[US Entertainment] Wild Child

He quickly went on to ask: "What are you afraid of? What are you hesitating about? Your studies? As long as your physical condition allows, you can go to school every day, don't worry, I will let you stay at home." He smiled : "Any problem will have a solution. Also, money can solve most problems. I don't believe we will encounter any problems that cannot be solved."

Really fully understand the magic of money.

Summer lowered his eyes and thought for a while, "This thing is like this - to measure an extremely important and life-changing event, it depends on the pros and cons to me after this thing is done, and also In other words, can my "gain" make up for my "loss". If I choose to have a child, then I will face the possibility that I may not be able to graduate smoothly, and I will have to postpone it for one year, and at least half a year after that. Very tired, probably won't be able to go back to school. Not to mention work issues. You see, there are so many actresses in Hollywood who are pregnant and have babies, which means at least a full year, they will disappear from the job market , which is a better case, more likely, until the child enters kindergarten, she will have to give up her job and raise the child at home. And what does she get? The child will not even be named after her last name."

Her narration was a bit confusing, but Leonardo understood. "You can use double surnames. Many people name their children this way."

Summer gave him a strange look, "Is the point I'm talking about is the surname? Besides, why can't I just use my surname?"

Now he was stunned when he said, "What?"

"What? Does the child have to use the father's surname? If I'm happy, I can also let him be named Phoenix. I like the word Phoenix."

He fainted for a while: can you?Seems like it might be possible!

He was very confused, unprecedentedly chaotic, and at a loss. "I don't understand your train of thought, you—you never told me this. Aren't we married? Shouldn't we be one? Why have you never considered my feelings when you think about the problem?"

"Because we didn't have any serious considerations before. Marriage didn't affect me much, so I would agree to get married, but having children is different."

Leonardo thought carefully for a moment, "Actually, what you're not sure about is whether I can be a good father, right?"

"Partly."

He thought for a moment, "It doesn't seem to be a problem. No man can say for sure that he will be a perfect father. I will not be a father like George-I am not saying that he is not good to me, But he didn't give me a good childhood, and that's something no matter how hard he tried, he couldn't make it up. I mean, I know what a kid needs, and I'm going to keep my kids—our kids from suffering Everything I've been through... Pain and confusion.

"I can now be sure that our child will not worry about money, and we will not let him face the pain of his parents being separated. You know, I used to envy you for having parents like Dennis and Suzanne. I will also try to be a good father. I'm not stupid, and I'm willing to work hard for it, isn't that enough?"

"It's not enough." Summer smiled bitterly: he still only thinks about himself. "I'm not sure if you're ready to be a father, and I'm not sure if I'm ready to be a mother—no, I'm nowhere near ready to be a mother, and you definitely don't want to be at 25. Just be a father—do you think about it?"

"I thought about it! It's just a few years earlier than I thought, and I don't care about being a dad a few years earlier. You see Ryan, Ryan Phillips, he is only two months older than me, and he is now Father, isn't Reese a few years older than you? They can do it, why can't we?"

"Is Reese four years older than me?"

Reese Witherspoon was also born as a child star. She was born in March 1976. She transitioned smoothly from a child star to an adult. She is also a very promising actress of the new generation of Hollywood. They have seen them at some parties before, but they are not familiar with them. .She met Ryan Phillips at her 3st birthday party and soon fell in love. At the end of 21, she announced her engagement. The wedding was held in June 98. On September 99, Reese gave birth to her daughter Ava.

"Age is not an issue."

"Then what's the problem?"

Leonardo suddenly stuck, "For me, there is no problem."

Summer was disappointed, "Leo, maybe it's really a mistake for us to get married now."

They discussed the child several times over the next week, but still could not come to an agreement.

Leonardo became very irritable, and after each discussion of the issue, he would down a whole bottle of red wine by himself.In his opinion, Summer is extremely willful, she only considers herself in doing things, and is extremely selfish.

Summer thinks that he is extremely machismo, only considers "I Want", selfish, naive and cruel, and will not consider her.

The two accused each other of being selfish, and often ended in a big fight, and then Leonardo was angry and drank alone, and Summer was so annoyed that he just wanted to tell him to get out.

In his opinion, it is natural for a woman to have children and raise children. Helena is like this, Ilmelin is like this, and Susanna is like this. Why does Summer have to worry about age and schooling?He first said that he could take a year off from school, but it was a one-year postponement of graduation. When she graduated, she was 21 and a half years old, still very young.

Summer vetoed it outright, saying that he did not want to suspend school.

He also said that as long as the body allows, he can continue to go to school. He asked the doctor, and said that many professional women take maternity leave until a few days before the due date, which means that work or study has no serious impact on pregnancy.

