The most incredible person among my fans

On February 09th, New Year's Eve, Fan Cheng's family of three and Xie Yun's family of three visited the elderly Fan Jinxi.They came to the door at 30:[-] in the morning. The old man had already bought fresh vegetables at that time, and the stock for the New Year's Eve dinner had been prepared a few days earlier.

Xie's couple saw Mr. Fan again after many years, and felt very cordial.The old man also welcomed the arrival of Xie's couple very much. From the moment they entered the door, the adults of the two families chatted non-stop, blurting out one by one the past, and the pictures of memory emerged like a spring from a deep well.As the younger generation, Fan Cheng and Xie Yunzhi had not experienced the events of that era, so they just sat quietly and listened.The adults occasionally talked about the two children, and they also smiled and acted as good obedient children.Fan Cheng occasionally made jokes, always acting as the target of his parents' complaints and Xie Yunzhi's shield, while Xie Yunzhi looked extraordinarily cute and cute, as if a delicate doll could be dressed up by anyone.

In the process of chatting with him, Fan Cheng couldn't help thinking about the true portrayal of most young people in China when they go home during the Chinese New Year.The elders in the family haven't seen each other for a year, so they must point fingers at you from beginning to end. One thing is not pleasing to the eye and the other is not right. Correcting mistakes and guiding the future have become the theme of the New Year.And young people will be like criminals caught in a detention center, losing their right to privacy and facing three joint trials.From your work status to your love life, income level and marriage partner are powerful weapons they hold to poke your heart directly.I don’t know why, even the water and electricity bills of your rented house, how much you spend on food every month, how much money you owe and haven’t paid back, how much points you learn from Qiangguo, and the current situation of your cats and dogs.Young people who are sensible will be frank and lenient, while those who are not will become the target of criticism from the whole family, repeating the tragic process of being corrected and guiding the future.

There is a tried-and-tested self-excuse, which is: I still don’t care about you.There is a glorified excuse for violent intervention, called: I am doing this for your own good.There is a kind of emotional oppression from parents, called: I have worked so hard to raise you, but you are disobedient.Traditional culture makes Chinese-style parents regard their children as their own private property and continuation of life, with a strong desire to control.Young people in Greater China have suffered a lot, and now there are strange social phenomena such as renting girlfriends to go home for the New Year, asking to work overtime during the New Year, and so on.This may also be a Chinese characteristic.It is good to see that the social wind has changed now, and the situation has actually improved in recent years. Parents are trying to accept the reality that their children have grown up and have to let go, and children are also learning to be considerate of their parents. Anxious, always hoping to hold the heart in one hand.

In short, it's the New Year's Eve, so why make everyone unhappy.Parents have their worries, and their children have their difficulties. They make concessions to each other, and everyone is happy.As for those seven aunts and eight aunts who are inexplicable and outspoken, they have become the most unwelcome objects during the Spring Festival. To give face is just a polite way of socializing, and if not to give face, one sentence: What does it have to do with you?More entanglements are unnecessary.

Fortunately, Fan Cheng and Xie Yunzhi's parents are not this type of parents, and they have never experienced the "fear of being dominated during the Spring Festival".Fan Cheng's mind was full of wild thoughts, and the time had already reached noon without knowing it. His mother Cheng Beibei got up to go to the kitchen to make lunch, and Fan Cheng also got up to help.Liang Yun was just about to get up when he was pulled back by the old man. The two fathers were also going to help at the same time. Seeing this, Xie Yunzhi couldn't sit still.

"So many people go to the kitchen to do something, and they all come back. Xie Sheng, Xiaoyun, and Nannan, you are guests, so I can't trouble you to cook. Lidong is unreliable in cooking. Just let our wife and granddaughter go Come on, try our daughter-in-law and granddaughter's handicrafts, it's great, haha..."

The old man spoke, and everyone sat back to their original positions.

Xie Yunzhi listened with interest when his father, Uncle Fan Lidong and the old man chatted about the international situation.Fan Lidong is an expert in this field for decades; Xie Sheng is a veteran military fan, and at the same time he is very knowledgeable about the history and geopolitics of various countries in the world; Now I still stick to the habit of reading newspapers and learning to know the world, and my views and opinions do not fall behind the stereotypes of the times.The three of them talked about this topic, which was really exciting, and Xie Yunzhi also learned a lot unconsciously.

