Husband and Father Youwei
Chapter 44 Preparing for the Wedding
After successfully proposing to Ruan Tang, Tu Lin almost wished that he could immediately pay homage to Ruan Tang in the bridal chamber and cook raw rice into rice porridge. However, although he had never been married in two lifetimes, he also knew that getting married could not be accomplished overnight. , and this happened once in a lifetime, he didn't want to be too hasty, so suppressed his urgency, and went to find Tu Xinmei.
Tu Xinmei was still worried about the 100 taels of silver that Tu Lin lent to the Song family at home. Although the Song family had written an IOU for Tu Lin, given the current situation of the Song family, it is likely that they will not come back in ten or eight years. , It is no different from throwing in vain.
If Tu Lin was a big landlord, it would be fine if he had a family property of 800 taels, but now Tu Lin has no room and no land, and only the 100 taels of silver, so Tu Lin said his plan at the beginning Finally, Tu Xinmei disagreed at that time.
But Tu Lin looked gentle and good-tempered, but inside he was stubborn. As long as he made up his mind, it would be useless for anyone to say, and Tu Xinmei was the same.Although Tu Xinmei opposed Tu Lin at first, after hearing Tu Lin say that he did this for Ruan Tang, she finally agreed.
Regarding Tu Lin's thoughts on Ruan Tang, Tu Xinmei had already noticed it when Tu Lin came to see her for the first time after he recovered from his illness. Later, Tu Lin's family moved to Ruan's house, and Ruan Tang agreed. She was already sure, and she was actually happy to see it happen.
Although Tu Lin has a child now, he is still young, and he will still have to marry a wife sooner or later. Instead of marrying an outsider he doesn't know, it's better to be with Ruan Tang, who has been with him for five years and knows everything. Tang is good, they all know it all too well.
It's just that she thought that Ruan Tang agreed with Tu Lin to move into Ruan's house because she was willing to live with Tu Lin, but she didn't expect that it was just that Ruan Tang was kind and let Tu Lin stay with him. Ruan Tang hadn't decided whether to live with Tu Lin at all Lin good.
Therefore, although Tu Xinmei felt sorry for the 100 taels of silver, in order to help Tu Lin keep Ruan Tang, she gritted her teeth and admitted it. In the end, Tu Lin ended up fetching water from a bamboo basket in vain.
Tu Xinmei looked forward and hoped, and then she looked forward to Tu Lin, looking forward to Ruan Tang to accept the news of Tu Lin's marriage proposal.When Tu Lin heard that Ruan Tang agreed, Tu Xinmei was as surprised as Tu Lin was at that time, she jumped up from her chair happily, and she didn't know what to say. .
When Tu Lin came to Tu Xinmei, besides telling her the good news that he was going to marry Ruan Tang, he also wanted to ask Tu Xinmei what the wedding procedure was, what to do, and what he needed to prepare.
Ordinary women would probably not know it, but Tu Xinmei has been married for many years, and she has participated in many wedding banquets of her own and other people's. Naturally, she knows it all too well. It's just how Tu Lin and Ruan Tang's wedding will be handled. The two discuss it by themselves.So Tu Xinmei and
Tu Lin returned to Ruan's house again, and explained in detail to Tu Lin and Ruan Tang who seemed a little embarrassed after knowing her intentions.
Marriage in this era is complicated and complicated, and simple and simple. Generally speaking, there are six ceremonies in total: acceptance, name asking, Najib, asking for a date, and welcoming in person.But the people in the country are not so well-mannered. Generally, they are optimistic about each other, and then discuss the dowry and betrothal gifts.
After that, it's just a matter of writing the marriage letter, picking a good day to get married and welcoming the bride.
But when it came to Tu Lin and Ruan Tang, because they were already in the Ruan family now, they decided to stay in the Ruan family in the future, so it was a little different from other village marriages.It seems that there is definitely no need for it. As for the dowry gift and so on, the two of them are not ordinary men and women getting married, so they are also exempted, and the horoscope is even more unnecessary.
Tu Lin has already confirmed Ruan Tang, and the two people's horoscopes cannot be changed, so there is no need. Ruan Tang and Tu Xinmei have no objection to this.
