Mrs. Xing of the Red Chamber
Chapter 91
Only then did he elaborate:
"The reason I finally made up my mind to get married to you as soon as possible is because I knew that the Jia family had been with you and the historian Xue's family for a few days.
Home swinging back and forth when my baby girl is anything, this one especially can't stand!
And after knowing that your father and I were seriously ill, he actually made an idea of our Lin family's wealth, and didn't take me and the Lin family seriously.
When I sent Jia Lian over this time, I deliberately drew attention to his behavior, and found that he had started to invade me before I was dead.
Occupying the Lin family's wealth!If I die, everything in the Lin family will be destroyed by the Jia family, and all the property will be seized
light?
These are the wealth that our Lin family has accumulated for many generations. Although the inheritance has been cut off in the father's generation, we can have a child like you, Yu'er.
I don't have any regrets anymore, I just hope that the wealth of the Lin family can be used on you, Yu'er, and I can give you a list at least, no
As for worrying about money or something.
I know Yu'er that you don't value these things, but you still don't understand the pain of not having money, and my father also hopes that you will never understand, at least you can
Prove that Yu'er, you don't lack these things. "
Seeing that Lin Daiyu was not very angry about the things about herself in what she said, and she didn't take money seriously, but when she heard that the Jia family was plotting against herself and the Lin family, she was still a little angry.
Lin Ruhai was even more worried, but she also knew that Lin Daiyu's temperament had always been like this, and it couldn't be changed in a short time.
It seems that the property of the Lin family cannot be handed over to Yu'er all at once, otherwise, what if Yu'er is cheated all of a sudden, should Yu'er be allowed to suffer?How can Lin Ruhai be willing to give up, let's leave it to Yu'er, it's okay if nothing happens, if something happens, this is life-saving money!
Lin Ruhai looked at Lin Daiyu and continued: "Do you think a family like this, even your mother's family, would be a good marriage partner?
As long as it is a normal family, it will not be married to such a cannibalistic family. Isn't this pushing your own children into the fire pit? "
Lin Daiyu was also silent when she heard this!Lin Daiyu also knew that if she really married Baoyu, life would definitely not be easy.
If something happens, such as Baoyu's mother, Mrs. Wang, making things difficult for her, she is a mother-in-law, teaching and teaching her daughter-in-law, and letting her take care of her every day, this is a very normal thing!No one can tell what's wrong.
It is my grandmother who loves me the most. As long as Mrs. Wang doesn't do too much, it is most likely to turn a blind eye.
And no matter how much Baoyu loves her, between herself and his biological mother, at most, she can only be a sandwich biscuit in the middle, and both ends are not pleasing.
After a long time, she would avoid it directly. When she didn't find out the fact that she was at odds with her mother, she couldn't even protect herself.Although my relationship with Baoyu is relatively good now, compared with other sisters, it is only a little better.
According to Baoyu's love for her daughter's family, I'm afraid that even if he gets married, he will be as close as he is now with all the sisters and girls. There may be a lot of aunts and so on. Hey, can I really bear it?
If I marry another person who doesn't have a deep relationship, if the other party wants to marry a lot of aunts, I can accept it.As long as you are your own master, life will not be too sad.
Although rationally knowing that not marrying Jia Baoyu is the best choice, he still can't pass the emotional test.
Lin Daiyu asked a little unwillingly: "Father, in the past few years in Jia's mansion, my grandmother and Baoyu have treated Yu'er very well. In fact, Yu'er also has a good impression of Baoyu. Is it true that marriage with Baoyu can no longer be considered?" ?”
After saying this sentence, Lin Daiyu blushed, but still mustered up the courage to raise her head to see her father's reaction.
Hearing her own Yu'er finally uttered this sentence, Lin Ruhai was actually relieved, for fear that if Yu'er didn't say it at this time, she would regret it for the rest of her life in retrospect.
But Lin Ruhai will definitely not agree to the marriage with Jia Baoyu in Jia's mansion, even if it will make Yu'er regret for the rest of her life, but as long as Yu'er can live in peace, Lin Ruhai will not regret her decision.
Lin Ruhai said with a face of understanding: "I also know that you and that Jia Baoyu lived together since childhood, and have a very good relationship with each other. It is understandable that you want to live with Jia Baoyu forever."
Seeing Lin Daiyu hesitated to speak, Lin Ruhai knew what she was going to say, and signaled Lin Daiyu not to speak yet, and listened to herself first.
"However, knowing the chaotic environment in Jia's mansion, how could father allow you to marry and suffer!
I know you don't care about Jia's idea of taking Lin's property. Maybe the Jia's people find an excuse to take away Lin's property, and you don't either.
You will notice that anyway, Jia's house will not lack your food and drink on weekdays.
Even though your father knows that under the pretext of being considerate of you, he will help you decide your future life events without authorization, you may not be happy!
