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Yu Wan hummed: "I'm not like Brother Wencai. What Yinghuan wants is to help each other and support each other for a lifetime. He can have his own hobbies, have his own opinions, and be independent. It doesn't matter even if he likes to be the master of the house. I like it." A woman is a woman who blooms brightly under the sun, rain and dew, and is by no means a wooden man who obeys the four virtues, blindly caters, and regards her husband as the sky."

Ma Wencai sneered: "Isn't that letting a woman ride on his head?"

Yu Wan looked at Ma Wencai seriously and said, "No, I don't think a wife should be thoughtless and blindly obey her husband and son-in-law. Just like a friend, brother Wencai prefers Wang Lantian and Qin Jingsheng who only know how to flatter and agree with you." Do you prefer me, a friend who treats you as an equal even though I quarrel with you from time to time?"

Ma Wencai was stunned for a moment, then scoffed, "Nonsense!"

Yu Wan stood up amusedly, rather shamelessly: "Whether it's unreasonable or not, Brother Wencai likes me more among all the students, doesn't he? This shows that sometimes it's not as good as someone who just obeys you and can communicate with you on an equal footing."

Ma Wen turned around smartly, walked to the desk and sat down, not wanting to pay attention to Yu Wan.Yu Wan rolled her eyes, stepped forward, poked Ma Wen carefully, and said with a smile: "Are you angry?"

Ma Wencai moved his shoulders, shook off Yu Wan's hand and hummed, "It's not speculative!"

Yu Wan turned to Ma Wencai and said with a smile, "Well! Then I'll just convince you!"

Ma Wencai looked at Yu Wan speechlessly for a long time, and after a long time, he smiled contemptuously: "Why should I ask you to convince me to agree with your point of view?"

"Because I'm your friend! When friends disagree, you have to persuade them to agree with you!" Yu Wan said nonsense without hesitation.

Ma Wencai turned his head and looked at Yu Wan with a sneer. "Well, I'll see how the eloquent Mr. Zhu can persuade me!"

Yu Wan didn't care about Ma Wencai's attitude, and walked to Ma Wencai's side and said happily.

"You think 'Three Obediences and Four Virtues' are the lifelong requirements for women from the Confucian ethics of "distinction between inside and outside" and "men are superior to women". In the code of conduct for women stipulated in Ban Zhao's Women's Precepts, "conformity" means to obey, follow, and obey , follow, etc. Women who are required to obey the three moral principles cannot be self-sufficient and independent, and must act according to their father's order, husband's order, and son's will, so as to be filial to the daughter, virtuous to the wife, and good to the mother. Isn't it?"

Ma Wencai rolled his eyes at Yu Wan: "Of course! So, you convinced me by telling me the disadvantages of 'Three Obediences and Four Virtues' for men."

"Don't worry," Yu Wan continued, "Brother Wen Cai thinks that all women are stupid and only obey men's orders?"

"Although not all women are stupid, most of them are." Ma Wencai said confidently: "I know you admire Xie Daoyun and others. Although I don't like her showing up as a woman, I have never denied that she is talented! Although women There are a few people who are as intelligent as men, but most women are born dependent on men, and they only focus on immediate self-interest and short-sightedness, otherwise how can there be women's opinions?"

Yu Wan smiled indifferently: "Brother Wencai also said that most women are born dependent on men. Why is this? Women can't be in politics, their physical strength is weaker than men, they can't show their faces and have no financial resources. In this era where men are superior to women, how many daughters are there?" Can you study and practice martial arts like a man?"

"What's more, even if you are talented and ambitious, how many people have a background like Mr. Xie and can participate in teaching and educating people? Do men really think that women don't have the ability to see? Then why is a good wife a husband and a child? ? If you don’t have the ability to see, how can you learn? How can you teach? It’s just that in the patriarchal era, you don’t want to admit that women’s wisdom is not inferior to your own.”

"Since Ban Zhao's book on women's precepts, the 'Three Obediences and Four Virtues' have made women dependent on men. They are just men's appendages and private property, like marionettes, with rules for every move, no thoughts, only obedience, women What is the precept? In my opinion, it is nothing more than the enslavement of women! In front of her husband, a wife is humble and needs to bow down and serve her.”

