healer love letter

Psychological counseling is not considered popular in China, and is considered a product of capitalism.Many people tend to confuse a psychological counselor with a psychiatrist. When they hear it, they are preconceived, and they associate unreasonable mental illness with psychological counseling in ignorance of the facts.

The reason why Liu Ying's mother was furious was that she was afraid of making her daughter a mental patient in the eyes of others.In fact, depression and anxiety may be encountered by everyone more or less, and it is often when life or work and study pressure are high.There are a lot of self-test psychological scales that can be used to search online, but after the test, there is only a dry number, and there is no strategy to teach people how to gradually change this status quo.Chicken soup for the soul is useless, it is just a tasteless regulator in an irritable life.

Li Ying had seen a speech before, in which a depressed patient talked about how he fought against depression and finally recovered.This speaker did not even dare to open the curtains at the beginning, but finally he was able to speak in front of everyone. He has put in a lot of hard work and hard work.One of the examples given by the speaker impressed him so much that he can't forget it until now.

The speaker said that if a cancer patient with only half a year to live suddenly fell in love with handstands, so he would insist on standing on his head for 10 minutes every morning, and these 10 minutes would make him feel happy, he would still die of cancer half a year later.But patients with depression are different. If a patient with depression thinks that standing on his head for 10 minutes every morning will make him feel happy, he will continue to do so every day. After half a year, he will gradually recover, and he will be able to socialize like a normal person and integrate into this world. society.

Mental illness can be cured.

But patients need to realize the seriousness of this problem and give themselves the chance to be cured.

The role of a psychological counselor can usually nip mental illness in the bud. Through targeted conversations and techniques, it can help visitors solve the psychological problems that plague them at the moment, so as not to step into the abyss of no return step by step.

The situation like Liu Ying is more complicated. She has the willingness to seek help, but her mother has become a solid wall in the middle.There may be two situations that she faces, one is gradually self-healing, by reading related books, seeking different methods to detoxify herself, or seeking a new point of interest, constantly seeking her own value in social interaction .The other is that the situation deteriorates, and one's behavior becomes more and more out of control, and finally embarks on a path of scars that cannot be turned back.

Outside the window, snowflakes like rice grains rustled down, and Li Ying's eyes were filled with thick fog.

"Okay, don't think about it." Gao Le comforted him. "You have to know that man is a very strong animal. Thousands of years of biological evolution have imprinted the mark of becoming more and more courageous physically and psychologically on human beings. Human beings are never easily defeated or succumbed. Otherwise, why do you think human beings are at the top of the food chain?" Gao Le pinched Li Ying's face and pulled the skin on his cheek. "Are they walking upright? Ducks and chickens also walk upright. Why haven't we seen them rule the world?"

Li Ying was successfully convinced by Boss Gao's theories.

"So don't look at the problem too pessimistically. It doesn't mean that if she doesn't continue to come for psychological counseling, she will definitely go on a road of no return in the future. Trust her and the tenacious human heart."

Li Ying's hand was held by Gao Le. It was obvious that the air-conditioning and heating were turned on, but his fingers still had no heat, and felt cold to the touch.Gao Le rubbed his fingers on his fingertips, and asked him, "You've been sitting in a heating room for a day, why are your hands still so cold?"

"I don't know." Li Yingya shook her head. "Maybe I'm a Popsicle."

"Ice popsicle fart." Gao Le frowned. "Go and put on your coat." The old lady started nagging. "You don't look at how cold your hands are, and you take off your coat like others. Do you have any basic common sense in life?"

Li Ying listened to the nagging, laughed and felt helpless, half pushed, and put on her coat anyway.

It snowed all day, and when I got up the next morning, it was still falling. When I opened the curtains, there was a vast expanse of whiteness, as if the whole world had fallen into silence.

Li Ying got up early, and it was snowing outside, so he couldn't run, so he wrapped a blanket and stood in front of the window to watch the snow.Boss Gao's bay window has been converted into a half bed, and the sofa cushions are very soft. Usually, Li Ying would lie here and bask in the sun.Tired after standing, Li Ying took off her slippers, slowly climbed up to the bay window, leaned against her body wrapped in a woolen blanket, and watched the snow scene outside the window without moving.

Pure white and clean snowflakes can always bring people a refreshing comfort.

Before Gao Le opened his eyes, his eyelids twitched a few times to habitually touch the people around him. After touching nothing, he closed his eyes and let out a sigh of relief. It seemed that Dr. Li had already gone for a run.I was hesitating whether to squat for 5 minutes before getting up to cook for Dr. Li, when I heard a cough while wandering in my mind.Gao Leban's eyes widened, and he turned his head to look at the bay window.

When she coughed, she thought that Gao Le would hear her, so Li Ying lowered her voice and covered her mouth, fearing that Gao Le would turn on the nag mode again, but she didn't expect that the cough would still be discovered.Li Ying turned her head in panic, and seeing Gao Le who was looking at him, the corners of his mouth twitched twice, forcing out a not-so-bright smile.

"Morning, morning."

Gao Le leaned half of his body out of the bed, propped his left arm on the bed, and pointed to the bed with the other hand. "Come in."

Dr. Li, who was caught admiring the snow scene, obediently got down from the bay window, climbed onto the bed, and got under the covers.

