The Weight of the Red Mansion Walks the Road of Life

Chapter 110 Nine

Li Wan is not such a selfless person, or it can be said that people are always selfish, and Li Wan is no exception.

Although Li Wan didn't make many appearances in Cao Gong's story, there are already some clues to such a disposition.It's just that it wasn't too obvious in the end, after all, Li Wan's situation was really bad at the time, and it really wasn't a big sin to only think about his orphans and widows in that situation.

This kind of disposition is nothing more than when she has nothing, at least it can be used as a means for her to protect herself, but if everything goes well now, it will not be disgusting after a long time.

The development of character does not happen overnight, Li Wan did not become such a temperament after the loss of her husband.

In fact, it has something to do with Li Wan's brothers who don't have any direct relatives.

In a patriarchal society, the importance of a male heir to a family is self-evident. Li Wan's family only had her one daughter and no male. In particular, Li Shouzhong is a very traditional person by nature, so why would he not think of such a "rebellious" thing as letting the only daughter marry a wife, so there is no possibility of changing the Li family's extinction.

People who have lived as weak people for a long time are always easy to be selfish, care about what they have and be stingy in giving.

Even Li Wan knew that she had to please her husband's parents-in-law and aunt, but it was all for Li Wan to greet her elders as graciously as before, or respect her needlework every now and then, and she was not willing to pay more.

Fortunately, the current Li Wan has not had any conflicts with Da Fang, because everyone above and below has a good impression of her, and she has been given a chance to change.

Why do people pay attention to the right family when they conclude marriages of children, apart from the so-called strong alliance, it is also because people's knowledge depends to a large extent on their birth and education, or human experience can also make up for this knowledge.

Li Wan's background cannot be changed, and her experience cannot be cultivated in a short period of time. She can only hope that her elders can teach her again, such as her own mother, Mrs. Li.

Mrs. Li's family background is not very high, at least it is far inferior to the historical heritage of the Jia family's family history - this dynasty has not been established for a long time, such as the Jia family who followed the Taizu Emperor's fortune is already very good It's an aristocratic family - Mrs. Li's father and brother were all from humble official backgrounds, and before she got married, her natal husband's family was just white, and the family wealth was not rich enough to support her to be educated as a ladylike official.

Fortunately, the upbringing at a young age can't represent the whole of a person, especially since her husband didn't flourish from the beginning.

As a scholar who accompanied her husband all the way from an ordinary farming family to a married wife who is now a fourth-rank official, Mrs. Li naturally grew up with her husband.

Li Shouzhong's current position as a fourth-rank official may not be a big deal in the eyes of some aristocratic children, but as a so-called poor family scholar, this road is not so easy to walk - Mrs. Li's ability is at least worthy of her The identity is not only the original identity, but also worthy of the current identity, especially when she has no male heirs, she can still be respected by her husband, at least she always has her own superiority in knowledge. at.

Although Jia She wanted to find a good marriage like her aunt for her only daughter, it was not a big secret, and someone could always find out some clues. Marriage has always been a hot topic in many people's eyes——Jia Daishan fell in love with Lin Ruhai when the Lin family was in decline, and when the royal family wanted to choose Jia Min as the prince and concubine, Xu Zhi, the only daughter from the first wife, was married to her. The only son of the Lin family.

Facts have proved that Jia Daishan's vision is indeed good, and Lin Ruhai is indeed not in the pond.And the Lin family even threw papaya in return and Qiong Yao in return, which completely lived up to Jia Daishan's kindness.

The Rongguo Mansion had a prominent status back then, but since the death of Jia Daishan, the Jia family's status has plummeted, while the Lin family's status has risen with Lin Ruhai's high school.Perhaps it was to repay Jia Daishan's kindness of knowledge and understanding. Even though Jia Min married into Jia's family for many years, she only raised a daughter for the Lin family, and Lin Ruhai still raised eyebrows with his wife.

Of course, in this marriage, Lin Ruhai's prosperity was not accidental, or since Lin Ruhai was a Jinshi and a third high school student, the recovery of the Lin family was a matter of course.After all, the Lin family is actually considered to be a noble family that founded the country, but it just so happens that Lin Ruhai has no titles in this generation, but it cannot conceal the fact that the Lin family is not a poor family.

The Holy One was originally a person who loved to promote the children of veteran families, and it happened that Lin Ruhai was one of the rare and talented people, so it was only natural that he was promoted.

Many old people from aristocratic families are well aware of this truth, especially with the peace of the world, the future and even the status of generals are not as detached as they were in the previous years, on the contrary, literati are becoming more and more popular.Therefore, in the eyes of many people, the serious scholars in Xungui are the best candidates for getting married. Even if they fail to pass the Jinshi exam, it is easy to raise someone to become an official because of the connections of Xungui's family and the face and affection in front of the Holy One. I don't know how much more decent than buying an official under cover.

