Lin Ji's struggling life

Yinxiang had a lunch at Lin's house, but he insisted on staying until the end of Shenshi, but still had no chance to see Daiyu, so he had to go back to Beijing disappointed.He is still living in the palace now, and later, the key to the palace gate will be released.

Of course, Lin Ji did it on purpose. After sending Yinxiang away, he snorted disdainfully.Although he likes power, how can this elder brother marry easily? As far as Kangxi's dozen sons are concerned, they are not good matches.If he becomes a Fujin, he will probably end up the same as Zhang Miaozhi.

Thinking about how good Zhang Miaozhi's reputation was back then, Lin Ji only found out after hearing Madam Xiong talk about it. It turned out that Zalafon'a's mother was actually a talented woman, and she was the kind of talented woman who was gorgeous but not coquettish, with outstanding charm.Although he doesn't like Marhun, he has to admit that this person's IQ is quite high.Combining the two, Zarafon'a's IQ is at least online.

And Zhang Miaozhi's tragedy also made Lin Ji start to seriously consider Lin Daiyu's marriage. She has a weak disease, and it is not suitable for early marriage and early childbearing.However, most people in the Qing Dynasty married early and had children early, and they also liked to marry many. More importantly, this was still legal.Thinking that in the future his younger sister will be like a spinning top, serving her husband, mother-in-law, and concubine, he feels a little uncomfortable.

But among the people I know, there are really no good candidates. The Gao family does not have a man of the same age. Otherwise, marrying into the Gao family is also a good choice.

Lin Ji searched around, gave up helplessly, and laughed after thinking about it. This Lin Daiyu is only ten years old this year, and she is only twelve years old. If something happens, you have to be seventeen or eighteen years old.I think it's the right time when the time comes, as for the candidates, the big deal is that I will start groping now, and I will always find the right one.

He took Lin Daiyu to spend more than ten days in the village on the outskirts of Beijing, and the leisurely days always passed very quickly.Lin Ji took advantage of this time to brainwash Lin Daiyu, and Lin Daiyu had a new view on the relationship between men and women.

Originally, she thought that a man should be like her father, with a face like a crown of jade but tall and stalwart. Later, she thought that a man should be like her brother, standing upright but with a heart of chivalry, but now her brother told her to find someone who is breezy and bright, hearty and generous. man.

Perhaps because of the precocity of ancient people, Lin Daiyu was pessimistic about her future married life.She watched her parents seem to be in harmony with each other, and her mother was secretly sad, but she was helpless.Later, in Jia's mansion, she saw the trembling of the first aunt, the dignifiedness of the second aunt, the narrow-mindedness and cursing of Lian's cousin, and the embarrassment of Zhu's cousin.She didn't have a good impression of getting married, and thought about staying at home forever.

In the past, she always comforted herself that if her brother loved her so much and stayed at home, she would be able to live well.But now that her brother was talking about men and women with her, she was not shy, but thought of another level of problem.If she stays at home all the time, will the future sister-in-law tolerate her?What would people outside say about her, about the Lin family?

When Banqian twisted her hair at night, she looked at the beautiful Banqian with slight wrinkles in the corners of her eyes, and couldn't help asking: "Banqian, why did you marry in the first place? How are you doing now?" I wanted to ask Is she happy, but dare not speak.

Ban Qian was a little stunned by Lin Daiyu's words, why marry?Presumably, what the young master said to her today must have caused her to think deeply.Ban Qian stretched out his hand and stroked Lin Daiyu's head, "Why do you ask such a question?" She didn't answer, but asked instead.

Lin Daiyu was a little embarrassed, buried her head in the blanket, and said sullenly: "I was just thinking, why should I get married, it's obviously a bad life."

"But women are going to marry after all. Think about it. The days are so long and far away. It's not very good to have someone to support each other and walk together. What's more, only when you get married can you have the opportunity to have children. Life is actually very difficult. It’s about to pass, and it’s a lifetime in the blink of an eye. Only when you experience it completely, it’s not a waste of time.” Banqian was very emotional, “Don’t think I have a good relationship with you, Uncle Lin. As long as the two of you have a good heart and think more about each other, life will go on." Whoever didn't walk over with mutual support like this doesn't have any difficult things.

"Like them?" Lin Daiyu raised her head with tears in her eyes, "Live a life that seems to be in harmony with God?"

Ban Qian laughed, "Who is the girl talking about?" This little girl has so many thoughts at such a young age.

"Well, a lot of people." Lin Daiyu was vague and refused to say clearly, "Half money, do you think our family is very bad, you want to keep it to serve me, but you can't be with uncle all day long." She is always used to The several stewards of Lin Ji are respectfully called uncles.

"Stupid boy, it's not easy in the world. We are better than the best. Lin Xi and I have been husband and wife for many years, so we don't care about that. Now I go home every now and then, and my daughter and son are by my side, so I have nothing to be dissatisfied with." "This is also something she has always felt lucky about, that is Lin Ji's royal way, never allowing men to mess around, this is also the reason why she and Lin Xi are able to come to this day.

