[Comprehensive wear] Baiwei life

Jia Daishan obviously had no intention of explaining to his son, as if getting the eldest son engaged was the same as arranging the eldest son to take the county exam.

Jia Ze didn't object to this marriage, even though he didn't even know whether the girl was tall or short, fat or thin, but his father's attitude really made him unable to accept it.

He has been a human being, and he has also been a three-legged Golden Crow, but he has never been a marionette, and he is not going to let his father control his life.

Therefore, it is better to express this position earlier, and just take advantage of the east wind blown by my mother, and talk to my father frankly, some things cannot be decided by one person, even the head of the family.

Having lived for so many years, read so many books, and experienced so many things, Jia Ze spoke the truth, logically, logically, and eloquently, and soon...it made people dizzy.

As for Jia Daishan.

First he was interviewed by his uncle, and then he was dragged into the study by his eldest son to talk about life and ideals. Jia Daishan has been in the army for decades, has fought all kinds of vicious battles, and is used to making decisions by himself.

But now he had to admit that he couldn't bring the habits developed in the military camp to the house.

In the past, when he gave orders in the army, no one under his command would comment, but in the mansion, some matters really had to be discussed with Shi.

In the past, he assigned marriages to his subordinates in the army, and he was always grateful when he got it. There was no need to ask the person if he wanted to, but Jia Ze was not his subordinate, but his eldest son and heir.

A competent subordinate is not the same as an heir.

As a general, he thinks he is absolutely competent, but as a father, I am afraid there are still some areas that need to be improved. At least he can't confuse his son with his subordinates.

The result of self-examination, self-reflection, and painful experience is... the eldest son's engagement remains unchanged.

After all, the news has already spread, breaking the contract halfway will ruin the reputation of the two families. Moreover, although the marriage of the Zhang family is not the most prominent, it is the most suitable for the eldest son. If you miss it, you may not be able to meet in the future It's so appropriate.

Although the engagement has not been cancelled, Jia Daishan has not changed anything, at least the day of the engagement was chosen by his eldest son among the three auspicious days.

April [-]th is the auspicious day calculated for the zodiac, and it is a lukewarm time of the year, which is the most suitable for weddings.

Although the geng posts of the two families have already been exchanged, neither the man nor the woman have even met face to face, and this engagement ceremony is actually equivalent to recognizing relatives. Relatives will also be there, and the two families know each other well, so the marriage is basically settled.

However, according to the rules, a married woman is not allowed to enter the man's house before she is married. That is to say, even if the engagement ceremony has been completed, Jia Ze will be drunk first by his future father-in-law, then by his two brothers-in-law, and then there will be seven uncles and eight brothers. uncle……

All literati seem powerless and quite harmless, but when drinking, they are very hooligans, not weaker than generals, on the contrary, literati can talk more than generals, Rao Jia Ze , also bit the bullet and was poured a lot of wine.

But after a long time of tossing, Jia Ze didn't even know what his fiancée looked like except for the relatives he knew.

This kiss is also drunk, not to mention the future generations, even at this time, there should be a small number of people like their two families. Both the man and woman have never met each other, and the parents of both sides made the marriage.

My father is not good at this kind of thing, and Jia Ze didn't intend to count on him. As for the woman, in this world, the woman will be more reserved, and he should do things that are not reserved.

Jia Ze didn't intend to ask to meet the girl through his father, anyway, they were already engaged, no matter whether they met or not, they were fiancee in name, and the two brothers-in-law didn't know him at all.

It is also reasonable to ask my brother-in-law to give something to my fiancée.

Jia Ze doesn't know what girls like. Mothers at this age should like different things from young girls. As for his own sister, let alone she is only seven years old, she has already reached the age of genitals. Under the circumstance of not having much contact with each other, they He would not ask Jia Min about such a matter.

It's funny to say that the brothers and sisters who are direct relatives don't have many opportunities to meet each other. He has to go to the Imperial College to study, and he can only come back once every ten days, and every time he sees Jia Min, it is when they have breakfast together.

As the saying goes, "Don't talk when you eat, don't talk when you sleep", the two juniors can still talk a few words at the dinner table.

Therefore, in the entire Rongguo Mansion, the reference that Jia Ze could think of was his second brother.

