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Today's wealthy families must understand the six arts of a gentleman when cultivating their children, especially the wealthy families with rich heritage, which have been passed down for a hundred years—even those who claim to be thousands of years old. They have more ways of cultivating their children and are more careful. There is a saying that "a woman is virtuous without talent", but the upper class completely scoffs at this statement.

They are not like ordinary people. The daughters of ordinary people are members of other families when they marry, but for rich families, daughters are also bargaining chips. They marry their daughters to get more benefits, so their daughters must understand piano, chess, calligraphy and painting. , not only to be a good mistress, but also to be the interpreter of her husband.

Can't the husband talk about the romance, and the wife talk about how many clothes he sewed today?

For them, women's reds are just leisure to pass the time. The real craftsmen are embroiderers, and they can afford a few or a dozen embroiderers, so why bother to do it themselves?Only when you express your concern, will you do it yourself, which means that you value it and will not give it away easily.

Their wisdom and knowledge are passed down from generation to generation, and the men and women in the big family are closely guarded, sir?Etiquette can't pass, it's okay before the age of ten, after the age of ten, any male, even his own brother, can't see each other several times a year.

Mrs.How could a truly educated woman be outside?Most of them are also inherited from the family, and they receive the strictest education. They have not finished teaching their own daughters, so they go to teach others?

Therefore, mothers generally educate their daughters. In order to ensure the quality of the next generation of the family, when a wealthy family gets married, the first thing to inquire about is whether the daughter of the other party is virtuous and virtuous, and whether she can read and write.

They have their own wisdom. An excellent lady from a great family, she must not only be proficient in literature, but also be able to settle accounts, know how to cooperate with her husband, and learn the art of imperial servants in the inner house. If she is an all-rounder.

Make her husband unable to leave her, become his support, share power with her husband, and even some powerful ones can control her husband.

The daughters cultivated in this way can ensure the prosperity of the family.

Son, that's even more important.

In addition to the six arts of a gentleman, they have to learn from their father and brother since they were young. They will only learn more. Sometimes, they even have to learn the skills of the women in the inner court, not only to be good internally, but also externally.

If you look good, you take advantage of it, but if you don't look good, you have to pay great attention to your appearance, conversation, and temperament.

How to walk, how to raise hands and feet to look good, what kind of expression on the face when interacting with people, what kind of clothes to wear on different occasions, these are all particular.

Chu Lin is a son who was raised in this way.

He was born in Changshu. The Changshu Chu family may not be one of the largest big families, but it has been passed down for a hundred years. The Chu family is not very courageous, and they can be called cautious. Before doing anything, they have to discuss it with the whole family. Well, the day lily is also cold.

But this also brought them benefits, that is, not making mistakes, so after so many years, the Chu family has not experienced any big storms.

After Lin Yuan took over Changshu, their family also began to study. They wanted to curry favor with Lin Yuan, not to mention gaining any benefits, at least not let Lin Yuan play their ideas on their family. Therefore, whether it is money or food, as long as there is a little bit of meaning on it, They quickly sent it up.

Hearing that Lin Yuan likes masculinity, he gave Lin Yuan his best-looking son without stopping.

The meaning inside and outside the words is: "This son has no great ability, he is not a smart person, but he is good-looking and does not cause trouble. He will serve you as a tea bowl or do other things, it depends on you. He does what he does."

It's a bit like a strong man cutting his wrists.

Lin Yuan didn't believe it at first, and the family was willing to send their son up as a plaything?

Didn't the ancients take face very seriously?

It was Song Shizhao who reminded him.

"Back then, Dong Xian and Emperor Ai of the Han Dynasty had a good story, and Dong Xian dedicated his wife and children to Emperor Ai of the Han Dynasty." Song Shizhao laughed, "It's also a good story."

Lin Yuan: "...Mr. was joking, it's just a folklore."

If Emperor Ai of the Han Dynasty really had something to do with Dong Xian, it would prove that he was in good health. How could it be possible that he would not be able to give birth to a child in his whole life?Lin Yuan felt that the so-called good manhood was just a fig leaf for Emperor Han Ai's "impotence".

If Emperor Ai of the Han Dynasty really adopted Dong Xian's wife, then Dong Xian's wife should always have a big belly?That didn't work either.

This means that Emperor Ai of the Han Dynasty was not a "useless person", he just had different preferences from ordinary people.

Song Shizhao mentioned another thing: "In order to win Duke Huan's trust and love, Yi Ya chopped up his youngest son into meat paste and made meatballs to serve Duke Huan of Qi's diet. Compared with him, the Chu family is nothing more than that. "

Lin Yuan sighed: "People's hearts are like this."

For status and benefits.

These upper-class families can give up everything, including their own children, and they can even give away wives.

Not gifting a concubine to a concubine, but giving a wife can be done. You know, this is almost tearing off one's face and asking people to step on it.

The wife can be willing, let alone the son.

In this regard, Lin Yuan felt that they were not as good as ordinary people who could not read a single word.

