Lovers suffer from depression [Quick Transmigration]
Chapter 156 Borderline Personality Disorder Chapter 6
Wen Ran handed over the pastry shop to two clerks, and drove Meng Miandong to Sea World by himself.
The pastry shop is more than an hour's drive from Sea World. Meng Miandong felt that the car was a little stuffy, so she asked Wen Ran embarrassedly, "How do I open the windows?"
Wen Ran realized that Meng Miandong hadn't been in a car before, so he pointed to a button on the door and said, "Just press it there."
Meng Miandong originally wanted to open the car window a little, but after he pressed it, the whole car window opened, and the outside wind blew in, making him a little dazed.
Wen Ran smiled: "Just press it lightly."
Meng Miandong nodded, closed all the car windows, and pressed it lightly again, and the car windows only came down a little.
"Miandong is so smart." Wen Ran sincerely praised, but Meng Miandong asked: "Does doing such a simple thing make you smart?"
Wen Ran said helplessly: "Mian Dong, wouldn't it be good to accept the compliment frankly?"
No one has ever praised Meng Miandong except the teachers of various subjects. When Wen Ran said this, he said indifferently: "It is indeed a very simple thing, and it is not worthy of praise, just like the teacher praised me for my good academic performance."
Taking advantage of the red light, Wen Ran rubbed Meng Miandong's hair and said, "Learn to accept other people's praise and get satisfaction from it."
Meng Miandong was puzzled and said, "I don't understand what you mean. Why do you feel satisfied when things that are not worthy of praise are praised?"
In order to please his parents, sister and relatives, Meng Miandong has always asked himself to do his best, but no one has praised him at all, so that the current thinking logic has been formed.
And one of the clinical symptoms of borderline personality disorder is self-identity disorder, lack of self-goal and self-worth.
Wen Ran understood that this could not be corrected in a short while, and sighed: "For you, it may not be something worthy of praise, but for the person who praises you, it is something worthy of praise. From the point of view of performance , your grades are better than other students, if other students have achieved your grades, do you think they deserve to be praised?"
"But it's impossible for them to achieve my results." Meng Miandong thought hard, "If they achieve my results, they should be praised, right? After all, there is a big gap between my results and theirs."
Wen Ran asked: "Your achievements are worthy of praise when placed on them, why are they not worthy of praise when placed on you?"
Meng Miandong replied without thinking: "Because this is what I should achieve."
Wen Ran shook his head and said: "There is nothing you deserve, you should be praised for your hard work."
"But..." Meng Miandong instinctively wanted to refute, but he didn't know how to refute, so he said after a while, "I didn't try too hard."
Wen Ran sternly said: "You are very smart, but you can't understand everything without learning anything. You study harder than others, but you also work hard. If you feel that your efforts are not worthy of praise, just act like you Make an effort that you think is worthy of praise.”
Meng Miandong said blankly: "I don't think I deserve praise no matter what I do, because I am a worthless person, and everything I do is superfluous and meaningless."
Wen Ran said seriously: "I said before that you are a very valuable person to me, if you think that you are worthless again, I will..."
Before he finished speaking, Meng Miandong covered his ears in horror: "I didn't hear it, I didn't hear it..."
Apparently Meng Miandong thought he was going to say "I will abandon you", so he used one hand to control the steering wheel, freed his right hand, and carefully pushed Meng Miandong's left hand away: "If you think you are worthless again I won’t give you any pastries I made.”
Meng Miandong stared at Wen Ran with wide eyes and said, "Didn't you change your words on purpose?"
Wen Ran put his right hand back on the steering wheel, and said with a smile: "Why did I change my words on purpose? That's what I intended to say."
Meng Miandong breathed a sigh of relief: "Yeah, I will be obedient, and I will no longer think that I am worthless."
But he said in his heart: I am a worthless person.
Meng Miandong is really not good at hiding his thoughts, Wen Ran easily sees self-deprecation from Meng Miandong's eyes.
But he didn't say anything, pretending to believe Meng Miandong's lies.
After he drove the car to Ocean Park and got out of the car, he opened the car door for Meng Miandong again, then went to a balloon vendor and bought a balloon in the shape of a dolphin.
He handed the dolphin balloon to Meng Miandong and said, "Miandong was very good just now, this dolphin balloon should be used as a reward."
No one has ever bought balloons for Meng Miandong. When he was a child, Meng Miandong wanted balloons very much, but he dared not say it because he was afraid of being rejected. When he grew up, he no longer wanted balloons. When the balloon came, his first reaction was: "I'm not a kid anymore, I'm going to be an adult soon."
But at the same time, his eye sockets were slightly red. He lowered his head, wiped his eyes, and took the balloon as if nothing had happened.
