President of Custom

"Operation Procedure and Emergency Handbook for Angry Objects in Love".

"Don't treat the object coldly, otherwise it will appear that you don't pay attention to the other party and aggravate the condition. But most men don't know how to break the ice. The most common opening sentence is 'Are you angry'. When the other party says 'Yes', it means TA is angry, and the other party says 'no', it may also mean that TA is angry..."

Jin Lanshu read with question marks all over his head: "What kind of rubbish guide is this? It's full of nonsense!"

"No, boss." Owen said with a pair of panda eyes, "This is really the crystallization of my hard work for many years!"

Jin Lanshu threw away the guide and said, "You are really unreliable!"

"I'm sorry, boss." Owen apologized immediately, and thought to himself: Are you so reliable to coax yourself?Garbage man!Do you want me to teach you all you want to coax?Do you want all the bridal chambers to include school packages?

Jin Lanshu took Owen out at noon and happened to have dinner with Fu Cheng.As soon as he saw Fu Cheng, he thought of Song Fengshi who was having a fight.Jin Lan sighed unconsciously.

Fu Cheng was puzzled and asked, "Is it a business matter?"

"No." Jin Lanshu smiled, and suddenly asked, "Do you know how to coax someone angry?"

Fu Cheng was startled, and said, "I don't have a partner."

"Then what if there is?" Jin Lanshu said, "Cohabiting lovers don't talk, how to break the ice?"

"Hmm." Fu Cheng thought for a while, and said, "Change the WIFI password? Then he should automatically ask."

Jin Lanshu nodded repeatedly: As expected of the president!It really makes sense!

But Jin Lanshu changed his mind and said, "What if it's a lover from a different place?"

"This is an analogy," Fu Cheng said, "It should be to go to a different place and turn off his WIFI."

Owen thought to the side: No wonder Fu Cheng is handsome and rich, so he doesn't like him...

Jin Lanshu shook his head and said, "No, I don't think this is OK, because he lives in a hotel. The hotel's WIFI is not easy to turn off."

"That's true." Fu Cheng said, "So you had a fight with your lover?"

"Probably." Jin Lanshu said.

Fu Cheng said, "It's conceivable."

Jin Lanshu was also choked, and asked for a while, "How can you imagine it?"

Fu Cheng said: "Although I don't have a partner, I think if I want to maintain a relationship with my partner, I should give him more positive feedback. I don't think you are the person who will give the other party a lot of positive feedback. But of course, you The object of the person may also be a lowself-esteem person, so..."

"How do you talk?" Jin Lan was very dissatisfied, "Just criticize me, how can you criticize my object?"

"Sorry." Fu Cheng apologized, "I made a rash judgment, it was my mistake."

Owen had a bad lunch atmosphere, so he immediately turned on the flattering mode: "Wow, Mr. Fu is really eloquent and analytical."

Fu Cheng then said: "I am not good at socializing, so I have learned a little bit of related psychological knowledge."

"That's how it is." Owen praised, "It's really admirable."

Jin Lanshu asked, "What kind of feedback is 'positive feedback'?"

"Intimate behaviors or words of praise are some positive feedback in the relationship." Fu Cheng replied.

Jin Lanshu thought to himself that he and Song Fengshi have had a lot of intimate behaviors, but the words of praise are indeed less.

"Then what else can I do to express my positive attitude towards him?" Jin Lanshu asked.

Fu Cheng said, "Maybe it's public display of affection."

Jin Lanshu translated it verbatim: "Public display of love?"

Owen's free translation said: "Does it mean 'show affection'?"

Fu Cheng replied, "Almost."

Jin Lanshu suddenly realized: "Then it's enough to be public and praise? What do you think of hanging a banner saying 'Song Fengshi, you are so good'?"

Owen said with a bad face: "I think this may not work well."

Fu Cheng nodded: "I agree."

"Why?" Jin Lan was puzzled, "Then should it be replaced by 'Song Fengshi, you are so beautiful'?"

Owen said embarrassingly: "I think Mr. Song is rather shy. If you hang the banner like this, he will be very shy, right?"

"That's true." Jin Lanshu nodded, "You're right."

Fu Cheng said, "So this Mr. Song is your lover? Is he having trouble?"

"Yes." Jin Lanshu replied.

Fu Cheng said, "That's very strange, why didn't you hang up a banner saying 'Song Fengshi, I was wrong'."

"That won't work!" Jin Lanshu vetoed it flatly, "I didn't do anything wrong!"

Fu Cheng asked, "Then why is he angry?"

"How do I know? Maybe it's my aunt."

Fu Cheng was startled: "I thought you were gay?"

Owen picked up a tissue and wiped the sweat from his forehead without saying a word.

Jin Lanshu said, "A man can have an aunt too?"

"Is it possible?" Fu Cheng was quite confused.