It was also vetoed by Summer, saying that the coursework was heavy, and students in good health couldn't cope with it. She didn't want to have a double burden on her body.

He accused her of making excuses.

She also accused him of thinking too simply.

One day later, Leonardo said, not to mention the problem of pregnancy, if he is worried about raising the child after giving birth, he can take care of the child at home without her worrying about it. It is not a problem to get up at night to feed the baby and change the diaper. All of them can be borne by themselves.He took some handbooks for prenatal and pregnant women courses and handbooks for raising children to read, and his attitude was still very good.

Samo was a little moved. It's the same thing whether he can do it or not. It's really worthy of praise to have such a good attitude.

But at the end of the discussion, there was still a big fight and they broke up unhappy.

Leonardo was even more furious, slamming the door and leaving.

Summer only felt physically and mentally exhausted.

That's probably what happens when you're married to a late bloomer who thinks completely differently than you do.He thinks that women are going to have children, and a few years in advance is not a matter at all. He doesn't have your wishes in his mind, he just thinks that when things happen, if you get pregnant, you will give birth. How can this be a difficult thing?It should not be a sharp contradiction between them at all.He's a one-liner who solves problems and is willing - at least verbally - to take on the chores of raising children, which is lovable, but the real issue isn't really about who is going to raise the children , he could never understand it.

Summer was surprised at first that he would be the one who wanted the baby.But it’s easier to understand when you think about it. Although his parents loved him very much since he was a child, he doesn’t have a “complete” family in the traditional sense. "Complete family", or never consider marriage in order to avoid possible failure.

And now that he is a man who gets married early, he will want to have a child earlier. From the perspective of compensation, he must be a silly father who dotes on his children and will not give him the moon if he wants the stars.

But all this still revolved around himself, without considering her needs.

It's not that he sees her as some reproductive machine, it's just that he doesn't think of it at all.

So this is where the big conflict between them lies.

He's actually had no major failures, audition failures are pretty normal, nothing; since he was 16, his career and life have been pretty much smooth sailing, and he's only made 3 movies (one of which he's pretending it doesn't exist He was nominated for an Oscar, and then received several films that highlighted his acting skills and characteristics. At the age of 23, he became a world-renowned superstar. This speed is beyond the reach of others even by space shuttle;

In terms of personal life, he wanted to pursue her who grew up with him, and it didn't take him long to achieve his goal, and he got married soon. It can be said that he has a double harvest of love and career, which everyone admires.

He had never been hit, never really "lost", and this child who she thought came at an inappropriate time became the "loss" he might encounter, and he was so flustered and at a loss that he absolutely could not accept it.

--What about me?

What she has to consider is, is this child really hindering my future?

It is very likely that she will not be able to work for at least the next year, and her studies will be greatly affected.Even if he is willing to be a baby daddy and a nanny, as a mother, she can't really let her go.

It is still a "pros and cons" consideration.

It was too early for her to think about making a human right after graduation.

Of course, from the perspective of prenatal and postnatal care, around 25 years old will be the appropriate age to have children, but will their marriage last until then?

Leonardo came back after 3:[-] in the morning.

I went directly to another bedroom and slept for a few hours indiscriminately.

Summer didn't hear him coming home.In the morning, just after dawn, someone lifted the thin quilt and hugged her from behind.

"Baby," he said hoarsely, "Why are we arguing?"

She didn't speak.

He added: "I may never understand what you are thinking for the rest of my life, you girl who makes my heart ache and breaks my heart."

She put her hand on his arm.

He sounded heartbroken, "I should give you a good spanking for your selfishness, but if you have already made a decision, I think, I will still respect your decision. But, mybaby, you must remember Live, only I can be the father of your child, I may be sad for a long time, but I will not leave you. In the near future, when you are really ready, we will have children, and then I will be ready to be Father's preparation. Baby, my happiness is all because of you, you promised me that you would bring me happiness—"

Some warm liquid dripped on her neck, which quickly cooled and slid off her skin.

The author has something to say: *I’m really asking for trouble. I always have to write this kind of plot that is likely to lose a large number of readers. Why am I so upset.

*Whether to have a child is a difficult decision, not only for Summer, but also for me, the author and my classmates, because it is impossible to satisfy all readers whether they want to or not.The character development of the characters is destined to have such sharp differences. The thinking modes of the two people are not on the same band, and there will inevitably be conflicts.

*If you don't want a child, you will definitely abuse Leo, because he is the one who wants the child, but he may not understand until after losing it. Summer can live well without him, she is not sure. Leo has never encountered a situation beyond his control before, including his relationship with Summer, and he has always taken the initiative, but in this matter, he cannot influence Summer's decision.