I heard that I am a golden finger [entertainment circle]

Zhou Mao still stated his intention: "I heard that the old house is going to be demolished?"

Zhou Shi'an nodded: "Grandma Geng said the same thing."

Although I don't know what Zhou Mao meant by saying this, but he definitely didn't want to take the old house back directly.

Zhou Mao wanted face, and he was filial to his grandma. He would not do such a thing.

Sure enough, Zhou Mao said, "Then can you sell me the old house?"

Zhou Shi'an was speechless, you didn't say it when grandma left, why did you suddenly say this now.

It's impossible for people to miss the home they lived in for many years when they were young.

Besides, this house is going to be demolished, but if you want to buy the house first and then demolish it to make a difference, that's not justified.

This is a demolition of a building, not the demolition of a yard like others. The compensation is quite a lot according to the area. After all, a yard of a family is less than half an acre.

But this [-]-square-meter building is a new house of the same area, with a maximum of [-] to [-] square meters of pre-emptive rights.

Seeing Zhou Shi'an's doubts, Zhou Mao explained: "Actually, the houses here are demolished to build a new community. If there is no accident, the compensation should be the new houses here."

"You want a new house here?" Zhou Shi'an asked.

Zhou Mao smiled wryly: "There were already the top three elementary schools and junior high schools in the city near the old house, and the No. [-] High School in the city will move here recently. The new campus has already been built, so we just have to move here."

City No. [-] High School is one of the best high schools in Lincheng, and every year in Lincheng, more than one of the city's No. [-] High Schools is admitted.

But Zhou Shi'an was still a little puzzled: "But what if Shiyi High moved here, Zhou Yu is not a high school student."

Zhou Mao was embarrassed: "Your Aunt Zhou wants to prepare a school district room for Zhou Yu in advance, so that it will be more convenient for his children to study in the future."

Zhou Shi'an: ...

He had heard Zhou Yu talk about this before. Zhou Yu said that his mother had already considered which elementary school, junior high school, high school and even university his future children would go to.

But Zhou Yu said he had already talked to his parents.

Judging by the current situation, it is estimated that the discussion is not very good.

But judging from Zhou Yu's circle of friends that Zhou Shi'an occasionally brushes up on, Zhou Yu has now dated a boyfriend.

According to his aptitude, it's hard to say about the future children.

And sometimes in small talk, Zhou Yu could tell that Zhou Yu was a bit misogynistic. It is not difficult to guess that this was caused by his mother's strong desire to control him since he was a child.

Zhou Shi'an also persuaded Zhou Yu to see a psychiatrist, after all, there are still a few people like his mother.

Zhou Yu said that he went to see it, but he didn't know if it was true or not.

Anyway, Zhou Shi'an still hoped that Zhou Yu would be fine, after all, he was the only grandson of grandma's blood.

Zhou Shi'an said sincerely: "Uncle Zhou, I think you should talk to Zhou Yu about this matter. We are also in contact now. As far as I know, your behavior like this will only irritate him."

Zhou Mao was also helpless, how could he not know that this matter would make his son unacceptable.

But he thought about buying the house first, and whether he wants his son or not is a matter for the future.

Otherwise, now the wife is looking for death at home, and the wife's elders have passed away, and only the eldest brother in the family can persuade her.

She listened to every persuasion every time, and after two days, she revealed her true colors again.

I can't watch her really jump from the house.

Zhou Shi'an hesitated for a while, and said, "Uncle Zhou, there is something I don't know whether I should tell you. But I'm afraid I will regret it if I don't say it."

Zhou Mao was anxious when he heard this: "Did something happen to Xiaoyu? You have contact with him, do you know something?"

Zhou Shi'an sighed, and said, "Zhou Yu may have harmed himself."

Zhou Mao was startled when he heard that.

Zhou Shi'an poured him a cup of tea, and said slowly, "I haven't seen him since my grandma passed away. It wasn't until the summer vacation of my freshman year, that is, after Zhou Yu's college entrance examination, that we ran into each other in front of grandma's grave."

Zhou Mao was filled with emotions all of a sudden. Since the child was young, his wife always said that the child didn't like to go to grandma's house, so she enrolled the child in a bunch of classes.Even on Saturdays and Sundays, during winter and summer vacations, the child didn't have much free time, so he didn't force the child to visit his grandma.

He also knew that the old man wanted to see his grandson, but he was ashamed of the old man in this matter and favored his wife and children.

After all, the child didn't want to go, so even if he was pressed to go to grandma's house, he would make the old man sad if he was in a bad mood.

But it wasn't until the child was about to go to college that he said that the child had been looking forward to going to grandma's house every day since he was a child, but his mother refused to let him.

These words made him dumbfounded. Not only did he become a villain, but he also ignored his mother's expectations.

He also became a villain, ignoring the expectations of the children.

Things have come to this, what can we do?

Only then did he realize that his wife was not the good wife he thought he was.

Before the child was born, she was controlling herself step by step, alienating herself from her parents.

