Modern Little Town God

Today is different from ancient times, and the marriage relationship is also different.

In ancient times, there was a very strict procedure for getting married, with three media and six certificates, etc., but now it is rare to get married in Western or Chinese style, and it is rare to really follow the complete set of procedures in the ancient ceremony... and the most important thing is to pray to heaven and earth, As long as you worship heaven and earth, you will use heaven and earth as evidence, register your relationship with heaven and earth, and write a marriage letter, which means that this relationship will be dead, and this marriage letter will be used as evidence.

Marriage relationship that does not worship heaven and earth, if the underworld is still there, there are officials, humanized, both parties will recognize the husband and wife relationship after death; but the underworld is gone, then the law protects the relationship between husband and wife when alive, and after death they are ghosts, heaven and earth are "see "Unable to—unless the relationship between the husband and wife is so deep that the marriage line is constantly being pulled, the kind that is destined for two lives, or destined for three lives, otherwise, they will basically recover their freedom after death.

In the current situation, when Liang Liwan and her husband got married, they not only held a Western-style wedding - who cares about your foreigners? ——Strictly followed the ancient etiquette, and she was still the type of wife who bowed her head everywhere. In this way, the world is a witness, and it is concluded that in this relationship, the wife belongs to the husband's family, that is, her husband and her parents-in-law follow Like her parents, she is qualified to sell her to that big ghost as a concubine.

Han Zhuang had the same idea as Ruan Jiao, so he carefully asked the Liang family, how Liang Liwan and her husband met, the general situation after marriage, the situation of her in-law's family, and so on.

Seeing Han Zhuang's solemn expression, the Liang family didn't ask any more questions, but recalled each other's memories and pieced together the general details.

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Liang Liwan's husband is Luo Hao. He comes from an ordinary family but not very poor. He is a well-to-do family in an eighteenth-tier city. He has studied all the way from the county and town, and has excellent grades for many years.

The two met because Luo Hao worked in the Liang family's company, and was gradually promoted to become a management team because of his outstanding business, while Liang Liwan started training from the grassroots level, and later joined a project team with Luo Hao. They were in love for a long time, and then they got married after five years of dating.

The Liang family is very wealthy and has a company group that involves many industries. Liang Liwan has an elder brother Liang Decai who is [-] years older than her. He has already taken over the family business and loves Liang Liwan very much.It can be said that Liang Liwan is the real Bai Fumei, not only because of her good family background, but also her own qualities and abilities are not low.

For Liang Liwan, the Liang family didn't intend to marry her, so when they found out that she was in a relationship with a very motivated and capable young man in the company, after investigating for a while, they felt that there were no problems in all aspects, so they agreed to their relationship. In the later marriage, Luo Hao was also very considerate and considerate to Liang Liwan. , but because the professional ability is not as good as Luo Hao, it has not been able to become a big climate.

As for Luo Hao's family, they are a pair of ordinary office workers, one of the common people.Luo Hao said that their only son had been raised with all his efforts since he was a child. The couple were very happy that Luo Hao was able to marry Bai Fumei, but they didn't act too much, and their attitude towards Liang Liwan was normal.

At that time, the Liang family felt that there was nothing wrong with the motivated children raised by such a family, and those who were worse than those from a better family background were just a chance, and they might even be more capable.

As for the wedding ceremony, Luo Hao has no objection to Liang Liwan's desire to wear a wedding dress and hold a western-style wedding. He originally wanted to hold it himself, but later he didn't want to wrong Liang Liwan to accommodate his financial resources, so he didn't refuse the hosting of Liang Liwan's family, so more people gossiped about it .And their husband and wife relationship is not a marriage between a man and a woman or a marriage between a man and a wife, but the "two come and two go", an equal relationship that is very popular now, and even Liang Liwan and Luo Hao have agreed to have two children after marriage. The surname is Luo Hao, and the second is Liang Liwan, regardless of gender.

Therefore, Luo Hao was wronged because of the wedding. Of course Liang Liwan felt sorry for him, so she decided to "marry" him in the other party's hometown. Liang Liwan checked the wedding process, and Luo Hao also watched some. I mentioned that you don't need to do this deliberately.It's just that Liang Liwan was also moved, so she persisted even more.

