[Gone With the Wind] Daughter Difficult

Six months into her pregnancy, Bonnie's belly was getting bigger and bigger.

Although her temper could not be said to be particularly weird like other pregnant women, the changes in her body still brought some changes in her mood.

The mood can be controlled, and she tries not to let some negative emotions affect her. Xiaobo will play a piece of piano for the baby every day when he comes back. In the beautiful music, Bonnie’s mood will be affected by the music. I don’t know if it’s the baby’s true love. With musical talent, she feels that her understanding of music has improved a lot when listening to Xiaobo's piano these days. She used to control Xiaobo's emotions in music only in the general direction, but now she can hear the essence of it. The details and differences, this is actually a very interesting experience, plus the baby will dance in her belly when she hears the music, as if she can keep up with Dad's beat.

Even when they are irritable, they will calm down at their daily "music moment" at home.

The lunch at noon was really unpleasant. After Bonnie returned to the company in the afternoon, she asked someone to check the identities of the three middle-aged men.

This kind of problem has nothing to do with face. If you insult a pregnant woman in public, it is obviously the other party who loses face. This is purely gender discrimination and insult, so don't blame others for fighting back.

Today, Xiaobo's mood is not very good. It was supposed to be a good gathering banquet, but it was disturbed by three men, and his wife was insulted by them. Even though he knew his wife was better at handling these problems, Xiaobo still felt that he did it. not enough.

This day, Xiao Bo did not choose a sweet and happy piano piece to start, but chose Beethoven's "Fate". The sonorous and powerful music can make Bonnie feel his unhappiness and helplessness.

Bonnie is good at adjusting emotions, and she has completely shaken off all negative emotions shortly after "Destiny" sounded.

Thinking of these people's insulting remarks will only make them feel unhappy. No matter what background these people have, with her financial resources, she will definitely find a chance to fight back. This is the best revenge.

However, this kind of selection did not continue. Xiaobo realized how much influence these piano pieces would have on Bonnie and the baby. After venting some unhappiness, he made adjustments in time and found a song that was not heavy. the tune.

"Actually, you don't need to deliberately choose some light and joyful songs. The baby also wants to feel the mood of the father." Bonnie rubbed her belly. The baby was very excited today, as if he could feel his father's unhappiness and was filled with righteous indignation for him.

Because it was not a formal recital, the two of them would also communicate verbally when Xiaobo was playing.

"Let me think about it." Looking at his thoughtful wife, Xiao Bo unconsciously showed a gentle smile.

"I already ordered someone to do a survey in the afternoon," Bonnie said, "but what I want to do more is to support the feminist movement initiated by others. It won’t work until you come down.”

"Then give them enough support," Xiao Bo said casually. He didn't think it was a problem at all. In his opinion, wives were completely equal to him. Women really shouldn't be reduced to men's vassals. Men side by side, even like their own wives, master all the things that everyone thought only men could do.

From the influential marketing campaign after Bonnie got married, women's rights and status have been constantly raised by the whole society. Every time when the popularity starts to decline, Bonnie will find out some problems and intensify her efforts again.

The feminist movement has also continued to ferment in the past two years. Many women have given speeches on feminism in various places, and women's groups have sprung up like mushrooms.

However, this is not enough. From the perspective of the proportion of female workers, it is still far behind that of men, which means that they still have a long way to go.

Originally, everyone has the right, but because of the selfish desires of men, women have to prove that they have the same ability to get it. This kind of putting the cart before the horse is actually quite ridiculous.However, under the deformed education of the patriarchal society, even if women have political, economic, and legal rights, they actually have little effect at all.

Bonnie was not in a hurry, but decided to step up her efforts to promote the development of the feminist movement.

Especially when everyone in the family is supportive of her.

Xiao Bo said seriously: "One day, no one will question whether women have the same rights as men."

"It's just that people are selfish. Even if they know it's unfair, as long as a certain right can give them convenience, most of them will not consider the issue of fairness or not."

What's more, there is no absolute fairness in the world.

The most interesting thing is that this so-called injustice creates a social hierarchy—even in a society where everyone is equal, there are upper class, middle class, and lower class. Will subconsciously draw a clear line with the lower level.

For example, after the end of the Civil War in 1869, the North gave blacks the right to vote because of the help of blacks. However, after blacks got their rights, regardless of the fact that women had helped them to be liberated, they were unwilling to help women get the right to vote. .

This example reminded Bonnie of a certain year's Oscars ceremony. In order to show that black people should not be discriminated against, the organizer chose a black man as the host for the first time. An Asian kid in a rigid suit with a nerdy look mocks Asian stereotypes—this is not humor but discrimination. When blacks get their rights, they join forces with those who once discriminated against them.

what is this?Did serfs become slave owners after turning themselves into masters?This is a great irony.

Discrimination is simply not going to go away, is it?

Sex discrimination, racial discrimination, sexual orientation discrimination, wealth discrimination... There is always a kind of discrimination around you.

Xiao Bo felt that Bonnie's emotions were not right at first, but after careful observation, she felt that Bonnie was too sober. She clearly understood that rights need to be fought for, but she was more aware of the truth behind rights.

"That sounds a little pessimistic."

"No, it's rational."

"Makes sense."

"What should be done is still to be done. In recent years, women have begun to play some indispensable roles at work. This is progress." Bonnie persuaded me.

Today's topic is actually very heavy, but in the conversation with his wife, Xiaobo has already felt the anger in Bonnie's heart. Even if it is for his wife not to be insulted by those men, he will unconditionally support his wife's actions .

Bonnie thought for a while, and suddenly said to Xiaobo: "Would you like to help women's rights struggle and write a song?"

Xiao Bo said without thinking: "Of course, although there is no ready-made one, it will definitely satisfy you." This is definitely a new challenge.

If you have the opportunity to cooperate with the teacher, you may be able to play the music at the concert, but Xiaobo doesn't know what Strauss thinks. Today Strauss saw the whole process. Although he didn't express much, he also gave Bonnie encouraged comfort and encouragement.

Maybe the teacher would like to?

This will make those supports more impactful.

The time was approaching 08:30, Xiaobo stopped playing the piano, walked to Bonnie's side, and exchanged a kiss with his wife.

"How is the baby today, are you in a bad mood because of our topic?" Xiao Bo gently stroked his wife's chubby belly, and kissed it through his shirt.

"He is like a little soldier." Bonnie said with a smile, "I think he will be as brave as us in the future."

Xiao Bo returned to his silly father mode: "Do you think he will be a boy or a girl?"

"What do you think?" Bonnie smiled.

"I think it's all good," Xiaobo said. "If she is a girl, then I hope she can have the same rights as boys."