"So, it seems that Iran has the hope of dominating the Middle East in the future." Xie Sheng laughed.

"The stupid things done by the United States brought Persia back to life, and the ancient civilization will not fall easily." Fan Lidong laughed.

"Hahaha, Lao Fan, let's talk later?"

"No problem. Dad, do you want to have a game too?"

"Just you, a stinky chess player? I'm too lazy to play with you. Only Professor Xie is willing to accompany you." The old man insulted his son mercilessly, and Fan Lidong was blushed.

The aroma of the kitchen has already wafted in. Lunch is relatively simple. The old man has already made dumplings the day before yesterday. The staple food is dumplings, served with the fresh seasonal vegetables that the old man just bought in the morning. After everyone has eaten, it is Fan Lidong and Xie Yunzhi's turn to wash the dishes.Fan Cheng accompanied his mother and the Xie family, cooking tea and chatting around the old man.

This was the first time Xie Yunzhi was alone with Fan Lidong after they met, and she was a little nervous.I have heard of Counselor Fan's name for a long time, and the result of meeting her is well-deserved.Just now Fan Lidong also showed his foresight and sagacity in foreign countries for many years, now suddenly alone, Xie Yunzhi didn't know how to get along with him.If it is too respectful, it will appear stiff and rusty; if it is too relaxed, it will appear disrespectful.This degree is really hard to find.

"Xiao Yunzhi, I heard that our family, Chengcheng, met you in a bookstore, and later created a drama just for you, right?" The two of them washed the dishes together, and Xie Yunzhi said they were here to help, but in fact However, Fan Lidong took over all the work, and only asked Xie Yunzhi to take the washed dishes, wipe them with a dry towel, and put them on the dish rack.During this process, Fan Lidong spoke kindly, and Xie Yunzhi's nervousness was relieved a lot because of his approachability.

"Yes." This question is really not easy to say, Xie Yunzhi just gave the simplest answer.

"What was your first impression of Chengcheng?"

"Hmm... the first impression is that she is a tall girl." After Xie Yunzhi finished speaking, she smiled embarrassedly, and then added, "The temperament is very good, and the voice is also very nice."

"Hehehe, it really is a girl." Fan Lidong laughed.What he said made Xie Yunzhi even more embarrassed, because Xie Yunzhi's description of a person's first impression is very emotional, tall, good temperament, and nice voice. These concerns show that she has a full girlish heart.However, Xie Yunzhi didn't have the nerve to say some things. Although the first impression Fan Cheng gave her was good, it was not perfect. There were some weird factors in it, which made Xie Yunzhi curious about this person.For example, Fan Cheng's old cadre style, her uninhibited conversation, and the intersection between the two of them, all made Xie Yunzhi curious and inquiring about this person.

At this time, Xie Yunzhi recalled the first meeting that day, and couldn't help thinking, if it wasn't because of her own curiosity, how could she have fallen into the love trap that Fan Cheng set for her step by step? This guy is like a patient hunter. Captured her heart little by little.Or maybe it wasn't Fan Cheng's hard work that made her capture her heart, but his heart was tied to her from the very beginning.

"Our family, Chengcheng, at first glance, has no shortcomings, and is almost perfect. But she also has a quite obvious shortcoming, that is idealism. This is her greatest strength and also her biggest shortcoming. It is her as An indispensable quality for a literary writer, but it is also the root cause of her inability to fully integrate into the secular world. She will not be at the top of any circle, because her idealism, which is deeply rooted in the bone marrow, is actually inseparable from this secular society. Incompatible. She is easy to offend people, although she always smiles at people and flatters people, but in fact she has a big temper. When she can't tolerate others, she will never show any mercy, and will let Others are disgraceful. She thinks she has good views and awe-inspiring righteousness, so no matter how she reminds herself, she will always subconsciously use her own values ​​to judge and correct others. She likes to use pen as a knife to write articles criticizing current events. , doesn't do her much good."

"I understand that her spiritual idol is Mr. Lu Xun, so she is actually... like Mr. Lu Xun in her bones." Xie Yunzhi nodded.

"I often tell her: You have to be moderate. She also realizes that she is too sharp sometimes, and she knows to hide her front and cultivate herself. But you know, this is very difficult, and it may take a lifetime of hard work to be able to I understand where the difference is. I know you have a good relationship with her, so please, if she relapses in the future, it is best to persuade her." Fan Lidong laughed, "We are getting old, and she She has also grown up and become independent, we can't always be by her side, we can only rely on peers like you to accompany her in the future."