Wen Ran went to line up to buy tickets, which cost 280 yuan a ticket.
Before it was Wen Ran's turn, he heard Meng Miandong beside him say: "The tickets are too expensive, let's not go in."
He looked at Meng Miandong, and said softly: "I want to go in, can you go in with me?"
"You..." Meng Miandong originally wanted to say that you should go by yourself, but still couldn't resist the temptation of Sea World, "Okay, I'll go in with you."
After about 3 minutes, Wen Ran bought the tickets, they checked the tickets, and the more they walked towards Ocean Park, the more children were holding balloons inside, among them Meng Miandong was the oldest, but Wen Ran felt that Meng Mian Dong has the same expression on his face as other children.
It's great to be able to arrive in this world when Meng Miandong was still 16 years old this time.
Walking into the Ocean Park, there are various jellyfish first, then sharks after the jellyfish, then sea lions after the sharks, and the undersea tunnel after the sea lions.
As soon as they entered the subsea tunnel, they were immediately surrounded by various marine animals.
Meng Miandong excitedly looked to the left and then to the right, feeling that one pair of eyes was not enough.
There are not many tourists in the submarine tunnel now, so Wen Ran stopped and said to Meng Miandong: "Take your time, we have enough time."
He suddenly remembered that he had not asked Meng Miandong's homeroom teacher for leave, so he asked Meng Miandong, "Do you know the phone number of the homeroom teacher?"
Meng Miandong reported a series of numbers to Wen Ran, and Wen Ran immediately called the head teacher.
It should be class time, but the head teacher didn't answer the phone. After half an hour, the head teacher called back: "Hello, who are you?"
Wen Ran lied: "I am Meng Miandong's elder brother, Miandong is not feeling well today, so I have to ask for a day off."
After hanging up the phone, Meng Miandong looked up at Wen Ran and said, "Wen Ran, how old are you?"
Wen Ran made an aggrieved look: "Could it be that I look very old?"
Meng Miandong denied, "You don't look old, and you look good."
My Sleeper compliments me on how good-looking I am.
Wen Ran smiled and said: "I am 25 years old."
Meng Miandong said in a narrative tone: "I am 16 years old. I am nine years older than you. You are the same age as my uncle."
uncle!
Wen Ran felt that he was hurt, but then he thought about it, uncle and nephew also have a different flavor.
He tried his best to suppress the unsuitable images that were about to pop into his mind, and said solemnly: "Then you can call me Uncle Wen from now on."
"Uncle Wen." Meng Miandong yelled, wrinkling his nose again, "It feels so strange, I'd better call you Wen Ran."
There is no chance for uncle and nephew to play.
Wen Ran was a little disappointed, but quickly cheered up. After all, "Wen Ran" is the correct name. Meng Miandong in every world used to call him "Wen Ran".
He smiled and said, "If you like to be called Wen Ran, let's call it Wen Ran."
Meng Miandong said repeatedly: "Wen Ran, Wen Ran, Wen Ran..."
The sound of "Wen Ran" made Wen Ran's heart so soft that he wanted to hold all the good things in the world to Meng Miandong with both hands.
When his love was almost overflowing, he heard his Miandong say again: "Wen Ran, can I hold your hand?"
He panicked for a moment: "Do you like to hold the left hand or the right hand?"
Meng Miandong said distressedly: "I want to hold my left hand, and I also want to hold my right hand. Can I hold my left hand first, and then my right hand?"
"Of course." Wen Ran stretched out his left hand, which was immediately held by Meng Miandong's right hand.
In order to hold his left hand, Meng Miandong switched the dolphin balloon to his left hand.
Because Meng Miandong's figure is too thin, the tightness of the sleeves of the school uniform originally covered all the gauze, but now the gauze is completely exposed.
Meng Miandong herself didn't care, but Wen Ran felt distressed.
Wen Ran wanted to say something, but didn't know what to say.
Meng Miandong looked at all kinds of marine life intently, while he focused on Meng Miandong.
In the real world, he has never seen Meng Miandong's 16-year-old appearance, only photos, and the 16-year-old Meng Miandong in the real world is not so thin at all.
Meng Miandong watched for over an hour before reluctantly leaving the undersea tunnel.
After exiting the undersea tunnel, it was the dolphin show. The time for the dolphin show had not come yet, so they found seats in the front row and sat down.
After a while, the dolphin show started.
Meng Miandong had never seen a dolphin show, and wanted to cheer, but found that he couldn't make a sound.
He has long been used to suppressing his feelings, because there is no one to share his joy, and no one to comfort his sorrow.
When the water was splashed by the dolphins and landed at his feet, he suddenly remembered that Wen Ran wanted him to be a child, act coquettishly, act shamelessly, and be naughty to his heart's content, children can cheer unscrupulously, right?