As for the marriage certificate, this is equivalent to the marriage certificate here, which is a must.In the end, Ruan Tang and Tu Lin agreed that the previous steps were omitted except for the marriage certificate, and they just chose a good day to hold the worship ceremony. As for the choice of the day, the two of them asked I found Tu Xinmei, and asked her to help find someone who could calculate the calendar, and choose an auspicious day, and Tu Lin and Ruan Tang would write the marriage letter by themselves.
Everything was negotiated, and Tu Xinmei planned to leave immediately to find someone to count the days, but at this time Tu Lin avoided Ruan Tang, and quietly told Tu Xinmei that she must choose the nearest and fastest day. Although Tu Xinmei thought it was a little funny, it was understandable, as long as Tu Lin was relieved.
After sending Tu Xinmei away, Tu Lin and Ruan Tang were not idle either. They went out together, but went to the home of the village head, Sun Jinlai.Now that Tu Lin and Tu An's household registrations are still at the Tu family in Lijiagou, it's time to move out, but for the matter of settling in Zhuxi Village, they have to find Lizheng who is in charge of Zhuxi Village through the village head Sun Jin.
Because Sun Jinlai, the village head, helped to discuss the cooperation guarantee, the settlement of Tu Lin and Tu An in Zhuxi Village was resolved smoothly without any twists and turns.However, although Ruan Tang disagreed with Tu Lin's joining the Ruan family, because Tu Lin didn't have real estate in Zhuxi Village, his household registration could not be settled in Zhuxi Village alone.
In the end, in order to save trouble, Tu Lin and Tu An's household registrations were still written under the Ruan family's name. Although outsiders did not know this, Tu Lin was equivalent to being married.
After the household registration was completed, even though he hadn't formally worshiped the hall, Tu Lin had already obtained great stability and satisfaction in his heart, because his long-cherished expectation finally came true, and Ruan Tang finally became a real family with him.
The preparations for the marriage were still going on, because neither Tu Xinmei, nor Tu Lin and Ruan Tang could hide this matter, so the news that the two of them were going to get married quickly spread throughout Zhuxi Village.But except for Tu Xinmei's family, and Sun Jinlai, the village head who only knew that Ruan Tang's household registration was still in Zhuxi Village because of Tu Lin's settlement, the rest of the people in the village were at a loss. They didn't know if Tu Lin and Ruan Tang were married. Well, why do you want to get married again?
Regarding this, Tu Lin wanted to tell the truth, saying that Ruan Tang's marriage to Tu's family was actually a fake at the beginning, and they had nothing to do with each other, but Ruan Tang felt that it was unnecessary, and he didn't want to provoke more discussion .Therefore, Tu Lin could only say that because he was still ill, he was unable to formally worship with Ruan Tang, nor did he have a wedding banquet. He felt wronged by Ruan Tang, so he decided to make up for it.
Everyone in Zhuxi Village could understand this explanation, and at the same time felt that Tu Lin was kind and righteous, and he did not disappoint Ruan Tang, and Ruan Tang did not marry the wrong person after all.
At this time, the conflict between Tu Lin and the village head Li Chengxiang and many Lijiagou villagers in Lijiagou had already spread to Zhuxi Village, but because Tu Xinmei and Ruan Tang helped Tu Lin to speak, and Tu Lin was always amicable In addition, Tu Lin started a business with the Zhou family in the county seat, and he seemed to be very capable, so the villagers did not reject Tu Lin, but were very kind to him.
Therefore, they all congratulated Tu Lin and Ruan Tang on their marriage, and when Tu Lin invited them to the wedding banquet, they immediately agreed, expressing that they would definitely go to have a glass of wedding wine at that time.
During this period, Tu Xinmei also asked Tu Lin and Ruan Tang for the most auspicious day for getting married, and indeed, as Tu Lin hoped, the date was very close, just seven days later, and what's more coincident, that day also happened to be It was the day when Tu An had studied in Chongwen College for a full month and announced the results of the examination.
Fortunately, the college announced the results in the morning, and the auspicious time that Tu Xinmei found someone to calculate was at [-] o'clock in the evening, and the wedding banquet was after the worship, so there was no conflict, so there was no need to change it.
Seeing that the wedding date was getting closer and closer, Tu Lin felt a little unspeakably nervous for some reason.Every day, he would look through the red wedding candles, the red wedding characters, the red curtains and bedding embroidered with auspicious patterns such as dragon and phoenix, lotus flowers and other auspicious patterns, for fear that he might miss something. Every time he saw it, he couldn't help being happy again.After such a day, he didn't feel bored at all, but Ruan Tang, who saw his appearance in his eyes, couldn't help laughing.