Yu'er, you should be fulfilling your father's wish for you to be safe and sound before he died!
From now on, just treat Jia Baoyu as a cousin of your grandmother's family, and treat him as an ordinary relative when we meet!
Father's days are really numbered, Yu'er, you can promise father, choose a suitable person to decide your lifelong affairs, at least let me go with peace of mind! "
Of
Lin Daiyu heard what her father said, and knew that it was really impossible for her and Baoyu, so she couldn't help but shed tears!
But no matter how important Baoyu is, it is not as important as being filial in front of his father. Father is only his own daughter. If he can't even fulfill his father's last request, he will be a child in vain!
Although Lin Daiyu was very reluctant, she still nodded with tears in her eyes and said:
"Father, don't worry, Yu'er will not act excessively with Baoyu in the future, and will keep a distance from him, and get along like ordinary relatives."
Lin Ruhai was relieved when she heard that Lin Daiyu had made up her mind to break off her relationship with Jia Baoyu. Next, as long as Yu'er's marriage is finalized, according to Yu'er's temperament, she won't have too much with Jia Baoyu. got engaged.
Even if Jia Baoyu came to pester her, it was useless, Lin Ruhai still understood her daughter's temperament.
Lin Ruhai said relievedly: "That's right, Yu'er, you are still young, you must listen to your father, and your father will not harm you."
Lin Daiyu replied in a low voice: "Well, Yu'er knows that father is doing it for Yu'er's good."
Strike while the iron is hot, Lin Ruhai continued: "Then Yu'er, take a good look at the information just now and see which one do you like better?
Father, it's better to go to take care of it early and settle your marriage, so that father and I can rest assured to recuperate as soon as possible, and I can spend more time with you.
Otherwise, worrying about your marriage all day is really worrying about my father. Thinking of Yu'er, you will marry into someone else's family in the future.
My father is really helpless, and I'm really afraid that if you don't settle down early, and you can't choose candidates well, you will be wronged, Yu'er!You can only settle your marriage as soon as possible. "
Lin Daiyu also cried and said: "Yu'er also wants to be with you father forever. Yu'er is also afraid of marrying into a stranger's house. Yu'er really wants to never marry!"
Lin Ruhai patted Lin Daiyu's arm and said with a smile:
"You're talking stupid again, how can the daughter's family not find her husband's family! What if you have no one to take care of you when you get old? This makes parents so
Can rest assured.Be good, go and look at those materials, and choose someone you like more. "
"Well, okay!" Seeing that her father had to choose someone, Lin Daiyu could only helplessly respond.
Lin Daiyu sat on the chair beside the bed, picked up the documents and read them carefully.
Lin Ruhai watched Lin Daiyu carefully look at each page, and couldn't help saying:
"Look, Yu'er, these five candidates were specially selected by me, almost all of them don't need to inherit the family business.
In this way, after you get married, you don't have to be the head wife of a large family. If you are not the wife of the heir, the house will not have too high demands on you.
After you get married, you just need to take care of your own small family. If you have time on weekdays, you can continue to recite poems, read books and practice painting.
How about it, is there anyone you like more? If so, Yu'er, you can just point it out to your father! "
Hearing what her father said, and seeing that almost none of these five candidates would inherit the family business, Lin Daiyu could feel her father's good intentions.
Seeing the detailed information and daily living habits of these five people listed on the information, Lin Daiyu looked carefully.
Since they are all going to marry, it is better to marry a relatively simple person and live together, so that life can be as easy as my father said!
After reading all these materials, Lin Daiyu still couldn't compare which one was better.
In fact, these five candidates all met Lin Daiyu's requirements, and they were all very good candidates. After all, they were specially selected by Lin Ruhai, so how could they be so bad!
Lin Daiyu really couldn't make a decision, so she could only tell Lin Ruhai:
"Father, after reading the profiles of these few people, Yu'er thinks that they are all good, and that they are all good. Father, you should help Yu'er choose someone. Yu'er will listen to you."
Seeing that Lin Daiyu really couldn't choose a specific candidate, instead of passive resistance, Lin Ruhai said:
"Well, these people are actually good candidates, but if you want to say that Yu'er is the most suitable for you, father, I still think that the current Kong family in Shandong
The second son of the eldest third brother's family is better.
Firstly, the family style of the Kong family is very reassuring.
According to the rules of the Confucian family, a concubine will be allowed to come in only when the wife of the family is 40 years old and cannot give birth to an heir. This is already very rare.
And as long as the wife in charge doesn't make a big mistake, there is almost no talk of divorce, so I don't have to worry about the Kong family bullying your natal family after I go!
The Kong family is a family of poems and books, so there is no need to worry that your future husband will not have a common language with you.
