Xichun is a Buddhist practitioner [Red Chamber]

In the Xue family, Mrs. Xue still told the matchmakers that Xue Baochai's uncle Wang Ziteng had given her a matchmaker and could not agree to their marriage proposal.

When those matchmakers heard what Mrs. Xue said, they couldn't stay any longer, and they all left soon.It's just that Xue Pan felt uncomfortable watching those matchmakers leave.

"Why does it have to be like this?" Xue Pan said, "Don't talk about uncle's sponsorship, it's okay to refuse once, and they will come again."

Xue Pan believes that the matchmaker can't succeed just once, and it doesn't matter if they come one more time.My mother told my uncle to protect the matchmakers, so it is impossible for these matchmakers to come to the door again.

"If uncle doesn't have..."

"Not this one, there are others." Xue Baochai walked over, she just had to keep an eye on her, and she couldn't let her brother do bad things.Don't just agree to one of them, then her life will be ruined.

As a result, my mother had already said that, but my brother still thought about those people.Xue Baochai wondered how his brother's behavior was different from those outside who sold their girls for glory.

There is a difference. Her brother really thinks that he is doing it for his own good, not thinking about how much money he will get from this marriage, but also thinking about her future marriage misfortune, and then helping her.Her brother thought it was good for her to marry those people. Xue Baochai couldn't communicate with Xue Pan, so he couldn't tell.

"Okay, I won't talk anymore." Xue Pan waved his hand helplessly, "If you have an idea, I will follow yours, will it work?"

When Xue Baochai heard Xue Pan's helpless tone, she didn't think that the other party accepted it, but acted as if she was giving her alms.This made Xue Baochai feel very uncomfortable. She used to think that her brother was very good, but after she felt that his brother was not good, she thought that the other party was not good at this or that.

The elder brother turned out to be a hindrance to her happiness, Xue Baochai suddenly felt very pitiful.

Xue Baochai was too lazy to say those things to Xue Pan, so he could say whatever he wanted.When the marriage is settled, after she gets married, she doesn't need to care so much, and she can't let her husband sacrifice all kinds of things for her brother.I used to be anxious about my brother's affairs, asking all kinds of questions, isn't it still the same now.

I am my brother's own sister, and I feel so uncomfortable, so let's not say that my brother has nothing to do with people.

Women get married not only to help their natal family, but also to live a happy life for themselves.Xue Baochai thought so, she must see clearly.

In Rongguo Mansion, Jia Yingchun's marriage has not yet been settled. Jia Lian did receive the information about someone suitable for Jia Yingchun from Xie Changyun's people, and he also read it.But Wang Xifeng was pregnant and was about to give birth soon, so she didn't have so much time to worry about this matter.

Jia Lian thought about letting Mrs. Xing take a look, but later said that the various things about kissing were not that simple, so it was better to wait ten days and a half months.After Wang Xifeng gave birth to a child, he would talk to Wang Xifeng again to see which one was more suitable. After Wang Xifeng finished confinement, he could almost settle Jia Yingchun's marriage.

As for whether those people will be engaged within this period of time, let's make an engagement, it is impossible for all of those people to be engaged.

Although he wanted to wait for Wang Xifeng to give birth to a child, Jia Lian still gave those materials to Mrs. Jia for review, but he didn't say that they were investigated by Xie Changyun's people.

After reading those materials, Mrs. Jia thought that these candidates were not bad.After all, Jia Yingchun wasn't a decent daughter-in-law, but a registered daughter-in-law born of a concubine, no matter how high she married, she couldn't get married there.Just Jia Yingchun's cowardly personality is not suitable for marrying someone with a strong family background, this child can't hold on.

If you want to marry the eldest son and become the mistress, you have to go out to socialize.And Jia Yingchun obviously didn't have such good means, not because she was shameless, but because she didn't perform so well, and her husband's family would inevitably say no to her.If you marry the second son, even if you have to go out to socialize, the second son's wife doesn't have to do so much, and she doesn't have to be in charge of the family at home, so there are not so many mistakes.

This kind of family is more leisurely, but if the second son you meet is weaker and fun, there are likely to be multiple women in the backyard.But there is nothing if you don't favor concubines and destroy wives.

If it's someone who fills in the house, it's fine if the original spouse didn't leave a son, but only a daughter. In the future, it's no problem to leave the dowry of the original spouse to the daughter, and to buy some more.But if you fill in the house for others, it is easy to be compared with the original couple. This kind of thing cannot be avoided, just like Mrs. Xing.