Soon, six days passed, and the day before the official wedding, the furniture ordered from the carpentry shop arrived as scheduled.
The original furniture of the Ruan family was not much, and although they were still usable, they were all very old, so Tu Lin decided to replace them with new ones, and there were only three of them around, and it didn't cost much money, and Ruan Tang didn't need much money. No comments.
The next day was the day to get married, so Tu Lin got up early in the morning, and then, together with Ruan Tang, accompanied Tu An to Chongwen Academy, waiting for the results of Tu An's test.
Tu Lin knew that Chongwen Academy was not easy to enter, but he didn't want to put too much pressure on Tu An, so he never asked him anything strictly. He actually has no idea in his heart.
It would be best if he passed, but if he failed, he had to think about how to comfort the child.Just as he was thinking wildly, he saw a familiar young man from the academy suddenly come out. It was actually Cheng Fu who picked them up when they came to the academy to sign up.
Cheng Fu also saw them, and even remembered them. He nodded slightly to them, and Tu Lin nodded with a smile. Then he saw Cheng Fu holding a list in his hand and began to read their names.
The list is not too long, and Cheng Fu only read seven or eight names, but Tu Lin could hear clearly that Tu An was among them, and he couldn't help being overjoyed, and the next moment, he heard Cheng Fu say: "The above is the result of passing the test. Students who can continue to stay in the college, but those whose names are not read can leave the college with their families."
As soon as Cheng Fu said this, some people in the group of Tu Lin and the others were happy and some were sad, and Tu Lin and the others were naturally the few happy people, but when they heard the cries of children around them, Tu Lin didn't behave well. It was too much, so he rubbed Tu An's head and gave him a thumbs up.Tu An knew that this gesture, which Tu Lin had taught him, meant very powerful, so he couldn't help smiling shyly.
Because formal students are different from probationary students, Guang Guangxiu has suddenly become a lot higher, but Tu Lin is not reluctant, after all, no matter how hard it is, you can't suffer children, no matter how poor you are, you can't have poor education, and you are in this class It is clear that in an era where it is believed that all things are inferior and only reading is high, and Tu An is a little twin, reading is probably the best way out.
After making friends with Shu Xiu, and following Cheng Fu to see Tu An's new classroom, Tu Lin and the others planned to leave. They didn't want to walk outside, but they ran into two more acquaintances.
Tu Xinmei was still worried about the 100 taels of silver that Tu Lin lent to the Song family at home. Although the Song family had written an IOU for Tu Lin, given the current situation of the Song family, it is likely that they will not come back in ten or eight years. , It is no different from throwing in vain.
If Tu Lin was a big landlord, it would be fine if he had a family property of 800 taels, but now Tu Lin has no room and no land, and only the 100 taels of silver, so Tu Lin said his plan at the beginning Finally, Tu Xinmei disagreed at that time.
But Tu Lin looked gentle and good-tempered, but inside he was stubborn. As long as he made up his mind, it would be useless for anyone to say, and Tu Xinmei was the same.Although Tu Xinmei opposed Tu Lin at first, after hearing Tu Lin say that he did this for Ruan Tang, she finally agreed.
Regarding Tu Lin's thoughts on Ruan Tang, Tu Xinmei had already noticed it when Tu Lin came to see her for the first time after he recovered from his illness. Later, Tu Lin's family moved to Ruan's house, and Ruan Tang agreed. She was already sure, and she was actually happy to see it happen.
Although Tu Lin has a child now, he is still young, and he will still have to marry a wife sooner or later. Instead of marrying an outsider he doesn't know, it's better to be with Ruan Tang, who has been with him for five years and knows everything. Tang is good, they all know it all too well.
It's just that she thought that Ruan Tang agreed with Tu Lin to move into Ruan's house because she was willing to live with Tu Lin, but she didn't expect that it was just that Ruan Tang was kind and let Tu Lin stay with him. Ruan Tang hadn't decided whether to live with Tu Lin at all Lin good.
Therefore, although Tu Xinmei felt sorry for the 100 taels of silver, in order to help Tu Lin keep Ruan Tang, she gritted her teeth and admitted it. In the end, Tu Lin ended up fetching water from a bamboo basket in vain.