"But...Zhi Zhonghe, this is difficult, and sometimes I get angry with her too." Xie Yunzhi smiled.

Fan Lidong seemed a little surprised. Xie Yunzhi's simple three words "Zhi Zhonghe" made him clearly appreciate the education that Xie's family brought to this girl. The opening chapter of "The Doctrine of the Mean", Chapter 1, says: Joy, anger, sorrow, and joy are not yet expressed, which is called the middle.The hair is all in the middle section, which is called harmony.Those who are in the middle are the foundation of the world.Harmony is the way of the world.To neutralize, the heaven and the earth are in harmony, and all things are nurtured.How many young people in China have read and can keep these few sentences in their minds?

"Hahahaha, this speed, you can control it yourself, even if you suffer a loss, don't be afraid, how can a young man not fall, if it hurts, there are some old guys like us." Fan Lidong said.

Xie Yunzhi's heart was warm.Fan Lidong is a good father. Although Fan Cheng didn't grow up beside him, the father and daughter are unexpectedly very similar. Xie Yunzhi can't tell where the similarity is. People's hearts are extremely ironic.However, Fan Lidong's words seemed to be implicitly implying Xie Yunzhi, "We can only rely on peers like you to accompany her in the future." To Xie Yunzhi's ears, these words were really unusual.

After washing the dishes, Fan Lidong and Xie Yunzhi also joined the ranks of drinking tea around the stove. After a while, the men couldn't sit still. Fan Lidong and Xie Sheng went to the verdant balcony and spread out their chessboard players to talk.The very interested old man held a song and dance party with his granddaughter and Xie's mother and daughter.The old man played the flute, Fan Cheng played the qin, and sang the Han Yuefu poems composed by the old man. The dancer Liang Yun got excited and impromptuly choreographed. He led Xie Yunzhi to do choreography experiments.Poor Xie Yunzhi was once again pulled in front of everyone to "show his ugliness", extremely ashamed, but helpless.

Literary and artistic families always have endless fun, laughing and laughing, time flies by, and when I come back to my senses, it is already past six o'clock in the evening.The old man went out in person, and the mother and daughter of the Fan family also went to the kitchen again. The three of them cooperated and started cooking tonight's New Year's Eve banquet.Xie Yunzhi was shocked to realize that she hadn't looked at her phone all day, which was simply unbelievable to her.

At around seven o'clock, the dinner was on the table, the two families gathered around the table, and the host and guest had a good time drinking. At 8 o'clock, the Spring Festival Gala opened, Fan Cheng turned on the TV, and everyone continued to eat the New Year's Eve dinner while complaining about the Spring Festival Gala.There is also a division of labor when making complaints. For example, Liang Yun makes complaints about dance programs, and the old man makes complaints about song programs. Counselor Fan and Professor Xie will comment on cross talk and sketch programs. Fan's mother and daughter paid attention.Half an hour since the Spring Festival Gala started, almost everyone in the two families complained, but Xie Yunzhi shivered in a corner, praying that she would not go to the Spring Festival Gala in the future.

The New Year's Eve dinner lasted past 9 o'clock, everyone was tired of watching the Spring Festival Gala, and no one paid attention to the content on it, but simply turned on the TV to play a background sound.The two fathers went to play chess again, and the two mothers chatted in the kitchen while cleaning the "battlefield".The old man entered the study and went to read books, read newspapers and do homework for decades. The old man usually never stays up late, but he is very happy for the children to watch the new year with him.After twelve o'clock, everyone will bid farewell to the old man and go back to the hotel to rest.

Fan Cheng and Xie Yunzhi decided to go out for a walk, because they ate too much tonight, which was not good for keeping fit.

"Ah, it's so cold." After leaving the building, Xie Yunzhi shivered with the cold wind blowing, and wrapped her coat tightly around her body.Fan Cheng opened his big down jacket and embraced her from behind, and the two stood quietly at the entrance of the building for a while.On New Year's Eve, it was quiet outside, with no one in sight.Fireworks and firecrackers are banned in Shanghai, which makes the atmosphere of the New Year's Day much lighter.

"Ah Cheng... If only we could do this every year in the future..." Xie Yunzhi sighed suddenly.

After a while, Fan Cheng gave a very confident answer: "It will."