Old Mrs. Jia always disliked Mrs. Xing because Jia She's former partner was too good to compare Mrs. Xing.However, those who marry and fill the house have always been low-marriages. There are very few high-ranking ones, and there are no ones who marry the legitimate daughters of the right family. At most, they are the concubine younger sisters of the original wife.

Thinking about Mrs. Xing's embarrassing situation, Mrs. Jia still doesn't really want Jia Yingchun to fill in someone else's house.

But if Jia Yingchun is asked to marry at a low price, to someone who is well educated, such a person may have other ideas in the high school imperial examination in the future.

Therefore, Mrs. Jia thought that Jia Yingchun would still marry the second son of a stronger family. The second son is not very powerful, so at least he doesn't have to worry about so many things and can be a wealthy and idle person.Jia Yingchun would also be able to live a more comfortable life. If it were someone else, Mrs. Jia would be afraid that Jia Yingchun would not be able to hold her back, and that she would have a bad life in the future.

It's okay to be the daughter-in-law of the second son, not as good as the sister-in-law.The husband's family will not compare the daughter-in-law of the second son with the daughter-in-law of the eldest son. Most people want the daughter-in-law of the eldest son to be more powerful.

These days, Mrs. Jia didn't analyze the words of the matchmaker with her parents. Instead, she called Mrs. Xing over and told Mrs. Xing.

"Sister Ying is recorded under your name, you have to worry about it and make up your own mind." Mrs. Jia said.

"The one you chose is very good." After hearing Madam Jia's analysis, Mrs. Xing also felt that it would be better for Jia Yingchun to marry the second son of a good family background. In this way, she would not have to worry about so many complicated relationships and live a good life. Some.

Mrs. Xing herself is doing house filling for others, how can it be so easy to do house filling, her status is embarrassing.Like herself, she has not given birth to a child for so many years, and she has been given sterilization drugs, and she has nothing to do.

Even if someone fills in the house, the first wife in front does not have a legitimate son, and the husband's family wants to fill in the house to have a legitimate son, but they will also guard against filling in the house is not good for the legitimate daughter, and the mother-in-law may also take the boy to raise him.

Mrs. Xing's heart is like a mirror, and Mrs. Jia's mother-in-law took Jia Amnesty to her back then, which made the old lady like Jia Zheng even more.Mrs. Jia didn't fill in the house at the beginning, but it would be difficult for Jia Yingchun to fill in the house for others. Her husband's family is too powerful, and her mother's family is too humble.

Rongguo Mansion is not that powerful at all now, and if Jia Yingchun really encounters those things, Rongguo Mansion may not necessarily decide for her.Mrs. Xing had to take these things into consideration, so Jia Yingchun's identity and temperament were not suitable for people to fill in the house.

Mrs. Xing really cared about Jia Yingchun. She had raised her for so many years and always had feelings for her. She would not be willing to marry a bad person casually.

"That's good, let's ventilate first." Mrs. Jia nodded, quite satisfied with Mrs. Xing's answer.

After Wang Xifeng gave birth to her child and finished her confinement, it took a long time.People who are optimistic may be engaged to others, so Mrs. Jia has to ask Jia Lian to talk to the person first to see if the other party has such a willingness.

The women in the family are not easy to use at this time, so they can only let the men do it.

After Mrs. Xing came out of Rongqing hall, she went to Jia Yingchun and told her about it.Jia Yingchun was sitting in the room embroidering. When she saw Mrs. Xing coming, she put down what she was doing. After hearing Mrs. Xing's words, she knew that the family was already looking for someone for her.

"I listen to my mother." Jia Yingchun didn't foolishly say that she listened to Mrs. Jia in front of Mrs. Xing, she should take care of her aunt more.If the person sitting in front of her belonged to Mrs. Jia, she would be listening to the old lady.

"This matter hasn't been decided yet." Mrs. Xing sighed, "It's not easy to fill people's houses, just look at me and I'll know."

Jia Yingchun knew about Mrs. Xing's embarrassing position in the mansion. After the second room was separated, it was much better.Wang Xifeng also respected Mrs. Xing, unlike when Mrs. Wang was still in the mansion, their entire house was suppressed, and Mrs. Xing's life was even worse.

As a junior, Jia Yingchun didn't want to say much. The mother-in-law was her father's fill-in house. What could she say, as long as she knew it in her heart.

