Xichun is a Buddhist practitioner [Red Chamber]

A few days before Shi Xiangyun got married, Mrs. Jia specially asked Shi Xiangyun to go to Rongqing Hall, and asked Yuanyang to give Shi Xiangyun the box prepared in advance.Inside the box were some silver coins and the deed of a house.

Mrs. Jia was afraid that Shi Xiangyun would make people unhappy at her husband's house. After being told, she felt wronged and wanted to run out.But the Rongguo Mansion is not Shi Xiangyun's natal family, and it is not suitable for the other party to always come here, and the people from the Rongguo Mansion are not suitable for getting involved in these things.

So she prepared a house for Shi Xiangyun, if Shi Xiangyun really wanted to leave her husband's house, she would have a place to go.As for historians, forget it.

"You have to change your temper." Mrs. Jia said, "This is the last time I will tell you this. In the future, whether you live a good life or a bad life, you will live this life yourself."

"You all told me to change my temper." This is what Shi Xiangyun heard most often. She didn't want to be soft and weak, and she didn't want to be bullied all the time.

A person like her whose parents have both died, if she doesn't speak a little bit, how can she live well.Shi Xiangyun always thinks so, if she wants to change, then she has to look at the situation.

Seeing Shi Xiangyun's expression, Mrs. Jia knew that she didn't listen.

After Shi Xiangyun left, Mrs. Jia frowned and shook her head.Fortunately, this child is not her own granddaughter, she just needs to get married, and she doesn't have to worry too much.

"It will be all right after Biao girl gets married." Yuanyang comforted Mrs. Jia, "After all, there is the kindness of the ancestors."

"This kindness can't stand the wear and tear." Mrs. Jia said, this kindness is not something that can be used forever, you can't say that I saved your life, you have to help me in every way in your life, even if you almost die, this one My life is mine.

At first glance, there is nothing wrong with this statement. If it hadn't saved you, you wouldn't have a future.But when others repay their kindness, repaying it once or twice is not enough, and they have to repay their kindness for the rest of their lives, no matter what.

The human heart is full of flesh, and the more times you do it, the more you will have other thoughts.His life was saved by others, but they still say that the person fought hard on his own, and there are also his own efforts in it.

Mrs. Jia agreed to this marriage because she believed that there was kindness in it and that Shi Xiangyun's life could not be too bad.If you kill yourself, there is no way.

"A mansion is so big, not everyone has kindness." Mrs. Jia could see it clearly.

If one person can bear you, can everyone bear you?It doesn't exist, Mrs. Jia knew this and wanted to say these things to Shi Xiangyun, but after hearing her answer, she didn't say any more.

Just like when Jia Yuanchun was bestowed a marriage by the queen, Jia Yuanchun just couldn't be reconciled. She said that it would be useless to say more, but she responded superficially. After she got married, she still caused various problems.This kind of thing can only be changed after you have experienced it yourself.

Otherwise, no matter how much others say, they still feel that it is impossible for the matter to be so tragic, and they think that the matter can be resolved easily.Some things seem very simple. The master said that it could be done in a quarter of an hour, but the slave might spend a day or two.

This is all because the master only saw the final result, did not do it, and did not know the people and things involved.

Mrs. Jia is not the kind of person who doesn't understand anything. When she gets old, she hopes that the younger generation will live well, but unfortunately she can't do so many things.

Because the general Ruan wanted to guard the frontier, he was regarded as the emperor's attention.The emperor asked the empress to reward Shi Xiangyun with a lot of things, saying that Shi Xiangyun, who took pity on his parents and me, was to add makeup to her, and it was also for the Ruan family to see.

Shi Xiangyun didn't know about those politics at all, and only being a queen really pitied her.

It is also impossible for Mrs. Jia to tell Shi Xiangyun this at this time, so as not to make her unhappy.Wang Xifeng doesn't care about these things anymore, she just needs to arrange everything in the house and let Shi Xiangyun marry off in a good manner.

As long as Shi Xiangyun is married, there will be one less troublesome person in the family.Wang Xifeng was very open-minded. As for that Miaoyu in the mansion, the other party didn't come out of the courtyard very often, as if she didn't exist.