Tu Xinmei looked forward and hoped, and then she looked forward to Tu Lin, looking forward to Ruan Tang to accept the news of Tu Lin's marriage proposal.When Tu Lin heard that Ruan Tang agreed, Tu Xinmei was as surprised as Tu Lin was at that time, she jumped up from her chair happily, and she didn't know what to say. .
When Tu Lin came to Tu Xinmei, besides telling her the good news that he was going to marry Ruan Tang, he also wanted to ask Tu Xinmei what the wedding procedure was, what to do, and what he needed to prepare.
Ordinary women would probably not know it, but Tu Xinmei has been married for many years, and she has participated in many wedding banquets of her own and other people's. Naturally, she knows it all too well. It's just how Tu Lin and Ruan Tang's wedding will be handled. The two discuss it by themselves.So Tu Xinmei and
Tu Lin returned to Ruan's house again, and explained in detail to Tu Lin and Ruan Tang who seemed a little embarrassed after knowing her intentions.
Marriage in this era is complicated and complicated, and simple and simple. Generally speaking, there are six ceremonies in total: acceptance, name asking, Najib, asking for a date, and welcoming in person.But the people in the country are not so well-mannered. Generally, they are optimistic about each other, and then discuss the dowry and betrothal gifts.
After that, it's just a matter of writing the marriage letter, picking a good day to get married and welcoming the bride.
But when it came to Tu Lin and Ruan Tang, because they were already in the Ruan family now, they decided to stay in the Ruan family in the future, so it was a little different from other village marriages.It seems that there is definitely no need for it. As for the dowry gift and so on, the two of them are not ordinary men and women getting married, so they are also exempted, and the horoscope is even more unnecessary.
Tu Lin has already confirmed Ruan Tang, and the two people's horoscopes cannot be changed, so there is no need. Ruan Tang and Tu Xinmei have no objection to this.
As for the marriage certificate, this is equivalent to the marriage certificate here, which is a must.In the end, Ruan Tang and Tu Lin agreed that the previous steps were omitted except for the marriage certificate, and they just chose a good day to hold the worship ceremony. As for the choice of the day, the two of them asked I found Tu Xinmei, and asked her to help find someone who could calculate the calendar, and choose an auspicious day, and Tu Lin and Ruan Tang would write the marriage letter by themselves.
Everything was negotiated, and Tu Xinmei planned to leave immediately to find someone to count the days, but at this time Tu Lin avoided Ruan Tang, and quietly told Tu Xinmei that she must choose the nearest and fastest day. Although Tu Xinmei thought it was a little funny, it was understandable, as long as Tu Lin was relieved.
After sending Tu Xinmei away, Tu Lin and Ruan Tang were not idle either. They went out together, but went to the home of the village head, Sun Jinlai.Now that Tu Lin and Tu An's household registrations are still at the Tu family in Lijiagou, it's time to move out, but for the matter of settling in Zhuxi Village, they have to find Lizheng who is in charge of Zhuxi Village through the village head Sun Jin.
Because Sun Jinlai, the village head, helped to discuss the cooperation guarantee, the settlement of Tu Lin and Tu An in Zhuxi Village was resolved smoothly without any twists and turns.However, although Ruan Tang disagreed with Tu Lin's joining the Ruan family, because Tu Lin didn't have real estate in Zhuxi Village, his household registration could not be settled in Zhuxi Village alone.
In the end, in order to save trouble, Tu Lin and Tu An's household registrations were still written under the Ruan family's name. Although outsiders did not know this, Tu Lin was equivalent to being married.
After the household registration was completed, even though he hadn't formally worshiped the hall, Tu Lin had already obtained great stability and satisfaction in his heart, because his long-cherished expectation finally came true, and Ruan Tang finally became a real family with him.
The preparations for the marriage were still going on, because neither Tu Xinmei, nor Tu Lin and Ruan Tang could hide this matter, so the news that the two of them were going to get married quickly spread throughout Zhuxi Village.But except for Tu Xinmei's family, and Sun Jinlai, the village head who only knew that Ruan Tang's household registration was still in Zhuxi Village because of Tu Lin's settlement, the rest of the people in the village were at a loss. They didn't know if Tu Lin and Ruan Tang were married. Well, why do you want to get married again?
Regarding this, Tu Lin wanted to tell the truth, saying that Ruan Tang's marriage to Tu's family was actually a fake at the beginning, and they had nothing to do with each other, but Ruan Tang felt that it was unnecessary, and he didn't want to provoke more discussion .Therefore, Tu Lin could only say that because he was still ill, he was unable to formally worship with Ruan Tang, nor did he have a wedding banquet. He felt wronged by Ruan Tang, so he decided to make up for it.