I also feel that she is not pregnant, and she will inevitably be wronged when facing her parents, so she is rarely allowed to visit the elderly.

After the child was born, she took control of the child step by step.

What can I do if I find out?

When he first started, he really thought about getting a divorce.

But can a couple of 40 to [-] years, with children in between, get a divorce?

If I really want to get divorced because of this, then I won't pay if I don't make friends with my wife's family.

As for the son, his uncles, aunts, cousins ​​and cousins ​​will inevitably feel that his son is pushing him to divorce.

At this age, he only thinks about his children. He himself is an only child, and only after he married a wife did he realize that it is always easier to have brothers and sisters to help him.

Not to mention, even my uncle came to help when my parents passed away, otherwise I might not be able to handle it well by myself.

The son is also an only child, and his uncle's and aunt's brothers and sisters get along well with him, and they have always loved him as a younger brother.

I'm getting old, so I don't know when I will go to see my parents.

With these cousins ​​around, my son also has someone to ask for when he needs help.

Besides, his son is soft-hearted, he doesn't want his mother to control him, but it doesn't mean he hates his mother, and it doesn't mean he wants them to divorce.

So it was like this, and the days went on in a daze.

Zhou Shi'an also said: "We were chatting at the time, and he touched his hair by accident, and I found a deep scar on his wrist. I didn't think about it at the time, how should I put it, after all, Zhou Yu has a father and a mother, you guys The family is also quite rich. Zhou Yu has the best food and clothing since he was a child. So I thought it might be an accidental injury, so I didn't ask much."

Zhou Mao said with some difficulty: "That kid has liked to wear shirts since he was a sophomore in arts and sciences, and he always buttoned his arms firmly. Even in summer, he always wears long gowns. I used to think it was the air conditioner at home. The child is not hot."

It means that Zhou Yu doesn't want you to know, he is afraid that you will worry about him, and he is even more afraid that you will go crazy and control him more strictly.

Zhou Shi'an continued: "Later when I chatted with him, I found that sometimes he was quite pessimistic and had an extreme misogyny towards women."

Zhou Mao couldn't believe it and said, "Because of his mother, he hates all women?"

Zhou Shi'an didn't say yes or no, you can judge for yourself.

I said it as if I was destroying the relationship between your husband and wife.

He only said: "Zhou Yu feels that women do one thing in front of the other, and all their weakness is also for a purpose. Their gentleness is nothing more than using softness to overcome rigidity. They let you let go of your guard through harmlessness, and then control you. .When you have a relationship with them, even if you see their purpose again, you still can't break up with them."

Zhou Shi'an couldn't help sighing after finishing speaking: "This is Zhou Yu's original words. I haven't changed a single word. Then I took this passage to the psychiatrist, and the other party said that if you just read too much poisonous chicken soup on the Internet, then There may be such persecution paranoia. But it is only limited to thinking about it, because some people say such things just for fun or grandstanding."

Looking at Zhou Mao, Zhou Shi'an said very seriously: "But if you are serious, then suggest that the other party see a psychiatrist. He also said that if he does not take the initiative to treat him, he may become extreme, and may even be depressed or manic. The introduction has always existed, if he can't achieve self-disclosure, then this is a very bad beginning."

Zhou Mao asked eagerly: "Then have you advised him to see a psychiatrist?"

Zhou Shi'an nodded: "He promised me, but I feel that when he is actively treating himself, if you, as parents, increase the pressure on him, I'm afraid he won't be able to hold on."

Zhou Mao couldn't help thanking him: "Thank you, thank you Shi'an, thank you for persuading him, and thank you for telling me about this."

Speaking of Zhou Mao, a big man began to choke up: "I didn't know, I didn't even know that my child lived so hard that he wanted to give up his life. I always thought I was a competent father, I I always thought that he was living a happy life. Even if he found out later that this is not the case, he felt that this family was very depressing, but I never thought that he would have the idea of ​​committing suicide."

Zhou Shi'an didn't know what to say, he could only say: "Zhou Yu didn't let you know this, probably because he was afraid that you would be worried, and even more afraid that you would feel guilty. After all, for parents, he made their children's lives very unhappy. It's a big blow. It's just that I hope you can treat him with a more equal attitude. After all, you and your aunt also hope that Zhou Yu can live happily, not that he follows your wishes and lives like a puppet."

Zhou Yu has a boyfriend now, although he is far away, but now that the technology is so advanced, he can't hide anything.

If this matter gets back, Zhou Mao and his wife will definitely persecute Zhou Yu.

Especially Zhou Yu's mother, her desire to control was so strong that she even considered what university Zhou Yu's children would go to in the future.

If Zhou Yu really came out, not only would he not get the blessing of his parents, but he might hear them say some very sad things.

Zhou Shi'an was really afraid that he would be overwhelmed.

If something happened to Zhou Yu, what should Zhou Mao do?

At his age, can he accept that he killed his son?

Rather than having a tragedy happen at that time, it is better to tell the matter in advance.

So that Zhou Mao can truly realize that if he wants his son to be happy, then the best way is not to interfere with him.