Only in this kind of family with a relatively clean family style, according to Yu'er's temperament, you will not offend people so easily.later life
It can also be easier to come. "
"The reason I finally made up my mind to get married to you as soon as possible is because I knew that the Jia family had been with you and the historian Xue's family for a few days.
Home swinging back and forth when my baby girl is anything, this one especially can't stand!
And after knowing that your father and I were seriously ill, he actually made an idea of our Lin family's wealth, and didn't take me and the Lin family seriously.
When I sent Jia Lian over this time, I deliberately drew attention to his behavior, and found that he had started to invade me before I was dead.
Occupying the Lin family's wealth!If I die, everything in the Lin family will be destroyed by the Jia family, and all the property will be seized
light?
These are the wealth that our Lin family has accumulated for many generations. Although the inheritance has been cut off in the father's generation, we can have a child like you, Yu'er.
I don't have any regrets anymore, I just hope that the wealth of the Lin family can be used on you, Yu'er, and I can give you a list at least, no
As for worrying about money or something.
I know Yu'er that you don't value these things, but you still don't understand the pain of not having money, and my father also hopes that you will never understand, at least you can
Prove that Yu'er, you don't lack these things. "
Seeing that Lin Daiyu was not very angry about the things about herself in what she said, and she didn't take money seriously, but when she heard that the Jia family was plotting against herself and the Lin family, she was still a little angry.
Lin Ruhai was even more worried, but she also knew that Lin Daiyu's temperament had always been like this, and it couldn't be changed in a short time.
It seems that the property of the Lin family cannot be handed over to Yu'er all at once, otherwise, what if Yu'er is cheated all of a sudden, should Yu'er be allowed to suffer?How can Lin Ruhai be willing to give up, let's leave it to Yu'er, it's okay if nothing happens, if something happens, this is life-saving money!
Lin Ruhai looked at Lin Daiyu and continued: "Do you think a family like this, even your mother's family, would be a good marriage partner?
As long as it is a normal family, it will not be married to such a cannibalistic family. Isn't this pushing your own children into the fire pit? "
Lin Daiyu was also silent when she heard this!Lin Daiyu also knew that if she really married Baoyu, life would definitely not be easy.
If something happens, such as Baoyu's mother, Mrs. Wang, making things difficult for her, she is a mother-in-law, teaching and teaching her daughter-in-law, and letting her take care of her every day, this is a very normal thing!No one can tell what's wrong.
It is my grandmother who loves me the most. As long as Mrs. Wang doesn't do too much, it is most likely to turn a blind eye.
And no matter how much Baoyu loves her, between herself and his biological mother, at most, she can only be a sandwich biscuit in the middle, and both ends are not pleasing.
After a long time, she would avoid it directly. When she didn't find out the fact that she was at odds with her mother, she couldn't even protect herself.Although my relationship with Baoyu is relatively good now, compared with other sisters, it is only a little better.
According to Baoyu's love for her daughter's family, I'm afraid that even if he gets married, he will be as close as he is now with all the sisters and girls. There may be a lot of aunts and so on. Hey, can I really bear it?
If I marry another person who doesn't have a deep relationship, if the other party wants to marry a lot of aunts, I can accept it.As long as you are your own master, life will not be too sad.
Although rationally knowing that not marrying Jia Baoyu is the best choice, he still can't pass the emotional test.
Lin Daiyu asked a little unwillingly: "Father, in the past few years in Jia's mansion, my grandmother and Baoyu have treated Yu'er very well. In fact, Yu'er also has a good impression of Baoyu. Is it true that marriage with Baoyu can no longer be considered?" ?”
After saying this sentence, Lin Daiyu blushed, but still mustered up the courage to raise her head to see her father's reaction.
Hearing her own Yu'er finally uttered this sentence, Lin Ruhai was actually relieved, for fear that if Yu'er didn't say it at this time, she would regret it for the rest of her life in retrospect.
But Lin Ruhai will definitely not agree to the marriage with Jia Baoyu in Jia's mansion, even if it will make Yu'er regret for the rest of her life, but as long as Yu'er can live in peace, Lin Ruhai will not regret her decision.
Lin Ruhai said with a face of understanding: "I also know that you and that Jia Baoyu lived together since childhood, and have a very good relationship with each other. It is understandable that you want to live with Jia Baoyu forever."
Seeing Lin Daiyu hesitated to speak, Lin Ruhai knew what she was going to say, and signaled Lin Daiyu not to speak yet, and listened to herself first.
"However, knowing the chaotic environment in Jia's mansion, how could father allow you to marry and suffer!
I know you don't care about Jia's idea of taking Lin's property. Maybe the Jia's people find an excuse to take away Lin's property, and you don't either.
You will notice that anyway, Jia's house will not lack your food and drink on weekdays.
Even though your father knows that under the pretext of being considerate of you, he will help you decide your future life events without authorization, you may not be happy!