Even so, given Miaoyu's age, she couldn't live in the mansion all the time. The other party had lived in the mansion for a long time, and she could live in it for a few more years, but she couldn't live in it for a lifetime.

Mrs. Jia didn't talk about Miaoyu, so naturally Wang Xifeng couldn't take the initiative to speak up.

Lin Daiyu and Jia Xichun were sitting in the yard drinking tea in Tai'an County Lord's Mansion, and happened to be talking about Shi Xiangyun's marriage, "That general has a good character, I don't know if he can stand it, and he is not the only one in the house .”

The most important thing is the general's family, many women who stay behind, everyone suffers, how can it be possible to flatter Shi Xiangyun.

"It's up to her." Jia Xichun said, "You are still somewhat related, but I have no relationship with her, and I don't pay attention to her. There are so many people in the capital, and if you pay attention to them one by one, how can you pay attention?"

If you want to say that Shi Xiangyun is bad, this person has also become bad. He hasn't done anything bad, but his mouth is bad.

Such a person may not have a good time in the general's house, at least she can use her mouth to defend herself when her husband is fighting outside.Just don't offend others too much, and prevent others from wearing small shoes for her husband.

"In two days, I have to go there to put on makeup and wait for her to marry." Lin Daiyu said, "She is getting married quickly."

Lin Daiyu reckoned that Shi Xiangyun couldn't stay in Rongguo Mansion any longer, her cousin was shrewd, she didn't say anything about Shi Xiangyun, she followed the rules, she seemed uninvolved, but in fact she was indifferent.Wang Xifeng couldn't be blamed for this matter, if he did it himself, he might not be able to do it better than Wang Xifeng.

This kind of situation is indeed suitable for that kind of situation, meet less, talk less, otherwise it will be easy to get angry.

Jia Xichun smiled, "Isn't sister Daiyu coming soon?"

"Father originally wanted to keep me for another year, but considering the situation in Pingjun Palace, he agreed to marry this year." Lin Daiyu said with a smile, "It's very convenient to live in the capital."

Knowing the situation of the Prince's Mansion in Pingjun, the Lin family couldn't procrastinate any longer, and Lin Daiyu also agreed to get married earlier, as long as she can continue to come out and do things, it's fine.Didn't the Pingjun Prince's Mansion go well in those years? When the time comes, it will be able to manage it with help.

Lin Daiyu thought about it, this is a challenge for her, she must do well.Otherwise, those male officials can attack her, saying that someone as talented as her can't take care of her family well.

This is also the reason why she chose Pingjunwang, the Pingjunwang's mansion is simple.In the early days of the establishment of the women's department, these female officials were very particular. As for marrying the person they love, they don't think so much now, but pay more attention to whether they can continue to the women's department.

For the sake of career, love is an existence that can be discarded, let alone these noble girls, what kind of love do they have?Most men still have three wives and four concubines. Love has already become a floating cloud in the sky. Few noble women still believe in love. Maybe they once had expectations, but in the end they all turned into despair.

The mothers of those noble girls will also tell them, love, don't expect this kind of thing, it is impossible for a man to give you this kind of thing.Those poor families, monogamous, don't necessarily love them very much, but they can't afford concubines, and they are not qualified to take concubines.

Poor families are monogamous, but life is not good.If those noble girls were to choose, they would rather be noble girls than the wives of poor families.

"It's okay for you to go out every day." Jia Xichun said, she thought that when she was in modern times, some things had passed for hundreds of years, but she still felt that those memories were very precious, no one was younger.

Sometimes things that were considered precious when I was young, become nothing when I grow up, and many things become less important.It's like she said she was close to her own mother in this life, but she wasn't as close as her normal mother.

Jia Xichun understood very well that Mrs. Zhang was very kind to her, and she was also kind to her mother, and she would act like a baby with her mother.But she has never been so dependent on her mother, and she will not be like modern times. The initial affection is very precious to people. My mother has been with me since I was a child, and I remember my mother from the very beginning, babbling, until she is slim.

Because from the time when I didn't know anything, I would be extremely dependent on my mother, and the more I left, the sadder I felt.And when I grow up, it takes a long time, this kind of parting sadness is easy to be suppressed, but it is also easy to get up.

And after crossing, crossing again, and having a mother again, this feeling will become different again, not so close.Even if the people around her don't notice it, she can feel it herself.