Ma Wencai tapped on the table, pondering for a long time, "What's wrong with a man who regards his husband first?"

"No, that's very good for men, at least most men will think it's good. The women's ring turns most women into the same look. They are attached to men from spirit to body. Every move in their hearts is only for their own husband and master, As long as his master needs it, he is on call, twelve hours a day, and prepares for his master's needs all the time. For a man, there is a good wife in the family who organizes the housework, is filial to his parents, and a man is in charge of the outside world. What's wrong with working hard to make progress? !"

Yu Wan looked at Ma Wencai's expression of approval before she smiled and said: "But the man is so happy and unfeeling, can he love his rigid wooden wife? The woman is married blindly under the orders of her parents and the matchmaker. Husbands with inconsistent personalities can only follow the women's precepts, and as time goes on, the husband and wife will naturally have different dreams in the same bed."

"The husband has to find something he likes, and the one he likes to be a concubine. As a good wife with three obediences and four virtues, she must happily help her husband to marry mistresses, mistresses, mistresses, mistresses, and mistresses. Sixth, after marrying into the husband's family, it is becoming more and more boring in the eyes of men to marry and follow the husband, so there is no saying, "A wife is worse than a concubine, a concubine is worse than a prostitute, a prostitute is worse than stealing, and stealing is worse than not being able to steal." Isn't it?"

"The wife has no choice but to help her husband marry the concubine Ji. The main wife has the right to be favored but not the concubine. What kind of methods does the man use to win over? Will the wife let those concubines have both pets and children?"

"Brother Wencai, think carefully about those concubines who are in groups. How many concubines are pregnant but never gave birth to the master's blood, and how many concubines who are restless in the house give birth to mixed blood! How many people have been disturbed by the so-called internal chaos? The gentry is falling apart, and the chaos in the inner house is just a dispute between wives and concubines, which will affect their own future and future generations!"

Yu Wan sighed: "But this kind of situation is only for those stern and intelligent women, those kind and gentle women who really follow the three obediences and four virtues. If they can't find a lover, and they can't be loved by their husbands, how can they live this day? Being ridiculed by her husband and son-in-law's concubine concubine Ji and concubine, she was under the female ring and couldn't show her face, had no source of income, and couldn't leave her home like a dragon's nest or a tiger's den. It is in this era that I can only hang three feet of white silk from the beam, hoping to end these sufferings. Therefore, in the eyes of others, this Ban Zhao is a perfect woman with talent and virtue, and a model for all women in the world, but in my opinion, She is just a pitiful and despicable woman, even a sinner who suppresses women to the lowest level. She loves her husband and family, and humbles herself to the dust, but she shouldn't have written this book of female precepts to make other women humble as well. into the dust."

I don't know what Yu Wan's words touched Ma Wencai, and he snorted after a long time: "I don't know that Mr. Zhu's family knows so much about the inner house. As far as I know, it seems that Mr. Zhu only has one wife, No concubine."

Yu Wan said without any taboos: "That is, my parents are loving husband and wife, and they love their children very much. It is difficult to have a stable home. If you follow the three obediences and four virtues, and hand over the Zhu family property to my father, it will take less than half a year. , I wish the family’s huge property will be dissipated, so I think the three obediences and four virtues are not a good thing. What’s more, the three obediences and four virtues are not good for the development of the country and the people.”

Ma Wencai cast a glance at Yu Wan, and said sarcastically, "Oh. This woman's three obediences and four virtues have risen above the people with you, but you can tell me that these three obediences and four virtues are not conducive to the development of the people."

Yu Wan smiled and said: "For men, marriage is just a legal procedure to carry on the family line and satisfy instinctive desires, while women are just a sad reproductive tool. They cannot freely choose their marriages. After accepting the female precepts, three obediences and four virtues, they will be gone. Independent personality, they have lost their ego and the right to be human, after all, they are just part of the property of their husband's family."