Yu'er, you should be fulfilling your father's wish for you to be safe and sound before he died!
From now on, just treat Jia Baoyu as a cousin of your grandmother's family, and treat him as an ordinary relative when we meet!
Father's days are really numbered, Yu'er, you can promise father, choose a suitable person to decide your lifelong affairs, at least let me go with peace of mind! "
Of
Lin Daiyu heard what her father said, and knew that it was really impossible for her and Baoyu, so she couldn't help but shed tears!
But no matter how important Baoyu is, it is not as important as being filial in front of his father. Father is only his own daughter. If he can't even fulfill his father's last request, he will be a child in vain!
Although Lin Daiyu was very reluctant, she still nodded with tears in her eyes and said:
"Father, don't worry, Yu'er will not act excessively with Baoyu in the future, and will keep a distance from him, and get along like ordinary relatives."
Lin Ruhai was relieved when she heard that Lin Daiyu had made up her mind to break off her relationship with Jia Baoyu. Next, as long as Yu'er's marriage is finalized, according to Yu'er's temperament, she won't have too much with Jia Baoyu. got engaged.
Even if Jia Baoyu came to pester her, it was useless, Lin Ruhai still understood her daughter's temperament.
Lin Ruhai said relievedly: "That's right, Yu'er, you are still young, you must listen to your father, and your father will not harm you."
Lin Daiyu replied in a low voice: "Well, Yu'er knows that father is doing it for Yu'er's good."
Strike while the iron is hot, Lin Ruhai continued: "Then Yu'er, take a good look at the information just now and see which one do you like better?
Father, it's better to go to take care of it early and settle your marriage, so that father and I can rest assured to recuperate as soon as possible, and I can spend more time with you.
Otherwise, worrying about your marriage all day is really worrying about my father. Thinking of Yu'er, you will marry into someone else's family in the future.
My father is really helpless, and I'm really afraid that if you don't settle down early, and you can't choose candidates well, you will be wronged, Yu'er!You can only settle your marriage as soon as possible. "
Lin Daiyu also cried and said: "Yu'er also wants to be with you father forever. Yu'er is also afraid of marrying into a stranger's house. Yu'er really wants to never marry!"
Lin Ruhai patted Lin Daiyu's arm and said with a smile:
"You're talking stupid again, how can the daughter's family not find her husband's family! What if you have no one to take care of you when you get old? This makes parents so
Can rest assured.Be good, go and look at those materials, and choose someone you like more. "
"Well, okay!" Seeing that her father had to choose someone, Lin Daiyu could only helplessly respond.
Lin Daiyu sat on the chair beside the bed, picked up the documents and read them carefully.
Lin Ruhai watched Lin Daiyu carefully look at each page, and couldn't help saying:
"Look, Yu'er, these five candidates were specially selected by me, almost all of them don't need to inherit the family business.
In this way, after you get married, you don't have to be the head wife of a large family. If you are not the wife of the heir, the house will not have too high demands on you.
After you get married, you just need to take care of your own small family. If you have time on weekdays, you can continue to recite poems, read books and practice painting.
How about it, is there anyone you like more? If so, Yu'er, you can just point it out to your father! "
Hearing what her father said, and seeing that almost none of these five candidates would inherit the family business, Lin Daiyu could feel her father's good intentions.
Seeing the detailed information and daily living habits of these five people listed on the information, Lin Daiyu looked carefully.
Since they are all going to marry, it is better to marry a relatively simple person and live together, so that life can be as easy as my father said!
After reading all these materials, Lin Daiyu still couldn't compare which one was better.
In fact, these five candidates all met Lin Daiyu's requirements, and they were all very good candidates. After all, they were specially selected by Lin Ruhai, so how could they be so bad!
Lin Daiyu really couldn't make a decision, so she could only tell Lin Ruhai:
"Father, after reading the profiles of these few people, Yu'er thinks that they are all good, and that they are all good. Father, you should help Yu'er choose someone. Yu'er will listen to you."
Seeing that Lin Daiyu really couldn't choose a specific candidate, instead of passive resistance, Lin Ruhai said:
"Well, these people are actually good candidates, but if you want to say that Yu'er is the most suitable for you, father, I still think that the current Kong family in Shandong
The second son of the eldest third brother's family is better.
Firstly, the family style of the Kong family is very reassuring.
According to the rules of the Confucian family, a concubine will be allowed to come in only when the wife of the family is 40 years old and cannot give birth to an heir. This is already very rare.
And as long as the wife in charge doesn't make a big mistake, there is almost no talk of divorce, so I don't have to worry about the Kong family bullying your natal family after I go!
The Kong family is a family of poems and books, so there is no need to worry that your future husband will not have a common language with you.
Only in this kind of family with a relatively clean family style, according to Yu'er's temperament, you will not offend people so easily.later life
It can also be easier to come. "
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