Mrs. Xing just wanted Jia Yingchun to understand that some marriages look good and bright on the outside, but the inside is different. Maybe the inside has already been decayed, dirty and messy.Mrs. Xing didn't want Jia Yingchun to be like her. Even if those candidates were better than Jia Amnesty, people's hearts were changeable.

General Wei Lie's mansion, Jia Xichun is not ready yet, so he doesn't have to think as much as Jia Yingchun and Xue Baochai.Xue Baochai was delayed for a while because of the small election, but was more anxious than Jia Yingchun to get married.

After all, the current situation is different from the original book, and Xue Baochai doesn't have to wait for Jia Baoyu, because according to the current situation, it is impossible for Jia Zheng to let Jia Baoyu marry the daughter of Wang's daughter.Jia Zheng must have hoped that Jia Baoyu would marry a woman of the right family, preferably a woman with a better family background. The most important thing is that women should study more.

Because of Mrs. Wang's usury, Jia Zheng thought that his wife was not good in all kinds of ways, and his daughter-in-law must not be like Mrs. Wang.

Since there is no stable marriage contract for Xue Baochai to wait, the Xue family is naturally anxious to let Xue Baochai settle down earlier, and they can't wait until they are older, otherwise it will be even more difficult to talk about marriage.

Women in ancient times paid attention to marrying before the age of 20. If they exceed the age of [-], if they haven't made a marriage, they will probably be talked about.

Jia Xichun was looking at her little nephew, she dared not hug such a small one.Even after staying in the realm of comprehension for so many years, she was still afraid of holding a child. What would happen if she accidentally hugged her poorly and made someone else's child cry.

Babies are so small and they cry easily, so don't hug them.Unless it was born by yourself, you have to hug it.

"He looks pretty good." Jia Xichun gently touched the child's face, very lightly, and after the touch, he looked at his hands to see if they were rough or not, and whether there were calluses.

Children's skin is thin and easy to get hurt, so we must pay more attention to not let the child's face get red from being scratched by her hands.

Qin Keqing saw Jia Xichun touched the child's face, and then looked at her hand, and immediately understood what the other party was thinking, "Little aunt's hands are beautiful and soft, don't worry about hurting the child, children are not so easy to touch." bad."

"Very good, I didn't cry." Jia Xichun watched Qin Keqing holding the child, as long as the child didn't cry or make a fuss, he didn't make the child cry.

"Brother Jin is really well-behaved, and he doesn't make much fuss on weekdays, not too much crying." Qin Keqing heard from the nurse that some children are very noisy and always cry, but Brother Jin is considered good and not so noisy.

"That's good." Jia Xichun said dryly, not knowing what to say.

She is very at a loss for children. After all, when people like her face children, most of them treat them because they are sick.She used to be in the world of comprehension, unless she met those mortals, she rarely saw babies.

Practitioners are not easy to get pregnant. Even if they are pregnant, they can't take the child out at will. Instead, they will raise the child to a certain age before teaching the child to practice.So unless there are relatives, friends, or people from the same sect who gave birth to a child, it is very difficult to see the baby.

Cultivation has no time. If someone has a child this year, you will retreat this year. After five years of retreat, all the children will start to practice, and they will no longer be ordinary children.

In modern times, Jia Xichun was neither in love nor married, and was away all year round, let alone seeing any babies.After experiencing the modern world and the cultivation world, the baby she saw most often was herself.

When she first came to this world, she was just a little baby.Jia Xichun lamented that the baby's world is really carefree.

Qin Keqing saw that Jia Xichun didn't dare to hold the child more, for fear of spoiling it, so she didn't let him hold her.It is Brother Jin's blessing that the other party can come to see Brother Jin.

"A few days ago, someone from You's family came, and Second Aunt You was pregnant." Qin Keqing said.

"If she is pregnant, she will be pregnant, and she will not worry about entering this mansion." Jia Xichun replied that she hadn't paid attention to the affairs of the You family for a long time. Aunt You is a smart mother who always takes care of her daughters.

Aunt You did not visit General Wei Lie's mansion very often, and did not bother Mrs. You too much.The people in General Wei Lie's mansion tend to ignore the people in You's family.

In the end, Second Sister You was still a concubine, not for Jia Rong, nor for Jia Zhen, nor for Jia Lian.Second Sister You doesn't want to live a hard life, and she doesn't want to be unable to get married forever. Since she can't, then let her be a concubine.