And the Liang family didn't care much about the attitude of the ancient chapel. After all, they also knew that Luo Hao, a capable person, was always said to be attached to him, which made him a little uncomfortable. Liang Liwan seemed to bow her head because of him, but it was actually nothing The big deal is for the two to be more harmonious after they get married.

It turned out that Luo Hao was very considerate to Liang Liwan, and lived happily for several years. He was not even in a hurry to let Liang Liwan have a baby. His family mentioned it at the beginning, but after Luo Hao persuaded him, he stopped talking. Respect for husband and wife two opinions.

Such a person, such a family, such a marriage, of course, the Liang family has nothing to dissatisfy.

It's a pity that Luo Hao worked too hard for work, and it didn't take long for him to die from a heart attack. Liang Liwan didn't even have time to react. She lost her loving husband when she was only in her 30s, and she was also sad for many days.

Luo Hao's parents were also in pain, but they did not vent their anger on Liang Liwan, but set up a mourning hall together with Liang Liwan.It's just that they are old after all, and they also fell ill after the first seven days. Later, Liang Liwan asked them to take good care of their bodies, and they couldn't stay up for a long time, so they still came here from time to time...

Now, the Luo family and his wife live in the house that Luo Hao bought in the urban area. The villa that Liang Liwan lives in now was bought by the husband and wife for vacation together. They usually only come here during the vacation, and they have the best memories of the couple.

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When Han Zhuang heard this, he didn't hear anything wrong from the beginning to the end. It seemed to be a very happy marriage, and the man's family was not ignorant... Assuming that Luo Hao's parents lost their son too painfully, they wanted to If the daughter-in-law goes to accompany her son, it is possible to find a way to kill Liang Liwan. If she sells Liang Liwan to be a ghost concubine, isn't that cuckolding her son?But if it is said that the man did it himself, what is the reason?He had such a good relationship with Liang Liwan during his lifetime, and Liang Liwan even burned a large amount of money as sacrifices to him, just because he was afraid that he would have a bad life underground, so he wouldn't cuckold himself after death, right?In addition, not everyone will stay in this world after death... the first seven days have passed, is he still there?

At this point, it seems to be at an impasse again.

Ruan Jiao sneered a little.

This person, what kind of face he looks like, may not be able to tell when everything is peaceful. The whole story sounds like nothing wrong, but he compares his heart with his own heart-if he marries a wife who is much stronger than himself, he will not marry him. You must be mentally prepared, and there is no need for the other party to deliberately lower himself to make up for his self-esteem, because he loves the other party, and even if the other party insists, he will never engage in any ceremony.Besides, even if this ceremony is really performed, how can he be willing to bow his head for himself to the other party's proud daughter?

Even if there are quite a lot of ancient etiquette rules, it doesn't have to be followed in every process, right?There are subtle differences in the process in different places.

The fact that the bride is not allowed to go down to the ground, picking up the hijab and beating the bride's head are actually very trivial, not a particularly important part, the real decision of the family status is the time of worship.

Ruan Jiao thought, for example, when a husband and wife are praying to each other, the person you love is willing to lower yourself for your face. When you see the top of the other person's head, you will be moved... If you are really moved, you will bow down. Is it time to let the lover be a little shorter than yourself, or to bend down deeply and be on the same level as the lover?

This step of worship is the most important step, and it is also when you are "looking" from the sky and the earth. If the husband and wife are about the same height when they pray to each other, then using ancient rituals and writing a marriage letter is nothing, and the status of husband and wife is equal.There will be no such thing as the man or the man's family being able to sell Liang Liwan as a concubine.

Therefore, Luo Hao really felt that he had hurt his self-esteem and been wronged in this matter, so in the end he still followed the ancient chapel where males are superior to females.Subconsciously, doesn't he just hope that he is taller?

And this point, Liang Liwan fell in love and didn't know it, the Liang family must have seen it, otherwise the ancient ceremony would not be necessary.In the final analysis, there is still a little "disharmony" that requires "more harmony".