and started yelling, "Yes!" "Yes!" "Daddy—— Dad, yes!"

Tony was worn out, a sweet annoyance crept across his face, and even his delicate moustache brightened.But he wanted to suppress his air, pouted the corners of his mouth reservedly, raised his hand to pat his son's butt, and then cautiously passed the spoonful of shrimp soup up for the little boy to taste, still warning in his mouth not to be outdone: " Don't let me see you spill, Benny, especially on me—"

His words came to an abrupt end.

"..." Tony Stark held the wisps of hair on his forehead that were soaked like instant noodles expressionlessly, and held an empty spoon in his hand, frozen into a fossil.Smell it carefully, it still smells like shrimp.

"Huh? Benny, you bad boy!" Tony raised his eyebrows angrily, complained casually, dropped the spoon and looked around for a towel.

Only then did little Benny realize that he was afraid. He held onto Tony's ear pitifully, and called him again in a low voice: "Dad..."

"It's no use calling grandpa." Tony said maliciously, "Your Grandpa Rogers will be here later."

Pepper outside finally heard the movement. She walked into the kitchen with a suspicious face to check, and was shocked by the scene in front of her again: "Can't you two stop the meeting?"

"Pepper..." This time it was Tony's turn to show his wife what a good thing her son had done, with the corners of his mouth drooping like a childish little boy.

"If you don't spoil Benny so much one day, this kind of thing won't happen!" Pepper showed no sympathy for the aggrieved man with a mustache, and drove him and Benny out of the kitchen, "Go take a shower Both of you, I see you at the dinner table in 15 minutes, Steve, they're coming!"

She vigorously pushed the father and son out, turned helplessly to the messy kitchen, sighed and rolled up her sleeves: "...I will cook the rest of the meal."

Stark and his son went back to the bedroom to take a shower in desperation.

Benny also followed along like a little tail in a daze.But he suddenly woke up in the corridor, stopped in his tracks, and didn't intend to spy on the two of them taking a bath.Benny hesitated for a while standing there.

He should be able to visit the whole house now, where should he go next?

"Attachment... type..." Suddenly, Benny heard a male voice muttering to himself.

"...!" Benny sensitively caught the key word, and turned his head quickly.He immediately saw the side of the small living room attached to the master bedroom. The fat man named Happy was sitting on the sofa, holding a thick open book in one hand, and a notebook on his knee, scratching his head and writing hard.

— Benny suddenly realized that it was what Stark had ordered Happy to record just now, and he had a hunch that it would be very important, so the boy quietly walked over to watch carefully.

What was written in the notebook was actually very simple and clear, but Benny read it a few times and found that he couldn't understand the meaning of these words combined——

[Baby Psychotherapy Record Book.Recorded by Happy Hogan]

[Before the accident]

[Name: Benedict Rogers. ]

[Age: Eight years old (actually unknown, guess two weeks or more?)]

[Attachment type: _______]

[Child Temperament: ______]

[Personality type: ______]

[Characteristics: emotionally closed, indifferent and withdrawn, habitually alienated and resistant to others, poisonous tongue (suspected to be from the Stark family's ancestors), in fact, he is a soft-hearted child who likes to be close to others... (Character observations and dictation are provided by the captain.)]

[after the accident]

[Name: Benedict S. Pepper Stark. ]

[age: eighteen months]

[Attachment Style: Secure (courtesy of Tony)]

[Child Temperament: ______]

[Personality type: ______]

[Characteristics: Lively and cheerful, very good at acting like a baby (provided by Dr. Banner)]

[Experimental result: Success! (also provided by Tony)]

The empty spaces were not filled in. In the whole report, only the character traits were densely written, and the others were left blank, which even looked very unprofessional.That's why Hapi grimaced and bit the cap of the pen, racked his brains to look up the classification of professional words in a thick book, and muttered: "... Attachment relationship, attachment..."

He has found it!

Benny, who was bewildered, moved his little face eagerly, and looked at the pages of the book without blinking.

……

Attachment relationship, in terms of child psychology, is an important relationship established between a child and his relatives when he is one or two years old.It will affect the formation of subsequent personality, and it is something that can affect a person's life.

When the child's emotional desires are satisfied, he will successfully establish a relationship with his mother (or the closest person) and become a healthy "safe baby". Such a child grows up to be cheerful and lively with positive emotions.