Can eat, drink, play, wear, and is more delicate than anyone else. When I went to Jinling, it was inconvenient to buy ingredients on the road. Once, the fish used to make fish soup was not fresh, not freshly slaughtered fish, but fresh fish. It's a fish that's been dead overnight.

At that time, it was also the twelfth lunar month of winter, and the food was not easy to spoil. Anyway, he didn't feel that the fish was any different from before, but when he arrived at the second brother's place, he felt that the taste was not right after just one bite.

It can be said that he has a golden tongue and is extremely sensitive, but any food that his second brother praises is definitely delicious.

The yam cake stuffed with jujube paste is easy to digest and tastes sweet, the pickled rose marinade has beauty and beauty effects, and the fresh, smooth and delicious sugar-steamed crispy cheese tastes like modern old yogurt, which is very suitable for girls. There are also tofu skin buns, water chestnut cake...

Jia Amnesty and his elder brother's yard were only separated by a wall, and his elder brother would not shy away from him if something happened, he would not know about the comings and goings once or twice, and he would still not know if there were too many times.

My elder brother has become the handsome gentleman of another family, thinking about it is a tear, although Jia She is not full of sorrow, but in the end it is not a good feeling in his heart.

But soon, he didn't have the time to think about it. The elder brother's marriage was settled, and he was born on the same day as the elder brother.

I don't know what my father thinks, the eldest brother's marriage is arbitrary from his father, but his father actually called him over to his marriage.

"Weifu has selected a few families for you, but they haven't finalized yet, but they all have the same intention. After all, it's your own marriage, and you have to make up your own mind."

The eldest son's words are still useful in the end, if it was in the past, he would never let the child make up his own mind, even if he chose among the candidates he provided.

This is an exception now, after Jia She nods himself, he has to go back and tell his wife, and only with her consent can he reply to his wife.

Alas, things in the house are troublesome, unlike in the army, no matter making decisions or giving orders, they are straightforward.

"These families all come from clean backgrounds. Miss Liu's father is a fourth-rank official in the Ministry of Industry. She herself is also the eldest daughter. She has a good reputation. Miss Zhao's family is..."

"Father, let's not talk about this for now." Jia She hurriedly interrupted his father. The family background of the future wife must not surpass that of the future sister-in-law, but it will not be too bad, so he doesn't care about this at all, what he cares about is... face.

"Is there a portrait? Can my son take a look before making a decision?"

Of course, whichever is more beautiful is the choice.

It was rare for Jia Daishan to be choked to the point of being speechless, this evil person, could he be promising, the veins on his hands were popping out, but he was still trying to calm himself down.

The second child is not the eldest son, so he doesn't need to bear the family business. In the future, he will be a wealthy and idle person for the rest of his life, and he doesn't need to be very successful.

"Your father and I don't have the power to go to someone's house and ask for a portrait of a young girl."

The families he selected for his second son are indeed not considered prominent, but there is absolutely no reason to humiliate them. It is not the emperor who chooses concubines, and they can make portraits. If they really do this, the reputation of their Rongguo Mansion It must be a smelly street.

It's not so much that Jia She is lacking in worldly relationships, it's better to say that he didn't put his mind on it at all. Anyway, he has studied seriously and knows the basic etiquette. Said, I knew that what I just asked was too much.

But if he doesn't see each other, how does he know which girl is beautiful and can be identified by name.

After all, it was a lifelong event, although Jia She was afraid of his father, but now he looked at his father pitifully, with a bit of reluctance.

My children, except for the third child, are all good looking in terms of appearance, especially the eldest son and second son. Although the youngest daughter is only seven years old, she is also smart and handsome. The three married concubine daughters are still alive When he was in the house, he didn't have much sense of presence, and now he has been forgotten by Jia Daishan.

But no matter how handsome the second son's appearance is, Jia Daishan's dismay at the look of his eyes now, there is no masculinity, it is really the wrong gender, fortunately, the two children of the same mother did not have the wrong order, Otherwise, he really dare not imagine.

"In half a month, it will be the eldest princess's 60th birthday banquet. The scale is quite large. Many people have received the post. These companies on the list should also be on the list. When the time comes, you and your eldest brother will have a birthday party together. Go, take a good look at yourself, but you can't do anything beyond the rules."

Not only the second son, but this wretched child wants to meet his fiancée. The eldest son has been engaged for so long, and it's time to meet his fiancée. It's nothing to send some food on weekdays. The eldest son's appearance and temperament, just meet him stronger than anything.