The heating inside the house is hot, but a thin layer of glass cannot resist the severe cold outside the window, so the place near the bay window will slowly seep in cold air.When Li Ying watched the snow, she was only wearing a cotton pajamas and wrapped in a blanket. She had been motionless for so long that her fingers and shoulders were already completely cold.Gao Le hugged him into his arms and felt like he was hugging a big ice cube. This big ice cube was too disobedient, so he could only rely on his fiery embrace to keep him warm.

"It's so early in the morning, why are you going crazy?" Gao Le put his chin on the top of Li Ying's head, and hugged Li Ying tightly in his arms.

"Look at the snow." Li Ying pointed her nose at Gao Le, and turned her head slightly. A piece of warm skin was attached to her side face, and her cheeks began to heat up. "It probably fell again last night. There is already a layer of snow outside, and it looks very clean."

A line of poetry came to mind in my mind, the birds fled to the forest.

But this sentence is too pessimistic, and it is easy to think of the sad ending of the Jia family in decline.

"I remembered a poem." Li Ying's eyelashes fluttered up and down. "The snow is like an empty river."

When Gao Le fell in love, all the poems and poems in his head were fed to the dog. If you told him one sentence: "The desert is lonely, he will be able to say the next sentence: the long river falls into the sun, but this snow is like an empty river." The teacher didn't mention this sentence when he highlighted the key points.Although Boss Gao's collection of poems is not as large as Dr. Li's inventory, there are endless tricks to seduce people in his arms when he is in love.

So Boss Gao opened his mouth, ready to destroy the beautiful image brought by the poetic and picturesque.

"The snow is like an empty river." Boss Gao repeated each word, as if reciting a serious poem.

"Fit with me?"

Li Ying was discouraged, and didn't know what to say to match the brain circuit of the person in front of her. Why is this person so serious and playful, making people angry.

"Are you hungry?" Gao Le asked the person in his arms.

"A bit."

Last night, I was put on the bed by Boss Gao for a kiss. After the kiss, I had a shameless and strenuous exercise. After a night of sleep, my stomach was already empty, and I was hungry, waiting for the favor of food.

"What do you want to eat?" Gao Le touched the hair on Li Ying's head. Li Ying's hair was soft and felt good to the touch. Gao Le liked to touch it when he had nothing to do.

"I want to eat egg pancakes with sausage." Dr. Li is also very easy to feed.

"Okay." Gao Le let go of Li Ying, ready to get up and cook.

The snow that had been falling for almost a whole night finally stopped. Li Ying drove carefully when she went out. His car had a low chassis, so she had to be extra careful.Gao Le said to send him off. His car is a Jeep, which is wear-resistant and has a high floor and non-slip tires. It is much more worry-free to drive than Li Ying's.But Li Ying thought it was troublesome and rejected him.

I was almost late when I arrived at the psychological counseling center, but they don't check in here, so it's okay even if I'm late, as long as I don't delay the appointment time with the visitor.

Jiajia was late today, got off the bus and walked too fast, slipped and fell at the intersection, and fell so hard that her butt was numb.When she came to Xinxin Counseling Center, she even complained to Li Mengyue, saying that if she fell hard again, her ass would definitely not be in two halves today, it would be in four halves.

Li Mengyue covered her mouth and laughed.

Boss Gao feels that everything in his life is slowly getting on the right track and is thriving, presenting an auspicious and harmonious picture.When the sweetheart catches up with her, she is close at hand, you can cuddle as much as you want, and you can flirt a few words to see the slightly green reaction of the other party when you are free.The decoration of the new restaurant is very good, and it will open soon, and the new head chef is very appetizing to me.

It was as if life had been kind to him.

Gao Le asked Li Ying if he would like to visit their newly renovated restaurant and have dinner there by the way. The boss of a mushroom soup shop liked it very much and wanted to bring Dr. Li to try it too.

The weather suddenly turned gloomy this afternoon, and snow began to fall after two o'clock. This year, the air seems to be humid, and the snow falls very frequently.

Li Ying drove by herself after get off work, and told Boss Gao to be careful on the road on the phone, and parked the car and waited for him when she arrived.

Gao Le didn't drive today, and planned to take Li Ying's car back at night, so he took a taxi instead.

When Gao Le arrived, it was snowing even harder, and he saw Li Ying before he crossed the road.

Dr. Li was wearing a black knee-high cashmere coat and a large checkered gray scarf around his neck. He was standing under the eaves of the shopping mall, with one hand in the coat pocket and the other A cup of open coffee, looking up at the snowflakes falling overhead.

The snowflakes danced lightly, like catkins blown by the wind, flying all over the sky. Under the light, each snowflake shone bright silver, like fluttering fireflies and moths.

Gao Le stood not far from Li Ying and watched him attentively. Li Ying in the snow was like a silent statue. On his shoulders, he merged with the heavy snow.

Gao Le stopped not far away, took out his mobile phone, first took a photo, frozen Dr. Li at this moment, and then clicked on his WeChat avatar.

Li Ying, who was in a trance, heard her phone vibrate, pulled out her phone, unlocked it, and opened WeChat to read the news.

It was from Gao Le.

Boss Gao said:

Between the moonlight and the snow, you are the third stunning color.

The author has something to say:

If there is new snow and the first snowfall, the full moon is in the sky

Haoying is spread below

shining silver

And you come to me with a smile

between moonlight and snow

You are the third kind of beauty

——Yu Guangzhong