"Those women who are not loved by their husbands? Faced with the persecution, they can only swallow their misfortunes and continue their misfortunes. Their tragedies are ignored by many men. What can women do? Do you cry to God, sorry, I was born a woman, It's my fault, that's why I'm not allowed to be free in this life!"

"This is just the lack of the best part of human nature. As a man of seven feet, he can't face up to women, allowing them to succumb and struggle in the abyss of three obedience and four virtues. Gentleman, what is a gentleman? Benevolence, righteousness, propriety, wisdom and trust, imprison women in a deep house In the backyard, you impose your own happiness on women and treat them as reproductive machines, without respect or respect, how can there be compassion?!"

"Being loyal to people and being harsh on wives, 'Brothers are like siblings, women are like clothes' is really disgusting. Uncle Liu Huang, who has only one wife and never leaves her head, can say that the clothes are torn to such a person. , Why Laiyi!"

"Seniority and inferiority are orderly, there are rules in dealing with things, no crimes are committed, and human relations are not broken. Based on integrity, hair is respectful. The attitude of Zhaizhuang is righteous, and it is also polite. Treat women as private property and dig deep into the house. , like raising pigs, dogs and animals, heh, it is also worthy of etiquette to treat people like this!"

"Knowing right and wrong, right and wrong, right and wrong, true and false, that is, people have the heart of right and wrong, close study of literature and science, and wisdom. Let's say that Mr. Xie is famous for his talent and high quality. Why can't he be a teacher? Like Wang Lantian, where is the wisdom?"

Speaking of this, seeing Ma Wencai's suddenly cold and stern expression, Yu Wan remembered that he also opposed Xie Daoyun's first-class lectures before, so he changed the subject and said with a smile: "Furthermore, how did the Western Jin Dynasty perish? At the end of the Three Kingdoms struggle for hegemony, years of wars, men were exhausted and died, and the reason for the lack of military strength. What about women? Under the three obediences and four virtues, there are many illiterates, and they cannot protect their families and serve the country without their own opinions. So what if they are educated? Show your face and support your family? Husband and wife?! Barbarian women, riding horses to fight, can defend against the enemy outside, give advice, and win thousands of miles. Inside, they can manage the family and protect the young and old. If I am a Chinese woman, I am afraid that I will form an army of women to protect the family. The country is defended!"

"What's more, in the final analysis, the three obediences and four virtues of these women are actually the same as the three cardinal principles and five constant principles of men. It is just a kind of foolish policy carried out by the superiors to the people, so that the people can keep their own place and believe that the ruler is destined to be irreversible, so they will not resist the rule. That's all!"

"If it weren't for this, the two emperors of Hengling lost morality and lost their morality, and the people were in dire straits. When the oppression reached this point, Duke Cao wanted to 'coerce the emperor to make the princes', and Uncle Liu would still use the slogan of restoring orthodoxy? But after hundreds of years of enslavement, how is it? That's all! Chen Sheng and Wu Guang can still say, "The princes and generals are better than each other", and it is the destiny to come to us?! In my opinion, "There is no distinction between high and low. Common people can talk about nobleness, and princes can also be noble" Thieves.' The so-called gentry untouchables are just afraid of being overthrown!"

Ma Wencai's eyes widened, and he scolded angrily: "This is crazy, don't say too much!"

Yu Wan smiled: "Brother Wencai, don't be upset, how dare I tell others such deviant remarks? It's just Brother Wencai alone!"

Ma Wencai looked at Yu Wan in silence for a long time, and then said: "Seeing that you trust me quite a bit, I solemnly remind you that such nonsense words should not be told to outsiders. Didn't know how to die. I didn't hear about it today, and you never said anything."

Hearing this, Yu Wan couldn't help but smiled reassuringly: "Of course, thank you brother Wencai for worrying about me. Brother Wencai is like a bright moon, so he won't care about these things with me, so I can have no scruples."

Ma Wencai widened his eyes: "Just you, it's better to be more cautious, I will be worried, I'm just afraid that you will be implicated if you reveal such wild words!" Seeing Yu Wan laughing without saying a word, Feeling annoyed, she made the bed and fell asleep, but Yu Wan didn't say anything else, and turned to clear the couch.