He opened his mouth, tried for a long time, and finally let out a cheer.
The pastry shop is more than an hour's drive from Sea World. Meng Miandong felt that the car was a little stuffy, so she asked Wen Ran embarrassedly, "How do I open the windows?"
Wen Ran realized that Meng Miandong hadn't been in a car before, so he pointed to a button on the door and said, "Just press it there."
Meng Miandong originally wanted to open the car window a little, but after he pressed it, the whole car window opened, and the outside wind blew in, making him a little dazed.
Wen Ran smiled: "Just press it lightly."
Meng Miandong nodded, closed all the car windows, and pressed it lightly again, and the car windows only came down a little.
"Miandong is so smart." Wen Ran sincerely praised, but Meng Miandong asked: "Does doing such a simple thing make you smart?"
Wen Ran said helplessly: "Mian Dong, wouldn't it be good to accept the compliment frankly?"
No one has ever praised Meng Miandong except the teachers of various subjects. When Wen Ran said this, he said indifferently: "It is indeed a very simple thing, and it is not worthy of praise, just like the teacher praised me for my good academic performance."
Taking advantage of the red light, Wen Ran rubbed Meng Miandong's hair and said, "Learn to accept other people's praise and get satisfaction from it."
Meng Miandong was puzzled and said, "I don't understand what you mean. Why do you feel satisfied when things that are not worthy of praise are praised?"
In order to please his parents, sister and relatives, Meng Miandong has always asked himself to do his best, but no one has praised him at all, so that the current thinking logic has been formed.
And one of the clinical symptoms of borderline personality disorder is self-identity disorder, lack of self-goal and self-worth.
Wen Ran understood that this could not be corrected in a short while, and sighed: "For you, it may not be something worthy of praise, but for the person who praises you, it is something worthy of praise. From the point of view of performance , your grades are better than other students, if other students have achieved your grades, do you think they deserve to be praised?"
"But it's impossible for them to achieve my results." Meng Miandong thought hard, "If they achieve my results, they should be praised, right? After all, there is a big gap between my results and theirs."
Wen Ran asked: "Your achievements are worthy of praise when placed on them, why are they not worthy of praise when placed on you?"
Meng Miandong replied without thinking: "Because this is what I should achieve."
Wen Ran shook his head and said: "There is nothing you deserve, you should be praised for your hard work."
"But..." Meng Miandong instinctively wanted to refute, but he didn't know how to refute, so he said after a while, "I didn't try too hard."
Wen Ran sternly said: "You are very smart, but you can't understand everything without learning anything. You study harder than others, but you also work hard. If you feel that your efforts are not worthy of praise, just act like you Make an effort that you think is worthy of praise.”
Meng Miandong said blankly: "I don't think I deserve praise no matter what I do, because I am a worthless person, and everything I do is superfluous and meaningless."
Wen Ran said seriously: "I said before that you are a very valuable person to me, if you think that you are worthless again, I will..."
Before he finished speaking, Meng Miandong covered his ears in horror: "I didn't hear it, I didn't hear it..."
Apparently Meng Miandong thought he was going to say "I will abandon you", so he used one hand to control the steering wheel, freed his right hand, and carefully pushed Meng Miandong's left hand away: "If you think you are worthless again I won’t give you any pastries I made.”
Meng Miandong stared at Wen Ran with wide eyes and said, "Didn't you change your words on purpose?"
Wen Ran put his right hand back on the steering wheel, and said with a smile: "Why did I change my words on purpose? That's what I intended to say."
Meng Miandong breathed a sigh of relief: "Yeah, I will be obedient, and I will no longer think that I am worthless."
But he said in his heart: I am a worthless person.
Meng Miandong is really not good at hiding his thoughts, Wen Ran easily sees self-deprecation from Meng Miandong's eyes.
But he didn't say anything, pretending to believe Meng Miandong's lies.
After he drove the car to Ocean Park and got out of the car, he opened the car door for Meng Miandong again, then went to a balloon vendor and bought a balloon in the shape of a dolphin.
He handed the dolphin balloon to Meng Miandong and said, "Miandong was very good just now, this dolphin balloon should be used as a reward."
No one has ever bought balloons for Meng Miandong. When he was a child, Meng Miandong wanted balloons very much, but he dared not say it because he was afraid of being rejected. When he grew up, he no longer wanted balloons. When the balloon came, his first reaction was: "I'm not a kid anymore, I'm going to be an adult soon."
But at the same time, his eye sockets were slightly red. He lowered his head, wiped his eyes, and took the balloon as if nothing had happened.
Wen Ran went to line up to buy tickets, which cost 280 yuan a ticket.