If the child's expectations are not met during this time, the attachment relationship will become poor or not established at all.When they can't feel trust and security in their relatives subconsciously, they will become "avoidant babies".Because I don't get care, I gradually become indifferent, and I don't expect love anymore, so I won't get hurt.Even pretending you don't need care.

When such a child grows up, he will subconsciously think that he should not be worthy of being loved, and he will suppress and avoid his emotional desire, and if he expresses it on the other side, it may lead to bad temper, indifference and withdrawal.

"Case?" Happy's eyes lit up, and he quickly skipped over the other types below, and looked directly at the test case for distinguishing between "safe" and "avoidant".Because he already recognized the type of little Benny before the accident.

...like the test that Tony Stark and Dr. Banner teamed up to do.

Avoidant babies will think that they have never been accepted by their parents, so they pretend not to care.Facing the departure of their parents during the test, they are not anxious and nervous, and they will ignore it when their mother comes back, and often play with themselves.Because there is no trust or expectation at all, the performance will be very cold and calm.

Secure babies will resist leaving their parents, but when they come back, they will be comforted and coaxed quickly. They have a sense of trust and security in their parents, and this relationship is healthy and intimate.

"The attachment relationship in childhood can affect the personality of a lifetime. If you miss it, you can't make up for it... Benny used to be a standard avoidant type." Happy looked dignified and amazed, and soon the lingering fear on his face turned into pride , "Fortunately, Benny is in a special situation and can break back."

He no longer hesitated, and filled in a few places on the report, added Benny's test case, and finally wrote a big conclusion at the end of the report: "Cognitive dissonance, attachment relationship reconstruction , The treatment is over!"

A doorbell sounded from afar.

Happy raised his head in a hurry, closed the thick book, and walked to the living room with the report: "It's the captain and they're here?"

Mr. Banner had already taken the initiative to open the door, and there was a lot of noise and laughter at the door.Agent Patton, the smiling Agent Romanov, Steve Rogers, Mr. Parker, the man in military uniform, and other unknown men and women all rushed in.

The big living room was suddenly very lively.

"Where's Baby Carrot?" Agent Barton still looked like a silly father who would smile when he saw a child, looking for Benny everywhere as soon as he entered the door, his face full of anticipation.

"Are you hiding and playing with us again? Auntie Xiaona is here." The black widow dragged her voice a little, and scanned every corner of the living room with a smile on her face.

"..." Benny followed to the living room, his face tensed unnaturally.

It seems that this self has a good relationship with Agent Romanov.

His mind was in a state of confusion just now, and when he managed to regain his composure, he carefully sorted out the timeline with some guesswork.

The pictures in the dream state that this is the future, but Ms. Potts says the timeline is "[-]-year-old Benny—baby Benny from the future—present dream."

Although Benny didn't understand the logic in the middle, it also meant that the dream scene was actually not a memory from his childhood... but a kind of premonition, otherwise it wouldn't make sense.However, will he turn back into a baby and grow up again because of certain things in the future?No, maybe he was just a baby in the future?

This very absurd guess suddenly popped into Benny's mind.

Because he has no memory before the age of eight.Before, he thought he had lost his memory, or that the memories of the first eight years came from the future.But these two points have been denied now, maybe he doesn't have the memory of those eight years?Without memory, there is no amnesia.

Stark, who knew the future in the dream, also mentioned that the key point of memory was when Benny was eight years old in the dream.Since the judgment of "lost memory" is wrong, maybe it actually means... Benny in the dream will not remember this memory in reality until he is eight years old?

"...!!"

Benny covered his face violently, trying to stop the tears welling up in his eyes.

After understanding what Stark and Potts were doing just now, he suddenly couldn't breathe now... Self-study psychology, painstakingly change the attachment relationship, did they do so much, just to make him feel safe again?

Isn't that kind of thing indifferent?Why should they care so much?A fool with nothing to do?

Still a pair of fools!

Benny gritted his teeth stubbornly and pursed his lips tightly, trying to hold back the emotions gushing out of his chest.But no, the tears were too hot, and he could barely bear the heat.

Benny finally gave up and squatted down, buried his head deeply in his knees, bit the back of his hand, and finally cried out sadly and aggrieved: "Woo!"

...Who is the favorite child of parents?

The author has something to say: Timeline——

When baby Benny was born, he was transported from the future to the present due to an accident, and was distorted by space to create an eight-year-old body and way of thinking. Therefore, he can only wear it back when the time comes, and the Stark couple who already know about it can raise him again, that is These pictures were predicted by modern Benny with dreams.