For someone like myself, if he really thought about it, he would be able to fly back in no time, so he didn't think about it that much anymore.Occasionally, when I think of modern things, I feel a little sad, but that's all that's left.

Cultivators are sometimes very ruthless, and the thoughts they used to miss are all scattered and gone in the end.It is because the appearance is too short, and after a long time, it is easy to gradually forget those things.

"I, I moved to the princess mansion before I got married, and I don't think there is anything wrong now." Jia Xichun sighed, "When you want to go back, go back and have a look."

"That's right, you moved out a long time ago." Lin Daiyu could understand Jia Xichun's point. After all, the nephews, nephews and daughters-in-law in the house were all older than her, and sometimes they had to take care of many things, so it was much more convenient to live out.

Too young, and parents are too old, in fact, it may not be good.Lin Daiyu once visited the countryside, and there are also old people in the countryside. The old people are either spoiled too much, or have no status after the death of their parents, and their elder brothers despise him as a burden.

The elder brothers all have their own families, and even the children born to these elder brothers are very big. How would they want to raise a younger brother who is younger than their children?If it's a younger sister, she can still get married in exchange for the dowry. If it's a younger brother, she has to save money to marry him, but money is not so easy to earn.

Therefore, if some women in rural areas become pregnant when they are older, they choose to have an abortion, unless there is no son in the family or the family conditions are good.If the family conditions are not good and you already have a son, then there is no need to keep that child, so as not to drag down the other children in the family.

When Lin Daiyu saw this kind of thing, she couldn't comment too much. It was someone else's choice, and it was her life anyway.Whether other people live or not, it's none of her business.If she gets pregnant at an advanced age, it depends on whether her body can bear it. After all, she is not from a poor family, so she doesn't need to worry about so many problems, and she can always afford to raise a child.

"There is too much age difference, so it may not be good." Lin Daiyu sighed, "The second uncle's family, the younger brother of Aunt Kong is very young, her parents died, and her brother and sister-in-law have children, so they don't want to support him."

"There's news about the second cousin again." Jia Xichun only felt that there were holes everywhere in their house, and some news would always come out.

"It hasn't been spread much." Lin Daiyu didn't say how she found out about this matter. Everyone is a relative, and relatives probably know about this kind of thing. With the second uncle."

"Many elder sisters will sacrifice for their younger brothers." One is that they are called by their parents to help their younger brothers, and the other is because of women's motherhood. Women are more emotional and always feel sorry for others.Jia Xichun thought of a female character in a TV series she had watched. That female character made sacrifices for her elder brother. Because of her elder brother, she had no savings and wore cheap clothes.

It's so pitiful that he is obviously very capable of making money, but lives a poor life.Such women are obviously excellent, but many men retreat when they see them.

"Eldest sister is like a mother." Lin Daiyu said, "How many of them are like this."

Some children were brought up by their elder sisters, and the emotions are even more different.Lin Daiyu saw a little girl carrying her younger brother to work. Obviously, the little girl was still young, so she had to take care of her younger brother.

The day before Shi Xiangyun got married, she went to the courtyard where Jia Baoyu once lived, thinking about their childhood.How good their relationship was when they were young, but when they grow up, their relationship is not so good. Her loving brother will become someone else's loving brother, and she will also become another man's wife.

When Mrs. Jia learned that Shi Xiangyun went to visit the courtyard where Jia Baoyu lived, she rubbed her brows, and she didn't ask anyone to go back to Shi Xiangyun.

As long as Shi Xiangyun gets married, it will be fine. No matter what she will do in the future, it has nothing to do with their Rongguo Mansion.

Shi Xiangyun stayed in that yard for a long time before leaving. She wanted to remember every plant and tree there, and the happy time in the past.

This day passed quickly, when Shi Xiangyun left the Rongguo Mansion and got into the sedan chair.

Mrs. Jia finally breathed a sigh of relief, as long as Shi Xiangyun can get married safely, it is better than anything else.Shi Xiangyun is only her grandniece, not a granddaughter, so it's not good to be too strict, and she can't be allowed to stay in the house all the time.