Owen had no choice but to explain: "Well, some scientific research shows that men also have menstrual periods. But it's not the same as women's... However, I don't think this has anything to do with Song Fengshi. I think it's just an ordinary awkwardness between lovers. As long as President Jin expresses his concern for the other party, it should be resolved."

Jin Lanshu was a little surprised when he heard the words: "You seem to see it very clearly?"

"Not really, boss." Owen stepped back and said, "I'm just guessing wildly."

Jin Lanshu felt that what Owen said actually made some sense.

Song Fengshi had made it clear that if he wanted Jin Lanshu to "coax him", then he would be able to coax him.

But how to coax it?

Jin Lanshu conveniently said: Since Fu Cheng has read the book and said that he should give more praise, then I will try.

On the other side, Song Fengshi had already completed the preliminary interview with the Louvre Museum, left the meeting room, took out his mobile phone and was taken aback.It turned out that every post on his social networking page was praised by Jin Lan.

"What's going on?" Song Fengshi put the phone back in his pocket.

After a while, he sorted out the content of the meeting and sent it to Jin Lanshu.

Jin Lanshu replied immediately: "Very good! Awesome! You are awesome!"

Song Fengshi felt quite weird, and replied: "If there is nothing else, I will follow the venue."

"Very good! Awesome! You are so awesome!" Jin Lanshu replied almost instantly.

Song Fengshi said, "Is this the new automatic reply?"

Jin Lanshu was particularly dissatisfied. He pulled Owen and said, "Look, I praise him, but he still treats me as a robot?"

Owen took a look and said, "This is really... a bit mechanical."

"Then how can we not be mechanical?" Jin Lan asked dissatisfiedly.

Owen thought to himself: My business scope does not include teaching the boss to talk to someone?If so, I really want to pay more...

Jin Lanshu looked at Owen with displeasure.

Owen sighed, and said: "No matter what he does, you just say 'you are awesome', such a compliment is not OK. The compliment must be specific enough. For example, if you compliment a girl on the clothes she wears, You can't just say 'it looks good', you should say 'this red makes your complexion very fair', specifically, it has to be related to the current scene, so that it seems more distracting."

"Oh, I understand." Jin Lanshu glanced at Song Fengshi's message.

Song Fengshi's message read "If you have any questions, please contact me, boss."

Jin Lanshu became more specific: "You still know that you have to contact me, the boss, if you have any questions, you are awesome!"

The corner of Owen's mouth twitched slightly.

Song Fengshi replied quickly: "Go to hell, Jin Lanshu."

Jin Lanshu was so angry that she almost dropped her phone, then pointed at Owen and said, "Are you kidding me?"

Owen's tongue was tied, even if he was eloquent, he was speechless at the moment.

Why can someone like Jin Lanshu find a good partner?And I, Owen, a young man, am single?In this world, is it really possible to do whatever you want with money?

—Owen couldn't help but feel sorry for himself.

Jin Lanshu looked angry every day, and Owen couldn't let it go.

After all, Jin Lanshu's temper and mood are one of Owen's office conditions.

Jin Lanshu has a good temper and a good mood, so Owen's office can run smoothly.

The boss is happy, I am happy.

——Owen clenched his fists and cheered himself up.

"Actually, Mr. Jin," Owen said in a friendly tone, "I really think that the general methods of getting along with your partner and coaxing your partner are not very suitable for you. Just like ordinary people can't wear high-end clothes, ordinary things are right It is of no reference value to you."

Jin Lanshu nodded and said, "So that's why I can't coax him well? Is it because I'm too advanced?"

Resisting the urge to roll his eyes, Owen said with a smile, "I absolutely reasonably suspect that's the reason."

"I also think it's possible." Jin Lanshu was persuaded by Owen.

Owen also nodded, and said: "So I think the operation methods of us ordinary people are of no reference value to you. Therefore, I can't provide any opinions, otherwise, I'm afraid it will just be counterproductive."

In fact, after all, Owen's central idea is "it's none of my business to coax men, don't bother me anymore".

Jin Lanshu vaguely felt that Owen was trying to shirk, so she said, "So? You just call me Gaoding and leave you alone, right?"

——Oh my god, he can still understand what I mean with such an EQ?

Owen really felt that he should not underestimate his boss.

"No, of course not, Mr. Jin." Owen said slowly, "I just think that if Song Fengshi liked the kind of man who is slick and good at coaxing, he probably wouldn't choose to be with you in the first place. He must have taken a fancy to your unique temperament and chose to be with you. I think that when you express your concern for him, you should also use your own way instead of relying on other people's experience. "

Jin Lanshu actually listened to Owen's fooling around.

Yes, I am who I am.My golden orchid is an orchid in the empty valley, how can I fall into the cliché?

It's not my style to pull banners and say it's awesome?

I should be myself.

The author has something to say: Please look forward to the next chapter of "Being Your Own" how the CEO can coax someone with his strength!