Originally, Lin Yuan thought that the Chu family was modest. After all, anyone who saw Chu Lin would think that he was a handsome young man with a jade-like face and a phoenix-like appearance. The maids in the house would blush when they saw him, and unconsciously began to pay attention to their appearance, and even some servants would blush when they saw him.

But Chu Lin is indeed an idiot beauty.

He has talent and learning, but he doesn't know how to use his talent and learning. The talent learned from him is just a thing to raise his value.

But he was very likable, and even when he didn't say anything, the people who talked to him had a lot to say.

This is also a skill.

Lin Yuan asked him to receive guests, and these guests included big businessmen and patriarchs of big families, and then - a small half of these people wanted to ask him to go, even "If Lin follows me, I will provide my whole family for his enjoyment. "Such things can be said.

Among them was a big businessman surnamed Qi. He fell in love with Chu Lin sincerely. In order to see Chu Lin, he had to deliver things to Lin Yuan almost every now and then. When it came to Linyuan, it was even more impossible to be entertained by Chu Lin, so he began to pay for it out of his own pocket.

Chu Lin himself didn't know.

He was sent to Lin Yuan by his family, and he didn't know what he was here for.

No one in the family told him, nor did anyone in the government office tell him that since he couldn't get in touch with the outside world, he really thought he was here to be Lin Yuan's servant.

Although he thought he was talented, he also knew that no matter how talented a person was, he would be a servant in front of those in power, so he came without any resistance.

Then he began to receive merchants and the patriarchs of big households. Chu Lin felt that he was appreciated by Lin Yuan, so he went to swipe his face card in front of Lin Yuan from time to time, just like a peacock opening its tail, and he almost sang a song and told Lin Yuan Yuan himself still has a lot of skills.

Sometimes when Lin Yuan saw him inviting pets like a puppy in front of him, he wanted to go up and pinch his face.

——Lin Yuan held back.

At the same time, Lin Yuan began to reflect on himself.

Sure enough, men have no morals, as long as they look good, they basically don't pick men and women.

Hmm...he's an unscrupulous man himself.

Then, Lin Yuan pushed Chu Lin in front of others, and he began to pass on Lin Yuan's government orders from generation to generation. Outsiders, especially people from big families, felt that being a "male favorite" was also a ladder to the sky!Passing down government orders from generation to generation seems like a trivial matter, but it also means that he can know Lin Yuan's movements immediately.

For the family, knowing the intentions of the superior means that they can react faster, scratch the itch of the authority, and then enter the authority's sight and be favored.

Isn't this real power?

So they——collectively sent their son here.

Still all pretty.

Angzang young people, beautiful young people, some with a face like Pan'an, some with elegant demeanor, fat and thin, they have everything that one expects to find.

But Lin Yuan was overjoyed.

"At first, there were fewer people who were available." Lin Yuan said to Song Shizhao, "Now it's finally more comfortable."

These people may not be the material to be an official, but they all have real talents and knowledge, at least enough knowledge, even if they are not officials, it is good to do civilized construction for the people, which is absolutely enough.

What's more, there are only a few people in his hands that can be used, and he is reluctant to let these people be hidden at home.

Song Shizhao sighed, "I never expected that you have so many plans."

It's just a good man, and it's a joke to say it, but who would have thought that just because of this, there will be more young and strong under Nan Bodhisattva's rule, not only that, but also get out the next generation of those big families hidden in the house .

After taking a step to see a hundred steps, Song Shizhao bowed down to Lin Yuan: "Nan Bodhisattva has a firm mind and a secret plan, which makes his subordinates feel happy and surrender."

Lin Yuan smiled at him: "It's just a small way, sir, Tuotuo was relieved of his military power."

The emperor of Dadu was mentally retarded. To be precise, most of the civil and military courts in the Manchu Dynasty were mentally retarded. Because he was afraid that the leading general would turn against him in troubled times, he issued an imperial edict to cut Tutuo Timur's military power. The crowd collapsed in an instant, and from then on, the Yuan army no longer had the strength to contend with the rebel army.

Song Shizhao: "Nan Bodhisattva means..."

Lin Yuan smiled and said, "Maybe Mister subdue him?"

Song Shizhao looked into Lin Yuan's eyes.

At this moment, his blood boiled with excitement!

But Song Shizhao quickly calmed down: "He is a Mongolian after all..." How could he be willing to work for the Han people?

Lin Yuan smiled and said, "Do I only fight Yuan soldiers?"

Song Shizhao's eyes widened.

He straightened his clothes and stood upright, knelt down towards Lin Yuan: "This man must be won!"

He heard Nan Bodhisattva above say to him, "Then it's all up to you, sir."

Song Shizhao was lying on the ground, and Nan Bodhisattva could make him show off his strengths, even if he was asked to hold the blade for the devil, he would be willing!

The author has something to say: Folk:

"I heard that the most favored by Nan Bodhisattva's side is the son of the Chu family."

"I think it must be good in bed!"

"The figure must be the best!"

Chu family:

"What? Marriage?"

"Marry who?"

"Is he crazy?! Want to marry my son?!"