[Gone With the Wind] Daughter Difficult

This time Bonnie went to New Orleans for two things.One is for Xiaobo's first concert in the motherland, and the other is to help Sophia's sister Daisy.

Both of those things came to a happy end as Jeff Brown signed the divorce papers and "disappeared."

Under the persuasion of Sophia and other sisters, Daisy, who was still a little vacillating, was willing to follow Sophia back to Atlanta, but in the end she did not choose to go home. Take root in the school and become a part of it.

For a woman who has been living in the old times, it is not easy to cut off everything in the past and start again.

New life and new ideas need to collide and adapt with old concepts.

Daisy wasn't used to it in the first month, and she didn't even want Sophia to tell her parents that she had returned to Atlanta, because even if she was determined to get a divorce, it would violate the traditional lady's family education. The notion still made her feel ashamed, and this situation did not subside until she came into contact with more women who had accepted the new educational concept in school.

However, even if one's own ideas have been changed, it is very difficult to change the ideas of the older generation, but it is feasible to change the ideas of the next generation. This is what the girls' school is doing.

Women should stand up, be independent, and become the mainstay and backbone of society.

However, in the era when women accounted for half the sky in later generations, it is still not considered to have completely eliminated the inequality of the patriarchal society, let alone in this era.

Luckily for Daisy, she was reborn from the ashes after she was freed from the control of her husband who would do things to her, and she also had the opportunity to come into contact with many women who were willing to change.

But in today's society, there are more traditional illiterate women who even think it is a kind of rebellion and feel ashamed for having such an idea.

This kind of concept has also become the shackles for women to be independent, and the most terrifying thing is actually these invisible shackles.

Fighting for rights is always difficult at the beginning, but if you don't fight for them, you will never get the respect and rights you deserve.

So all of this is not meaningless, even if it is a very small step, it is also a preparation for women to stand in front of men one day and declare loudly that I am not your subordinate.

Bonnie had already discussed this issue with her family and friends when she chose to create a girls' school. Although it was not mature, it was feasible to force women's voting rights in Georgia with the influence of the Butler family. ——At the beginning, Rhett also gave Bonnie such a choice, but Bonnie rejected the proposal after careful consideration.

In front of women who don't have any concept of independence and independence, such rights are not much different from playing house. Given a candidate, do you know who he is?More often than not, you choose whoever your husband asks you to choose, and more importantly, having such rights does not mean that you can fully enjoy and implement such rights. stakeholder needs.From this point of view, after gaining rights and interests, the disadvantages women are in have not changed substantially.

Even if fighting for political and economic rights is indeed the first step they want to fight for, what they get at first is probably more of a symbolic meaning.

The girls' school did not receive much resistance at first when the Butler family and other prominent women escorted it. It can be said that the girls' school led by the Butler family and the Wilcos family was loved by everyone. Under deliberate publicity, most people still have sympathy for some weak women who have to support their families because they lost their men.

This is also the effect Bonnie wants to achieve. When the women who go out of these schools start to enter the society and slowly reverse people's impression that women can only work in some low-level positions, it is they who push women to fight for maturity of rights.

This process may last for more than ten years or even decades, but the struggle for rights and interests should not be too aggressive.

On the road of women's rights, later generations classified Bonnie Butler as a moderate, but many researchers were unwilling to classify her into this category.

Judging from her means, she is like a resourceful and scheming hunter. For the real delicious prey, she is willing to lie dormant inconspicuously at first, find the most suitable entry point, and devour it step by step. When she grasped it, she never stood directly opposite the main contradiction. In that era, more radical feminists attracted most of the attention. Compared with these radicals, Bonnie's actions seemed insignificant, and she also It is even more accepted by patriarchs, so at first no one cared about her so-called girls' school. When she successfully put women into society, it was too late for people to be alert, and her goal came naturally. This method, which can be called terrible, was also used by her in business operations.

And more people expressed dissatisfaction. They always felt that she had gone the farthest on the road of women's rights because she relied on her family's wealth.

But no matter from which aspect, people in later generations have to admit that she is a pioneer who leads the times.

(—Of course some people doubt that this matriarch is a time traveler at all. ╮(╯_╰)╭)

From the very beginning, the girls' school has targeted teaching, and gradually began to form its own system, class classification, adult skills education and so on.

After the school recruited students, Bonnie discovered that the school had insufficient teachers. Through the relationship with Europe, she hired experienced female educators in Europe to help them improve all aspects of the school. It happened that Europe had been fighting for years and the situation was turbulent. Many people are more willing to choose the United States, which is stable and has begun to rise with countless opportunities.

In the first one or two years of its inception, the teachers and educational links of the girls' school were still too weak. After her birthday, Bonnie entered the Vassar Women's College for advanced studies. Kipsey, she only admits women, and the college's curriculum is also set according to the guidelines of higher education for men.So far, this is one of the few women's colleges and universities in the United States. Principal Raymond believes that the difference between a girls' school and a boys' school should be its residential system, rather than a set of teaching content and courses that are different from men's. setting, which is the real reason Bonnie chose this school.

Of course, Bonnie chose this school not only for this reason, but also for the girls’ school to be more professional and targeted. This school, which is called a model women’s university by later generations, has an educational system and philosophy that are indeed worth learning. Bonnie also learned a lot of experience here and successfully applied it to the girls' school in Atlanta.

Two years later, the girls' school's education system and curriculum services have basically been finalized, and the first batch of students began to enter the society.

Some of them chose to stay and prepared for the expansion of the girls' school, which also laid a solid foundation for the later promotion of the girls' school.

As Atlanta's first girls' school, its gentleness and harmlessness made men gradually forget her existence. Even if they heard women talk about it occasionally, they were not interested. They talked more about politics and economics, Cigars and wine.

This group of students is the same group of women that Louise suggested to Bonnie.

Of course, what surprised Bonnie the most was that these women under the leadership of Louise not only helped Bonnie successfully expand the school, but even expanded the local intelligence network while setting up schools in various places. The team is still slowly expanding.

Judging from the later results, Bonnie's plan was indeed very successful.

In Bonnie's plan, the fight for career and women's rights has begun to go on the right track, the family is also very harmonious, and the love is happy.

So at the age of 20, Bonnie finally agreed to marry Xiaobo and became a happy bride.