On the second day of their wedding, Shi Xiangyun and her husband went to serve tea to Mrs. Ruan, that is, her mother-in-law.Her husband's father was killed in battle, but her elder brother was not killed in battle, but he was weak and could not go to the front line because of his weakness. His sister-in-law was the daughter of a general, and his nephew was in good health and had already started studying and practicing martial arts.

Although the mansion was inherited by Shi Xiangyun's husband, General Ruan, Uncle Ruan's family still lived in the mansion.Although Uncle Ruan is weak, he is resourceful and often goes to the front line to serve as his younger brother's military adviser.It can be said that the reason why the Ruan family is present is not only due to Shi Xiangyun's husband, but also to Uncle Ruan.

Mrs. Ruan didn't have too many demands on her daughter-in-law, she didn't ask them to be dignified and virtuous, she only hoped that they could hold on, be stronger, and be able to support the family.

To be honest, Mrs. Ruan doesn't like Shi Xiangyun, because Shi Xiangyun has a bad mouth and always offends people, and Shi Xiangyun has someone in his heart.But the second son wants to marry this one in order to repay his kindness, so Mrs. Ruan can only agree.

The second son said that it is not easy to talk about marriage with someone like him, otherwise the previous marriage would not be dissolved.It just so happens that Shi Xiangyun is not easy to marry, so he should be with his benefactor's daughter.Both have flaws, and that's a match.

That's why Mrs. Ruan agreed to this marriage, and their family is not ungrateful.

Shi Xiangyun didn't know that Mrs. Ruan didn't like her very much, and now she only thought that she had changed her residence.

"Since you are married into the mansion, don't think about those things in the past." Mrs. Ruan gave Shi Xiangyun a red envelope, "Live in peace."

When Shi Xiangyun heard Mrs. Ruan's words, he was not very happy. Is Mrs. Ruan blaming him for the things in the past?

Shi Xiangyun thought of what Mrs. Jia said before she got married, saying that since she is married, she should not have other people in her heart.Therefore, she thought of this first, and it was because she really had someone in her heart that she thought so.

"My daughter-in-law just married in." Shi Xiangyun replied.

Mrs. Ruan raised her head and glanced, no wonder those people don't like Shi Xiangyun, this mouth speaks without thinking about it.At this time, it is enough to respond casually once or twice, there is no need to marry in with a strong tone.

Those who know her know what she means, she just married in, no one else saw how she lived, so why did she say those words.If you don't understand, you have to think that she is against her mother-in-law.

Mrs. Ruan can understand, but what's the use of her understanding alone, the people outside have to bear her temper.

Because the second son is always on the front line, if a war breaks out, the eldest son will also serve as a military adviser.Mrs. Ruan didn't want her daughter-in-law to offend others by opening her mouth, so she should teach Shi Xiangyun more.She just said those words just to see Shi Xiangyun's performance, but this daughter-in-law finally let her down.

General Ruan frowned slightly. He knew his mother, who didn't like Shi Xiangyun and thought she had a bad temper.But today, Shi Xiangyun said this because of what his mother said, but what his mother said can be understood as two meanings, one is to forget the suffering he suffered in the past, and the other is to forget the people who are in his heart.

Although he is not as smart as his elder brother, he is not elm-headed either.When he said he wanted to marry Shi Xiangyun, he knew that she had a bad reputation and that she had someone in his heart.He thought that someone like himself would always go to the battlefield, and he might die one day, but the emperor would still miss his family and take care of his widow, so he thought that Shi Xiangyun could live a better life.

"Meet the eldest brother and sister-in-law." General Ruan said, after all, he still couldn't bear Shi Xiangyun to confront his mother so soon.Shi Xiangyun's temper really needs to be changed, but he is not in a hurry.

General Ruan is someone who has been on the battlefield, and he is not blind enough to let Shi Xiangyun do it just to repay his kindness.Before going to Rongguo Mansion to propose marriage, he had already made an agreement with his mother, that is, when Shi Xiangyun married into the mansion, he would let his mother teach her slowly.

Repaying kindness is difficult, he will try his best to survive the battlefield and prevent Shi Xiangyun from becoming a widow.If she becomes a widow again, it is estimated that this petty temper will be even more uncontrollable.

The mother has to teach Shi Xiangyun slowly, and he has to treat Shi Xiangyun well. General Ruan knows his identity. He is the mother's son and his wife's husband.