Everyone in Zhuxi Village could understand this explanation, and at the same time felt that Tu Lin was kind and righteous, and he did not disappoint Ruan Tang, and Ruan Tang did not marry the wrong person after all.
At this time, the conflict between Tu Lin and the village head Li Chengxiang and many Lijiagou villagers in Lijiagou had already spread to Zhuxi Village, but because Tu Xinmei and Ruan Tang helped Tu Lin to speak, and Tu Lin was always amicable In addition, Tu Lin started a business with the Zhou family in the county seat, and he seemed to be very capable, so the villagers did not reject Tu Lin, but were very kind to him.
Therefore, they all congratulated Tu Lin and Ruan Tang on their marriage, and when Tu Lin invited them to the wedding banquet, they immediately agreed, expressing that they would definitely go to have a glass of wedding wine at that time.
During this period, Tu Xinmei also asked Tu Lin and Ruan Tang for the most auspicious day for getting married, and indeed, as Tu Lin hoped, the date was very close, just seven days later, and what's more coincident, that day also happened to be It was the day when Tu An had studied in Chongwen College for a full month and announced the results of the examination.
Fortunately, the college announced the results in the morning, and the auspicious time that Tu Xinmei found someone to calculate was at [-] o'clock in the evening, and the wedding banquet was after the worship, so there was no conflict, so there was no need to change it.
Seeing that the wedding date was getting closer and closer, Tu Lin felt a little unspeakably nervous for some reason.Every day, he would look through the red wedding candles, the red wedding characters, the red curtains and bedding embroidered with auspicious patterns such as dragon and phoenix, lotus flowers and other auspicious patterns, for fear that he might miss something. Every time he saw it, he couldn't help being happy again.After such a day, he didn't feel bored at all, but Ruan Tang, who saw his appearance in his eyes, couldn't help laughing.
Soon, six days passed, and the day before the official wedding, the furniture ordered from the carpentry shop arrived as scheduled.
The original furniture of the Ruan family was not much, and although they were still usable, they were all very old, so Tu Lin decided to replace them with new ones, and there were only three of them around, and it didn't cost much money, and Ruan Tang didn't need much money. No comments.
The next day was the day to get married, so Tu Lin got up early in the morning, and then, together with Ruan Tang, accompanied Tu An to Chongwen Academy, waiting for the results of Tu An's test.
Tu Lin knew that Chongwen Academy was not easy to enter, but he didn't want to put too much pressure on Tu An, so he never asked him anything strictly. He actually has no idea in his heart.
It would be best if he passed, but if he failed, he had to think about how to comfort the child.Just as he was thinking wildly, he saw a familiar young man from the academy suddenly come out. It was actually Cheng Fu who picked them up when they came to the academy to sign up.
Cheng Fu also saw them, and even remembered them. He nodded slightly to them, and Tu Lin nodded with a smile. Then he saw Cheng Fu holding a list in his hand and began to read their names.
The list is not too long, and Cheng Fu only read seven or eight names, but Tu Lin could hear clearly that Tu An was among them, and he couldn't help being overjoyed, and the next moment, he heard Cheng Fu say: "The above is the result of passing the test. Students who can continue to stay in the college, but those whose names are not read can leave the college with their families."
As soon as Cheng Fu said this, some people in the group of Tu Lin and the others were happy and some were sad, and Tu Lin and the others were naturally the few happy people, but when they heard the cries of children around them, Tu Lin didn't behave well. It was too much, so he rubbed Tu An's head and gave him a thumbs up.Tu An knew that this gesture, which Tu Lin had taught him, meant very powerful, so he couldn't help smiling shyly.
Because formal students are different from probationary students, Guang Guangxiu has suddenly become a lot higher, but Tu Lin is not reluctant, after all, no matter how hard it is, you can't suffer children, no matter how poor you are, you can't have poor education, and you are in this class It is clear that in an era where it is believed that all things are inferior and only reading is high, and Tu An is a little twin, reading is probably the best way out.
After making friends with Shu Xiu, and following Cheng Fu to see Tu An's new classroom, Tu Lin and the others planned to leave. They didn't want to walk outside, but they ran into two more acquaintances.
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