Of course, there is no doubt that it is the general trend for noble families to change from Wu to Wen, but regarding Lin Ruhai's position, not everyone can see it as clearly as Jia Daishan.

——Don’t you see that Lin Daiyu used to live in Jia’s mansion as the granddaughter of Jia’s family, and she was often teased by the maids. Some people even joked that Lin Daiyu was not as good as Xue Baochai.Although there must be a problem that the maids of the Jia family are used to talking about the affairs of the master's family, it can actually reflect to a certain extent that the masters of the Jia family do not take the Lin family seriously.

This was the case when Lin Ruhai had already become a big member of the party, not to mention when Lin Ruhai was just a small person, it is estimated that this kind of contempt would only intensify. In fact, many people thought that the Lin family had completely declined. .

After all, Lin Ruhai lost his father when he was a young man, and in his generation he had no title to inherit, so when he was married to the Jia family, he had nothing but the title of Juren and some ancestral property accumulated by the Lin family for several generations. In addition, it is no different from poor family officials from well-to-do families.

This is true for people like Jia's family, but Li's family, as a serious scholar from a poor family, naturally don't understand the difference here.

In Mrs. Li's view, when Jia Amnesty married Zhang's daughter, Jia Min married the Lin family, and even the Jia family proposed to her before, it was actually a sign of turning from martial arts to literary to some extent. It is not incomprehensible for Jia She to find a scholar for his only daughter.

This is actually not a problem—the husband does not know how many scholars he can contact on weekdays, and there will always be suitable candidates who are unmarried of the right age. If it is impossible, some colleagues also have sons of the right age. I did my best in front of my relatives.

Because Li Wan didn't take this matter to heart at all, it was actually a bit late when the Li family knew the news.

Fortunately, Yingchun is really young now, if she really intends to find a candidate among the scholars, it will undoubtedly be a bit difficult-it is really rare to see a young man like Lin Ruhai back then, and it is not that Yingchun's identity can be pre-booked. It's better to wait a little bit.

In the previous dynasty, there was a so-called thirty old Mingjing and fifty young Jinshi. Although there is no Mingjing exam now, at least we can know the difficulty of the Jinshi exam from it.The imperial examinations have too many chances, even Jia Daishan, who had a sharp vision, could not guarantee that Lin Ruhai would definitely be a high school candidate, unless he was really the kind of good son-in-law who is rare and sought after by a hundred families. harm.

Mrs. Li had thought out a solution and a way to explain it, so that this matter would not have too much adverse effect, but she could not deny that Li Wan did do something wrong in this matter.

The existence of in-laws was originally for watching over and helping each other. If each of them was like Li Wan, each of them cleaned up the door by himself, the meaning of in-laws would be greatly reduced.

Originally, the Li family was just a small family, even if Li Wan might not be raised enough, it would not be a big problem, even if Li Wanru married into the second wife at the beginning - in the eyes of the Li family, there is always little recognition of honor For some, they only looked at Jia Zheng's fifth grade, and thought that after the separation of the two households, the family status of the second household would not be too high, and even Jia Zhu would inevitably rely on Li Shouzhong's prestige in the officialdom in the future. Don't worry.

But who made Li Wan finally marry into the big house?

Although Jia Lian and Jia Zhu are cousins ​​of a grandfather and grandmother, they also live in the same mansion and enjoy similar treatment, but the two of them have always been different.Jia Zhu's future depends entirely on his own efforts, and Jia Lian is doomed from the moment his biological brother Jia Hu wants to forget that even if he is no longer a weapon in the future, he will at least be able to wear a third-grade make-up suit.The most important point is that no one in Dafang plans to take the imperial examination to become an official, and there is nothing demanding about the Li family.Therefore, Li Wan can only live in Dafang by himself, and it is difficult to get much help from her natal family.

The outside world's requirements for a person can never be static. Now that Li Wan has a better future, he must have corresponding skills and education. Li Wan really needs to grow up quickly now.

Fortunately, no irreversible consequences have been brought about so far. Since Mrs. Li has discovered the problem, it is not too late to start sexting now.

The author has something to say:

The stupid author was defeated by a cold...

I've been coughing and running nose like crazy for the past few days. On average, I can use up at least one and a half packs of paper towels a day. I feel like I'm almost disfigured just blowing my nose...

This chapter was recently released, and it is not certain whether it will be updated tomorrow...but it should be almost back to normal on the 24th...

If tomorrow's update code is not finished, I have owed two chapters so far this month, and I will make up before the end of the month.