Lin Daiyu was a little stunned, she had never thought about this question, but in retrospect, there were indeed many people around her who were better than her, and many people were not as good as herself.She thought for a while, but still couldn't help but express her thoughts: "Half money, just look at these women around me, ten out of ten unsatisfactory lives, will I be like this in the future?" What I am most afraid of is being like those people, as Jia Baoyu said, changing from a shining pearl to a fish-eye pearl.

"Silly, then why don't you think about Mr. Gao's family and the young master." Banqian said: "The young master once said that the most important thing in a man's life is to keep his bottom line. Only a good man will be successful." She was not shy, "Don't worry, girl, the young master will choose a good marriage for you, and in the future, I will definitely be able to control the young master." For some reason, they are always willing to believe Lin Ji is omnipotent, and so is everyone in the Lin family.

Of course, Lin Daiyu's own growth is also very important, as long as she can support the wall.As Lin Dong reported back, although the future mistress is ordinary, she is able to support her, so that's all.

"Okay, it's time for you to rest." After placing Daiyu, covered her with a quilt, and called Baifu to watch the night.After ordering everything, Ban Qian turned around and went to the end of the backyard.

The entire row of courtyards in the back row of Lin's mansion were divided into three spaces, where servants with families were housed.Back in his courtyard, Banqian lying on the bed touched the empty next door, feeling a little unsatisfied in his heart, Lin Xi hadn't come back for a long time.But then he changed his mind, he liked the crops and not the women outside. After thinking about it for a while, Ban Qian fell asleep in a daze.

The days are fast, and the spring breeze is blowing in March, and the capital welcomes the breath of spring.Under Xu's guidance, Pei Si organized the first flower feast led by her. This morning, when the sky was bright, she began to get busy.

After assigning people out, he presided over the overall situation in the flower hall. Mrs. Xu stood behind and watched Pei Si busy, thinking of Zhang Miaozhi back then.When she married in that year, the Zhang family hadn't yet risen, and she came from a humble background, so she never made any mention of these things.And Zhang Miaozhi taught her step by step how to prepare, how to entertain guests, and how to socialize.These years have passed, and she has never forgotten her eldest sister back then.

This is also true, even if she is too busy, she is willing to learn from scratch with Perth.Looking at Perth today, she seemed to see herself back then.

Zhang Ruomu was also helping, and the two stood in the atrium to receive the guests.In her name and Zhang Ruomu's name, Pei Si invited most of the people who had good acquaintances.The female relatives of the Gao family of the Ministry of Rites, the Chen family of the Minister of Officials, the Feng family of Zuodu Yushi, the Li family of the Minister of Punishment, etc. all received flower lots.Zhang Ying still held a very high status in the eyes of these Hanchens, and the flower banquet was held with great fanfare.

The girls from several families have different temperaments, and they often have contacts on weekdays. Under the introduction of Chun Ai, the eldest daughter of the Chen family, Pei Si made a few friends, among them, Su Yi, the eldest daughter of the Chen family, was the best friend of hers.The two hit it off immediately, and they couldn't stop talking about poetry and travel notes.Li Yun, the eldest daughter of the Li family, could also say a few words, and several young girls who didn't like these things went with Zhang Ruomu to the greenhouse to see flowers.

The older sisters naturally couldn't let them go alone, so everyone moved to the greenhouse.Peisi had ordered people to redecorate the greenhouse long ago. There was a layer of moss on the rockery and green stones. The water wheel was running on the artificially made small pond.

The few potted flowers sent by Lin Ji were arranged properly, which was quite popular.Ingenuity can be seen everywhere in this flower house. Huge peonies, pink peonies, poor calendulas, hanging silk begonias, forsythia, etc. are dotted in the grass. Under the green background, flowers of various colors The child is even more brilliant.

The entire greenhouse is full of fragrance of flowers, and everywhere is a scene.

Chen Chunai has already made a marriage agreement and is going to get married in the middle of the year. Her fiancé is her cousin.And she was very happy that Pei Si could marry a good man. She looked at the flowers in front of her and joked: "When Lin Tanhua was born, how many people were looking forward to marrying him. The little girl who watched him parade that day Girls don't know how much, but you took the lead without even thinking about it."

Li Yun also echoed with a smile: "Yes, my little cousin also sent a lot of flowers to Lin Tanhua that day, and when he paraded through the streets that day, his body was almost filled with flowers."

Speaking of this, several girls gave Perth Cop the grand occasion of Lin Ji's parade that day, which was really a spectacle.

Pei Si was teased, and she was not shy, and said generously, "Don't laugh at me all the time, I will have a purpose after you decide on a husband and son-in-law." She and Lin Ji are already engaged, and the remaining little girl Except for Chen Chunai, everyone else came after her.

"I'm not afraid of you!" Chen Chunai pushed back. She and her cousin had known each other since they were young, and they were childhood sweethearts.

Big guy, you said something to me, and laughed and talked about this topic for a long time.

Gao Qiao also watched for a long time, listening to how Pei Si chatted with these girls, and seeing how she showed off her fiancé without any trace, without arousing disgust.Looking at Pei Si with a smile on her face, she trembled in her heart. This Pei Si was somewhat similar to that Lin Ji, and it was terrifying that such people would come together.

The author has something to say: In fact, the idea of ​​marriage comes from me. I don’t know why, but I’m super pessimistic.