Before it was Wen Ran's turn, he heard Meng Miandong beside him say: "The tickets are too expensive, let's not go in."
He looked at Meng Miandong, and said softly: "I want to go in, can you go in with me?"
"You..." Meng Miandong originally wanted to say that you should go by yourself, but still couldn't resist the temptation of Sea World, "Okay, I'll go in with you."
After about 3 minutes, Wen Ran bought the tickets, they checked the tickets, and the more they walked towards Ocean Park, the more children were holding balloons inside, among them Meng Miandong was the oldest, but Wen Ran felt that Meng Mian Dong has the same expression on his face as other children.
It's great to be able to arrive in this world when Meng Miandong was still 16 years old this time.
Walking into the Ocean Park, there are various jellyfish first, then sharks after the jellyfish, then sea lions after the sharks, and the undersea tunnel after the sea lions.
As soon as they entered the subsea tunnel, they were immediately surrounded by various marine animals.
Meng Miandong excitedly looked to the left and then to the right, feeling that one pair of eyes was not enough.
There are not many tourists in the submarine tunnel now, so Wen Ran stopped and said to Meng Miandong: "Take your time, we have enough time."
He suddenly remembered that he had not asked Meng Miandong's homeroom teacher for leave, so he asked Meng Miandong, "Do you know the phone number of the homeroom teacher?"
Meng Miandong reported a series of numbers to Wen Ran, and Wen Ran immediately called the head teacher.
It should be class time, but the head teacher didn't answer the phone. After half an hour, the head teacher called back: "Hello, who are you?"
Wen Ran lied: "I am Meng Miandong's elder brother, Miandong is not feeling well today, so I have to ask for a day off."
After hanging up the phone, Meng Miandong looked up at Wen Ran and said, "Wen Ran, how old are you?"
Wen Ran made an aggrieved look: "Could it be that I look very old?"
Meng Miandong denied, "You don't look old, and you look good."
My Sleeper compliments me on how good-looking I am.
Wen Ran smiled and said: "I am 25 years old."
Meng Miandong said in a narrative tone: "I am 16 years old. I am nine years older than you. You are the same age as my uncle."
uncle!
Wen Ran felt that he was hurt, but then he thought about it, uncle and nephew also have a different flavor.
He tried his best to suppress the unsuitable images that were about to pop into his mind, and said solemnly: "Then you can call me Uncle Wen from now on."
"Uncle Wen." Meng Miandong yelled, wrinkling his nose again, "It feels so strange, I'd better call you Wen Ran."
There is no chance for uncle and nephew to play.
Wen Ran was a little disappointed, but quickly cheered up. After all, "Wen Ran" is the correct name. Meng Miandong in every world used to call him "Wen Ran".
He smiled and said, "If you like to be called Wen Ran, let's call it Wen Ran."
Meng Miandong said repeatedly: "Wen Ran, Wen Ran, Wen Ran..."
The sound of "Wen Ran" made Wen Ran's heart so soft that he wanted to hold all the good things in the world to Meng Miandong with both hands.
When his love was almost overflowing, he heard his Miandong say again: "Wen Ran, can I hold your hand?"
He panicked for a moment: "Do you like to hold the left hand or the right hand?"
Meng Miandong said distressedly: "I want to hold my left hand, and I also want to hold my right hand. Can I hold my left hand first, and then my right hand?"
"Of course." Wen Ran stretched out his left hand, which was immediately held by Meng Miandong's right hand.
In order to hold his left hand, Meng Miandong switched the dolphin balloon to his left hand.
Because Meng Miandong's figure is too thin, the tightness of the sleeves of the school uniform originally covered all the gauze, but now the gauze is completely exposed.
Meng Miandong herself didn't care, but Wen Ran felt distressed.
Wen Ran wanted to say something, but didn't know what to say.
Meng Miandong looked at all kinds of marine life intently, while he focused on Meng Miandong.
In the real world, he has never seen Meng Miandong's 16-year-old appearance, only photos, and the 16-year-old Meng Miandong in the real world is not so thin at all.
Meng Miandong watched for over an hour before reluctantly leaving the undersea tunnel.
After exiting the undersea tunnel, it was the dolphin show. The time for the dolphin show had not come yet, so they found seats in the front row and sat down.
After a while, the dolphin show started.
Meng Miandong had never seen a dolphin show, and wanted to cheer, but found that he couldn't make a sound.
He has long been used to suppressing his feelings, because there is no one to share his joy, and no one to comfort his sorrow.
When the water was splashed by the dolphins and landed at his feet, he suddenly remembered that Wen Ran wanted him to be a child, act coquettishly, act shamelessly, and be naughty to his heart's content, children can cheer unscrupulously, right?
He opened his mouth, tried for a long time, and finally let out a cheer.
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