Because of this incident, Third Sister You and Second Sister You had a very unpleasant quarrel.Third Sister You thinks it's not good to be a concubine for others, one must have a decent status, even if it is a well-known concubine's room, how can it be a concubine.

Second Sister You thinks there is nothing wrong with being outside, at least being free outside.If that person's wife is willing to accept her, then she will marry.

The Nan'an County Prince's Mansion is a county with a different surname, You Erjie thinks that she has a bright future with the Nan'an County King and can live a good life.And the wife of Nan'an County King's wife is noble, not comparable to people like me, and I am not as good as others, so she can be a concubine now.

Second Sister You thought that if she was discovered by the princess of Nan'an County, it would be nice to be able to enter the mansion.Being the concubine of Nan'an County King is much better than being Jia Rong's concubine, not bad at all.She just wants to fight for this breath, General Wei Lie's mansion doesn't want her, she can find a better one.

Now, Second Sister You is pregnant, and when she gives birth to a child, the King of Nan'an County will definitely take her into the mansion in order for the child to recognize his ancestors.

Second Sister You stopped living with the You family long ago, but lived in the house arranged by the King of Nan'an County.Second Sister You and Third Sister You don't need to see each other every day, and there is nothing to quarrel between them. They are not under the same roof, and they can't quarrel if they want to.

In Aunt You's opinion, Second Sister You has a good home, and now she is Third Sister You.It's a pity that Third Sister You didn't listen to her and always sang ditties outside, and Aunt You couldn't help it either, so she could only let her younger daughter go.

At this moment, Aunt You is in the courtyard where Second Sister You lives.

"Be careful." Aunt You was not at ease, "You are pregnant now, it's better not to enter the mansion."

The Prince's Mansion of Nan'an County is the Palace of the Prince's House, and the Princess of Nan'an is also a ruthless character. The Princess of Nan'an County's background is not bad. If a daughter like her enters so soon, something might happen.

If her daughter entered General Wei Lie's Mansion or Rongguo Mansion, Aunt You would not be so worried, because with Mrs. You and Second Sister You's elder sister, those people would not dare to do anything to Second Sister You, and they had to show some face.

If the daughter went to Nan'an County Prince's Mansion, the situation would be different.Don't look at Nan'an County Prince's Mansion and General Wei Lie's Mansion, in fact, the relationship between the two mansions is not very good, and the two mansions don't live next door, why should they give Youshi face.

Youshi is a house-filler without a biological son in General Wei Lie's mansion, if Aunt You is the princess of Nan'an, she will definitely look down on Youshi, there is no need to give Youshi face.

Because Second Sister You was used as a concubine, when Aunt You went to General Wei Lie's mansion, she didn't mention Second Sister You to Mrs. Zhang again.She knew that the old lady would not be willing to listen to this, so she didn't say much, as long as she could get some things from General Weilie's mansion, she would be able to live on.

"After all, I am a concubine. Even if I go in, I am just a concubine." Second Sister You understood her identity. A concubine is at most a concubine, and she cannot compete with the wife.Who told her not to be the first wife, since she is not the first wife, then she has to bear it.

"Let's give birth to the baby first." Aunt You said, "No matter how they invite you, wait for the baby to be born."

The woman in the back house has a lot of tricks. When others don't talk to her about their relationship, Aunt You doesn't want Second Sister You to take risks.Anyway, after the child is born, in order for the child to recognize his ancestors and return to his family, the people of Nan'an County Prince's Mansion will definitely take Second Sister You into the mansion.

"Well, it's all up to you." Second Sister You nodded, she was also a little scared after all.She was rejected by General Wei Lie's mansion before, and she spent a lot of effort to get in touch with Nan'an County King. She still has to give birth to the child safely outside, so she has a bargaining chip.

Because Second Sister You is not with Jia Lian, and there is no Youshi's in-law relationship.Second Sister You is also serving as a concubine for others, but her mind has changed. She doesn't want to enter the mansion with a big belly, but wants to give birth to the child before entering the mansion.

Don't wait until you enter the mansion and find out that the situation is too bad for her to have a baby, then it will be difficult.In order to stabilize her identity, she had to give birth safely outside.

"That's all right." Aunt You said with satisfaction, she was afraid that her daughter would go to the mansion anyway, and the gain would outweigh the loss.The daughter is pregnant, even if the Princess of Nan'an County finds her daughter at this time, the daughter has a reason to say that it is quiet outside, and she can tell the King of Nan'an County weakly to stay outside.